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Chillin with Charity
United States
Приєднався 23 бер 2022
Navigating life while gardening.
Let's Talk | Where I've Been | Resigning from Teaching, Moving, Race Medals
Hi Friends, Welcome back it has been a long time. I have missed recording videos. Today was an impromptu video to share what I have been doing lately.
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Summer Morning Routine
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Hi Friends, spend a chill summer morning with me. This summer I have been really allowing myself to relax and taking it easy. I hope you enjoy. Link to Juvenile Tiny Desk ua-cam.com/video/kes2P4IC2bQ/v-deo.html
Garden Vlog | Transplanting Cucumbers & Squash
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Hi, thank you for watching todays video 🧑🏾🌾. Subscribe for new videos
Vlog 9 | A Week Off | Prepping Garden | Books | A lil Art |
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Hi friends, I filmed this a few months ago. I got caught up in work and life. This channel is about being authentic and sharing my journey with life and gardening. I hope you enjoy relaxing with me and prepping for the upcoming season. John Coltrane : A Love Supreme ua-cam.com/video/ll3CMgiUPuU/v-deo.html Timestamps: 00:00 Intro 00:27 Chit Chat 02:12 Books I recently read 06:25 Off to the libra...
Starting A Spring Garden from Seeds Indoors
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Looking to start your own garden, I've got you covered! In this video, I will show you how to start a spring garden indoors with minimal materials. We'll have a thriving spring garden in no time!
Friendship breakups are real.
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When a friendship ends it hurts, we don't talk about it enough.
A Relaxing Day Off | Vlog #8
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Taking time to relax and enjoy days off are productive. If you feel uncertain about what's next, you are not alone. I hope you enjoy today's video. Link to Design Your 2023 view.flodesk.com/pages/638e2eb51b84e9ea4164f937
What I Gained from Deleting Social Media for 4 years.
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Hi Friends, in today's video I share what I gained from deleting social media. If you would like a more in depth video please let me know in the comments. Do you think you could delete your social media?
Clothing Haul Try on | Episode 1 | Nordstrom, Abercrombie, Marshalls & thrift finds.
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Hi friends, I hope you enjoyed todays video. I had a great time filming it. Below are the links of the items purchased in todays video. A&F Curve Love Vegan Leather 90s Relaxed Pants www.abercrombie.com/shop/us/p/curve-love-vegan-leather-90s-relaxed-pants-50567829 Seamless Fabric High-Neck Bodysuit www.abercrombie.com/shop/us/p/seamless-fabric-high-neck-bodysuit-51524827?seq=02 Oversized Poplin...
Let's Chill | Vlog #7 | making tea, mini A& F haul & creating a gratitude jar
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I love spending time at home. Thanks for hanging out with me. I hope you enjoy. #abercrombiehaul
Chill Fall Weekend | Vlog #6 | Books I want to read, prepping the garden for winter
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A chill weekend with me. I was a bit more vulnerable in this video. I am new to UA-cam and I want to show up authentically. Thank you for being here. Music by epidemicsounds.com
Sunday Vlog #5 | Farmers Market, Cooking, Record Store
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Hi Friends, I hope you enjoy today's random vlog. Totally unplanned and realistic chill Sunday. Thank you for being here & for being you.
Cozy End of Summer Day at Home | Vlog #3
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A Cozy day at home, transplanting herbs and vegetables and having yummy soup. I know we all have those days where we don't want to do much. Making a video helped me to hold myself accountable and do something I enjoy doing. Thank you for being here. Links Plant Repotting Mat www.amazon.com/gp/product/B093295V27/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_search_asin_title?ie=UTF8&psc=1 Jiffy Biodegradable Pots www.homedep...
Garden Tour | Vlog #2
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Come in for a tour of my vegetable garden to see what I'm growing now & my favorite summer smoothie :-).
