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'Mementoes of Love' & 'Notes from Alienated Parents to Minister of Justice' - ACF Ireland
This video contains photographs of mementoes of love by alienated parents and notes from them to the Irish Minister of Justice and her Department supporting the progressive work in Ireland to address Parental Alienation that negatively effects children (and parents, grandparents) throughout every corner of Ireland (and the World)
Parental Alienation has been described by the Present Irish Minister of Justice Helen McEntee as “a situation when a child’s resistance or hostility towards one parent is not justified and is the result of psychological manipulation by the other parent.” Previously no Irish Minister even acknowledged that Parental Alienation even existed yet the problems caused by its existance continue climbing. Lifelong trauma for alienated children (and parents) is well known and researched yet no legislation or social services are in place to address this awful form of child abuse & coercive control. Alienated Children First are a parent's led NGO who hope to change this and influence Ireland to intervene and stop parental alienation through legislation, effective services, education and awareness.
Parental Alienation has been described by the Present Irish Minister of Justice Helen McEntee as “a situation when a child’s resistance or hostility towards one parent is not justified and is the result of psychological manipulation by the other parent.” Previously no Irish Minister even acknowledged that Parental Alienation even existed yet the problems caused by its existance continue climbing. Lifelong trauma for alienated children (and parents) is well known and researched yet no legislation or social services are in place to address this awful form of child abuse & coercive control. Alienated Children First are a parent's led NGO who hope to change this and influence Ireland to intervene and stop parental alienation through legislation, effective services, education and awareness.
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Mementoes of Love for Your Alienated Children on Intl. PAA Bubbles of Love Day - ACF Ireland
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International Parental Alienation Awareness Day (Bubbles of Love Day) is marked to make the World aware of the hidden child abuse and coercive control that is hidden in society. Where a child is coercively weaponised to be in fear or even hate their other non abusive loving parent Mother or Father or even Grandparent by usually the custodial parent. This is how we are marking this important day...
Highlighting Parental Alienation on Intl. PAA Bubbles of Love Day with Memento of Love ACF Ireland
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International Parental Alienation Awareness Day (Bubbles of Love Day) is marked to make the World aware of the hidden child abuse and coercive control that is hidden in society. Where a child is coercively weaponised to be in fear or even hate their other non abusive loving parent Mother or Father or even Grandparent by usually the custodial parent. This is how we are marking this important day...
Alienated Children First are posting photos of "Mementos of Love" to ACF Facebook Page for PAA day
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Step 1 . Photograph Memento of Love (Toy etc) at Location of your Choice Step 2. Add Caption or Note if You like Step 3. Send Photo and Caption by messenger to Alienated Children First facebook Page Parental Alienation has been described by the Present Irish Minister of Justice Helen McEntee as “a situation when a child’s resistance or hostility towards one parent is not justified and is the re...
Virtual Christmas Tree for Alienated Children to remember them by as they are dearly missed ACF Ire
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Christmas and Holidays times are the loveliest and happiest days for so many families but unfortunately, there are a minority of Loving Parents unjustifiably entrapped by Parental alienation abuse where Christmas is the opposite - a very sad time grieving for their living child/ren the opposite of what it should be. Many of these alienated parents do not even get to see their children or even g...
Parental Alienation there is hope in Ireland
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Parental Alienation has been described by the Present Irish Minister of Justice Helen McEntee as “a situation when a child’s resistance or hostility towards one parent is not justified and is the result of psychological manipulation by the other parent.” Previously no Irish Minister even acknowledged that Parental Alienation even existed yet the problems caused by its existance continue climbin...
Why is this Irish Girl Alienated - reasons why and how to help address it in Ireland and elsewhere
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Parental Alienation has been described by the Present Irish Minister of Justice Helen McEntee as “a situation when a child’s resistance or hostility towards one parent is not justified and is the result of psychological manipulation by the other parent.” Previously no Irish Minister even acknowledged that Parental Alienation even existed yet the problems caused by its existance continue climbin...
