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Are You Feeling Ignored? Time For Healthier Communication With Your Partner
Brianna Carey Interview | Full Interview | Discussing why you are feeling ignored by your partner but here are some tips to have healthier communication in your love life.
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Brianna joins us to speak share how to make your marriage healthy while raising children. She shares her own story of working to get it right and why communication is so important. We discuss the power of active listening and listening to understand not to respond.
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She shares her own story of working to get it right and why communication is so important to stop ignoring your spouse and their feelings in a marriage. Ignoring your spouse's feelings can create other problems in the relationship that can't be ignored. She shares her own story of working to get it right and why communication is so important to stop ignoring your spouse and their feelings in a marriage. We discuss the power of active listening to overcome when your spouse disregards your feelings. Remember to share and follow to keep up-to-date with all episodes. #behindtheshades #dating #podcast
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He Stole My Money! How To Identify If Your Partner Is Using You
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Michelle Hill Interview | Part One | Discussing being robbed of money by someone pretending to love you and how to find out the true intentions of your partner. Book A Coaching Session Today www.behindtheshades.ca Michelle returns to speak to us about the pain of being abused by her ex husband. We also shared stories about how friendships can be more toxic than toxic romances. I highlight why s...
I Am Having Trouble Dating. How To Pick The Right Partner For You
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Melanie Trupp Interview | Full Interview | Discussing the problems of the dating market and what is preventing you from picking the right partner for you. Book A Coaching Session Today www.behindtheshades.ca Melanie shares tips to understanding your value as a woman when finding love. She speak to us about how we all have a choice in the type of relationships we get. Dating with intent isn't ea...
I Am Feeling Ignored In My Marriage. Is Sharing Your Emotions Difficult?
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Brianna Carey Interview | Part Two | Discusses why we feel we are complaining too much and what you can do to share your feelings effectively. Book A Coaching Session Today www.behindtheshades.ca Brianna joins us to speak share how to make your marriage healthy while raising children. She shares her own story of working to get it right and why communication is so important. We discuss the power...
Can The Problem Be Fixed? Your Partner Is Avoiding Responsibility
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Rhonda Farrah Interview | Full Interview | Understanding if the problem in the relationship can be fixed and the importance of learning responsibility with your partner. Book A Coaching Session Today www.behindtheshades.ca Rhonda speaks to us about her struggles moving out of a victim mentality and how not focusing on yourself is a problem. We discussed understanding the role in our difficultie...
Stuck In A Victim Mindset. How To Find Peace Within The Relationship
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Melanie Trupp Interview | Part Two | Discussing the dangers of being stuck in a victim mentality and how to find peace with your partner. Book A Coaching Session Today www.behindtheshades.ca Melanie shares tips to understanding your value as a woman when finding love. She speak to us about how we all have a choice in the type of relationships we get. Dating with intent isn't easy. She speaks ab...
Are You Not Feeling Loved? Here Is How To Connect Better In The Relationship
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Brianna Carey Interview | Part One | Discussing the reasons you are not feeling loved by your partner and how you can connect better in your relationship. Book A Coaching Session Today www.behindtheshades.ca Brianna joins us to speak share how to make your marriage healthy while raising children. She shares her own story of working to get it right and why communication is so important. We discu...
Are You Afraid Of Change? How To Make Healthy Choices In The Relationship
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Rhonda Farrah Interview | Part Two | Discussing the reasons we are afraid of change and how to determine which choices are healthy for your relationship. Book A Coaching Session Today www.behindtheshades.ca Many of us hate responsibility and learning to accept responsibility isn't easy. We discussed how to accept responsibility in your relationships and how the victim mentality keeps you trappe...
Do You Appreciate Yourself? How To Understand Your Value As A Woman
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Melanie Trupp Interview | Part One | Discussing the different ways you can appreciate yourself and show your value as a woman. Book A Coaching Session Today www.behindtheshades.ca Melanie shares tips to understanding your value as a woman when finding love. She speak to us about how we all have a choice in the type of relationships we get. Dating with intent isn't easy. She speaks about avoidin...
They Ignored Your Abuse. How To Trust The Right People
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They Ignored Your Abuse. How To Trust The Right People
Are You Trapped In Your Emotions? How To Escape A Victim Mindset
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Are You Trapped In Your Emotions? How To Escape A Victim Mindset
Do You Have Negative Thoughts? How You Can Start Conquering Negativity
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Do You Have Negative Thoughts? How You Can Start Conquering Negativity
How To Escape A Marriage. Preparing To Leave An Abusive Partner
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How To Escape A Marriage. Preparing To Leave An Abusive Partner
Finding Real Love Is Hard For Me. Have You Healed From Your Past Relationship?
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Finding Real Love Is Hard For Me. Have You Healed From Your Past Relationship?
I Am Consumed By Insecurity: Why Do I Have Negative Thoughts Of The Relationship
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I Am Consumed By Insecurity: Why Do I Have Negative Thoughts Of The Relationship
Why Am I Trauma Bonding? Past Trauma Is Affecting Your Relationships
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Why Am I Trauma Bonding? Past Trauma Is Affecting Your Relationships
I Sacrificed My Peace For Others. Being A People Pleaser Is Ruining Your Life
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I Sacrificed My Peace For Others. Being A People Pleaser Is Ruining Your Life
Why Does My Past Trigger Me? How To Recover From Negative Thoughts
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Why Does My Past Trigger Me? How To Recover From Negative Thoughts
My Partner Lacks Emotional Connection. Do You have Emotional Trauma?
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My Partner Lacks Emotional Connection. Do You have Emotional Trauma?
Married To A Narcissist. How You Can Heal From Their Abuse
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Married To A Narcissist. How You Can Heal From Their Abuse
I Can't Find A Healthy Relationship; Avoid These Mistakes Of Toxic Dating
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I Can't Find A Healthy Relationship; Avoid These Mistakes Of Toxic Dating
How To Stop Sabotaging Your Relationship
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How To Stop Sabotaging Your Relationship
I'm Too Successful To Be Abused. This Is How Anyone Can Be A Victim
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I'm Too Successful To Be Abused. This Is How Anyone Can Be A Victim
Finding Happiness After Trauma
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Finding Happiness After Trauma
Did You Sabotage Your Relationship
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Did You Sabotage Your Relationship
How To Recognize An Abusive Relationship
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How To Recognize An Abusive Relationship
Why Does Addiction Happen?
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Why Does Addiction Happen?
Why Do I Keep Self Sabotaging Myself?
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Why Do I Keep Self Sabotaging Myself?
How To Handle Being Victimized
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How To Handle Being Victimized
How To Overcome Trauma From Emotional Abuse
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How To Overcome Trauma From Emotional Abuse

