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Lion Spirit
Приєднався 7 лис 2023
The channel for sensitive individuals on a journey of self-realization and self-acceptance. Here, we explore life beyond fantasy defenses, superficial ilusions and victimhood.
I aim to raise awareness about personality dynamics such as narcissism, sociopathy, borderline tendencies, sadism, and more. My goal is to promote a lifestyle rooted in reality-helping you break free from the narcissistic fantasy and narratives that fuel the "cult of one."
Join me in embracing a grounded, compassionate, and truthful approach to personal growth and understanding.
Let us reject all roles (victim, villain, saviour) and all labels rooted in those roles. Instead I take responsibility for anything that happens for me.
I am heavily inspired by Prof. Sam Vaknins ideas and research results.
I aim to raise awareness about personality dynamics such as narcissism, sociopathy, borderline tendencies, sadism, and more. My goal is to promote a lifestyle rooted in reality-helping you break free from the narcissistic fantasy and narratives that fuel the "cult of one."
Join me in embracing a grounded, compassionate, and truthful approach to personal growth and understanding.
Let us reject all roles (victim, villain, saviour) and all labels rooted in those roles. Instead I take responsibility for anything that happens for me.
I am heavily inspired by Prof. Sam Vaknins ideas and research results.
Reality: A Space of Shared Fantasies and Consensus. It is dissolving: Testing becomes impossible.
Description: In this video, I explore a perspective on what reality truly is. Reality is not a fixed concept; it’s a dynamic space where individuals from various communities-families, states, and other groups-bring their shared fantasies into a collective arena. These shared fantasies collide, interact, and communicate, forming a consensus that becomes the foundation of our perception of reality. Join me as I dive into this fascinating idea and unpack the basics of how shared fantasies shape our world and influence reality testing.
Btw: "Common sense" is an abused term, to gaslight people into following insane fantasies....
Absolute reality is not the reality we speak of in psycho analytik language. In this context we speak of a consensus amongst other human beings, sharing a similar fantasy...
Reality is a similar abstraction and concept of reality within limits, that we call "consensus".
Let chatgpt unpack it:
Reality testing is a term most commonly used in psychology, particularly in psychoanalysis and cognitive-behavioral frameworks, to describe the ability to distinguish between what is real (external, shared reality) and what is imagined, distorted, or subjective (internal, private reality). It is often considered a critical component of mental health and cognitive functioning.
Now, in the context of your interest in reality as a concept-and the idea that pure, raw reality is always mediated by abstraction or perception-this adds an interesting layer.
Here’s how to think about it:
The Function of Reality Testing:
In psychology, reality testing assumes that there is an external, shared reality that we can compare our internal perceptions or thoughts against. For instance, a person uses reality testing when they ask themselves, "Is this fear in my head, or is there really something to be afraid of?"
For someone struggling with psychosis or delusions, their reality testing is impaired because they cannot make that distinction between their internal thoughts and the external world.
Reality as Conceptual:
If reality is inherently conceptualized-i.e., always mediated through perception, language, and interpretation-then reality testing is not about accessing a "pure" reality. Instead, it becomes about testing one version or model of reality against a shared, intersubjective one (what a community agrees is real). This shared reality is itself a construction, shaped by culture, language, and consensus.
For example, if a person thinks the sky is green, their reality testing involves comparing their perception with others’ perceptions or with empirical evidence. But even then, the tools for comparison (language, measurements) are abstractions, not the "raw" sky itself.
Implications for Reality Testing as a Concept:
If we accept that reality is always mediated and conceptualized, then the process of reality testing isn't about verifying "pure" reality but about ensuring that our abstractions align with dominant frameworks of understanding (scientific, cultural, etc.).
In this sense, reality testing is less about touching the "real" and more about maintaining coherence with shared or functional models of the world.
In Summary:
Reality testing, as used in psychology, presumes an external reality that can be accessed and compared against our internal states. However, when you start from the premise that reality is always already conceptualized, then reality testing itself becomes a way of managing interpretations of reality rather than accessing an unmediated, pure state of it. It’s not about reaching "reality-in-itself" but about maintaining coherence within a shared conceptual framework.
Hashtags:
#Reality #ConsensusReality #SharedFantasies #PhilosophyOfReality #CommunityDynamics #RealityTesting #HumanConnection #IdeasWorthSharing
Btw: "Common sense" is an abused term, to gaslight people into following insane fantasies....