Why is this Irish Girl Alienated - reasons why and how to help address it in Ireland and elsewhere
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Parental Alienation has been described by the Present Irish Minister of Justice Helen McEntee as “a situation when a child’s resistance or hostility towards one parent is not justified and is the result of psychological manipulation by the other parent.” Previously no Irish Minister even acknowledged that Parental Alienation even existed yet the problems caused by its existance continue climbin...
Alienated Children First
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Parental Alienation has been described by the Present Irish Minister of Justice Helen McEntee as “a situation when a child’s resistance or hostility towards one parent is not justified and is the result of psychological manipulation by the other parent.” Previously no Irish Minister even acknowledged that Parental Alienation even existed yet the problems caused by its existance continue climbin...
Alienated Children First
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Parental Alienation has been described by the Present Irish Minister of Justice Helen McEntee as “a situation when a child’s resistance or hostility towards one parent is not justified and is the result of psychological manipulation by the other parent.” Previously no Irish Minister even acknowledged that Parental Alienation even existed yet the problems caused by its existance continue climbin...
Alienated Girl - A video promoting Parental Alienation using an unique Art Piece about its abuse
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Auction of “The Alienated Girl” a unique piece of Art by renowned Irish artist Bernadette Anderson Alienated Children First Ireland has generously been donated a painting titled 'The Alienated Girl' to support our work to eradicate parental alienation. This artwork will be auctioned online, starting/opening bid beginning September 22nd, 2023 through Facebook Alienated Children First Ireland (AC...
The Alienated Girl - A video promoting Parental Alienation using an unique Art Piece about its abuse
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Auction of “The Alienated Girl” a unique piece of Art by renowned Irish artist Bernadette Anderson Alienated Children First Ireland has generously been donated a painting titled 'The Alienated Girl' to support our work to eradicate parental alienation. This artwork will be auctioned online, starting/opening bid beginning September 22nd, 2023 through Facebook Alienated Children First Ireland (AC...
Reconnecting with your Alienated Child - Practical tips of what to do when you get the chance
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Parental Alienation has been described by the Present Irish Minister of Justice Helen McEntee as “a situation when a child’s resistance or hostility towards one parent is not justified and is the result of psychological manipulation by the other parent.” The parent can be a Mother or Father and the child can be a Daughter or Father so parental alienation is genuinely non gendered abuse. Many Pa...
Bubbles of Love Day - What to do in Ireland to mark International Parental Alienation Awareness Day
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Bubbles of Love day marks awareness about Parental Alienation, this video highlights what you can do on 25th April in Ireland, it also outlines the pain of parental alienation, why it needs to be addressed and what the Irish Government can do to address it. This video is especially important as the Irish Department is presently writing up a report on research and consultation it has undertaken ...
"You don't know my Child" Poem for Bubbles of Love Day (International Parental Alienation Awareness)
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"You don't know my Child" Poem for Bubbles of Love Day (International Parental Alienation Awareness)
Alienated Parents send their Christmas Messages to their Kids who they are stopped from contacting
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Alienated Parents send their Christmas Messages to their Kids who they are stopped from contacting
Alienated Parents create special XmasTree for Alienated Children who unjustifiably dont see mum/dad
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Alienated Parents create special XmasTree for Alienated Children who unjustifiably dont see mum/dad
Webinar 13b Barrister Caroline Langley on Parental Alienation & Child Abduction Part 2
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Webinar 13b Barrister Caroline Langley on Parental Alienation & Child Abduction Part 2
The Avenue of Light, Virginia, Co. Cavan Irl - Hearts of Love Christmas Tree for Alienated Children
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The Avenue of Light, Virginia, Co. Cavan Irl - Hearts of Love Christmas Tree for Alienated Children
Hearts of Love at Christmas time for Alienated Children in Ireland - Avenue of Light Virgina, Cavan
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Hearts of Love at Christmas time for Alienated Children in Ireland - Avenue of Light Virgina, Cavan
Webinar 13a - Barrister Caroline Langley on Parental Alienation & Child Abduction Part 1
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Webinar 13a - Barrister Caroline Langley on Parental Alienation & Child Abduction Part 1
Webinar 12 - Deanielle Dawra: Reuniting Families using Technology
