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Understanding Your Emotions After Abortion #abortionhealing #abortiongrief #abortionguiltUnderstanding Your Emotions After Abortion #abortionhealing #abortiongrief #abortionguilt
Understanding Your Emotions After Abortion #abortionhealing #abortiongrief #abortionguilt
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There's no one, right way to feel after abortion. For support, check out these resources: www.supportafterabortion.com www.rachelsvineyard.org
How Abortion Can Wreck Your Relationships #abortionhealing #abortiongrief #abortionpillsHow Abortion Can Wreck Your Relationships #abortionhealing #abortiongrief #abortionpills
How Abortion Can Wreck Your Relationships #abortionhealing #abortiongrief #abortionpills
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Abortion impacts relationships more than you expected. To help you sort it out, here are organizations I trust: www.supportafterabortion.com www.rachelsvineyard.org
What You Can Expect After Taking Abortion Pills #abortiongrief #abortionhealingWhat You Can Expect After Taking Abortion Pills #abortiongrief #abortionhealing
What You Can Expect After Taking Abortion Pills #abortiongrief #abortionhealing
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There's a wide range of emotions you may experience after an abortion. If you want support, here are two organizations I know and trust: www.supportafterabortion.com www.rachelsvineyard.org
Delayed Regret Over Your Role in Abortion #abortiongrief #abortionguilt #abortionhealingDelayed Regret Over Your Role in Abortion #abortiongrief #abortionguilt #abortionhealing
Delayed Regret Over Your Role in Abortion #abortiongrief #abortionguilt #abortionhealing
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A parent, brother, sister, or friend who helped a woman get an abortion can feel complicated emotions afterward, such as anger, guilt, regret. If you're struggling with your role in an abortion you can find help here: www.supportafterabortion.com www.rachelsvineyard.org
The Invisible Weight Men Carry After Abortion #menandabortion #abortionhealing #abortionguiltThe Invisible Weight Men Carry After Abortion #menandabortion #abortionhealing #abortionguilt
The Invisible Weight Men Carry After Abortion #menandabortion #abortionhealing #abortionguilt
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Isolation and shame stop men from getting help after participating in an abortion. But you are not alone! There's healing and support through these organizations I know and trust: www.supportafterabortion.com www.rachelsvineyard.org
Finding Peace After Abortion: Yes, It’s Possible #abortiongrief #abortionhealing #abortionpillsFinding Peace After Abortion: Yes, It’s Possible #abortiongrief #abortionhealing #abortionpills
Finding Peace After Abortion: Yes, It’s Possible #abortiongrief #abortionhealing #abortionpills
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Anxious? Upset? Heartbroken? After an abortion can be a long period of emotional turmoil and upset. Is peace possible? YES! Contact these organizations I know and trust for help: www.supportafterabortion.com www.rachelsvineyard.org
What to Expect After an Abortion: Top Questions AnsweredWhat to Expect After an Abortion: Top Questions Answered
What to Expect After an Abortion: Top Questions Answered
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Have you had an abortion and now find yourself with questions, unsure of who to turn to? Whether you've kept it a secret or just don’t know where to get answers, you're not alone. In this video, I address some of the most common questions women have after an abortion and offer my best insights to help you through this journey. #abortionhealing #abortiongrief #abortionguilt #abortionpills #abort...
Honoring Grandparent Grief: A Heartache RevealedHonoring Grandparent Grief: A Heartache Revealed
Honoring Grandparent Grief: A Heartache Revealed
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Grandparent’s Day celebrates our grandparents' vital contribution to the education and well-being of younger people within the family. It's the perfect day to show our respect and gratitude for the older generation - everything they do and stand for. It's also a day that can stir up a grandparent's grief for the grandchildren who have died or were never born. In this video, learn how to support...