My First Youtube Video| Vlog #1
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My first UA-cam vlog. Spend a relaxing summer day with me. Materials Links: Peat Pellets: www.amazon.com/Count-Jiffy-Peat-Soil-Pellets/dp/B0097WAG7Y/ref=sr_1_6?keywords=peat pellets&qid=1659563476&sr=8-6 Seeds: migardener.com/
Hey welcome back! I missed seeing your videos on here. Glad you’ve been doing well and living life. video suggestions include any real life, uncurated, visually aesthetic vlogs lol. It’s always cool to see people living life without all the extra hooplah. Also, a garden updates if you have any
Thank you, that really made me happy. Lol at visually aesthetic and no curated. I can try. I will have some garden updates soon! Thanks for being here.
Love your vlogs 🥰 been waiting months for new ones lol 👀
Aww really thank you! I will make more. It has been a while. I'll explain why in the next one. I have a ton of content to edit.
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Appreciate you being able to share your vulnerability💘 - this touched me
Awwww I appreciate that so much.
I deleted Facebook Snapchat and I logged out of Instagram
Congratulations! Wish you the best along your journey .
I RELATE TO THIS. DAY 1 OFF SOCIAL MEDIA. WISH ME LUCK.
You got this girl ✨ Keep me updated!
Whatching u from Azerbaijan❤
Thank you for being here 💕
I deleted my Facebook account almost 2 years ago and instagram two months ago… the best decision of my life. I love my life❤❤❤ I just deleted my whatsapp aswell, I’m working in China, so I communicate with my Family in South Africa through imessage or Facetime. I’m finally living my best life offline….I love this for me😊
Learning English with u..Thank u friend:)
What language do you speak.? You’re welcome ☺️ .
Dropped social media sometime last year. Haven’t been missed but have enjoyed real life since. Still watch UA-cam tho
Lol I’m the same way. I love UA-cam .
When I go out, It's so interesting to see everyones head down.. on the train, walking, sitting, looking at a phone. To their defense, they could be doing something important or mindful but for me, it's more compelling and challenging to be present, hands free, mind open.
That is very true. Everyone at the dinner table on their phone and not talking to one another. Posting they had an amazing time. Ok, girl.
Thank you for sharing ✨
I really want to do this . But I have a business 😭 maybe you’ll go over that
You can do it, use it for your business by scheduling your content to automatically post. That also frees up time for engagement. Limiting time on the app can also be helpful or deleting from your phone. You can still access social media on a desktop, it will no longer be at your finger tops. I hope this helps.
I thought the same thing, but I decided to focus on email marketing and building outside of social media. Until or if, I choose to tap back in to schedule content for the business on Instagram and Facebook like she mentioned.
@@BackToMama1 Love this! So helpful, thanks.
@@chillinwithcharity you’re welcome! I feel like we’ve been so programmed to think that if a business isn’t on social media 24/7 and at all, that it won’t succeed in this society. Which then leads to people like you and I prioritizing social media over other things that would normally be at the top of our list, which causes so much unnecessary stress and frustration. I’ve been off social media for a few days now, and I don’t feel guilty (how I thought I would) about my business because my inner peace and wellness IS MY FIRST BUSINESS! Sis, I’m a firm believer that once we take care of ourselves , our needs, everything else will flourish (including our business). So, if you feel lead to take a break off social media or completely remove yourself from it (either temporarily or permanently) , do so! Spirit will NEVER lead you wrong, and you can’t pour from an “empty cup” anyway ✨ Much love to you 💜
@@BackToMama1 Everything that you said! Perfection ✨
Thank for sharing this experience. I thought I was the only one this happened to. I had friends who drew away from me, ignoring my calls and messages. I used to reach out to ask if all is ok. One of them got married, invited everyone in our circle of friends except me. Post pandemic, I’m reconnecting in real life with friends I haven’t seen in person for ages. While one was excited to see me, the other was rather cold, distant and making excuses to cut the conversation short but had time to chat with everyone else. When these people draw away, I’m hesitant to ask what’s going on. I leave them
Thank you for sharing your experiences here as well. That is very hurtful to not receive an invite to a friends wedding. Those you are reconnecting with may be better aligned for who you are now. Continue to heal and take care of yourself & pour into those who pour into you.
