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A few Dylan lyrics in there too. Love it

They have options they don’t want. If their options were good they would not have so many body counts. They have options they don’t want. Fuck them. Let them leave by b!tches

Thank you Yago

Went no contact with my narcissistic sister. Guess what she did? She set me a huge sum of money to my bank account, what should I do?

The end hit me hard bro....😂😂😂😂.

I agree. There is only so much shit you can take.There comes a time when enough is enough. If at some stage your ex comes back, then you re-asses the situation with him or her.. Use no contact for you!

It is absolute betrayal. He was with her two weeks after leaving me to "work on himself" because he was "unfit for any relationship." My side of the bed wasn't even cold yet before he brought her into it. The last time he spoke to me will be the last time he will speak to me, ever. He was single and perfectly at liberty to do whomever or whatever he wanted, I'm not judging that, but I would see her face every time I looked at him if I allowed him to stay in my life in any capacity, so his decision to be with her ruined any possibility that he and I could ever be even so much as friendly acquaintances.

I have been saying the same thing. No contact is not healthy. If your partner can’t communicate then It’s doomed anyway. Communication should always be in the forefront of a relationship .

You need a new hobby. This is hilarious garbage. Take that shirt off and don't you ever play the blessed music of the Grateful Dead again, you complete fraud. This is the only comment you will get. I hope you enjoy.

Great video, A month ago, my five-year relationship came to an end. I really can't stop thinking about the love of my life, who made the decision to leave me. I've done everything in my power to win him back, but it's all in vain, and I can't imagine my life with anyone else. I genuinely miss him and just can't stop thinking about him, even though I've tried my hardest to stop thinking about him. I'm not sure why I'm saying this here.

Watching this captivating video stirs up painful memories of the recent end of my 4 year relationship. My beloved partner chose to depart, leaving me with an unyielding ache. Despite my relentless efforts to reconcile, I find myself grappling with frustration and an inability to envision a future without him. Despite attempts to purge him from my mind, I remain haunted by his absence, feeling compelled to express my longing here.

If your partner enters into a rebound, it means that she is not the partner for you and that there are better people out there for you. It is correct that you should not get involved in a tug of war with the new partner. This is unhealthy and only serves to massage her ego that she now has 2 men chasing her. No contact whilst the rebound is active is correct.

I feel like Jesus kinda looked like this

Caveman spittin’

No contact wouldn’t bring an avoidant person back to me. It would make it easier for them to move on. I’m using it but… It seems backwards.

I've only seen the first 10 seconds, but fact that you are shirtless and with a full beard does NOT instill confidence!

I'm using no contact for my own healing. I don't want her back. I want her to feel bad about how she wronged me and used me when she's lying in bed at night, but I doubt she feels a thing. Maybe it's petty of me, but I hope she's miserable in her new rebound relationship. We were together for 13 years and turns out she was cheating on me with multiple men. Then she leaves and moves in with another man like I was nothing. She gets to move on with someone else, while I'm still piecing myself back together 6 months later. I can't even think about getting into another relationship right now. I don't know how they do it.

Thank you

Hi from late 2024, only heard about this controversy now. Big fan of the method and practitioner. I do agree, wim cant really be held responsible for the deaths. But i have to say I was pretty disturbed hearing about the abuse (see De volkskrant article). The fountain thing was pretty weird too lol. I agree we need more risk takers and mavericks, but at the same time accountability is also important. Just my two icicles ✌️

hi yago🙋 where initaly are you? and do you live in the Forrest? yesterday i saw in an shorty the tip "make an vacation" a weekend in the forrest i would like a lot 😃🌞🤸 greets from austria, graz

Wise man! Loved what you said towards the end. Thank you, Yago! - Another wise fool

Yes, that's it! It felt like a betrayal to me and I justified it, as I justified so much. But indeed it is betrayal! What an eye opener. I can not unsee this perspective. Thank you! Betrayal is so painful bc it comes from someone you love. You learn more from a person after a breakup.

Yes its betrayal. Well said brother, well said.

