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If you're into self-improvement, you're in the right place! On this channel, I dive into everything from inner work and mindset to self-love and more. Whether you're looking for advice on relationships (with yourself or others), becoming the best version of you, or making your dream life a reality through mindset and manifestation-I've got you covered. I'd love for you to join the community and be part of this journey!
How To Stop Oversharing: Moving In Silence, Avoiding Their Negativity, Retrain Your Brain
How To Stop Oversharing: Moving In Silence, Avoiding Their Negativity, Retrain Your Brain.
To stop oversharing you must know all of this first. In this video I provide techniques to stop oversharing and explanations on why you should stop, along with why you do it in the first place. Not feeling heard in childhood years can cause you to overshare later on. Inner work is important in your self improvement journey.
Don't forget to like this video and subscribe if you enjoyed!
To stop oversharing you must know all of this first. In this video I provide techniques to stop oversharing and explanations on why you should stop, along with why you do it in the first place. Not feeling heard in childhood years can cause you to overshare later on. Inner work is important in your self improvement journey.
Don't forget to like this video and subscribe if you enjoyed!
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This is such a good tip. Its my first time hearing that theres multiple sides of oversharing (positive or negative). Will def engrave that to my brain and hopefully can make this habit to stop. Thanks!
Thank you ❤ I needed to hear this
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Love your hair 😊
i needed to hear this thank you 💕🧚
I’m glad it was helpful! 🫶
so many amazing tips in this video! what do you think about fake it till you make it in terms of confidence. e.g acting like an extrovert if you are an introvert? thanks
I think that’s actually the best approach! Acting as if, will train your mind to believe it’s normal to act that way. So I absolutely suggest that approach. Maybe I will make a whole video on that
@@reviserefineandrealign a video about that would be so helpful! thanks :)
I've just discovered your channel and watched a few of your videos and they have been so helpful! You are very wise beyond your years. You would make a great psychologist! Keep up the great work, you are definitely making a difference in peoples lives. subbed!
Thank you! Things like this always mean a lot to hear!
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And this is a huge problem within the educational system and how public education is taught. Teaching children they either pass or fail is just teaching people what to think not how to think.
Exactly!
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GOLD ✨️ I especially love the part about successful people thinking I can do it too 😅
Yess! I love that one too
But the problem with that is when something negative happens to you you don't know what to do but the people have thought about what could happen can get on with their life
Waiting for something negative to happen only makes life miserable. Spending 99% of your time worrying about everything so when it goes wrong 1% of the time is a waste of the enjoyment of life. Then when something bad happens if you have practiced thinking positively, you will be able to see the positive aspects around you better to get yourself through it. Instead of letting the bad thing consume you.
Cool video. Are you some type of therapist/ psychologist?
Thank you! And no, everything I know and share on here is what I’ve learned in my own journey of healing throughout the years.
Oh wow! Your wearing glasses now. You weren't wearing glasses in your first two videos. You look really cute wearing glasses, they really suite you. Did you just get glasses or have you had glasses for a while and you just weren't wearing them in those videos? When you talk about confidence do you remember when you got your glasses how you felt wearing them for the first time in front of your friends and family? Wasn't that very scary for you. But once you did it for that first time that fear quickly went away. I'm sure it helped that you probably got quite few really nice complements on how nice you looked wearing glasses didn't you? Funny thing, after that first day or so your wearing glasses was old news and your glasses were no longer a topic. Hopefully when you got your glasses you had several girlfriends that were glasses wearers and that may have been helpful to you as well. You should talk about that first day of wearing glasses in a video. Anyone that has gotten glasses or expecting to be getting glasses would really appreciate hearing how you felt and your emotions. By the way i subscribed to you.
I get what your saying about looking nice as part of building up self confidence in yourself, but at the same time you should want to be the "real" yo and not someone your not. Am I right? I do agree that you wouldn't fit in as well wearing a warmup or jogging outfit to church on a Sunday morning. But at the same time going little casual I think would be okay as opposed to wearing a dress suit.
Your videos have helped me everyday this week
That makes me so happy to hear, I’m glad I could help🫶
This give me hope thanks
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Wish more for yourself, not less for other people.
