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Your Comfort Zone is a TRAP
What if everything you know about your comfort zone is wrong? Not just wrong - but dangerously wrong.
Everyone talks about "getting out of your comfort zone" like it's some kind of self-help buzzword. But there's something darker happening, something most people don't realize until it's too late.
Your comfort zone isn't just holding you back - it's actively working against you. And the worst part? You don't even know it's happening. But let's get you out of it.
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Have you ever been wondering why your relationships just seem to crumble while others are thriving? We all know the obvious reasons why some relationships fail, I mean jealousy, cheating, long distance, or simply because the pairing of two people is like mixing hot oil with water and waiting for a house fire. Sometimes, the timing is all wrong, or the incompatibilities are as glaring as a neon ...
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  • @manishrajput6551
    @manishrajput6551 4 дні тому

    🫡🫡

  • @ShyamkrishnanNair
    @ShyamkrishnanNair 4 дні тому

    Certainly! This is the wake-up call we all need-complacency feels comfortable but often leads to stagnation. Embracing discomfort is where real growth lies. The 1% rule and pushing boundaries a bit each day are powerful strategies to expand rather than settle. It’s like Habit10x’s Sense of Humor Improvement Program reminds us: laughing at life's discomforts can be the first step toward stepping out of our comfort zones. Imagine looking back, knowing you didn’t hold back-that’s where life truly starts.

  • @StreamerEdittz
    @StreamerEdittz Місяць тому

    the editing of this video is actually insane, how do you only have 128 subs? This comment is for the algorithm.

    • @brainbff
      @brainbff Місяць тому

      Thank you for the algorithm boost! Hoping with quality videos, we'll reach the right audience 💪❤

  • @dsfz476
    @dsfz476 Місяць тому

    Is this content stolen ? Why is editing god tier on such a small channel ? Very curious

    • @brainbff
      @brainbff Місяць тому

      😂 not stolen but happy to hear you love the editing style! 🙌🏻❤️

    • @RealClumz
      @RealClumz Місяць тому

      I edited the video that's why

  • @ivanmeno
    @ivanmeno Місяць тому

    This one is interesting

  • @jiraiya9987
    @jiraiya9987 Місяць тому

    thanks for useful video! I love the honest references too lol

    • @brainbff
      @brainbff Місяць тому

      Glad you enjoyed!

  • @Rogeronnat
    @Rogeronnat Місяць тому

    💯

  • @morgansentes
    @morgansentes Місяць тому

    Been watching for a while and loving the development of this channel ❤

    • @brainbff
      @brainbff Місяць тому

      😊We appreciate you!

  • @Garybob-e9q
    @Garybob-e9q 2 місяці тому

    The more You know.........Thanks!

    • @brainbff
      @brainbff 2 місяці тому

      Thank you 🙏😊

  • @Ahmedabad-Single-Souls
    @Ahmedabad-Single-Souls 2 місяці тому

    Beware ❗Most profiles on such apps are fake made by developers themselves. Stay single stay happy.

    • @brainbff
      @brainbff 2 місяці тому

      Oof this is scary that they are making profiles on the app, another tactic to lure you in 😬

    • @Ahmedabad-Single-Souls
      @Ahmedabad-Single-Souls 2 місяці тому

      @@brainbff Yes and one female friend works for this app and her job is to chat with males and lure them to purchase paid services. 🤣

  • @methsan-n2o
    @methsan-n2o 2 місяці тому

    Hello How Can I Contact you?

  • @Michael_onuoha
    @Michael_onuoha 3 місяці тому

    Bro everything is awesome about this video, but bro if you just use your real voice and not an ai generated script this channel will grow trust me, i am clicking of because of its AI and thats the only reason, the editing is clean

    • @brainbff
      @brainbff 3 місяці тому

      Hey! Thanks so much, really appreciate your comment! 🥰One thing though, this is my real voice, it's not AI generated. Is there something in the way I'm speaking that makes it sound generated? Script isn't either so I'm curious on what makes it sound like it is?

  • @teresa-fd3yw
    @teresa-fd3yw 3 місяці тому

    ofcourse this is on my recommendations

    • @brainbff
      @brainbff 3 місяці тому

      Your YT algorithm sounds like mine 😅

  • @jiaduterte2478
    @jiaduterte2478 3 місяці тому

    As person with ADHD it’s so hard not to interrupt. I have learned to hold and interrupt minimally and apologize 😅. If not my thoughts would disappear and forgotten. 😅

    • @brainbff
      @brainbff 3 місяці тому

      Recognizing this within ourselves and making conscious efforts to change is incredible growth! Change isn't linear but it's always a step in the right direction 🙌💪

  • @morgansentes
    @morgansentes 3 місяці тому

    😗 0:51 Humble bragging 2:04 Interrupting 3:28 One-upping 4:28 Constantly complaining 6:09 how to deal

    • @samppakoivula9977
      @samppakoivula9977 3 місяці тому

      #5: Constantly talking...

    • @brainbff
      @brainbff 3 місяці тому

      😂

    • @samppakoivula9977
      @samppakoivula9977 3 місяці тому

      @@brainbff I mean it is, I know talkativeness is my most annoying characteristic. Interrupting is kinda double-edged sword: I group conversations it is often necessary, but maybe one-on-one discussion it may be considered rude...except maybe if you both are enthusiastic the conversation may overlap...