Don't Use My GRIEF for Your POLITICS #abortiongrief #abortionguilt #abortionhealingDon't Use My GRIEF for Your POLITICS #abortiongrief #abortionguilt #abortionhealing
Don't Use My GRIEF for Your POLITICS #abortiongrief #abortionguilt #abortionhealing
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Abortion impacts real PEOPLE and if you want support to heal from abortion guilt, grief and heartbreak, there are real, compassionate people who can help: www.supportafterabortion.com www.rachelsvineyard.org
Healing After Abortion: What Happens When You Choose to Believe #abortiongrief #abortionguiltHealing After Abortion: What Happens When You Choose to Believe #abortiongrief #abortionguilt
Healing After Abortion: What Happens When You Choose to Believe #abortiongrief #abortionguilt
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This is my path to healing and hope after abortion. For help on your journey, whether you choose to follow Jesus or not, check out these resources: www.supportafterabortion.com www.rachelsvineyard.org
Keep Your Politics Off My Grief #abortiongrief #abortionhealingKeep Your Politics Off My Grief #abortiongrief #abortionhealing
Keep Your Politics Off My Grief #abortiongrief #abortionhealing
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For compassionate support after abortion: www.rachelsvineyard.org www.supportafterabortion.com
A Heartfelt Message After My Abortion Experience #abortionhealing #abortiongrief #abortionguiltA Heartfelt Message After My Abortion Experience #abortionhealing #abortiongrief #abortionguilt
A Heartfelt Message After My Abortion Experience #abortionhealing #abortiongrief #abortionguilt
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You are NOT alone in your sadness, anxiety, anger, or depression after having one or more abortions. Healing and hope are possible and some people want to support you: www.rachelsvineyard.org www.supportafterabortion.com
Top Books for Men's Healing After Abortion #abortiongrief #abortionhealing #abortionguiltTop Books for Men's Healing After Abortion #abortiongrief #abortionhealing #abortionguilt
Top Books for Men's Healing After Abortion #abortiongrief #abortionhealing #abortionguilt
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Navigating the emotional aftermath of an abortion can be challenging, especially for men who may feel overlooked in discussions about healing. Whether you're seeking comfort, guidance, or just a way to make sense of your feelings, these books provide valuable resources to help you navigate this complex experience. Fatherhood Aborted by Gus Condon amzn.to/3x5DXlf Save One Men's Study by Sheila H...
BEST Books for ABORTION HEALING #abortiongrief #abortionguilt #abortionpillsBEST Books for ABORTION HEALING #abortiongrief #abortionguilt #abortionpills
BEST Books for ABORTION HEALING #abortiongrief #abortionguilt #abortionpills
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There's wisdom in the experience of other women who've had abortions. These are books I've read and appreciate: Transforming Your Story amzn.to/3JTgNBK Save One amzn.to/3yYmyLD Where Do Broken Hearts Go? amzn.to/47aW7iJ Surrendering the Secret amzn.to/4dn5o9R Worthy of Love amzn.to/3yF4B50 Forbidden Grief amzn.to/40ANZUu The Every Day Life Bible amzn.to/4doWBnQ Living in Color amzn.to/4dJ0AeC H...
Restoring Relationships After Abortion Trauma With Sheila HarperRestoring Relationships After Abortion Trauma With Sheila Harper
Restoring Relationships After Abortion Trauma With Sheila Harper
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Each abortion impacts upwards of 25 people including your husband, partner, children, parents, and friends. The ripple effects of abortion anger, shame, and guilt infect how we view men, our role as a parent, and our own sexuality. Join author and abortion healing expert Sheila Harper in an honest, deep conversation about healing relationships damaged by abortion. #abortionguilt #abortiongrief ...