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  • @mohamedould8671
    @mohamedould8671 19 днів тому

    i liked the vid but the presentation doesnt make people to stay especaly at the begining

  • @Maryam-bt7kg
    @Maryam-bt7kg Місяць тому

  • @ruthtirado2750
    @ruthtirado2750 Місяць тому

    Victims give off pheramones that attract victimizers to them. Begin to see yourself as victorious instead of as a victim, and you will begin to attract different people to yourself. Just FYI, having God in your life will help you to see who you really are!!! 🙏🏻

    • @behindtheshades
      @behindtheshades Місяць тому

      There will be a point in all of our lives that we will become victorious from our trauma. Each day is a step towards that.

  • @charmed-anna
    @charmed-anna Місяць тому

    Well done Cristina x

  • @ChangingParenting
    @ChangingParenting Місяць тому

    Thank you for having me on your show Terraine 🙂 It was really fun!

    • @behindtheshades
      @behindtheshades Місяць тому

      It was an absolute pleasure speaking with you and sharing your wisdom.

  • @stillpril8942
    @stillpril8942 Місяць тому

    I don't know. In my 20s I was working 2 jobs and barely making rent and I didn't always have enough to eat plus no family support and no time to see friends and I was so depressed...

    • @behindtheshades
      @behindtheshades Місяць тому

      Life can be so hard at times especially when the support we need isn't around.

  • @christianbarrientos8267
    @christianbarrientos8267 Місяць тому

    Great talk..I agree with a lot of your points..

