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It's so touching and beautiful to watch this. Thank you for the effort on showing people that, if you want parents to see you, then you need to open and see them too.

Aww :) love Scottie's content.

Thank you so much for creating contents like these ❤ and this is coming from someone who has never left any comments on UA-cam before Really looking forward for more

This made a fan out of me for Shawn Soh. Beautiful.

Joseph, Brenda and the trampoline club -thank you for this video-so REAL, AUTHENTIC. Helps all of us feel less alone in our struggles with our loved ones. the love and courage yall have to work on yourselves and r/s is extremely commendable! So much hope u bring!

What makes Uncle such a good father, isn't about making the right decisions but that he has made the effort to grow and improve, rather than being obstinate in his decisions. When we first start out in our roles in relationships, our mistakes are the result of our upbringing. But if we continue to dig our heels in, and not learn and grow, then that becomes our fault

Joseph really puts up with spousal abuse here. Joseph's the child. He didn't get the chance to grow up. And, he thinks he has to put up with such a terrible person

Proverbs 19:18 Discipline your son, for in that there is hope; do not be a willing party to his death.

So these couple are divorce or still marriage.?

29:02 - 29:35 love it, so real

Thank you for sharing this. I really needed some perspective, encouragement and identification of the struggles in a relationship. Thank you for reflecting back❤

Wife got problem. A parent should teach their kids manners and father got slapped in return, like tf? Respect your husband and settle it behind closed doors not slap him in front of your kids.

Internet should have more of such wholesome videos. Articulated and beautiful souls.

Is it domestic violence when the wife slap the husband? What example are you showing to that kid when violence is a reaction? In the video it didn't show that she acknowledged his feelings in the incident, how can he process the emotions in that situation when its not talked about. That seems to be a strong contributing factor to shutting off.

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Men can be stay at home dads and be proud too. Men can cry too. All these don't define manhood as much as being responsible for our actions and doing what's right. Kudos to Joseph for not running, and confronting what you need to. Further edit - both Joseph and Brenda have grown so much! So much to celebrate even if you're still works in progress. Very very much kudos!

Thanks very much for this beautiful sharing. Throughout my 27 years of married I too wanted to give up in 2 occupations. Like Joseph, my husband always convinced me he will improve/change. We are still working on it. Most importantly is working on me. I keep praying and keep finding ways to understand myself, my childhood trauma, going for Inner healing retreat, manage my ADHD issue/brain... its really a long process.

I’m so proud of you guys that able to share what are the problems you guys are facing …… Take care guys……

Can relate to this so much. The amount of arguments that happened after the arrival of our child and I've indeed brought up the D word multiple times. But even so, we continue to try and work this thing called marriage out. Thank you for sharing your story Brenda and Joseph.

Women are always the ones that suggest divorce… Statistically

Thank you for sharing your story so vulnerably. I have learnt much from your sharing. What you shared is so real and I hope that your story can encourage other couples who are struggling in their marriage.

“Marriage gives you the opportunity to perfect how you love” - this is so beautiful. An emphasis on how it is a work in progress :) thank you for sharing

Thank you for sharing your story, Joseph and Brenda :) this might not have been easy to be this vulnerable to the world, but your openness will help relationships be revisited and possibly even be saved.

Wow, very good video, thanks for being so open and sharing, even it means opening up their old wounds as they were tearing in some part.

Brenda is a good mother. She had to stand by her gut and protect her children. I'm sure there was some guilt about not being home with the children as well, she had to trust her husband to raise them and she didnt feel like they were safe - it must have been so difficult for her.

Your mental health and emotional trauma isn't the responsibility of your spouse. Sounds like she just cannot accept the fact he's a stay at home dad and she's the sole bread winner and does not respect him deep down. Slapping your husband in front of the kids and his own mother proves this point. This is unacceptable in any given scenario, man or woman.