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  • @elizabethwilkinson2635
    @elizabethwilkinson2635 2 дні тому

    Abortion is murder full stop. Yes murder is wrong. Think before getting pregnant

    • @mymentorjane6705
      @mymentorjane6705 2 дні тому

      Yes it is. And Jesus said to “love one another.” He didn’t add exceptions. So I’m trying to love those of us who’ve been involved in an abortion and help them seek and receive the love, mercy and forgiveness of Christ, even when others choose to attack and condemn us.

  • @ROCKDIVA85
    @ROCKDIVA85 4 дні тому

    This video is not what I expected because I've never met a woman who had an abortion and was filled with grief or shame. They usually feel pretty good about it and are glad they did it. Or they are just putting on a brave face and hiding their real feelings. Idk.

    • @mymentorjane6705
      @mymentorjane6705 3 дні тому

      I understand. I can’t say that I’ve ever met a woman who feels pretty good about her decision. They often feel relief and that can be confused with feeling good. The emotional aftermath can be complicated. I really appreciate that you watched my video and commented. Thank you.

  • @genesiscastaneda3386
    @genesiscastaneda3386 6 днів тому

    Thank you for this!🙏

  • @lusiaatalifo8825
    @lusiaatalifo8825 12 днів тому

    Say No to abortion . Youre a murderer for killing an innocent baby

  • @WilliamAbbate
    @WilliamAbbate 22 дні тому

    You are the bravest person I have ever known, and I am sooo thankful for you!!!!! Praying you help countless people!!

    • @mymentorjane6705
      @mymentorjane6705 22 дні тому

      Thank you so much. That means the world to me and so do you!

    • @WilliamAbbate
      @WilliamAbbate 21 день тому

      @@mymentorjane6705 ❤❤❤❤

  • @ZaweriaWangari
    @ZaweriaWangari 23 дні тому

    Thank you for this

    • @mymentorjane6705
      @mymentorjane6705 23 дні тому

      I hope it helped you in some way. thank you for watching and commenting. fIf there's any topic you'd like me to cover in a future video, please let me know. Please take care.

  • @debbiescrimgeour5108
    @debbiescrimgeour5108 24 дні тому

    Three abortions? Why? Surely you could have prayed for peace and forgiveness after the first abortion. So it’s ok to keep having abortions so long as you pray for peace and forgiveness each time? I don’t think so. Go on the pill lady it but some strong condoms.

  • @BasketballTall
    @BasketballTall 25 днів тому

    Real peace involves a change of heart. ❤️

  • @donaldahern9930
    @donaldahern9930 25 днів тому

    How can any body have piece after murdering a baby?

    • @mymentorjane6705
      @mymentorjane6705 25 днів тому

      Great question! That’s the point of the video. On our own we can’t find peace. But those of us who believe in Jesus cling to his promise in John 14:27 “I am leaving you with a gift-peace of mind and heart. And the peace I give is a gift the world cannot give. So don’t be troubled or afraid.” Thank you for watching and commenting.

  • @LiezlSwartz
    @LiezlSwartz 25 днів тому

    Hi Jane. It's September 2024 now. December holiday is almost here. Heartbreak for me,not good reminder. I get how you felt ❤

    • @mymentorjane6705
      @mymentorjane6705 23 дні тому

      I will be doing new videos for Thanksgiving and Christmas. Stay tuned!

  • @sallyklimko3517
    @sallyklimko3517 26 днів тому

    wow this one is great

  • @sallyklimko3517
    @sallyklimko3517 26 днів тому

    Great episode.

    • @mymentorjane6705
      @mymentorjane6705 26 днів тому

      Thank you very much. I appreciate the feedback!

  • @LiezlSwartz
    @LiezlSwartz 27 днів тому

    Hi Jane❤. Thanks so much for this mesg. I needed to hear this.

    • @janeabbate531
      @janeabbate531 27 днів тому

      I’m glad you’re back for more. Take care my friend.

  • @LiezlSwartz
    @LiezlSwartz Місяць тому

    Hi Jane. I'm heartbroken😢😢😢. September 2024 here

  • @LiezlSwartz
    @LiezlSwartz Місяць тому

    Hi Jane. I haven't healed. I'm just so filled with shame. Hope to get your email address. September 2024 here

    • @mymentorjane6705
      @mymentorjane6705 Місяць тому

      Just saw your comments. You can email me at mymentorjane@gmail.com

  • @LiezlSwartz
    @LiezlSwartz Місяць тому

    Hi Jane. Would like to email you. I overthink everyday and night. It's like it's played on repeat. Over and over I go through my trauma😢. September 2024 here.

    • @mymentorjane6705
      @mymentorjane6705 Місяць тому

      Yes, that!s a sign of your trauma. It’s very painful. I understand. You can email me and we’ll connect. Mymentorjane@gmail.com. I’m glad you’ve reached out for support. We all need it.