  • @jillmatsushita7275
    @jillmatsushita7275 Місяць тому

    Uk

  • @heartsentwined7777
    @heartsentwined7777 Місяць тому

    Thank you so much Terraine - really enjoyed our conversation x

    • @behindtheshades
      @behindtheshades Місяць тому

      It's always a pleasure sharing your insights.

  • @sunnyadams5842
    @sunnyadams5842 2 місяці тому

    Progrssive Republican??

  • @janm9610
    @janm9610 2 місяці тому

    I've lived narcissistic rage. Last time I was in his presence, he's sick.

    • @behindtheshades
      @behindtheshades Місяць тому

      Narcissists will negatively impact our life in so many ways.

  • @janm9610
    @janm9610 2 місяці тому

    💯 spot on. Good riddance, his new wife's problem 😂

  • @jennifertallbear4480
    @jennifertallbear4480 2 місяці тому

    I am so glad to know this, it sounds like you did everything you needed to get it right. This is outrageous

  • @jennifertallbear4480
    @jennifertallbear4480 2 місяці тому

    Why would they not go with family this I hope you can make this public

  • @jennifertallbear4480
    @jennifertallbear4480 2 місяці тому

    I sooo heart broken for your pain

  • @jennifertallbear4480
    @jennifertallbear4480 2 місяці тому

    Dear lady 😢😢😢😢❤️❤️❤️❤️🙏🙏🙏✝️✝️✝️

  • @jennifertallbear4480
    @jennifertallbear4480 2 місяці тому

    OMG this is heart ripping, this really needs to be delved into much more public and investigated

  • @SaraLovesUbb
    @SaraLovesUbb 2 місяці тому

    Idk how i found this video. This has happened to me. My son has not recovered. I have not recovered. No one believed me when it happened & consequently i have this weird phobia that anything i say is met with doubt or criticism. I try really hard to change the way i see the world, which is that i am less than, other people are above me & as such they will laugh at whatever i say, not believe me, or steal my fucking kid somehow. Fuck man.

  • @xenafaegolden3019
    @xenafaegolden3019 2 місяці тому

    Ive been through this

  • @norasmission7394
    @norasmission7394 2 місяці тому

    Happened to my daughter. Vanderbilt Hospital in Nashville TN took her son . He was nursing 5 months old. Caused the whole family so much distress. We did not have enough money for attorneys. The children were taken . They live with the father’s parents to this day . If the grandparents weren’t able to take them, CPS was going to put them up for adoption. The are 12 and 10 years old now. He has adhd and the little girl is now overweight. It’s heartbreaking . My daughter never recovered .

  • @sunnyadams5842
    @sunnyadams5842 2 місяці тому

    Oh my God- meee toooo!!

  • @ChangingParenting
    @ChangingParenting 2 місяці тому

    It was a lot of fun! Thanks for having me!

  • @NancyParadis
    @NancyParadis 3 місяці тому

    This was a great summit. Thank you Behind the Shades show!

  • @thinkingallowed1st
    @thinkingallowed1st 3 місяці тому

    They try to unalive you so you take yourself down. Imo psychological coercieve abuse is the hardest to spot and overcome

  • @RS-ov2st
    @RS-ov2st 3 місяці тому

    It is a big misconception that narcissists do not have friends. I was born into a narcissistic family and married to a covert narcissist and they all had friends who adored them, spoke highly of them. They protect their friendships in order to cement their public image and discredit their targets if needed. There are many different types of narcissists with different and similar behaviors.

    • @thinkingallowed1st
      @thinkingallowed1st 3 місяці тому

      I agree with your statement. They leave you friendless and isolated. The narcissist has friends to prove they are decent when they actually arent. I say friends loosely because they are really lying to the people who has their backs

  • @fidelmashelton9491
    @fidelmashelton9491 3 місяці тому

    100% correct and your never going to be enough for people like this. It's a game to them, that they have to be the winners at all costs. That's the way they see relationships. Self-centered and self-absorb in their own little fantasy...

  • @anitajohnson381
    @anitajohnson381 3 місяці тому

    Not completely true! Narcissistic people often marry a Malignant Narcissistic person. ..not always an empath! This has been researched.

  • @sleepmagnolia
    @sleepmagnolia 3 місяці тому

    You have 942 videos but under 300 subscribers. That is insane!! Underrated channel.