Absolute reality is not the reality we speak of in psycho analytik language. In this context we speak of a consensus amongst other human beings, sharing a similar fantasy...
Reality is a similar abstraction and concept of reality within limits, that we call "consensus".
Let chatgpt unpack it:
Reality testing is a term most commonly used in psychology, particularly in psychoanalysis and cognitive-behavioral frameworks, to describe the ability to distinguish between what is real (external, shared reality) and what is imagined, distorted, or subjective (internal, private reality). It is often considered a critical component of mental health and cognitive functioning.
Now, in the context of your interest in reality as a concept-and the idea that pure, raw reality is always mediated by abstraction or perception-this adds an interesting layer.
Here’s how to think about it:
The Function of Reality Testing:
In psychology, reality testing assumes that there is an external, shared reality that we can compare our internal perceptions or thoughts against. For instance, a person uses reality testing when they ask themselves, "Is this fear in my head, or is there really something to be afraid of?"
For someone struggling with psychosis or delusions, their reality testing is impaired because they cannot make that distinction between their internal thoughts and the external world.
Reality as Conceptual:
If reality is inherently conceptualized-i.e., always mediated through perception, language, and interpretation-then reality testing is not about accessing a "pure" reality. Instead, it becomes about testing one version or model of reality against a shared, intersubjective one (what a community agrees is real). This shared reality is itself a construction, shaped by culture, language, and consensus.
For example, if a person thinks the sky is green, their reality testing involves comparing their perception with others’ perceptions or with empirical evidence. But even then, the tools for comparison (language, measurements) are abstractions, not the "raw" sky itself.
Implications for Reality Testing as a Concept:
If we accept that reality is always mediated and conceptualized, then the process of reality testing isn't about verifying "pure" reality but about ensuring that our abstractions align with dominant frameworks of understanding (scientific, cultural, etc.).
In this sense, reality testing is less about touching the "real" and more about maintaining coherence with shared or functional models of the world.
In Summary:
Reality testing, as used in psychology, presumes an external reality that can be accessed and compared against our internal states. However, when you start from the premise that reality is always already conceptualized, then reality testing itself becomes a way of managing interpretations of reality rather than accessing an unmediated, pure state of it. It’s not about reaching "reality-in-itself" but about maintaining coherence within a shared conceptual framework.
Hashtags:
#Reality #ConsensusReality #SharedFantasies #PhilosophyOfReality #CommunityDynamics #RealityTesting #HumanConnection #IdeasWorthSharing
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narcissism is everywhere you look for it. it is a swamp. there is no sacred ground for it.
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Disclaimer: if your self image or concept and identity is deeply rooted in biblical truth or Jesus Christ, you might consider skipping this video. It is a radical view on individuation. #personalgrowth #narcissisticabuse #healingjourney #narcissism #psychology #mentalhealth
narcissism can not be stopped, only contained on an individual level.
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Video Description: Explore the fascinating intersection of fantasy and reality in this deep dive into human perception and concepts. Are we trapped in a world shaped by narcissism and fantasy? Is fantasy an intrinsic part of being human? This video challenges the boundaries of what we believe to be real and questions the epidemic of self-centered perspectives in society. What is reality testing...
reacting to Sam Vaknins new Video about Joker 🃏 taking over. I'm still choking.
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Are we fsntastic dreamers? Do we live in coercive concepts, that we want to be liberated from? What even is reality, if family was an artificial concept and what we create otherwise is a fantasy? Do we need less freedom and more force of nature to let us no choice? Or do we surrender to AI powered fantasy like in the movie "Matrix"?
identity is given not taken. No body can receive anymore. the most rebelious thing to do is this
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identity is given not taken. No body can receive anymore. the most rebelious thing to do is this
how much narcissism is healthy? how much agression is healthy? weaponization of lingo?
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Video Description for Your Topic: In this discussion, I explore the boundaries (lol therapeutic language detected) and implications of using therapeutic psychoanalytic language outside professional contexts. What happens when this precise, clinical vocabulary becomes part of everyday speech? While it can foster understanding and emotional insight, it also risks being misused or weaponized-parti...
death drive inflated in cluster B and showing as a form of external regulation?