  • @LiezlSwartz
    @LiezlSwartz Місяць тому

    Hi Jane. Do you have an email address? Need to talk to someone. I'm really battling. It's making me live an unfulfilled life😢. Thanks for having this channel. God bless you❤

  • @davidwhitaker2211
    @davidwhitaker2211 Місяць тому

    Your words are confirming to me. In my experience, i felt (and struggle not to feel) like a failure for not protecting my children. I didn't blame my ex, but it was hard because i felt as though i couldn't say anything about it because i prioritized her experience over myself. I found myself at the end of a 2 week bender, drunk at 3am multiple times and trouble sleeping and connecting with others following her procedure. It was hard, but each day I try to be better for God, my children, and myself.

    • @mymentorjane6705
      @mymentorjane6705 Місяць тому

      Thank you so much for watching and sharing your experience. I understand your pain. An excellent book for men after abortion is: Fatherhood Aborted by Guy Condon and David Hazard. Men also find healing at a Rachel’s Vineyard retreat which you might consider. In the meantime, I’ll be praying that you accept God’s forgiveness and allow yourself to forgive yourself. Take care and let me know if there’s other questions or topics you’d like me to cover in future videos.

  • @fivetwoparenting6305
    @fivetwoparenting6305 Місяць тому

    Really well said!! Thank you!!

    • @mymentorjane6705
      @mymentorjane6705 Місяць тому

      Thank you so much for watching and commenting. I appreciate your support.

  • @WilliamAbbate
    @WilliamAbbate Місяць тому

    So very true 😢

  • @WilliamAbbate
    @WilliamAbbate Місяць тому

    Two amazing women!!!!

    • @mymentorjane6705
      @mymentorjane6705 Місяць тому

      Thank you very much for watching and commenting!

  • @cme1027
    @cme1027 Місяць тому

    Wow.. this was deep

  • @Angelmomclub
    @Angelmomclub Місяць тому

    Beautiful story ❤

    • @mymentorjane6705
      @mymentorjane6705 Місяць тому

      @@Angelmomclub thank you. It’s all because of Jesus. I’d have no hope without him. Take care

  • @RACERCAMPOS
    @RACERCAMPOS Місяць тому

    Justice served now repent to Jesus vs feeling sorry for yourself

    • @mymentorjane6705
      @mymentorjane6705 Місяць тому

      Thank you for watching. If you’re open, you can watch the rest of my story in this video: ua-cam.com/video/h3DdfXCy5gw/v-deo.htmlsi=FnZVyIcrNUXLmqbL

  • @feleciakline8793
    @feleciakline8793 Місяць тому

    Finally, someone said the quiet part out loud!

    • @TheCornerstoneTeam
      @TheCornerstoneTeam Місяць тому

      Thank you for watching and commenting. I have 100+ videos in My Mentor Jane UA-cam channel dedicated to help heal after abortion. God bless you.

    • @feleciakline8793
      @feleciakline8793 Місяць тому

      @@TheCornerstoneTeam you see women vehemently defending the right to abortions but you never hear anyone talk about the guilt, depression, anxiety and regret that comes later. Especially if people find God and have to cope with the fact that they will have to answer for and possibly face the child they aborted.

    • @TheCornerstoneTeam
      @TheCornerstoneTeam Місяць тому

      @@feleciakline8793 I believe that because I’ve repented of my abortions and accepted Jesus as my Lord and Savior that I will be reunited with my children after death in Heaven. And because nothing but love and grace can exist in the presence of God, my children will live and accept me. What joy I’m looking forward to!

    • @feleciakline8793
      @feleciakline8793 Місяць тому

      @@TheCornerstoneTeam I hope that’s true. But I still feel bad. What if they look at you and say “why did you kill me?”

    • @feleciakline8793
      @feleciakline8793 Місяць тому

      I know these doubts are irrational and I have been forgiven, but Satan knows how to get under our skin. The whole point of my conversation is not that I’m not forgiven, it’s that abortion isn’t the free and easy way out of a pregnancy. There are drawbacks to it.

  • @BasketballTall
    @BasketballTall Місяць тому

    Don’t let the word FORGIVE hold you back.