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Webinar 12 - Deanielle Dawra: Reuniting Families using Technology
Webinar 11 Parental Alienation & False Allegations - Psychologist Dr Alan Blotcky & Kenn Joyce (ACF)
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Webinar 11 Parental Alienation & False Allegations - Psychologist Dr Alan Blotcky & Kenn Joyce (ACF)
Irish Alienated Father tells Neil Prendeville Cork's Radio REDFM Parental Alienation destroys Lives
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Irish Alienated Father tells Neil Prendeville Cork's Radio REDFM Parental Alienation destroys Lives
Webinar 10 - Dr Denise McCartan Clinical Psychologist in conversation with Kenn Joyce
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Webinar 10 - Dr Denise McCartan Clinical Psychologist in conversation with Kenn Joyce
Webinar 9 - Erin Pizzey in conversation with Kenn Joyce ACF -
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Webinar 9 - Erin Pizzey in conversation with Kenn Joyce ACF -
Coping Positively with Parental Alienation for Bubbles of Love Day Alienated Children First
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Coping Positively with Parental Alienation for Bubbles of Love Day Alienated Children First
"You don't know my Child" Poem for Bubbles of Love Day (International Parental Alienation Awareness)
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"You don't know my Child" Poem for Bubbles of Love Day (International Parental Alienation Awareness)
Kenn Joyce in conversation with Mary O'Flaherty Connemara Community Radio about Parental Alienation
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Kenn Joyce in conversation with Mary O'Flaherty Connemara Community Radio about Parental Alienation
Why do you idiots keep saying “the father alienating the mother”???? Women get full custody a majority of the time! What planet are you guys from? Betas males !!!
True that
I would appreciate the email address and the 17 strategies please. I have spent many hours aquiring information on this topic in order to understand what has caused so much pain and the loss of family and friends.We not familiar with PA, until until it destroyed our lives, so I appreciate your accurate information and that that it is in accord Dr Childress who I have found to have an excellent understanding of this topic in his 20 years of research, however I have never heard a true proffessional address the situation that occured in my family. All that is proffesionally understood to be the evidence of PA has taken place and the fall out has been devastating, however, the'' malicious mother' which we had never heard of until her mission was accomplished, had planned her strategy for at least 5 year, then upon leaving the family home with the teenage children 14 and 15 yrs old, she went to the court and took out a 50B, that would last for 3 years, which meant that my son could not speak to her to try to make some sence of the situaton and was prohibited from speaking to his children, who were saying the most horrible things about their father, they now dispise him and call him by his first name, if they ever mention him at all, the mother married as soon as the divorce was finalize, the children were promptly abandoned and are still floundering. As their grandmother, they refused to acknowledge me. I saw them twice a yeaIr and spoke with them for less than one minute each time only to say I loved them and please call me when you can, and thanked them when they said that they would but they never did. I was finally unblocked on face book and took advantage of the avenue to say hello and ask how they were, after 3 months of very occasional texts we have visited with each other twice, and have a visit next week where I invited then to stay over as we are having my daughter and her children come to visit, this will be their first visit with family in 4 1/2 years. Humility, Patience, I imagine assured them that I was completely agreeable to not speaking about their father or the situation. The greatest problem is that the children, while willing to speak to me andare begining to treat me once more as grama, one of them has just told their father when he called her at work, that if he calls her again she would put a 50B on him! she said it with such hatred!!! Thanks to you and those who are sharing this information we now have and understanding of what has happened , however.... this 50b prevents my son from being in contact with his childrne, we have no phone numbers only FB contact, I am no longer blocked but my son their father is, and could only call his daughter at her place of employment. Sorry this is so long, I see where this is not too different from the worst possible case of PA, however this 50B prevents any way of contacting these two teens who are now 19 and 20 years old and are thinking as they have been programed to. Do you have any suggestions based on the fact that my son could very likely be arrested based on another serious accusation, the threat of another 50B which could make it even longer than it could otherwise be to make any contact. Also do you think that their reaching out to me is a first step to having the courage to ultimately reach out to their father? If you have been kind enough to read this far I truly thank you and would appreciate any response you might make. Sincerely, Sandra Maher
So according to these delusional experts Child Abuse does not exist and no one should waste any time teying to investigate it. The Child is lying. The Abuser is not.
