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Oh my gosh! We loved that you shared this with us!! 🖤🖤🖤 we had a very similar experience in Milan which will be our next video. They won the a big football game and the entire city went craaazzzzyyy!!! It was so amazing to see that and get to share their culture with them. We stayed like a 5 min walk to the gay street near the colosseum but we found a lot of other really nice gay bars that we had a blast at. I think we talk about them in our final Italy video cuz we return to Rome for one more day after the cinque terre. Italy is a place you could definitely do on your own. The people are so nice and welcoming and there are so many people to meet and see where things go. Again, thank you for sharing your story! We love it!

Honestly, it was so much fun! We are so thankful we had the opportunity to go there. The culture, the art, the history, everything was so perfect.

Oh my gosh! It was so much fun! We love doing photoshoot for Halloween

This video wasn’t to much on the actual language of LGBT people, most commonly referred to as Polari but known in general as lavender languages. It was more on symbols. But we did do a whole video on the language of lgbt people as well! All to point out how important it was to our safety, to speak freely about identity or *seggs*, and so much more. It’s so interesting to know that our people built an entire secret language to exist freely. Love that for us! Thanks for watching! 🖤

Gay and lgbt individuals shouldn’t be excluded from horror simply because it’s not campy or lacks gaiety. Besides…. We claim it and we’re lgbt! 👻 Thanks for watching!! Happy Halloween 🎃

We absolutely loved our stay. Thankfully, as lgbt travelers we make it our mission to find all the pockets of our community! While we faced some discrimination, Italy has some really fun lgbt spots where our community flourishes. We were able to experience many while we were out there and met many really amazing people from our community. And yes…. Art and culture are a cornerstone to a perfect vacation. We love art and art history. Thanks for watching!! 🖤 you’re awesome!

It was so amazing! And we had such a wonderful time there. Truthfully, there has been two vacations we have been on that we feel changed us as people (every trip does a little but they were just different) and that was Thailand and Italy. Fortunately, we are very casual and laid back and don’t mind that we have difficulty understanding certain things… that’s part of the fun of traveling. We like learning the language before and we try but it’s also to kinda fun just do our best with the little bit we do know. We showed more of our failures with the language than we did our successes haha We’re just there for the experience and are thankful to get to share someone else’s culture for a while. The restaurants weren’t bad!! It was just different for us! And that’s okay with us! Haha we were just expecting something different. Every meal felt so clean and fresh and we always had an amazing time. We try not to look up “best places to eat”… instead we randomly walk across places and go in when we like the atmosphere. It’s our favorite type of date. So sometimes it’s a hit and sometimes it’s a miss and that’s okay with us. Thanks for sharing your country with us! And we can’t wait to return at some point In the future! We have so much world to see! Best of travel wishes to you too! 🖤

@@LavenderLingo We wait for you both with open arms and much love! ❤️

You’re awesome! Thanks for the support 😘🖤🥰

We did go home! Vacations are fun! Get out there and try it sometime! 😘

I know… we’re amazing right 😘

Uh-oh… thank goodness we didn’t! 😬😅

That’s definitely our vibe. We love culture, art, history, food hahaha Florence was the perfect vacation for us! 🖤 Thanks for watching! 🥰

We have no idea what you’re talking about 🙃 hahaha *cheers*

Thank you so much 🥰 thank you for watching 🙏🤩

👢I keep my boot firmly on his neck…. Hahaha just kidding 🤣 He’s a great artist. It one of the reasons I love him 🖤

Unfortunately not physically…. But mentally we are there haha. 🤣 we miss it very much!

We are no strangers to not knowing the language and love the challenge that brings us because we love to learn new things!! We really tried to spend quite a bit of time learning too but You’re right…. Being together always helps 💕 You’re absolutely right!!! When it comes to food, it’s about where you eat and I think we did a bad job of explaining our curiosity about the food. We loved all of the food we had in Italy. The ingredients were by far the most fresh tasting ingredients…. Especially in Florence (where we go to next) where they really pride themselves on fewer seasonings on fresher ingredients. Our American palettes were just salt deprived haha 🤣 it wasn’t bad ever!!! It was just different than what we expected. And oh my goodness… we have always had the best of luck in our travels around the world. We are so thankful that we have the luck with the sights that we have had. One of our best travel advice is to always buy the tickets for the event directly at the location or on their specific website. Sites often tend to be third party and websites can be misleading about where you are. We faced this even bigger in Costa Rica! It saves a lot of money to go direct to the source.

🤔 huh!! 🧐 you’re absolutely right! We didn’t really put that together until now haha 🤣

@@LavenderLingo and you must pronounce it (and every letter): don't skip letters

Hahaha that we know. We can’t stand the “calimah” of the world lol 😂 we live in nyc but we’re not from here hahahaha

Actually in Italy we made friends with this couple (which we talk about in our cinque terre video coming up) where we talked about how cringey it is that New York Italians do this lol “mozzerell” 🤢

Hahaha You’re definitely correct! We figured it out by the end of our time in Rome. And you’re right, it is soooo easy. We are no strangers to transit systems since we’re from NYC…. Which is a terrible metro system! Sometimes traveling brings weird challenges…. This just happened to be ours on this trip. Thankfully we don’t really sweat the small stuff. Every adventure is its own adventure.

haha you're amazing! We hope you feel better soon! 😍

Oh my goodness! It was amazing! One of our favorite places we’ve ever been! 🖤

Oh my gosh…. We can’t wait to go to Brazil! And we will absolutely visit that beach! We love a gay tropical paradise 🤩

Thanks boo! 😘 haha it was so much fun! We honestly can’t wait to visit more around the world. Have you ever been to any of them?