This such a vibe 😌🌸
Thank You ✨💞
I've been off of social media for about a month-and-a-half now and I can't tell you how much my mental state has improved I also made sure that I wouldn't go back by changing my passwords to passwords that I wouldn't remember and it's been great for the moments when I think of going onto social media but i remind myself why im off of it. Its a great reward to finding actual meaningful things to do in your time that otherwise would be spent mindlessly scrolling looking for my next dopamine hit. I have taken up reading as of late and really reallt enjoy it as a winding down activity before bed. Im actively seeking ways to improve my life a little each day. I wish i had done this five years ago.
That is so awesome! Changing the password is a great way to disconnect, especially if you have urges to scroll. You did it now and that is all that matters! There is so much life to experience. I'm happy you found something to bring you joy such as reading, I enjoy it as well. Thank you for sharing ✨.
I really enjoyed this!!!
Thank you ☺
Really enjoyed this, can you please make updates as you move along in this journey 🙏🏾
I am working on videos right now, Stay tuned. Thank you ☺✨.
Makes so much sense. Superb 💯
Going on 4 years myself and it’s the best decision I’ve ever made!! I’m sooo weirded out by the idea of over sharing everything now…and when people take pics of their food every time I go to eat with them I’m like 🥲 (few left bc I lost a lot of “friends” when they couldn’t get anything from me anyway)
Hi charity, am i allowed to make a reaction video based von this video, since i also deleted social media.
Hi, I don’t mind long as it is positive. I’d love to check it out.
@@chillinwithcharity yeah def positive !!
@@Applecitylightkiwi let me know when you make it! Best wishes ✨
I truely enjoyed this .
Thank you 😊 .
4 year gang letsgo here right withbya
It helps tremendously. I was released from friendships that hurt. I now recognize that I would have continued holding on if it were up to me. So many beautiful changes have happened since the ending of those friendships. I now understand it was and ending to a chapter, but the beginning of a new one. Great advice and perspective.
I would have been holding on if it was up to me too honestly. I'm happy to hear that there has been many beautiful changes & many more to come 💫 .
So what do you do on your phone
Lol, that is a great question. I use it for texting, recording videos of my garden, looking up random information. I am back on social media, however I use it differently . I share pics of my garden and my friends and I send funny and informational content.
@@MiszBeauty14 I have it to share garden content & a business idea I am working on. Otherwise girl, it's a waste of time.
Very beautiful inside and out.
Thank you
This was very insightful. Thanks for your vulnerability. Good luck on your healing journey. Navigating friendship breakups can be devastating. It's also something that should be discussed more frequently. 💜
Thank you for your kind words. It should def be discussed more often.
'Promo SM'
I deleted social media, now I have fully focus on my life and self, it's like I have right path to go, and I always have self assessment and discovery, the best decision in my life .
Love to see it ! Isn't it an amazing feeling!
Been off social media 6 months just changed my phone number I have never felt the PEACE and HAPPINESS
Congratulations . I wish you more peace and happiness ✨
@@chillinwithcharity Thank you😘
You is something is wrong with you if you is not has social media. You is need to get checked out.
I’m also taking a break from social media. And yeees this year I went to a family trip and noticed that I barely touched my phone. So, yeah living in the moment is so important omg. Enjoying the present. Plus I’m 22 so I know how concerning it’s that my generation lives in the internet rather than using it as a luxury/treat… and I was getting SO delusional living in my head looking at what others were up to. Now, when it comes to social media apps (at least the most time consuming ones like tiktok, Twitter and Instagram etc.) I deleted all of them 4 days ago and I quickly forget about using them and then I realize I have free will and just finish my tasks or do something else. I can focus even more and I have plenty of time to think of what I want and what I enjoy. I’m planning on getting them back again, but when I’m sure I’ll have a way healthier mindset. Thank you for this video! I loved it. (As you can see I still have UA-cam only)
It is really easy to get caught up in socials, I am happy to hear at a young age you are making the effort to be present. When off of social media, I realized that i'm not missing anything . UA-cam is a bit different, it can be very useful and helpful. Thank you for sharing & for being here ✨.