    • @brainbff
      @brainbff 3 місяці тому

      @@samppakoivula9977 I completely agree ie: talkativeness is my character flaw that I am cognizant of. As well as on the interrupting forefront, sometimes it is necessary in group settings or that enthusiasm can be caught by both parties and it becomes a shared contribution instead of being viewed as interrupting

  • @morgansentes
    @morgansentes 3 місяці тому

    😘 0:42 - You're a terrible cook 2:06 - You tend to overshare 3:29 - You're clumsy 5:07 - You're shy 6:19 - You're a punctually challenged person

  • @morgansentes
    @morgansentes 3 місяці тому

    😃 1. Overlooking red flags 0:54 2. Making it all about you 3:18 3. Making it all about them 4:59 4. Disrespecting their boundaries 7:01 5. Taking each other for granted 8:12

  • @geechiegeech
    @geechiegeech 4 місяці тому

    The moment you start caring how others perceive you, you've lost at life.

  • @theharshtruth8563
    @theharshtruth8563 4 місяці тому

    Real men don't give a hoot what others think of them. Especially in this new age snowflake society.

    • @RickyVanderslice
      @RickyVanderslice 4 місяці тому

      Exactly. Women judge attractiveness based on financial status. Not looks. Men should do whatever the want and the only women that can access them are ones without the petty narcissistic standards.

  • @theodorejohnson6645
    @theodorejohnson6645 5 місяців тому

    1st

  • @GringleTV
    @GringleTV 6 місяців тому

    Is this an ai voice?

    • @brainbff
      @brainbff 5 місяців тому

      Nope but I’ll take that as a compliment 😁😘

  • @AnonimitySmith
    @AnonimitySmith 6 місяців тому

    This was a great video. Very informative. I've never been so glad to be a type one diabetic that doesn't use social media. I do need to cut back on UA-cam before sleep though.

    • @brainbff
      @brainbff 6 місяців тому

      Thank you! Feeling that struggle with trying to stay off UA-cam before bed too, there always seems to be a great lead up to the next video which prompts "just one more...." and then it's 2am

  • @rakibalmahdi2401
    @rakibalmahdi2401 7 місяців тому

    I have basically embraced that I will become a hermit (ascetic) scholar in the near future ^_^

    • @brainbff
      @brainbff 7 місяців тому

      May I ask why, my friend? ❤

  • @AntoniaVogt-c4l
    @AntoniaVogt-c4l 9 місяців тому

    *You're

    • @brainbff
      @brainbff 9 місяців тому

      😅 Good catch! Fixed😊

  • @morgansentes
    @morgansentes 9 місяців тому

    Oooo the Commitment-Phobe section hit home 😅😵‍💫

    • @brainbff
      @brainbff 9 місяців тому

      Us too my friend, us too 😅😬🫥

  • @JoleneFargo
    @JoleneFargo 9 місяців тому

    Loving the content! ❤ Keep it coming 😊

    • @brainbff
      @brainbff 9 місяців тому

      Thank you!! 😊 We are working hard to produce more for you all!

  • @morgansentes
    @morgansentes 10 місяців тому

    Really enjoying the content of this channel! 🥰

    • @brainbff
      @brainbff 9 місяців тому

      Thank you so much for your support!

  • @morgansentes
    @morgansentes 10 місяців тому

    Ahhhh I'm guilty of expecting my partner to read my mind, getting better at catching myself but I still have those moments. Likely stems from being afraid of conflict?

  • @Me_Watch_Yes
    @Me_Watch_Yes 10 місяців тому

    #2, appreciate the little things but never over-appreciate. It could make them self-entitled and think "hey, I am always being appreciated, so why don't you do it?". It could lead to arrogance and egoistic behaviour.

    • @brainbff
      @brainbff 10 місяців тому

      Love this, the intent for good is there but can draw out unwanted behaviours sometimes. Great addition!

    • @Me_Watch_Yes
      @Me_Watch_Yes 10 місяців тому

      @@brainbff just a bit reminder, you're the one who makenthe video mate, great content, keep it up 🙌

    • @brainbff
      @brainbff 9 місяців тому

      @@Me_Watch_Yes 😘 Thank you!!

  • @morgansentes
    @morgansentes 10 місяців тому

    Had a 'friend' that literally could turn every conversation around and back to them, they always one-upped me on everything, was so frustrating. Eventually I just gravitated away from the friendship as I realized that they weren't all that concerned for me, they were more interested in having an audience to listen to them😑. LOVE the video, looking forward to more content 🥰

    • @brainbff
      @brainbff 10 місяців тому

      Glad to hear you've moved on to greener pastures that fulfill you :) And thank you!

  • @fuzzypanda1684
    @fuzzypanda1684 10 місяців тому

    Lol, I used to hide many of these traits, from my nerdy love of movies, video games and yes, even quantum physics, to my brutally honest observations. I pretended to be the opposite and displayed myself as the person I thought people would like. I did horribly with women and struggled to make friends. After years of conscious reflection and deciding to embrace these qualities that I once hid...I still do terribly with women and struggle to make friends. The fact that along the way I also transformed myself from a skinny twig into a very physically attractive, jacked guy, went from a shy introvert to an outgoing extrovert, and along the way discovered how to embrace my true self, harnessing the best and truest forms of my physical, mental and emotional self, only to still do poorly across the board, is just salt in the wounds.

  • @jhitgoomba1
    @jhitgoomba1 10 місяців тому

    This video is way too high quality for 11 subscribers is this stolen content or sm

    • @brainbff
      @brainbff 10 місяців тому

      Thank you! We strive for high quality and originality in content because eventually, it's bound to bring growth :)

  • @morgansentes
    @morgansentes 10 місяців тому

    I blush for the littlest reasons, so uncontrollable but my BF loves it, weird to me but makes sense!

    • @brainbff
      @brainbff 10 місяців тому

      Naturally Attractive!

  • @CarolynFrey-d2r
    @CarolynFrey-d2r Рік тому

    Things have been so messed up by my ugly words 🤬drunken rants sorry and shit