@@LavenderLingo me life live in Hungary Budapest yes how me gay single alone yes sorry from me ex-couple hetero men name Martin 3 years meet couple not sex not kiss only talking after we break up and the 7 Month meet is 5 Month writter Messenger Facebook after happen Martin drugs end we break up sad ☹️ me now alone single yes sorry

Haha our successes and failures can only be judged by our own experience and understanding of ourselves. You’re not a bad teacher because of others. 😘 Have a good evening 🎉

We are just thankful for the support you showed us over the first couple months of our journey. We had to take some time away to focus on ourselves and our life but we’re glad to be back! There will be many more videos just like this…. Maybe a bit more funny next time 🤣 can’t wait to share some heartwarming moments/hard moments/loving moments between us as well. And hopefully we can find ways to hear that from you and others in this community too! We hope this year has been going well for you! 😘

@@LavenderLingo What made me want to watch you even more was your charisma, uniqueness, nerve and talent! (yes, I recited Rupaul just for you 🤣). I'm happy you're back and I wish you success 🫶🏼

Definitely interested in history!!! Love it! we will look at these!😘

@@LavenderLingo sorry I was a bit exuberant tonight and commented everywhere 😅😅

That’s always okay with us! We’ve been hoping this turns into a community of like minded individuals…. So we’re happy to get to have some Positive interactions with others!

You're literally making us so happy by watching and commenting. It means the most!💕 In relationships, all things ebb and flow. Start with communication and we're sure that it will solve itself. Plus, always remember to put your individual growth equal to that of the growth of your relationship.

Goodness!! Thank you so much! We truly appreciate your kind words and affirmation. We've spent a lot of time together... almost half our lives. We are best friends in every way. That is the whole point of this channel! We're here celebrating the mundane lives we get to live because so many people fought for us to have this life and we're thankful. Plus.... throw in a bit of art, travel, history, fashion, music, politics and you pretty much have a snapshot of us as people and as a couple. lol Truly, thank you for watching; we can't wait to share more with you!!

@@LavenderLingo I can’t wait for you to share more. Honestly, your channel should have more recognition: what you do is highly positive for the community. As for mundanity, taken in its highest possible meaning, it reminds me of Thorin’s words, at the end of the Hobbit: “if more of us valued food and cheer and song above hoarded gold, it would be a merrier world.” Are you going to ever touch upon the unhealthy beauty standards of our community? I feel that is one of the gravest problems the (mainly male) homosexual community has to deal with! Ad maiora, semper!

We are on a similar wavelength friend!!! We are currently in the works for a video that will come in November about the "gay body".... specifically referencing the unrealistic beauty standards and the different types of bodies of the entire LGBTQIA+ community! This topic won't focus on negativity but will point out the truth, both positive and negative, about the "gay body." We hope to discuss this topic from an internal and external point of view... but we will see!! Next week we will talk about gay beaches... while spending time at Jacob Riis then we head off to Italy (a five-part video series) To split that up a bit, a video about the gayness of the Renaissance and gay politics in the US. SOOOOOO much coming up. ***btw... love the pic of Hadrian!🖤

@@LavenderLingo love it for you! OMG guys! Btw, I am a PhD student and focus on the study on the ancient world in a big university on the UWS ;) and am Italian!!!🇮🇹 have been interested in the “Ufficiali della Notte” of Renaissance Florence, and I have published a bit on other aspects of Renaissance culture! Where are you visiting in Italy? OMG so excited for more to come!!!! P.S. Hadrian and Antinous has been in my mind for ages! Maybe after the PhD I’ll work on a novel/retelling of the whole story from Antinous’ point of view!

Absolutely love that idea! We are pretty obsessed with them as well! And we’re doing Rome, Florence, Milan/Lake Como, and the Cinque Terre.

(T) hahaha I can’t help it!!! I’m working on it…. It’s just not going well! 😭🤣

(Shel) No. Unfortunately my parents are no longer around. Either by choice or because they passed away. Fortunately, I still have some of my siblings, my chosen family, and Tyler’s parents have taken me on as one of their kids. They feel like my parents too. 🖤 Maybe we will talk a bit more about family and chosen family in a later video. When it comes to LGBT people family is often a touchy subject for any number of reasons. Something we would be glad to talk about.

Oh my gosh totally! We have a couple videos on our channel about LGBT relationships and marriage already! They apply to all relationships even if you’re not lgbt! That’s being said…. That’s also one of the cornerstones of our channel so you will definitely see more videos to come. One quick bit of advice: “have patience, learn to communicate and understand how your partner communicates, intimacy is key, and put you and your growth equal to the growth of your relationship.” Thanks for watching! You’re awesome! 😘

Congratulations to you too! Relationships are hard work but we do the best we can! Especially thankful when we can find the moments to laugh together 💕 thanks for watching and commenting! 😘

@@LavenderLingo thank you is me alone single yes sorry ok szia

You are the perfect person to be our first comment on this video! Haha 😘 thanks boo!!