Thanks for Sharing
Thank you for being here.
Thanks for sharing. My suggestion would be any advice for making new friends as an adult. And also like you said a video on maintaining friendships.
Thank you, great suggestion.
“i’m no longer friends with this person” took me out lmfao but you’re so right!
Lmaooo!
Wow. The lord is speaking to me with these videos - evidently.
Won't He do it, lol.
I deleted instagram and desactivated fb. And I realised how much the people I knew were attention seekers/insecure and boderline narcissist. Those traits were always there in real life. But with those social media, it amplized those traits. You also realized who are your true friends and who you actually want to be friends with.
That is a good point about realizing who your friends are.
I noticed the same things. I gave my contacts notice I was deleting instagram on my status. 60 or 70 people viewed it by only 3 people sent DMs with contact information ℹ️. I deleted instagram. Months later people are asking where I’ve been
I noticed that too. Even about myself. Social media changed my whole personality for the worst had to get off that shit.
Thank you for sharing your day with us. A follower from France 🤎
France ! Thank you for being here 💜
love the point about “who are you and what brings you pure joy?” social media robs so much time and energy from us, we shouldn’t just focus on connecting with others but ourselves too 🙏
You are so right, We often forget to connect with ourselves, we look to the outside for happiness and joy instead of going within.
Beautiful soul. I deleted social media too and it really helped me to live life to the fullest and enjoy the people around me.
It truly does. Thank you for being here.
Italy?.. I'm from the EU and Italy is one of the more racist countries, so it's refreshing to see a sister being ok in Italy
I didn't have any experiences with racism while in Italy, I have heard that some people there are racist.
@@chillinwithcharity I'm really happy for you. My younger sister was judged harshly before she even reached the age of 1. You look beautiful, as well. Goodluck on your endeavors. I permanently erased all my SM accounts a few weeks ago, and I'm already reaping the benefits.
@@Yggdrasil30 I am sorry that your sister had to experience that. Thank you for the compliment. I am happy you are benefiting from not having social media, more people should delete it.
@@chillinwithcharity Do you any advice for someone who wants to go work there for like a year or two?
@@sweetpoptart9486 in Italy or Thailand ? It depends on what you want to do in those country. I taught abroad and found positions from Facebook group and word of mouth. For Thailand I purchased a return ticket to get a visa, then when I got there the school helped me to get the proper paperwork to extend my stay.
Love it ❤
Thank you . I appreciate it. 💕
Delete tiktok and Instagram about 2 months ago. Best decision of my life . My mind is so much clear.
Congratulations! Cheers to clarity!
It's been a month and a half for me and I feel so blessed to have a newfound clarity of mind and overall calmer approach to life.
@@maximilianraphael9853 Clarity and peace of mind are blessings!
I took a break from social media a while ago and I enjoyed it. Being present was definitely the highlight of my time away. I truly could enjoy my experiences with those that I was with instead of focusing on sharing it with those who were not.
It makes a difference when you are present in the moment, regardless of the activity.
being your authentic self can be so hard, especially with all the noise of the internet. it's truly a journey but cheers to choosing consistency!
You described it accurately, the noise of the internet, it can make you feel you are "doing it wrong" when in reality there is no wrong way to be yourself. Cheers to consistency 🥂 .
It was so smoothing watching you garden… one day I must try it…commitment is key I imagine. Thank you for the inspirational messages as well. Much application to look forward to.
Thank you, I appreciate it. It does require commitment. The energy you put in is reflected back to you by your harvest or lack of.
Love the flowers 😱
Thank you! They are holding up really well too! We have to go so you can try this Mexican food place lol.
Olivia 😻
I'm geeking over your herbs! I started a veggie garden a few months ago, and threw in some Parsley...its always so exciting seeing things grow <3 This was beautiful
Thank you, I really appreciate it. Watching things grow is exciting and joyful. Congratulations on starting a vegetable garden 🪴
@@chillinwithcharity sure thing girl 🤗
Congratulations for your first video. Wow may they do well in your garden. Wishing you all the best from my channel to yours.
Thank you so much. I truly appreciate it.