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Cheaters and wife beaters how do you address that?

This was hilarious, entertaining and very insightful. Your Pastor had to be that way because of the weight of Glory that was placed on you guys. Accountability is a necessity for successful marriages. I think the biggest piece is accountability to God's Word

This was insightful. It’s a privilege to have relationships that put you in check

What a pastor! 😂 Thank God for godly men

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Mutual respect. No private agenda or hidden motives. What’s your level of compatibility? Most marriages of convenience will fail when you are abroad. All the cracks will be highlighted and exposed.

Just my observation: The majority of African men are lazy. They don't help in the home. I am tired of hearing it's not our culture. African men need to understand that women are not property.

The guy is overdressed for the occasion

Not only Nigerian but Ghana, too. I

I think this is the best news I've ever heard. Nah to start to prepare to jakpa myself because i am not accepting any marriage proposal here in Nigeria because of how women here are being treated. I don't want to be a divorcee. It's getting married to a Nigerian man in the diaspora that will make sense . 😂

Simple formula (for a man) if you live abroad, and you want to keep your marriage: 1. Be the 100%provider financially. Don't expect your wife to handle any of the finances- bills, mortgage, foods, children clothes and shoes etc. ALL 100%. Accept this is your responsibility. You are the provider. She is not. 2. The security of the house is in your hands: Physical and spiritual security. This means you are determine where your family live. Moving and relocating considering the safety and security of your family is your no 1 exclusive responsibility as a man. And you are the prophet, pastor and babalawo of your family. You are the priest of your family. The oracle. Give your self into spiritual support for the security and protection of your family. (I advise you go to Mr. Jesus). 3. Respect your marital vows- This means you must be allergic to infidelity and your spouse must be number 1 above other people including your mama, papa, siblings, and even your children. 4. Listen to her advice and let her have a say in the decision making of the family. Do these four things, she will adore you, she will serve you, she will respect you, she will cook three times day, she will make sure you are clean and your home is clean just because of u and she will sex you all the time. Lastly, she will by default support you financially. U got to understand women to win them. This is an advice package of a man married for 10 years whose wife does all aforementioned and his family is based in the US and he originated from Western Nigeria. Thank you

Marriage is actually too simple according to the scriptures. It is us humans that are seriously problematic. To the husbands, "Husbands love your wife as Christ loved the church and gave Himself for it" and to the wives, "Wives submit to your husbands as unto the Lord". If husbands and wives obeyed this very simple rule, all marriage difficulties vanish immediately. If you are the husband who wants a slave and not a wife you will have issues whether you are in Nigeria or abroad. If you are a wife, and your husband is good man that loves you and the family as Christ does but you choose not to submit to your husband rather you immediately become a feminist you will have issues whether your are in Nigeria or abroad.

*Titus 2:4-5* *4 That they may teach the young women to be sober, to love their husbands, to love their children,* *5 To be discreet, chaste, KEEPERS AT HOME, good, obedient to their own husbands, that the word of God be not blasphemed.*

The only solution that will solve most problems is to treat people as humans, not as a label, when you are called a wife or husband there is an expectation of that label from culture, religion and tradition. Love your neighbour's as yourself is the best solution. Treat people as you would like to be treated. There is no head or leg we are all human. every job in the house is everybody's job as a team. Everyone should learn. Some people's beliefs about marriage need to change. Most Men believe that when they marry, it is time for their wives to look after them, not for them to look after each other. COMMUNICATION IS ALSO IMPORTANT.

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Are marages in Nigeria not parking😅😅

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Very insightful

Men dont know most women in Nigerian marriages are miserable. We live in a patriarchal society that does not support women. Many women are miserable and trapped. They hate the way the man treats them but cant do anything. So abroad, the woman realises that she is now human in that society. Nothing else is the reason for divorce and marriage breakdown

I subscribed recently. More grace.

This is super enlightening... Thank you sir & ma 😎

It would have been easy without financial demands from Nigeria or Africa. The one I can't comprehend is family members and friends asking international students for money.

Very inspiring. Thanks for this Mr and Mrs Daniels ❤ Doris

This was insightful. The highlight of the conversation for me is not giving a man too much attention and compromising on your standards. Thanks for sharing sir and ma.

Very innovative. 🔥

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Please what about people who are leaving just on their own, no wife or husband just them alone.

Thanks for sharing sir, I've been longing for this a very long time ago

I'm here sir😂

You may think I'm crazy but before I watch this video i can already tell you why the marriage breaks up if you move to America. lol

“A broken relationship is better than a broken marriage” “Communication is the life wire of any relationship” and many more.. Thank you Sir&Ma

Some people travel and drop the values they shared with their spouse in Nigeria. They're now tush and want to 'belong'. When shared values are compromised, wahala dey. Thanks for this insightful episode.

I like that you're real, practical and honest. I'm a new Subscriber. I love your content. Already, I can tell that your marriage is a happy one. Kudos to you and your wife. God bless your home.

Thank you so much pastor What of when you're already married to this person the love and communication was there before bt now no more communication, he doesn't even compliment you anymore bt compliment other ladies outside, you just feel something is missing even when you try to talk about it all you get is silent mood, how do you handle such situation, even all the effort one is putting I just feel it's not working, no apologies when he is wrong and he doesn't care 😢

So seeing signs doesn't necessarily mean that we should run away...we can improve on those signs if both parties are willing to work at it.

Love is useless when it's not backed by corresponding actions.

So much wisdom in this as always ❤

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Key solution: Don't go to Nigeria to bring a spouse. Find your spouse where you live. Diversity your views away from only Nigerian women. Date interracial.

Awesome video, so much to learn from this.

Nigerian tradition and culture about marriage is terrible. The men have to change their minds about how they treat and see women. Men living in Nigeria and abroad need to change their mindset about women.

Very insightful. Thank you Sir&Ma

Good point

Good evening ma/sir, good and excellent job God bless you.

If you want a typical Nigerian wife abroad, please create the environment that nourishes that, like househelp, and be ready to be a Nigerian husband, a provider !!! You can not be an Ameri- African husband and expect your wife to be a semi African wife!!! She wins the bread, does all chores, have no say in the home , wait on you and the kids, be the bread winner while you do nothing!!! You never care about her family, but yours gets everything!!!

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“Divorce is worse than death” “Having sex before marriage is setting lust in motion” Very deep! God bless you both❤

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Thank you for teaching us. You will continue to grow in God’s wisdom.

Thanks for this conversation. Here's my question or observation.. someone sees the good girl you project and conforms himself to meet up with your projection. Years later, you find out that he really isn't your spec, he just conformed to your projection.. what then? 2. If you are already married when you find out that you attracted the wrong person, what next?