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Watch this.. if you are trying to move on from a BREAKUP
If you just had a breakup... chances are you are trying your best to move on from this as fast as possible.
You go and do several things in the process of "MOVING ON"... But all these things are just external coping mechanisms to distract you from feeling all the pain on the inside.
It's like you don't want to feel any pain, shame, guilt, anger, and all the negative emotions post-breakup, so you distract yourself with external stuff like aggressive self-improvement, spirituality, meditation, letting go, etc..
But all of this doesn't matter if you don't want to feel the intense pain on the inside. It's like instead of feeling the pain and letting go, you are just running away from the pain.
Moving on too quickly doesn't work as it takes time to heal.
When you try to move on too quickly, it's like you get a bruise/cut/wound and are trying to heal it in 3 seconds...
I mean, you can heal that fast if you are WOLVERINE....but you know it takes some time for your wounds to heal... and that's the same thing when it comes to your heart.
So overcome your fear of facing your inner demons and feel the pain to the fullest. It's only when you feel it to the fullest you have the ability to let go of it completely.
Because if you don't feel all the pain and let it all out, it will be buried in your subconscious mind. And when you enter into a new relationship without healing from your past relationship TRAUMA, it will manifest as other issues in your new relationships.
It will give you insane trust issues with your new partner, and make you compare this relationship with your past relationships...(If you do that, guess what... you are still not over your ex)
Or worse,...your new relationships will also follow the same pattern as the previous one because you have not completely healed from it.
So feel all the pain, anger, hate, shame, guilt, apathy, envy, etc.. Feel them to the fullest, cry, scream and take time to heal, it's ABSOLUTELY OKAY for you to do so and eventually LET GO of them.
But make sure you never cry over the same issue ever again.
It's like you are completely over the pain and made peace with your past.
And when anyone mentions the most intense moments of your relationship, you don't feel any pain or react emotionally...it's just information/news to you.
But you still cherish the best memories and are over the pain and discomfort faced during that relationship.
And in the end, you have no regrets.
You go and do several things in the process of "MOVING ON"... But all these things are just external coping mechanisms to distract you from feeling all the pain on the inside.
It's like you don't want to feel any pain, shame, guilt, anger, and all the negative emotions post-breakup, so you distract yourself with external stuff like aggressive self-improvement, spirituality, meditation, letting go, etc..
But all of this doesn't matter if you don't want to feel the intense pain on the inside. It's like instead of feeling the pain and letting go, you are just running away from the pain.
Moving on too quickly doesn't work as it takes time to heal.
When you try to move on too quickly, it's like you get a bruise/cut/wound and are trying to heal it in 3 seconds...
I mean, you can heal that fast if you are WOLVERINE....but you know it takes some time for your wounds to heal... and that's the same thing when it comes to your heart.
So overcome your fear of facing your inner demons and feel the pain to the fullest. It's only when you feel it to the fullest you have the ability to let go of it completely.
Because if you don't feel all the pain and let it all out, it will be buried in your subconscious mind. And when you enter into a new relationship without healing from your past relationship TRAUMA, it will manifest as other issues in your new relationships.
It will give you insane trust issues with your new partner, and make you compare this relationship with your past relationships...(If you do that, guess what... you are still not over your ex)
Or worse,...your new relationships will also follow the same pattern as the previous one because you have not completely healed from it.
So feel all the pain, anger, hate, shame, guilt, apathy, envy, etc.. Feel them to the fullest, cry, scream and take time to heal, it's ABSOLUTELY OKAY for you to do so and eventually LET GO of them.
But make sure you never cry over the same issue ever again.
It's like you are completely over the pain and made peace with your past.
And when anyone mentions the most intense moments of your relationship, you don't feel any pain or react emotionally...it's just information/news to you.
But you still cherish the best memories and are over the pain and discomfort faced during that relationship.
And in the end, you have no regrets.
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What are your qualifications?
Bro are from psychology background?
