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Eli! Kindest man on earth!

Dear, I don’t know why, but I always feel touched when I see your videos.

I dont agree with what not to tell the spouse who has been cheated on. They deserve any answer to any question they have, rather it is graphic or not. They deserve to be told the entire truth. Period.

He chose to live in his past and threw it at my face every day without placid us and our future

Good for you men who hurt and abuse women

He lied to me and shut me down so I left him and he divorced me because he did not want to do it my way and he chose to do it his way

Little boy will be boys and never grow up

He chose to look at pornography and have his affairs when I needed him most

I refuse to live with a compulsive liar and deceiver

I don’t choose to live with a Pathological liar!

I am not fully known by my X

I did not get this from my X

Eli thank you so much for this great insight to healing and changing our thinking

My boyfriend likes to chat up escorts and he used to go out with them often and he hits all these woman up sends photos acts like he's a whole ass single man. It's disturbing . I can't trust him anymore I thought he only had eyes for me and I feel like a fucking stupid ass now majorly . And when I try to talk to him about this he just lies . I have hard evidence screen shots and he trys to turn it around and get upset with me that I looked in his phone n well I would be using it and see something odd and I would click on it and theren the shit was right there. Would you consider him a sex addict ?

I learned more with this video than in 6 months of therapy- so grateful! Thank you

38 years of marriage, then found out my husband DIDN'T have a low sex drive, i was second or third in line for his affections, emotions, time and attention. The withdrawal and emotional abuse in the two years before discovery were...intense 😢. For 8 months i have been going through drip drip drip discovery, and he has been slowly coming around to the extent of the pain and damage his choices and behaviours have caused ive watched a LOT of videos...YOURS does the best job of describing the things i grieve of ANY i have seen. SPOT ON!!!

Thank you sir for teaching such a complex matter in simple terms.

Solid.period. from the wife of a husband in early sobriety - for both of us.

Despite growing up in an oppressively conservative culture, I've never felt a sense of _shame_ when it comes to sex. What I _have_ always felt is the socially conditioned sense of never being good enough that comes from growing up a fat, nerdy, _non-Mormon in Salt Lake City, Utah._ Thus, in addition to the physical pleasure (and cocktail of "feel good" hormones) that sex offers, being allowed _intimate access to another person_ satisfies a desperate, lifelong need for _validation_ that I constantly crave. Unfortunately, I've come to appreciate that even _legal and consensual_ sex can become so "sociologically complicated" that, in many cases, the pay-off simply isn't worth the risk to my job, family, friendships...up to and including my life itself. Thus, while sexual _thoughts_ are still constantly there (even if only in the background), I focus on the _validating knowledge_ that there are people in the world who _would be only too happy_ to have sex with me, _but_ the "practical logistics" will keep it from ever being as good in _reality_ as it is in my _mind._ This helps to minimize any triggers, _and_ the boundary that keeps me from the ritual of _planting conversational seeds_ is...ironically enough...the kind of social isolation that led to the problem in the first place. The differences are (1) I am the one _choosing_ to stay home because, (2) I have a wife and kids there who love me and whom I love very much, and (3) time _not_ spent with _them_ is _far_ too high a price for whatever validation I may find elsewhere.

Spot on. I’m so fed up with “when are you going to get over it!”

I see the effects while trying to run a business. Fear and decision making.

I thank God for putting you in my life, you are the only one that has explained how exactly I feel during my marriage and after spliting up.

Thank you sir, a year after separation I am still understanding alot from my husband. This hit me really bad I was felt like I wasn't enough.

Great show. My band and I professionally produced a song in Chicago that we posted today on UA-cam that sheds light on betrayal trauma and sexual addiction. Please click on the sleeping tiger to the left and it will take you right to the song. Thank you for listening, if you do.

Every time I relapse I’m getting high and run into the arms of strangers i fall in “ love” for few hours up to 24 hours and after that it all ends but mostly ever time same thing happens over and over… any information would help ty

That’s was great

Give it to God. You are stereotyping things that you have no idea what their home life was like

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Wow incredible! This video is old but it nips all the things I needed to know about mind health. I am sharing this with others!

I have not previously heard of the initial shame feeling as a precursor to kicking off the whole cycle. That describes me to a tee. Thanks for the insights.

Exactly how I feel. So painful.

None of it was real. Because he was never there. You can't connect with someone you are betraying so there was no conncetion. He cheated me out of all my memories too.

He couldn't wet her whistle. Not my problem

searching for this video triggered me to act out not gonna lie

Each module is available each week after purchase, one module each week. So to see all the modules will take six weeks. I have not put all these on UA-cam yet but will by January 2021. I will be closing down that site by April 2021. I hope this helps.

I purchased this series on your website because I loved the series and didn't see the third module on UA-cam. The problem is after I purchased it, only the first module was available!! Do you know when the others are going to be posted for access? Thank you!

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Keep up the good work. The enemy is really working in society and using peoples ignorance on this against people. Thank you for making it practical, clear and simple. Keep up the good work.

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I see the pain I caused in my wife. I made a huge mistake. I won't do it again. I had an affair in another country, and stopped going there. I stopped looking at the nude pictures that gave me the fantasies. I don't have any desire for sex anymore. Do I have to be labeled an addict?

Add also points of isolation as well from everyone. At times paralyzed an extremely hard to move to do anything. Hard to trust when they do say something to you right after you said something an they didn't say it before you had said something so don't beleave them not genuine. Policeing behavior. Anger outbursts due to extreme hurt an loneliness fell no love at all an extreme emptiness. An not do as much around the house or anything. An raised my blood pressure up to 150/120 due to the extream hurt.

This was so powerful I started crying and feeling myself soothe deeply I appreciate it

Wow this is exactly how I've felt. It has been a horrible 4 yrs and we are now getting a divorce. He doesn't care and is not willing to get help. Its going to be a long road of healing but at least I'm free from it and can move on to a happier healthy life.

Thank you, I cried so much....

Please make more videos. You are a very great speaker and I would love more on the scientist, the monkey, and the crocodile. You are down to earth and you have so much empathy in your voice and you are right about keeping things hidden.... it really makes the partners 1. You can defend your spouse or your secrets, and the difference is who your back is turned to and your sword is facing.... you protect what you love. if your secrets are behind you, that’s what you protect and that’s what you love... and your sword is left facing your spouse. You make your spouse your enemy which how many times have you heard an addict or spouse of say they felt like they were made to be the enemy or “bad guy” and didn’t understand .

Compassion is a better word . my porn addict husband has no compassion for me he bullies & blames me instead

Tears came down my face when I saw myself as a child. So precious and innocent and special. I told her no matter what anyone does- she will always be special and beautiful.