  • @gurjitpurewal8995
    @gurjitpurewal8995 Місяць тому

    80% of relationships and after abortion. Are you seriously not sure why that is the case? You and your partner killed your own baby. If you not willing to have a baby together why stay together?

    • @mymentorjane6705
      @mymentorjane6705 Місяць тому

      @@gurjitpurewal8995 thank you for watching. I understand your point. Here’s more info that you may not know. Six in 10 women who have abortions are already mothers, and half of them have two or more children, according to 2019 data from the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. Couples may choose abortion because they feel overwhelmed with their responsibilities and/or finances seem like having another child impossible. Don’t get me wrong, I’m not saying those reasons justify abortion. My goal is to paint a full picture that loving parents can succumb to pressure even as they love and care for their living children. The man might himself as a failure, unable to provide for his family and not protecting his unborn child. His wife may see him that way too. Those circumstances are hard to talk about and can lead to breakups and divorce. Hope that helps fill in the picture a little better. I hope you come back for more videos.

    • @davidwhitaker2211
      @davidwhitaker2211 5 днів тому

      If I may add to her comment... Me and my ex split for good about 6-8 months after. I made my stance clear- that I wanted to keep our child and try to work something out. She wanted to do it for her schooling (college sweethearts). I was there for her during that time and I cared for her to comfort her while failing (in the beginning) to mend my own broken heart and the pain that was both unfamiliar to me and overwhelming. When I was informed of her pregnancy, ~6 weeks, I was also told that she was going through with it (before I even had a chance to get a say). I was crushed as I tried to recommend any other alternative, like working full time hours while finishing university (me), dropping out to work full time and more (me) while she finished her degree, someone moving in, up for adoption, family members, anything other than abortion. Her decision was made and it was final, so I had no choice but to accept that and love her regardless. It was hard for me for some time after, and thought I still loved and cared for her, it broke me in ways I've never been before. It was worse than the depression I'd been in through my mid life. Sadly also a long bender and drive myself to sleep, etc. But I'm sure you understand where I'm going with this. 💙

  • @dominiquelafaille389
    @dominiquelafaille389 2 місяці тому

    Mind you damn business!! Our body Our choice for every woman!!

    • @jamese5936
      @jamese5936 2 місяці тому

      Can you abort a fetus 3 weeks before it's due date since its "your body your choice"?

  • @seandoherty3480
    @seandoherty3480 2 місяці тому

    Thank you for your openness and honesty.

    • @mymentorjane6705
      @mymentorjane6705 2 місяці тому

      @@seandoherty3480 thank YOU for watching and commenting. Take care.

  • @OliveStiles-r9y
    @OliveStiles-r9y 2 місяці тому

    Fun fact the baby doesn’t die when you get a obortion

  • @OliveStiles-r9y
    @OliveStiles-r9y 2 місяці тому

    Stop saying that obortion is a bad thing the baby is better off if you get a obortion then you giveing birth and not being able to take care of it

  • @OliveStiles-r9y
    @OliveStiles-r9y 2 місяці тому

    Women can get obortoin and not have shame it’s they’re choice so haveing shame about it is stupid if you can’t care for a baby getting a obortion and being shamed about it is stupid i know this and I’m 9

  • @samusami7439
    @samusami7439 2 місяці тому

    Thank you.

    • @mymentorjane6705
      @mymentorjane6705 2 місяці тому

      @@samusami7439 thank you for watching and commenting. Let me know if there’s a question or topic you’d like me to cover in a future video. Take care ❤️

  • @tristenhill4658
    @tristenhill4658 2 місяці тому

    abortion is murder, there’s no fkn question, no difference

  • @ellenkeehan
    @ellenkeehan 3 місяці тому

    I just found your channel. Thank you for the resources and a comforting voice to listen to.

    • @mymentorjane6705
      @mymentorjane6705 2 місяці тому

      Thank you so much! I just saw your comment. If there’s any topics or questions you’d like me to cover just let me know by email or dropping a comment. I hope you come back often. God bless you and take care!