I eagerly await your videos, they help me so much Yago. Thank you <3

Sadly men do this too :-( . I loved a man with all my heart. He was the second man in my life. I sticked trough thick and thin and had patience. All I wanted was a bit more time togheter (2 times a week on the weeks he would have more time) and to openly communicate about feelings and boundries. He started distancing himself and treated me poorly and with disrespect. It got to much and I explained I am very hurt and then went no contact. In the weeks of no contact I was thinking about him daily and hoped he is healty and safe and hoped he will eventually start to reflect. He bredcrumbed me a bit by going on my profile so I broke no contact after six weeks and wrote to him. After a few days I asked him if he is dating or writing with someone. He took his time answering but eventually he told me he dad sex a few times with another woman the first weeks, they are not togheter, it was something casual and more is none of my business. I felt shattered. I did not get closure from him. He wrote to me the advice to maybe do more things with my grilfriends to help me pick the shards of my broken heart. The first week were excruciating. Very high anxiety, heart racing, no appetiate, nightmares, depression, feelings of beeing gut punched, ...Now I am trying my best to heal, to learn, to forgive myself, to trust. I find sex great and crave it but only if I a have a meaningful connection. Even tough I want it, I can not give it freely. I would never have sex just to validate my ego. Some of my girlfriends see things similar, some do not see it as a big deal and have a lot of casual sex. I ask myself do all men treat sex like this? I know men and woman are biologically different, but the taught scares me. I wish everybody who is dealing with a broken heart a lot of strength and patience and some loving people around you. Take care. P.S. English is not my mother tongue.

Watchin your videos over and over

I get what your saying I feel like the last six months scince i lost someone i loved, or rather, they tossed me aside, that ive been isolated in my mind trying to cope, trying to heal. I dont know why but ive always looked forward to the oncoming of fall. I cant explain it but summer saddens me. It always feels like life is moving too fast and like im being worn out faster ? Ive always loved the oncoming of fall and winter. Cool crisp air makes me feel vibrant again. Lifts my spirits and i look forward to holidays with happiness.

My 5 yr relationship ended in feb abruptly, with almost no explanation or closure. It was really hard to deal with. First three months went by and i broke no contact and sent a letter. Not so much to get her back more about the fact that i had some things that needed to be said. Theres never been any response from her on it. It was harsh because i was good to this person. In the end i think our political differences broke us but nothing bad happened. This woman was poor at expressing things from inside all along so why should i be surprised. Recently she was seen with a new guy. That did hurt and it felt like the answer to all the riddles. Im glad i found out about the rebound at 6 mos because so much healing has happened. It did hurt tho.

Really well-balanced report on this issue.

You sir are absolutely amazing. What true wisdom you share. Ive watched your videos alot i wish i knew you in person

It’s not betrayal. When my ex broke up with me it was a narcissistic discard. It was a nightmare and I forced myself to date. DATE. Not f*ck. I ended up dating a man for 10 months and we didn’t have sex for 6 months. He courted me traditionally. Was it a rebound? Yes. I wasn’t over my ex and still am not. Was it a distraction? Yes. I needed that. My ex obliterated my heart and this new man was respectfully putting it back together. No it’s not betrayal when they break up with you.

Thank u so much for taking the time to share ur experience through this process. I took am going through this journey only I am a woman and yet ur words are still very relatable ! Men and women are different yet heartache is a experience that doeant matter what ur gender is ! It's just hard if ur trying to do it right and respect urself and the love u had for someone. I appreciate ur time to share ! 8 needed to hear all of these !