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The Underlying Mechanisms of Narcissism and Psychopathy: A Theory Let’s take a deeper dive into the roots of narcissism and psychopathy by examining their compensatory mechanisms and emotional foundations. 1. Narcissism as a Compensatory Mechanism for Shame Narcissism, whether overt or covert, can be viewed as a defense mechanism against shame. This overwhelming and life-threatening negative em...
Nietzsche: Philologist, Poet, Philosopher, Psychologist = Dynamite 🔥
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Nietzsche: Philologist, Poet, Philosopher, Psychologist = Dynamite 🔥
1101 Livestream Saturday Announcement Cluster B, You Zee. I like six Zugga in my Tea.
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Join Me Live This Saturday: Exploring Narcissistic, Borderline, and Psychopathic Abuse & Recovery I'm excited to announce a live stream happening this Saturday, where we'll dive deep into topics surrounding narcissistic, borderline, and psychopathic abuse, as well as the journey toward recovery. We'll also explore complex concepts like the death drive, object relations, and much more. This is y...
good object vs. bad object and manipulation.
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good object vs. bad object and manipulation.
Have I therefore become your enemy, because I tell you the truth??
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Galatians 4 King James Version 4 Now I say, That the heir, as long as he is a child, differeth nothing from a servant, though he be lord of all; 2 But is under tutors and governors until the time appointed of the father. 3 Even so we, when we were children, were in bondage under the elements of the world: 4 But when the fulness of the time was come, God sent forth his Son, made of a woman, made...
Grandiosly Diagnosing Psychopath, Narcissist, Borderliner via Observing Object Relationships
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Description: In this video, I explore how Cluster B personality disorders-borderline, narcissistic, and psychopathic-can be diagnosed through their object relationships. By examining the way these personalities relate to external objects, internal objects, and obstacles, we gain valuable insights into their behavior. This psychoanalytic perspective sheds light on understanding these complex per...
Religion, Spirituality, Psychology, Esoteric and Occult knowledge: my POV
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Religion, Spirituality, Psychology, Esoteric and Occult knowledge: my POV
toxic sexuality: death drive, competition, submission, dominance, dissolving, regressing into parent
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toxic sexuality: death drive, competition, submission, dominance, dissolving, regressing into parent
treat other humans the way you want to be treated? what are human traits?
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treat other humans the way you want to be treated? what are human traits?
the Malignant Narcissist uses Sado Masochistic Self Mortification to extract Secondary Supply
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the Malignant Narcissist uses Sado Masochistic Self Mortification to extract Secondary Supply
malignant narcissist appears more evil than high functioning psychopath with surgical precision
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malignant narcissist appears more evil than high functioning psychopath with surgical precision
Death Drive, Libido, Destrudo: Exploring these Concepts with Nietzsches Hammer.
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Death Drive, Libido, Destrudo: Exploring these Concepts with Nietzsches Hammer.
grandiose self is oposing introjected bad object projective identification redirects this war to you
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grandiose self is oposing introjected bad object projective identification redirects this war to you
luciferian spirit of pride: a covert grandiose fantasy of omnipotence to justify evil behaviour.
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luciferian spirit of pride: a covert grandiose fantasy of omnipotence to justify evil behaviour.
Narcissistic Abuse: Real but Unreal | Why It's Seen as Black Magic or Witchcraft
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Narcissistic Abuse: Real but Unreal | Why It's Seen as Black Magic or Witchcraft
speaking the obvious is the most absurd thing to do in 2025: a healthy level of everything.
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speaking the obvious is the most absurd thing to do in 2025: a healthy level of everything.
this is no clickbait. I don't try to bait you and mess with your hopes, dreams, dopamine, future. 🙂🙁
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this is no clickbait. I don't try to bait you and mess with your hopes, dreams, dopamine, future. 🙂🙁
loving kindness: step in the future: outlook for where I go.
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loving kindness: step in the future: outlook for where I go.
is this on? reality testing. evolution is real. we are related to monkeys. or is it just me?
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is this on? reality testing. evolution is real. we are related to monkeys. or is it just me?
dreams, flow state, authenticity vs. acting. why can we dream music if we can't play an Instrument?
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dreams, flow state, authenticity vs. acting. why can we dream music if we can't play an Instrument?
I tried to watch something else. I can't.
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I tried to watch something else. I can't.