  • @BubbleGum-uc4rx
    @BubbleGum-uc4rx 3 місяці тому

    Mine has been out living his life with no regrets. I’ve never seen him this happy before honestly

    • @mymentorjane6705
      @mymentorjane6705 3 місяці тому

      Do you mean he seems happier now after the abortion? What you may be seeing is relief but of course I can't really say. How are you doing? Thank you for watching and commenting. Take care.

  • @cornerstoneteamdevelopment7777
    @cornerstoneteamdevelopment7777 3 місяці тому

    Thanks for the info. Not sure if I have the nerve to do a group but I’ll give it some thought.

    • @mymentorjane6705
      @mymentorjane6705 3 місяці тому

      I understand it can be a big step. If you want further I put, lmk. Thank you for watching and commenting.

  • @davidinchcliff4560
    @davidinchcliff4560 3 місяці тому

    Stop killing babies

  • @kaydaw24
    @kaydaw24 3 місяці тому

    Yeah, i'm not taking advice from a guy named joel

    • @Etphonehomee
      @Etphonehomee 3 місяці тому

      She speaking of Joel from the Bible, not Joe.

    • @mymentorjane6705
      @mymentorjane6705 3 місяці тому

      Yes I am. Thanks for watching!

  • @asaalbertson8455
    @asaalbertson8455 3 місяці тому

    The Lord gives you forgiveness and helps you forgive yourself but it doesn't give you the right to continue down that path you must change your life because you. have a second chance. Unlike the child that you destroyed you get forgiveness and a chance to go on with your life always remember that part

    • @mymentorjane6705
      @mymentorjane6705 3 місяці тому

      Yes, I agree. I also believe that my children are in heaven with their Father, God, and that one day, because Jesus suffered and died for my sins, by His grace through my faith in Him, I will join them one day. Thank you so much for watching and commenting. I hope you’ll be back for more and share the videos if you think they would help someone. Take care.

  • @carnivorousduck
    @carnivorousduck 3 місяці тому

    Sometimes an abortion is absolutely needed for the life or overall safety of the mother, and the physical healing is important, but so is emotional health. You shouldn't be ashamed about having an abortion, it is your life you would be sacrificing to be a mother. Not everyone is built for that, physically or otherwise. Don't have guilt, you deserve peace.

  • @rickeylee4245
    @rickeylee4245 3 місяці тому

    You are such full of s*** you murdered three kids and now you want to say Jesus died for you and your sins see I believe in God but y'all take that s*** too far you murder children but it's not for me to judge you you will be judged

  • @cogama7846
    @cogama7846 3 місяці тому

    Thank you for your vulnerability

    • @mymentorjane6705
      @mymentorjane6705 3 місяці тому

      Thank you for watching. I appreciate your support.

  • @georgehouston2310
    @georgehouston2310 4 місяці тому

    He's probably mad because she murdered his kid ma'am😡🤬

    • @mymentorjane6705
      @mymentorjane6705 4 місяці тому

      Thank you for watching. Yes, if it happened without his knowledge or consent, most men are angry. Here’s another video that gets into that ua-cam.com/video/ymkQmryO4fY/v-deo.htmlsi=0YqIvLXiO6O1tgII

  • @cooperhedger
    @cooperhedger 4 місяці тому

    You got an abortion out of fear that your parents would beat you? That’s pretty horrible, I’m sorry that happened!

    • @mymentorjane6705
      @mymentorjane6705 4 місяці тому

      Thank you for watching and your kind concern. Thankfully, that was not my experience. But in support groups I lead, I hear that story from young girls.

  • @BasketballTall
    @BasketballTall 4 місяці тому

    Having someone to talk to. 👍🏽

  • @WilliamAbbate
    @WilliamAbbate 4 місяці тому

    Powerful!

  • @WilliamAbbate
    @WilliamAbbate 4 місяці тому

    That was great!

  • @LBS95bb
    @LBS95bb 4 місяці тому

    This is disgusting.

    • @mymentorjane6705
      @mymentorjane6705 4 місяці тому

      Oh my! That’s a surprising and strong reaction. What disgusted you about it?

  • @krisbacca7196
    @krisbacca7196 5 місяців тому

    Sad

    • @mymentorjane6705
      @mymentorjane6705 5 місяців тому

      Yes, it is. Fortunately, I’ve been healed and learned about right relationships.