Talks with Lebo
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Let's talk about Polygamy and why women can't share a man
A lot of women are ok with sharing a man before marriage because for them that man is still single and available.
After marriage, they expect, love, respect and loyalty because of the union that have metered into infront of God, Family and friends
It's rare for women to accept that their husbands what to take up second wives because they are of the view that they are enough, especially given the fact that, that man had left their previous partner for them.
I would love to hear from you, share your thoughts in the comments section and let's engage.
#relationships #marriage #secondwife
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women relax in relationships because their energy reserves are depleted!
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women relax in relationships because their energy reserves are depleted! #relationships #women #men
Weekend vlog - celebrated Father's day at Mongena Game Lodge
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I took time time off to celebrate a special man in my life on Father's day. I'm grateful for the amazing memories that we have been able to create thus far. #fathersday #love #celebration
let's talk about children born from extra-marital affairs
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In today's episode we discuss children born out of wedlock #relationships #marriage #parenting
People's behaviors are influenced by where they come from.
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Always trace a person's behavior to their history,thus will help you understand why people behave the way they do. #relationships #behaviour #background
Most women revenge cheat because it is an option that enables them to stay with a cheater
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Revenge cheating is extremely common, especially for women who have decided not to leave their relationships. This enables them to do what their partners are doing and never feel guilty about it. #drama #relationships #cheating
Some women stay with their cheating partners because they too are cheating in secret
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In all the years that I've forgiven a cheating partner, I've never seen any benefit to forgiveness apart from that person seeing a portal to continue cheating. So if I were to ever forgive a cheating partner is if I too was cheating back if not, would just leave..... #relationships #cheating #foryou
Most women wish they could be housewives, however it's not always an ideal option for some women
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Most women miss their feminity and wish they could be housewives. It's however not possible for all women due to where they come from. For some, it mainly happens when they have met men who have a provider mindset. Let's discuss this in detail #housewifeblog #marriage #relationships #marriage
What causes jealousy? it's not always about material things
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Many people think just because they have not reached financial success, people may not have anything to be jealous over. Sometimes the light that you carry can be a problem for others. Stay prayed up. #prayer #jealousy #people
Let's discuss women & culture, do African idioms mean well to women?
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I had an opportunity to be a guest on Aganang ( Dumisa TV) and this game me an opportunity to share my views on some African Idioms which may affect women negatively. #relationships #marriage #africa
Gcinile & Grootman - why did he leak private tape? | He thought she'd never leave him
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We always need to pray before we enter into relationships that may have dire effects on our future. #drama #relationships #love
Themba Broly & Mphowabadimo | why is he denied access? let's explore this further
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Dating a spiritually gifted person has its own complications, but if you do things correctly, your relationship will run smoothly. #relationships #mphowabadimo #spirituality
Men - Your things are not working out because you neglected your kids!
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A lot of women assume the reason things are not working out for the fathers of their children, is because of their curses. It is possible to send negative energy to a person, but it is not possible for that energy to have an impact. If that were the case, all of us would go around cursing people who offend us. These men mainly suffer because of their own guardian angels who are not pleased with...
Women perform witchcraft on men due to a lack of patience in waiting for God's time.
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A lot of women do not have the patience to wait for God's time. They choose to move forward by themselves and cast witchcraft spells on Men who are not meant to be their husbands. These men end up being used, controlled and violated by these women because of this problem. When the truth is revealed later on, they act suprised and become victims themselves. Waiting on God's time always seems har...
Dating | How fathers should advice their daughters.
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Dating | How fathers should advice their daughters.
Reasons why people steal your underwear
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Reasons why people steal your underwear
Oversharing on Social Media opens doors for the enemy to enter your life.
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Oversharing on Social Media opens doors for the enemy to enter your life.
Makhadzi the lazy housewife - oversharing is the downfall of most spoiled wives
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Makhadzi the lazy housewife - oversharing is the downfall of most spoiled wives
Your helper should never wash your dirty underwear or remove your bed sheets
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Your helper should never wash your dirty underwear or remove your bed sheets
Husband leaves wife for helper | How can a wife protect her marriage?
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Husband leaves wife for helper | How can a wife protect her marriage?
They don't marry people with children because of fear of interference from the Ex
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They don't marry people with children because of fear of interference from the Ex
How slay Queens bag Rich Men | Mai Mai visits| Rituals used on men to lure them |witchcraft
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How slay Queens bag Rich Men | Mai Mai visits| Rituals used on men to lure them |witchcraft
Dating older men in high school and varsity | They only learn later in life
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Dating older men in high school and varsity | They only learn later in life
Man plots to kill his ex wife's because he didn't want to share his assets!
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Man plots to kill his ex wife's because he didn't want to share his assets!
Here is a solution for men to stop dating young girls and to pour into their own sons
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Here is a solution for men to stop dating young girls and to pour into their own sons
16 year old caught dating a 51 year old pastor | why do young girls date old men?
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16 year old caught dating a 51 year old pastor | why do young girls date old men?
learn to take care of your body while you are still single
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learn to take care of your body while you are still single
You might not have a future when dating a person who is going through a phase.
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You might not have a future when dating a person who is going through a phase.
Dating older, successful men is not a guarantee for marriage
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Dating older, successful men is not a guarantee for marriage
If you show people how amazing your husband treats you, other women will want him.
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If you show people how amazing your husband treats you, other women will want him.