Theory crafting: Why History Repeats itself. All Pervaisive Narcissistic Psychopathy
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Theory crafting: Why History Repeats itself. All Pervaisive Narcissistic Psychopathy
ego and fantasy are vital such as the separation of duality is life. abandon to conquer.
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ego and fantasy are vital such as the separation of duality is life. abandon to conquer.
psychopathy equals will to power but it is not the escape from slave morality aka victimhood.
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psychopathy equals will to power but it is not the escape from slave morality aka victimhood.
S Vaknin "Love yourself - Here' how - or, the 4 pillars of self love" published on May 12, 2020, I think this is one of his best videos. I'm sorry, I signed up a month ago and you're already leaving. However, I think you're probably close to healing, since these topics are irritating you and I too have found them a bit too much, a bit too much for a while. It's actually better to focus on what's good for us, rather than wanting to understand these dynamics more and more. Acceptance is the key.
Well said thanks.
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Great explained The lack of Boundaries of cluster B. Can you dive also in the fight or flight and the freeze response. that i always comes to. 😮 Must be a deep seated block. Great thoughts ☀️👍
Makes me wonder whether a narcissist would say this: "It's you that say I am," Jesus said when Pilate asked him, "So you are a king?"
@@justlookalittledeeper9953 thou sayst it 🤔🙃 Jesus is amazing to study.
Always great depth 👁️⛲👁️
We are all created by sosciety, the results of living in a very sick world, one way or another..
I think the human 'malignant fantasy overlay script' is a coping mechanism from recognizing that all humanity is being controlled by a non-human force that is focused on its complete destruction. The individual narcissist is simply a mercenary assigned to the destruction of one individual human at a time. If they fail to destroy you, then they will be reassigned to a new target. That is when you know you have passed the test.
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ua-cam.com/video/uww2eTcLmJc/v-deo.html ...😏🙄 I really wish for us "narcissistic victims"" not to waist precious time anymore ...Precious time that is needed for inner healing and self love ...Send you all beautiful sun energy from Greece 🥰😃💜💜💜❤🔥
I’m addicted to vaknin videos too. He is a very smart and deep man. He makes me think deeply about myself and others. We must rebel against narcissistic values. We must be the change and the love. This is the conclusion that I’ve come up with. I will take my stand. I will trust my intuition. And I will counter-act in whatever small ways I can.
This can transform into art language visions. Yes the the balance of Minimalism & Maximalism Perfection goes for me more leaning to minimalism with object patterns texture colors geometrical abstracts in balance of symmetry in asymmetry Co working in constellation harmony.. sequences * Calibration equilibrium So nothing takes out each Subject object * like a psychological artistic architecture *Modernist * Brutalist * Abstract * surrealist * * Amalgamist * Wizard * * Psycho * Diver * Artist * 🔵🔵🔴🔵🌞🔵🔴🔵🔵 Oscar niemeyer Le Corbusier Marcel breuer
Put on the methaporical hat And see the similarities of the Ant hive🐜🐜🐜🐜🐜🐜🐜 ua-cam.com/video/Bcs3_b3VXSU/v-deo.htmlsi=RApwgKJi3mPfpkvo
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The LEANING TOWER of TRAUMATHON
The narcissist does not have a personality of his own, he molds himself depending on who he finds in front of him. In the love bombing phase he becomes your clone, in fact you are receiving love from yourself and it is so beautiful that you cannot believe it. How can he satisfy your every desire with that surgical precision, if it were not thanks to you? The narcissist does not love, he does not know what to do with love but uses it as a weapon to his advantage. Against narcissism we can use indifference and turn our backs. But how many of us have really met a narcissist?
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Forgot to set an alarm :( I caught the last 3 minutes. Next time...
At some point we do have to let go of analyzing abusers. It’s just we want to understand them as a trauma response. In turn we start asking questions and working thru our own development. The abuse becomes the catalyst for change. Small habits over time change our lives.
@@ashleyalicecullen Thank You. 💯%
Much impressions gets spiraling thougths. You did great 🌟 its great that you have multiple style viewpoints. The esoteric combination inserted makes your skills more unique 🌟👍
I enjoyed it. 🙏
This one will require a few playbacks 👹
woah you went deep my brother! I feel like most of modern society is governed by lower death drive. it takes some seriously aware people to talk about this heavy yet subtle topic. I believe the sexual energy either forces you to awaken or to go to sleep. im in a heavy spiritual battle between the two right now.
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