Absolutely🫶
Thank you Holy Spirit
Love the message and the username ❤
Thank you!!❤️
I do not agree. We should help as beings, and put yourself last. Reason being is that this is your contribution to life. It wont work well, but it is meaningful.
Of course it’s ok to offer help in some cases. But everyone should have boundaries. We have to learn our own lessons. I do not agree that you should ever put yourself last. You can’t truly help others when you ignore all your needs. You can still care for others without neglecting yourself. You felt drawn to this video for a reason, maybe it was a sign. But ultimately it’s your decision of course, sending you love and light 🫶✨
@reviserefineandrealign our regard is to help if we can. Anything else is self preservation.
@@reviserefineandrealign we are made to face those things, and we are responsible for them. Whether or not others will acknowledge this is irrelevant.
This is so true!! I tell myself that my confidence makes others feel more comfortable around me! And it has helped me so much
That’s so true! Being around a confident person always brings out my confidence more, I love that perspective!
Hello glow girl ❤ Im so glad you shared your channel in the gold vault, Thank you.
Hey! Thank you for coming to check it out🫶
thank you for your words. you may have just changed my life and i appreciate you.
That makes me so happy to hear!🫶
Some people can only pick themselves up by pulling others down.
Well done! The same thought jumped into my mind last week. Excellent results ❤
Awesome! Great to hear!❤️
My mind is legit blown
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Finding meaning and fulfillment in life doesn’t come from how we think of ourselves and interact with ourselves. Nor does it come from how everyone else treats us or how much they respect us - that is irrelevant, and focusing on that is a waste of my life. Meaning and fulfillment always comes from what we contribute to the lives of others. At the end of the day, the only two things that matter are to love God with all our hearts, minds, strength, and souls and to love others as we do ourselves.
Here's a third one: treat yourself how you'd treat a good friend ❤️
That’s a great one! Especially for those who struggle with self love 💓
Girl this is one of the most real REELs I’ve eva seen, love n light to you ❤
Thank you❤️ Light and love to you too❤️❤️
From all my experience, this won't work at all.
It’s all about perspective. It took me a long time to get right. I still don’t 100% of the time but I saw the change. But with or without the love or respect of others, we always deserve to love ourselves🫶
Not necessarily true but I understand what you're saying. Personally I think it's a bit too simplistic and ppl are different. For example someone might think saying hi and hugging me is the right thing bc that's what they want but I might not want to be touched.
Others dont treat u how u treat them. They just evil.
The point of this video was me saying treat Yourself how you want others to treat you. But to your point, some people are miserable and try to tear you down but that’s just good practice to learn to not be affected by it. Also if someone believes everyone is bad or most people are, that’s a limiting belief and that’s 100% what you will see. It’s up to each of us to change our negative perspective or the alternative is a life of much more suffering. The fact that more people are more rude when we are having a bad day is proof of this. It’s all about perspective.
My inner self doesnt know how to treat me right. He just keeps calling me worthless and cringe.
Remember that mean voice is not your own, it’s other peoples thoughts and opinions you picked up throughout life. It seems like ourself saying it but if we had no influence of other mean people, we wouldn’t think negatively about ourselves. This thought probably doesn’t take the problem away though. So, I suggest you try out inner work. And also whenever you have a negative thought like that, stop it, don’t just agree with it, say no and affirm the opposite. Something positive instead. Agreeing with or giving into that voice in your head is what starts making other people in your life reflect it too. You’d be suprised to see how much your life will change if you work through your negative beliefs of yourself🫶
Hmm maybe CBT or another type of therapy could help. Otherwise look into inner child work or get a CBT workbook or something on self esteem.
So when your upset, dont talk to others 🤔
Give yourself grace when you are feeling emotional and others will reflect that back to you. Not at all implying you self isolate, just be nice to yourself. We can’t all be perfectly happy and joyful all the time, and that’s ok💗
This is something you don’t hear a lot and it is a big piece of advice!!
Could the same thing be said about failed talking stages I keep going through them and I am getting tired of all the bs
@@kevinsutton7752 yes 100%! I just filmed a video on how to start working through this problem. I will post it tomorrow
Posted if you'd like to watch 😌
The mic level is too low. Or you might need to get a dedicated mic.
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