If a healthy family's childern get good grade, good boy/good girl types then in my case I'm exceptional. I used to be a good girl although my school life but I've faced tremendous toxicity from my family. I hate my parents for treating me like that 😔 I was a child idk how ppl can say toxic words/ behave like that with a child . But still I'm facing this. I want to go out from home ..oh actually this is not "home" to me anymore. I always always spent my childhood in fear that if I didn't anything wrong, now they will scream on me ...I was very very very silent throughout my childhood.. still now. But I have zero even minus self confidence, I can't talk to anyone properly. I feel very very low and I'm suffering from depression and anxiety inferiority complex.
Now I'm graduate with zero confidence zero bank balance zero skills zero experience I can't go out from this house...feeling so stuck always 😭😭😭💔💔💔
So beautiful video this is i have childhood trauma i live in toxic fmly how to overcome childhood trauma pls tell me somtiems i have suicidal thought in my mind bcuz pf this i am just 19 😢
😢can you find someone who can listen...
Same, you tube suggest this video. Happy to listen to a beautiful mind. Well done. Thank you❤
Hey man, I am a victim of childhood trauma.I am seeing a therapist from past 1 year but it isn't working out for me.Your line "Your primary motive in life is SURVIVAL. Not to score well, perform well, or do well in school but to SURVIVE." really resonated with me. I have become like a goalkeeper who is just defending the goalpost. Instead i want to be that forward player and score some goals.But my inner demons are pushing me back. Show me some path man.
UA-cam suggested me that video and i really needed it thank you man definitely subscribing ❤
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right
Rare and appreciable thoughts from an youngster.. Kudos
Keep pushing you can do it 💪🏼
Great advice
Can you guide me brother?
thank you
Nice video bro ! The way you feel about yourself is key.
Very nicely put ❤
Amazing video
True regret sucks , really nice video 💫
thank you i needed this
Man: Your content is so impressive, and you will continue to grow on UA-cam over time. Just keep uploading. Best of luck to you.
Thank you for the kind words. Really appreciate it!!🙏
All the best haresh! Really liked your content and videos.
This is good❤
You are doing a good job. Drop the fake accent. Go with your natural language n accent.....more authentic and it will help you be more relatable.
I try to walk to the forest everyday, just came back from a meditation under the tree. Bless you
That's so amazing! Thanks for watching :')!
You still didnt answered me, how old are you? Because you are so wise. Thank you for your work.
Hey, I'm 24 btw, Thanks for watching!
Vibrational resonance or quantum physics, are concepts developed centuries later. The Holy Bible says, 1. "As a man thinketh in his heart, so is he" (Proverbs 23:7). This verse suggests that our thoughts and beliefs shape our being and experiences. 2. "The power of life and death is in the tongue" (Proverbs 18:21). This verse implies that our words and thoughts have creative power. 3. "Faith can move mountains" (Matthew 17:20). This verse highlights the potential of faith and belief to shape reality. 4. "God is a spirit, and those who worship Him must worship in spirit and truth" (John 4:24). This verse emphasizes the importance of aligning our spirits and thoughts with God's truth. In short, our thoughts, beliefs, and faith can influence our experiences and shape our reality.
Thank you for your sharing
This is one of the lessons i've been learning this year, thank you for this video
Thanks mate!, needed this advice!
How old are you and how long ago have you woke up?
Keep going bro I support you.
Inner resistance is due to negativity in mind. Mind suddenly distrubed. Overthinking.
Video is good. Can't face the villain, only mind stops thoughts, we can be in present moment, &think in reality.. To me mind wandering, can't focus. What to do?
Nice video bro keep going
Interesting video. Thank you so much!
Thank you
'Stoicism' is the word if you want to consize it into a single word
beautiful!!
thank you for the wisdom, keep it up!
This is actually helpful. Thank you!! Looking forward to more vids of something like this
Message of Love and Self... Shining from the Inside. Blessings 💖🕊️🤍🖤🪽
Kahan se ho bhai aap.
Where did you film this Haresh
Thank you❤
Thank you for the wisdom!
But what if you're stuck in that survival mode?
Hey, thanks you for watching! Here's a video on how to get out of survival mode: ua-cam.com/video/KD_9tRUpq34/v-deo.html
Keep uploading brother ! , soon u are going to get a lot of audiences
Thank you for the reminder.