    • @behindtheshades
      @behindtheshades 3 місяці тому

      Thanks for the support as it is appreciated.

  • @sharonvaldez9059
    @sharonvaldez9059 3 місяці тому

    Married 20 years, have autoimmune, PTSD, chronic anxiety and depression, autism, ADHD, degenerative disc disease, and degenerative faucet disease. Appealing LTD and back pay from March 2023, as well as pending SSDI decision. He commented, “if you leave…I’m never gonna see any of that money”. Is he entitled to my disability money if I file for divorce once approved? It will be direct deposit to bank account that is mine alone. Counting on this $ as a way to support myself…

    • @behindtheshades
      @behindtheshades 3 місяці тому

      That is unfortunate and a difficult situation assistance can be provided to you.

    • @anitajohnson381
      @anitajohnson381 3 місяці тому

      @@sharonvaldez9059 it's your body that is disabled for disabled payments..not his body. It's all your money.

    • @tammyfitzgerald5336
      @tammyfitzgerald5336 Місяць тому

      Auto immune they try to kill us should be illegal ❤worst that any other problem in USA 🇺🇸 mental health crisis 😮

  • @FreelancerTania-nz9xk
    @FreelancerTania-nz9xk 3 місяці тому

    Dear Sir or Madam , I saw this video on your UA-cam channel and I really liked it. I want to become a regular visitor to your channel. But your channel has some things content and I want to show showcase these those issues topics

    • @behindtheshades
      @behindtheshades 3 місяці тому

      We appreciate the support and would love for you to become a regular visitor to our channel.

  • @Encornelious
    @Encornelious 3 місяці тому

    I felt this so much. You really be wondering what have you done to be in this situation!!😢. Going through it now. So tired

    • @behindtheshades
      @behindtheshades 3 місяці тому

      it is an exhausting situation that many of us find ourselves trapped in it without realizing how it happened.

    • @anitajohnson381
      @anitajohnson381 3 місяці тому

      @Encornelious May God Strengthen you!

  • @jessncin1586
    @jessncin1586 3 місяці тому

    What a great interview. Stephany did such a good job explaining in detail just how easy it is to fall prey to these demons. Great interview!

    • @behindtheshades
      @behindtheshades 3 місяці тому

      we are happy you enjoyed it and it was a well needed conversation.

  • @shawn2350
    @shawn2350 3 місяці тому

    Trauma bonding is so debilitating. Addiction to an abuser is such a conundrum. You can't explain it to anyone who doesn't know about this. I am starting to act like her. It's so f'd up.

    • @behindtheshades
      @behindtheshades 3 місяці тому

      these situations are dangerous as many times we don't realize we are in it until we are bonded to the person

    • @victoriavitoroulis3273
      @victoriavitoroulis3273 3 місяці тому

      Exactly only ppl who’ve been in a cycle understand what these ppl are really about , the real pandemic

    • @anitajohnson381
      @anitajohnson381 3 місяці тому

      @shawn2350 praying 🙏 for you! I have been in your shoes

    • @shawn2350
      @shawn2350 Місяць тому

      @@anitajohnson381 thank you!!

  • @liualoe
    @liualoe 3 місяці тому

    Wish the attorney keeps on telling her story and not get interjected with questions or comments that seem very distracting and unnecessarily prolong the clip.

  • @annrodriguez2891
    @annrodriguez2891 3 місяці тому

    I have been married to my narc.husband 8 years.. separated 5..he contacted me after 1 year of being in a locked Christian rehab..said he's a minister and wants to make our marriage work..I was very reluctant..he promised he was a changed man..we could only see each other once in a supervised setting...felt fake..wants me to move to Alaska...got out of the rehab and ran to his ex girlfriends.Said he was just hanging out...I called him out on his BS..He obviously is full of crap..No contact again...They truly never change

    • @behindtheshades
      @behindtheshades 3 місяці тому

      thanks for sharing and no contact is a powerful tool to help you cope. hopefully you will continue to do well and if necessary, let us know how we can assist.

  • @BayonleArashi
    @BayonleArashi 3 місяці тому

    This is very refreshing to watch. We are continuously making a change in the community.