15:20 "Don't take the bait" " if you respond with normal human teactions, you are inadvertently reinforcing the lie..." EVERYONE is being abused by the alienator. Targeted parents are held to a different standard.
what is the email to email you for that list of 17 strategies?
may I have one of those lists? thx
Taken from one of Alan Blotcky's articles on the subject (he's of course refined further since then): 'There are 5 common beliefs that motivate a parent to lodge a false allegation of abuse against the other parent. If any of these beliefs are discovered, the allegation of abuse is likely false. 1. "If you don't want me, you don't get your child either." 2. "I'm scared our child will love you more than me and will want to live with you." 3. "I hate you and I want to exact revenge on you." 4. "I need my child too much to tolerate you having an ongoing relationship." 5. "Our child has a stepparent now and you are not needed."'
Thank you, Dr. Harman. Your work and information has been very helpful to me ❤ My daughter is going to be 21 years old.I have NEVER had a say in her entire life 😢 My mother, her grandmother, made sure my child learned to disrespect me. I am a subordinate to my daughter. She is severely alienated from me. I am so distraught and sickened over this. I don't know what to do. My daughter presently will not speak to me. She resides with the alienating grandmother. I would appreciate any advice for helping my daughter and I to reunite. If possible, to form the bond again her grandmother broke between us/never allowed to form. I am in desperation to get my daughter help. I also need my own specified tx to cope with allowing further abuse into my life and my own emotional pain. I pray my child can heal. I hope her animosity towards me will change. I am heartbroken without her in my life. This has been happening since she was a little girl. I have lost my entire biological family because of my mother's manipulation. I watch my mother tell false truths to everyone. She doesn't even realize she is lying at this point. I am so devastated. It is unbearable to watch my daughter suffer and blame the wrong person. Thank you 💕
I love you my daughter. You may not respond to my messages but I know you read them. It's been over three years since I last saw you but I will always love you as dad would to his daughter. 😌
Keep going and stay with us. Do it for her-and-so her alienator doesn't win.
Family court is a misnomer; It should be called the State cartel since it has the therapists, GALs, lawyers, clown in a black robe aka judge and uniformed thugs aka cops to bankrupt the father while using the excuse of “best interest of the child”. In the US, the state benefits by getting 3 $ for every $ extracted from the dad as a non custodial parent. So the courts are incentivized to keep the father away from the children. One sees the outcomes in the number of children without dads in the home going crazy and the girls having kids - themselves while being teenagers.
That's a long wait for some to endure until the kids are adults. Grandparents are often dead and buried. Cousins have grown up. As you said, some parents have also died... Evil people, causing generational trauma.
Judiciary are obviously pedo files because they could stop it. Feeds trafficking, drugs, addictions.
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Interesting there is NO mention of ESTRANGEMENT!
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Happy Christmas to all our children and parents that are separated may we all reconnect soon keep smiling and strong ❤
So sad that it's come to this. Coercive control and parental alienation need to be enforced by the police and criminal courts. It's the only way to stop the abuse.
It's hard to believe that parental alienation is not taught to psychotherapists, psychologists etc in Ireland,.....especially as it's so clear to everybody else. All you need is common sense to be aware that it is happening. Yet it is recognised in the US and taken very seriously?
Thank you.
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Zero chance of them holding women accountable
Alienators will not accept any therapy for reunification let alone on themselves because they truely believe they are doing the right thing, or rather they talk talk themselves into believing what they are doing is right.
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What a fantastic breakthrough! How can we follow this in England? My heart goes out to all other parents apart from their precious children. It's the worst torture, I know. Keep going 🙏❤️
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Children should not bear the brunt of failed marraige. By practicing SharedParenting, a happy child can be raised in two different happy homes. Dear all seperated parents, if you genuinely love your children then keep them first and practice SharedParenting and don't let ParentalAlienation erase half of child's family and make him semi-orphaned.