КОМЕНТАРІ

  • @Dr.BanksOmale
    @Dr.BanksOmale День тому

    Nigerian men are just loving, hard working, kind, cheerful givers. That's how we are everywhere. We are providers! We are responsible!

  • @bridgettekekana4639
    @bridgettekekana4639 3 дні тому

    Brief note, encouraging students especially females to "just study in varsity" hardly works. Between stepping into your identity, competition within friend groups, social media, daddy issues, climate change, environmental issues yoooh, ausi Lebo, it's alot! Alot of people encourage students to find a partner while still in varsity, but when you look around campus especially with married lecturers dating students, it almost makes you give in on love and just go with the masses for older men

  • @bridgettekekana4639
    @bridgettekekana4639 3 дні тому

    It's a messy world 😂

  • @danga55gan
    @danga55gan 4 дні тому

    Western culture has eroded traditional values

  • @annieojuro-anuonye7203
    @annieojuro-anuonye7203 4 дні тому

    I am a single mom of 2 kids for 2 men… i still feel weight of my last break up with my last baby’s father that its hard for me to coparent with him after attempts for us to get to an understanding failed… I would appreciate if there are suggestions on how to lead my situation… love the show

  • @MissCombs1511
    @MissCombs1511 6 днів тому

    Aus Lebo.. the part about polygamy, I disagree from personal experience: A woman allowing for polygamy does not mean it curbs cheating. Cheating is about a lot more than getting to 100% by combining 2 women. He will continue to cheat to fill the hole, even temporarily, that exists. Cheating is about cheating.

  • @MissCombs1511
    @MissCombs1511 6 днів тому

    I think we should buy a billboard and write: FOUNDATION IS EVERYTHING!!!

  • @GeorgeMasibuko-y8j
    @GeorgeMasibuko-y8j 8 днів тому

    Nigerians date fun girls and single moms. Regular girls don't mess with them. And when a Nigerian man hits on a SA woman, he spends his money and time trying to justify himself. And trashing South Africans. Most jollofinas get turned out and become self hating because most of them are single moms or working girls

  • @NobleCare
    @NobleCare 10 днів тому

    So true. Its important for women to also have a vision for themselves as wives and moms. Shuuu so deep

  • @Ologun1
    @Ologun1 10 днів тому

    This is big in Africa and the Diaspora and why certain Girls are blowing up on Social Media

  • @Octavia-iw3ky
    @Octavia-iw3ky 13 днів тому

    I'm happy my father never put us through that by having children outside his marriage and even after his divorce with mom. That is not a pleasant situation for children either. This step step issue is nonsense

  • @mlondolozimbikwana
    @mlondolozimbikwana 14 днів тому

    Hi Lebo, please keep up the good spirit. But I can't help noticing that you are kid yourself, perhaps if you study SA history, you would quickly realize that these satanic activities were very seldom pre- 1994. But OfCourse you were not born yet,

  • @glantedavid9728
    @glantedavid9728 14 днів тому

    Congratulations. You look 25 .