Looking like a young Leonardo Da Vinci, glorious!

shoutout to all class clowns, misifts, neurodiversies and weirdo acid heads

To be angry is not to be in raged ..anger can be a righteous anger ..rage is the absence of love Only God can change her heart ..just ask ..and do nothing more ..but focus on Him ..He will do the rest ..that which is best for YOU You must forgive her and love her with a sacrificial love not just an unconditional love ..only God can give you this ..it is not in and of ourselves. Once you do ..the pain will turn into love Take her off the pedestal and ask God to put Himself on the pedestal

On May 12, 2024 I found out the love of my life cheated on me. 8 years gone to shit in a matter of seconds. I will NEVER take him back. He chose temporary pleasure over me and that’s something he’ll have to live with for the rest of his life. I’ve blocked him everywhere and will remain no contact forever. He calls me daily. I have an app that unmasks private callers so his name and number shows up every time I get an unknown call. Just the thought of him still reaching out makes my blood boil. The absolute nerve after you betrayed me. I went no contact with the intention of healing & starting a new chapter in my life. I will never understand people that go no contact to win an ex back. Seems like a game to me but to each their own. Thank you for this video! Going to subscribe and check out the rest.

I agree 100% with you said.. once that happens it’s gone, dead. Hard truth

Yago, does your ex have a personality disorder?

I really needed to hear this, and your whole channel. Thank you so much.

My ex downgraded (physically, financially, and personality) and made sure to rub it in my face, yet she's trying to recreate me by someone she can control.

Beautiful set-up in nature and splendid narrative 🙏✌🏽

"I was trying to figure out a way to bend space and time." Ouch. So true.

I came to the conclusion I have no motivation to become higher earthly status because I prefer the more genuine love of lower status people like myself, not which boxes are ticked or putting numbers on people or making lists of things you like and dislike about someone (a repulsive practice, to me, personally). But it is not for everyone. Perhaps this plays a part in separations.

Good vid. Agreed. There is a difference between a cheating mistake and betrayal. Not to minimize a cheating mistake but conscious prolonged betrayal is worse. Like slow murder. One of the last things I said to an ex: "Your solution to betrayal is permanent betrayal."

I am delighted to have found you

Thanks!!

Irritating he keeps saying she… men do this too!

A lot of guys in here seem to share the same opinion so I have a question for y'all. My ex and I broke up a year ago due to stuff going on in both our lives (I initiated the break up). It was sad and I loved him and when I saw him about 3.5 months later we talked and I asked him if we could try again (at this point neither of us had dated anyone else or even talked to anyone else). He said he didn't want to close the door but he was working on his career and wanted to improve his finances before he dated again and that I deserved better and I should try online dating (but not sleep with them 🙄) The fact that he was OK with other men having access to me crushed me. I had no interest in online dating but when we texted a couple of times a few days later he ghosted me. So I got hurt again, and that made me mad enough to sign up for online dating. I ended up meeting someone on Tinder a month later (had some other dates and didn't even give them a goodnight kiss). 6 months went by and I never heard from my ex (I reached out twice during that time) I'm not commited to the man I'm dating because he's planning to move in a year and I can't follow him. He was basically a built in rebound. He knows he's not my boyfriend, I've been very clear with him and he understands, so don't worry about him, he's not going to be hurt... Anyway, my question is. If you were my ex in this situation would you still feel the same way about the fact that I slept with someone else? I'm only in the relationship because he told me to date other people and then ghosted me! Just curious to get male perspectives

Great perspective! Finally someone who sees it as something huge and not just something you should ”understand and accept because it’s a coping mechanism”. It’s really being stabbed in the back and in the heart at the same time. My ex rebounded with his neighbour three weeks post breakup. He did the slow fade on me. Didn’t even end the relationship but said we’ll just take one day at a time and suddenly he ends up with her. To me that’s cheating even if, probably according to him, we were over (because that’s how he breaks up, pulls away with no closure). It feels like he really did his best to burn all bridges. Would you say it’s the same when a man rebounds as when a woman does because men can sleep with women without an emotional bond/loving them or are they equally unforgivable?

I'm 2 months in to a break up - after 5 great months together, out of the blue she told me she was going back with an ex. Just like that. Whether she physically did or not I will never know, but I know emotionally she betrayed me because she was setting it up behind my back, ready to make her move. It's an absolute killer. Straight from me to him. I wanted her back at first, or rather my emotions did. My head says the opposite so it's a tug of war between rationality and emotion. This week my heart is moving towards my head and I'm feeling a little better, but I'm not sure that offsets the sense of loss and the fact that I still really miss her.