Great initiative, and a relevant motive to be inspired from dealing with this kind of destructive child-, and former spouse-abuse.
Thank you for sharing #ParentalAlienation is child abuse
Thanks for the thoughtful discussion. I'm wondering about the evidence for stating that children realize the truth at about 17-18 and that the prognosis is good for alienated parents-- from my reading, PA causes persistent changes in the child's capacity for critical thought equivalent to brainwashing and the odds of realizing the truth are low if the alienating parent is still in their lives.
Parental Alienation is Child Abuse, The Psychological Abuse of the Innocence of a Child by Coercive Parents.
He is right
In what walk of life is 'convincing' a viable solution? The parent is writing letters to try and convince the alienated child that the parent loves the child. What science says that this works?
WTF is this? If shitty parents don't abuse their kids in one way or another, then how will the oligarchs and the world writ large have an endless supply of cheap labor, criminals, drug addicts, and prostitutes?! Duh!
My ex tried to tell my teenage daughters they can never see or speak to their father ever again. Missing since 2018. Ages 20,17,16
Women should take responsibility for allowing abusive men to impregnate them and their friends, because the guy is tall and doesn't listen to authorities. Don't be a 304. Simply ways to tell if a man will abuse you...does he conciously and willingly drive over the speed limit while you are in his car? 5 mph over doesn't indicate an abusive partner, but 10+ mph over speed regularily is a sign that he doesn't care about your well being or his own. Does he get mad when you spill water on him at the table, or laugh it off? Few abusers take kindly to having water dumped on them, go ahead next time you are sitting down for dinner with a potential partner knock the cup of water over. Should tell you everything you need to know about the man sitting down to dinner with you.
You’re not going to save anyone, stop white knighting. Women know when men are shitty, they just don’t care because it gives them the “tingles” Stop absolving them of responsibility
Very good interview with some important points raised. I think using the story of Medea to describe why alienators do what they do may not be the most accurate way to put it. Many times the alienated parent need not have run off with another woman (or man) or done anything else wrong or bad for the alienator to go on the attack. If there's a significant level of pathological narcissism present in the alienator, then simply setting boundaries with them, or civilly objecting to being used as a emotional punchbag may trigger them to attack and begin alienating the kids. I'm aware some people believe parental alienation occurs as a kind of overreaction by the alienator to having being wronged by their partner. This is definately not always the case. No one is a saint but in many cases the alienated parent has a pretty clean track record. It's important to keep that clear imo.
People who deny the existence of alienation is gaslighting. Which is ironic isn't it? As gaslighting and parental alienation is a tool used by narcissists. Narcissists are more likely to do the alienating!
It's ironic isnt it .. that the ones who do understand it are the ones who have been alienated but we need scientists to give credibility for what we're saying because we're otherwise not believed. I appreciate the researchers and scientists who are working on this
Beautiful. May God Bless you!
Im destroyed and im a grandma
Reflecting on inter generational splitting I realise that people who have been unfortunate to be caught in a religious cult that encourages behaviour like shunning are set up for enacting parental alienation
but there is no consensus.
Jennifer is actively lying and concealing the fact that she is highly paid expert witness.
Jennifer makes a ton of money as an expert witness.
Jennifer knows very little about domestic abuse. The interviewer seems more knowledgeable than her.
No “Alienated Children” UA-cam page. He doesn’t care he wants money. When I reached out to him a few months ago he was rude & only cared about getting $4k help me lay out my timeline. I’m a victim of extreme PA. He’s writing a paper about PA yet couldn’t care about any detail except getting $4k when he made that clear pretty early on I did not reply or want anything to do with him and he continued to be rude and act as a bully. FFS.
Did you not watch the video? Skip to 8:20…
What did you expect? These PA lawyers are preying on parents because they know they can get them to cough up a lot of $$$ since PA sells like 'hot cake' these days in Family Court. Personally I don't believe the PA allegations because they are brought up against a parent is being protective of his / her child.
What was the website?
alienated.ie ?
For that reason alone, it’s actionable