  • @bapbap22
    @bapbap22 15 днів тому

    Lebo, can you speak on spiritual protection or discernment

  • @bapbap22
    @bapbap22 15 днів тому

    Women are using spiritual warfare because they are low quality. If they were high quality, they wouldn’t need magick to keep a man

  • @bapbap22
    @bapbap22 15 днів тому

    My spirit team are always standing on guard. In the Deep South of america, this moti you’re talking about, we call this root work

  • @ronnymavimbela2329
    @ronnymavimbela2329 15 днів тому

    Precisely

  • @SelebaloMakafane
    @SelebaloMakafane 16 днів тому

    You married and change your name and again cheat..that's grazy you underrate your man l c

  • @MicheleFeinler
    @MicheleFeinler 18 днів тому

    Excuse me please, should I disturb you, Ms. Lebo! I thank you so much for your explanation! I thank you for reading my message! I greet you kindly from Germany! Michele.

  • @MicheleFeinler
    @MicheleFeinler 18 днів тому

    Excuse me please, should I disturb you, Ms. Lebo! I thank you so much for your explanation! I thank you for reading my message! Michele from Germany.

  • @MissCombs1511
    @MissCombs1511 25 днів тому

    Louder please! It's not what one thinks it is! Besides, at work we find a lot out about ourselves and our skills, or a platform to discover that you are actually a great leader. Some environments even teach you some things you will need in that same marriage e.g. conflict resolution. If you're interested in learning about you..

  • @MissCombs1511
    @MissCombs1511 25 днів тому

    🤔🤔 yazi that's true? I didn't think about people being jealous of your POTENTIAL! Lightbulb moment.

  • @MissCombs1511
    @MissCombs1511 27 днів тому

    Offramp a bit: South African native languages are FIRE! You sound amazing ladies. Back to regular programming: we are at pandemic levels of GBV and other forms of abuse. We need healthy combining of the families where if the men hear of GBV, the brothers or uncles intervene in the same way. Abuse of women will be ended by good men.

  • @LebohangMmihi
    @LebohangMmihi 28 днів тому

    What kind of hair costs 500k. With that kind of money he's basically sharing his income with her, what is she giving him in return for her to get that kind over money.

  • @MissCombs1511
    @MissCombs1511 Місяць тому

    Give them some grace please Lebo 🙏🏾 I am also just learning to call people etc. I realise it'a a flaw and I am the "go to" person for a lot of my people. Please just tell us, we're probably unaware and it's not personal.

    • @theechosen_
      @theechosen_ 25 днів тому

      There's grace when you told them they never share but still they don't change , but if it's only me who always shares it's pointless because it shows they don't trust me.

    • @MissCombs1511
      @MissCombs1511 25 днів тому

      @@theechosen_ Eish 🫣🫣 there's no arguing that part.

  • @elethumatu
    @elethumatu Місяць тому

    exactly they never think we will ever leave... it's always the case and now a person retaliates

  • @dollyxavieraambrose4864
    @dollyxavieraambrose4864 Місяць тому

    Well my husband told me that he makes money to ensure I'm okay even though I have my own job, so I feel that most Nigerian men rate human beings above material things. The wife is more valued than money not the money more than women and my husband is more important than every dime I have too. Because at the end of the day, he his family my family are the most important asset I have not the money. I can always make money, but I can't bring my husband back if I put money over him and vise versa

  • @mzekenamanjearistokasi6832
    @mzekenamanjearistokasi6832 Місяць тому

    This ghostly relationship was doomed from the get go.

  • @MissCombs1511
    @MissCombs1511 Місяць тому

    Please share your email addie

  • @MissCombs1511
    @MissCombs1511 Місяць тому

    We need to talk!!!! May I email you, please?

  • @tranquilsoothingsounds3334
    @tranquilsoothingsounds3334 Місяць тому

    Having children out of wedlock will always be problematic and has no solution. God knew this and that’s why he created marriage and nuclear family and doesn’t condone sex before marriage . It is the best way to avoid all these problems. No baby mamas , baby daddy drama . no soul ties. marriage is likely to last because there is no comparison to anything previous partners etc . Children grow up more stable and balanced human beings.