    • @behindtheshades
      @behindtheshades 3 місяці тому

      thank you for always sharing your insight and will to assist others.

  • @danielhamilton5094
    @danielhamilton5094 4 місяці тому

    Men aren't intimidated by women. We're not turned on by women with masculine traits. Women saying men are intimidated are coping. This dude is a simp

  • @apollothirteen9236
    @apollothirteen9236 4 місяці тому

    Money,money,money.

  • @johnHofweber
    @johnHofweber 4 місяці тому

    'kinky' behavior is not instinctual, is rather socially induced, e.g., social rejection for whatever reason may compel one to force acceptance

    • @behindtheshades
      @behindtheshades 4 місяці тому

      well written and i believe this to be true in many cases

  • @Brother_from_Oz
    @Brother_from_Oz 4 місяці тому

    Comes down to ownership- Yin and Yang "Our gifts and our wounds are neighbours" Basically do the shadow work - Frederic Nietzsche's teachings - every human should apply this. This will save 000s of suffering souls.

  • @Brother_from_Oz
    @Brother_from_Oz 4 місяці тому

    Most women "not all" 1.want the husband (provider - leader - protector etc..) The problem also for them is 2. they want to tell the husband how to do that. So those type are never satisfied with their partner and will eventually leave. The husband thinks hes pleasing her by doing what shes asking. Which leaves men lives destroyed, shattered, confused etc feels the ultimate betrayal..when she goes.

    • @behindtheshades
      @behindtheshades 4 місяці тому

      that is a devasting sequence of events when it happens.

    • @Brother_from_Oz
      @Brother_from_Oz 4 місяці тому

      @@behindtheshades Dr Anna Machin / Dr Cory Clark - Dr Miriam Grossman - You'll find deep dive- long term research& studies from these ladies - specialist in this field.

    • @Brother_from_Oz
      @Brother_from_Oz 4 місяці тому

      @@behindtheshades 100% which has lead to the epidemic of men and loneliness.

  • @Brianboru-k8y
    @Brianboru-k8y 4 місяці тому

    Kink is now call gender

  • @SusannePennelle
    @SusannePennelle 5 місяців тому

    Girls aren't spontaneously interested in being thin, housemakers and compliant --it's part of patriarchal expectations of the perpetually young, docile and free domestic servant. To diverge from those expectations invites bullying. It's not the girl's fault.

    • @behindtheshades
      @behindtheshades 5 місяців тому

      good point as there are many woman that fall into expectations that they didn't agree to or place onto themselves.

    • @SusannePennelle
      @SusannePennelle 5 місяців тому

      @@behindtheshades Agree if you are saying they may have superficially agreed to and placed on themselves these expectations without information or complete disclosure, thinking they were norms. They quickly find out the dire consequences of going against these norms, and conversely the privilege that is extended for upholding and enforcing these expectations that are pushed on them, so it's not really a free choice.

  • @LV81991
    @LV81991 5 місяців тому

    Interesting.

  • @Jaapst
    @Jaapst 6 місяців тому

    Women make different rules for different men.

    • @behindtheshades
      @behindtheshades 6 місяців тому

      There are definitely different rules based on preferences.

  • @JulieCasaDeConfidence
    @JulieCasaDeConfidence 6 місяців тому

    Thank you for having me! ❤❤

  • @gabenosseir
    @gabenosseir 7 місяців тому

    Thanks for having me on!

    • @behindtheshades
      @behindtheshades 7 місяців тому

      it was a pleasure sharing your experience and insights.

  • @Philosophycase15
    @Philosophycase15 8 місяців тому

    You guys didn't talk much about the catfish story or how to recover from it as is stated in the title. You should've asked her to elaborate on the experience and what she learned from it.

  • @ZappyOh
    @ZappyOh 8 місяців тому

    Boss babe :( Western civilization started down the wrong path, somewhere around 1920.

    • @behindtheshades
      @behindtheshades 8 місяців тому

      there has definitely bee a change over the years

  • @kevinlatulippe6944
    @kevinlatulippe6944 8 місяців тому

    As soon as you think you don't need anyone you are already lost

    • @behindtheshades
      @behindtheshades 8 місяців тому

      once someone in a relationship has checked out, the relationship will be changed.