Everybody has their own reasons on why it’s important! And you listed some very important ones. We see that it’s also popular in our community to see people who have no intentions on getting married and that is okay too. Everyone makes their own choices for what is best for their individual lives! We just want to make sure no one ever feels like they have to get married. Also that there is no specific guidelines for what a “real relationship” looks like. For us getting married was the right choice. And we would never take it for granted. We’re thankful for what we have. We’ve also learned a lot from 12 years together

Thanks! They were so much fun!

Thanks for your help and thanks for watching!! 😘

Hahaha first, hi! Thank you so much for watching our videos. We will have more content when we get back from our traveling. Sorry that it’s been a while. That will always be the vibe! Education but a little silly lol Hope you’re doing well! See you soon! 🖤

Oh my goodness! Thank you for sharing this here!! We can’t wait to read it! You should let us know where we can download it! That’s what we want our community to be too…. A place that is a big hug to those who need it. Thanks for watching our video. We will have more content soon. We are traveling and will have more content when we get back home!

Thanks again. You’re very kind

Hi there!! Thank you so much!! And thank you for watching! 🖤

Both Spain and Brazil are on our upcoming travel list! We are so excited for both!!! Plus both places seem to know how to throw a good party 🎉 🎊 Haha gay clubs are always a good time! Lol and we don’t go too often but when we do we always go all out hahaha 🤣

We are all undateable at one time or another. We were very lucky to have met each other so early in life but we have definitely faced our struggles. Even faced times where we probably should not have been together…. But we persevered. No need to feel isolated because you don’t have that “1 person”. We are a community centered around love 💕 Wishing you the best too! 🖤😘

@@LavenderLingo Thank you so much for taking the time to write your thoughtful and heartfelt response, and for showing the positives of your relationship, as well as some of the struggles. I very much appreciate it, and will continue to watch with interest, as you are both so sweet. I am alone, and undateable, and for some that's a matter of confidence, and for others it's a matter of fact. I have unattractive physical health problems, and certain conditions that mean I will be taking what's left of my journey solo. All I crave is a hug/cuddle most of all, but I'm learning to self soothe, to hug myself/pillow, and hold my own hand. It's sad, but at least it's some self compassion. Anyway sorry for the additional waffle on this thread. Take care and thanks again for your kindness.

Phil…. If we may call you that? We are honored you took the time to watch our video and to comment. We can’t describe how thankful we are that you are a part of our journey. We hope that we can be a sense of comfort when you need it. 💜 We will be here and I hope you know you can lean on us or reach out whenever!! 🥰

@@LavenderLingo Thank you so very much. Yes, my name is Phil. You are so kind to reach out yet again and say what you said. I wish you all the luck with your channel, and you lives together, and may both go from strength to strength.

Keeping each other on our toes. You can never let them get too comfortable hahaha 💜✨

It’s not always easy, sometimes it’s really hard, but the hard times make those sweet moments even sweeter. Thanks for consistently showing love! We can’t wait for you to see what we have coming up! If you ever have a topic you want us to cover we’d love to know! ☺️💜

I would love to know some really funny adventures or occasions that you have had together. I would like to know more about the stories of the two of you together❤

We would absolutely love to share that with you!! We’re excited because we have so many stories to share!! Can’t wait 😘💜

Sending so much love back!! ✌️💜

Haha thank you very much!! 🥰

Hi! Thanks for watching ✌️ While we don’t have an open relationship. We see nothing wrong with couples that do!! As long as both partners are open to it and there is open communication we see no reason why that shouldn’t work them. 💜 We have a planned discussion for a video about this and the different types of relationships that we often see in our community!

Thank you Gabriel!! 💜 Honestly we can’t wait to share the next video with the top five. Thanks for supporting our journey!! 😘 Also, glad this can help you!

Thank you 🥰 Honestly…. We’ve been together for most of our lives at this point. All the bad and the good. We’ve learned what it takes to make it work. Still have a lot to learn but we’ll never stop. Haha thanks for watching 💜

Hello Lorraine! Thank you so much! Honestly, that’s our goal. We’re here to celebrate being a gay couple because so many people have fought for us to have this relationship. A relationships that is completely equal to any other relationship out there. All relationships have their unique challenges, all have unique ways of making it work, but the love is always the same. Thanks for watching! Sending so much love and prosperity to you and your family 💜

Thank you so much!! 🥰

We live in the US and unfortunately…. State and religion is so tightly intertwined that we face so many terrible human rights violations as well. There can be so much good in spirituality but religion is often built on control and power. Glad that you are still fighting and pushing for equality. Also, thank us for watching! We appreciate it! 💜

@@LavenderLingo It depends on which religion. There are religions that are evil, and there are religions that are harmless. Simple to explain.

@@thwguywithwisdom4028 you are absolutely correct