  • @user-hy9oc5wd2n
    @user-hy9oc5wd2n Місяць тому

    U are an old soul How old are u my sister if u don't mind disclosing it

  • @nokuthulamntambo4980
    @nokuthulamntambo4980 Місяць тому

    So informative! Thank you for highlighting the importance of Modimo le Badimo

  • @kganthipinkuna3392
    @kganthipinkuna3392 Місяць тому

  • @BeekaytheDeejay
    @BeekaytheDeejay Місяць тому

    Good day Lebo. Love your work. Keep it up. Be Blessed and Be a Blessing to others.

  • @heromaseko5811
    @heromaseko5811 Місяць тому

    If you don't mind me asking this question... The source of this so called spirituality information that you're currently sharing come from where or who...? And what in the case of a woman refusing a man access to the child for years? And how many men out there living well and large while they rejected their children... Give people proper information, which can be verified....

    • @TalkswithLebo
      @TalkswithLebo Місяць тому

      You are questioning the source of my spirituality because I'm not dressed in a pastors robe and nor a prophet's uniform, otherwise you wouldn't ask what you are asking. So I'm not not going to explain the unexplainable to you! 2. Those who have been denied access may or may not be affected if they inform their ancestors what is happening with regards to their kids. Most of you see material things and assume men are doing well, but not worry about the emotional and spiritual aspect of their lives. How many successful men are roaming clubs, Unmarried, changing women for reasons that can't be explained? The depression and all other ailments they go through, are caused by those things. Even if they were not doing well or have rejected their kids, they wouldn't tell you, but will come to people like myself to try and find out what is happening. You were triggered by something in this post and perhaps you are one of the people who have rejected their kids or denied access. Either way, you still need to look inward and sort yourself out and not approach you life using a general approach which has nothing to do with you.

  • @pholososello1299
    @pholososello1299 Місяць тому

    You're spot on. Under no circumstances should a man neglect his own flash

  • @tranquilsoothingsounds3334
    @tranquilsoothingsounds3334 Місяць тому

    So it means the starting point to solve this problem and stop this cycle should be dealing with hypergamy . It is the root cause causing an imbalance in dating scene . Everything else seems to be reactionary from all the affected parties. But I have to admit it is easier said than done, especially in this era of competition on social media being so rife.

  • @kganthipinkuna3392
    @kganthipinkuna3392 Місяць тому

    Tjooo You said a mouthful &❤❤😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @kenyattamufumbey.4785
    @kenyattamufumbey.4785 Місяць тому

    American men aren't giving no money up unless women are doing for him. We call it tricking and simping over here.

  • @queen_indig_abor
    @queen_indig_abor Місяць тому

    Lv your earrings!!

  • @madmire
    @madmire Місяць тому

    For real 😂😂😂😂😂😂 that’s why homies get 3 wives

  • @derekrendo4128
    @derekrendo4128 Місяць тому

    ❤❤on point

  • @Chosen1-561
    @Chosen1-561 Місяць тому

    He needs Jesus

  • @Chosen1-561
    @Chosen1-561 Місяць тому

    Your skin is flawless

  • @dineomolapo9934
    @dineomolapo9934 Місяць тому

    If you go to a place and don't see woman looking something is wrong....😂😂😂😂 They are the first to know everything new 🤣🤣🤣 wig\clothing\ Men \ style ❤😂 sooo Nigerian are new in town nothing special in the 90 s Mozambiquans were the newest in town they even say the grow 4\5 with a tree🤣🤣🤷

  • @spiritsrejoice9857
    @spiritsrejoice9857 Місяць тому

    Totally agree...one's door should never be be too ajar...for all and sundry...luv your themes...always❤

  • @NobleCare
    @NobleCare Місяць тому

    And some of us just don't have our dad's around so we definitely just go in blindly lol. Sad life

    • @TalkswithLebo
      @TalkswithLebo Місяць тому

      Sending hugs🤗

    • @NobleCare
      @NobleCare Місяць тому

      @@TalkswithLebo thank you! ❤ I'm so glad I found salvation, and through it God is healing me, the journey feels long but I definitely find peace in Christ

  • @bleizeem6439
    @bleizeem6439 Місяць тому

    A lot of those women who fell 4 nigerians r now out herr making videos abouts how their Nigerian boyfriends put a snake in them or used them 4 rituals

  • @lindiwemasiteng8002
    @lindiwemasiteng8002 Місяць тому

    I need to whatsapp you my story