Wow. This is definitely one of the best videos I've watched. Thanks Brenda and Joseph for opening up to share for others to learn. Definitely a good reminder that everyone is different and we all have to work through them together. I wish them nothing but the best and other couples facing the same issues.

the fact that brenda and joseph has this conversation make them such great parents :') thank you for working the differences out and keeping the love and building a family out of love, having a kids in an environment of love goes such a long way

For his case, Slap the kids is normally not out of anger but rather lack of “absence make the heart fonder” because he stays at home all time see the kids alot….if he go out work, he will miss the kids

this is really sad as i'm processing contested divorce. its really hard as my ex hubby to be only want me to lead the most miserable life ever..it is really tormenting.. its great to hear that both of u doing great..this episode is so touching..

the part when she said, "he took out his anger by cleaning the house... at least I have a clean house.." 😅 I feel you Brenda!

Hugs. What some kids take for granted and even becomes a cheesy tradition can be something other kids never got to experience

They are very lucky to have each other. Not all siblings will have the maturity, selflessness and self-awareness for reconcilation to happen. It takes two hands to clap.

On the contrary, felt that this is a passive aggressive toxic relationship. It would do both good to separate…. In my opinion.

Such a sweet father and son.

Different backgrounds, different upbringing. They have different views about how to discipline kids. Any couple should discuss this first and come to an agreement.

Start being friends with each other first.

Slapping your husband in front of your kid is really wrong. Everyone have a breaking point..kids can be difficult .. imagine if the wife slap the kid and the husband slap the wife.. all women will cry foul and aware will write a long article about toxic masculinity.. If you want your husband take care of kid. You let him work on it, talk to him.

Thanks for sharing such intimate moments of your struggles! If you would examine attachment styles, you could see the bulldozer being the anxious attached person chasing the avoidant man/ stonewaller. Somehow, anxious attached people and anxious people often ended up together. The idea is to try to be securely attached people on our own! Good luck

You can just tell that they have so much love for each other. What a great interview, thank you for sharing!

Stay home dad role takes alot away from most men; respect, pride,masculinity. Many years later when his grandchildren ask what he did when he was younger, he probably will blank out again. Deep down he probably just want some respect, work normally and provide for his family. But then, a good man does not complain and whine like a little girl; Women have that right. A good man reposition himself. Start an online home business, and start bringing some $$ back home. It can start as small as buying and selling things off carousell. Many years later he can tell his grandchildren he took care of their moms and dads, and also ran a succesful business.

Did they have therapy? How did they managed to come together today and iron out their differences?

Thank you for your honest open sharing. From my humble ooinion, slap is wrong, whether its dad to child, wife to husband, A to B. Having difficult feelings about a situation means perhaps the focus should be about addressing past unprocessed trauma. Tap on palm might be better than tap on cheek, which has an element of inflicting shame and increasing distance between the 2 people.

Admirable couple... definitely a model for growth-mindset: self- reflection, honesty, courage & compassion

Maybe he have very Tenpered parenting during childhood time

Great video. And so true - it's about growth within oneself. In my case, divorce was the right option - because he wasn't growing fast enough and I was wasting away. It's tough to know when to stay or when to leave.

Interesting honest view but i call bs on beliefs that kids don know anything and therefore don't need to be disciplined... if a light smack to a kid is abuse, what's a slap to a spouse...? And why bring another child to this world while you're finding your own footing (not wrong too !)

While I know and seen many wonderful dads, there is a reason why women make better stay-at-home parents. The nurturing nature in women are in-born, women become selfless for their children, and for some, other children. It's not difficult for us to sacrifice ourselves, in a heart beat, for the sake of children. Therefore, while many women do struggle to be a better mum, improving and evolving are also non-negotiable. Maybe to improve things, Jo should not be a stay-at-home? Just my two cents. Also, in my opinion, ain't right for her to slap him though...

Both Joseph and Brenda are so real, authentic, growth oriented and you can tell they are both committed in love. As a fellow and newly wedded wife, I feel that Brenda is so eloquent, self aware, empathetic and strong. I’m glad you found therapy and outlets to feel less lonely, I genuinely hope your marriage continues to grow and blossom, as you continue to heal your childhood wounds.

i appreciate this video a lot. both husband and wife just sharing their struggles. it was calm, reflective and peaceful. there was no blaming, he said she said etc. i still think this marriage is very ideal and it’s very rare what they have ❤