The Clever Exotical
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Egotistic Power: Finding Middle Ground as an Exotical
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Overcome Fears of Uncertainty Like a Goddess
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Be Exclusive to Increase Your Value
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Privilege Stacking and The Hierarchy of Needs
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They Can Imitate Your Looks But They Can't Imitate Your Aura
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They Can Imitate Your Looks But They Can't Imitate Your Aura
The Benefits of Being a Black-Passing Exotical
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The Benefits of Being a Black-Passing Exotical

КОМЕНТАРІ

  • @Melhoney935
    @Melhoney935 28 днів тому

    Thank you!

  • @PandaHead602
    @PandaHead602 3 місяці тому

    You are smart and beautiful 😻

  • @TheExoticBrownSkin
    @TheExoticBrownSkin 3 місяці тому

    BOOM!

  • @ninawestlake5005
    @ninawestlake5005 4 місяці тому

    I'm naturally unavailable. I give people little sprinkles of kindness. It's something that has worked for me my entire life so i won't change it.

  • @blasesuaveroses7851
    @blasesuaveroses7851 4 місяці тому

    Duh

  • @nay2670
    @nay2670 4 місяці тому

    I love this. Its hard to be the pretty nice bubbly girl without it being taken advantage of. People often mistake your kindness as you being dumb or naive unfortunately.

  • @leena5875
    @leena5875 4 місяці тому

    can you do a video on how to navigate dating as a young attractive woman. i’ve been too giving and it’s backfired on me more than once

  • @Illtakeyoman
    @Illtakeyoman 4 місяці тому

    The side videos are taking me outtttt😂😂😂😂😂

  • @RecklessInspirer
    @RecklessInspirer 4 місяці тому

    This video was excellent. I’m signing a modeling contract soon and it’s been tough realizing that there won’t be a crowd of people cheering me on lol. I made a list of ways I can celebrate alone today while spending little to no money. I fulfilled a lifelong dream and it’s surreal realizing that a lot of my family members won’t actually be genuinely happy for me. Thank you 🙏🏾

    • @TheCleverExotical
      @TheCleverExotical 4 місяці тому

      Congrats on your breakthrough! 🎉 Don’t worry it gets better over time

    • @krissy9230
      @krissy9230 3 місяці тому

      Congratulations!🎉

    • @divinebeaute
      @divinebeaute 3 місяці тому

      congrats, gorgeous 💕

  • @HaahmayanShaalManasseh
    @HaahmayanShaalManasseh 4 місяці тому

    My beauty has triggered so many in the past people would always spiritually be monitoring my page! I’m heavy on the selfish part. All about me era ❤ I had some great results from last year on my fitness journey to present and a woman straight up said it’s the dress I said just say you’re hating because you drank too much haterade I get it I would be mad too😂! Great video my fellow Exotical 🎉 as an Exotical disappearing acts help me because I refuse to be accessible I shut that down and now they leave me be and I post in peace ❤ went through the lows of it but enjoying being a lone wolf with the highs 🎉

    • @TheCleverExotical
      @TheCleverExotical 4 місяці тому

      This is so relatable! I’m currently in one of my disappearing acts and deactivated all of my social media for months now 😂. It’s definitely more peaceful 😌

    • @HaahmayanShaalManasseh
      @HaahmayanShaalManasseh 4 місяці тому

      @@TheCleverExotical THISSSSS! I’ll go off the face of the earth and come back and one friend had her boyfriend ask my husband if I’m alright like go figure 🤣🤭 it was so funny to me but I’m so glad it’s serving you your purpose too I wish you well with your journey and to keep it up being private is everything 💗💞

    • @TheCleverExotical
      @TheCleverExotical 4 місяці тому

      @@HaahmayanShaalManasseh thank you hun, you as well ❤️

  • @Daexotical
    @Daexotical 4 місяці тому

    Hello like what you do I’m myself a new exotical content creator .

    • @TheCleverExotical
      @TheCleverExotical 4 місяці тому

      You gained a new subbie 😊

    • @Daexotical
      @Daexotical 4 місяці тому

      @@TheCleverExotical Thank you so much 😊

  • @Yadeeyadeeyadah
    @Yadeeyadeeyadah 4 місяці тому

    You “exoticals” are already exclusive. Exclusive to yourselves because nobody likes you so you tell yourselves bs online.

  • @jennamatkowski2367
    @jennamatkowski2367 4 місяці тому

  • @kezianathaniel2901
    @kezianathaniel2901 4 місяці тому

    I am so mind-blown, I've never thought of being inclusive as part of people-pleasing but upon reflecting, I think this has been the case for me. This has not come at a more relevant time omg. Recently, I just got hacked and scammed on my social media and I think I was way too gullible and it was because I was too nice and friendly and inclusive to everyone. My brain somehow always manages to make me think we're closer than we really are, which makes me very much so nice to people in general. Similar to what you said, I'm always the first to say thank you, the one to say hello, and come in with a smile, the one who overthinks and overapologizes, and ofc the one who is often left in "read" by people, which hurts me haha. In any case, I needed this thank you very much.

  • @Catherine26791
    @Catherine26791 4 місяці тому

    I Love being friendly with people but they are only nice when I seem mean. This is so backwards to me but this is releavnt and truthful video. sad but true because most beautiful people I know myself included are so nice inside and out but you can't live like that sadly.

    • @TheCleverExotical
      @TheCleverExotical 4 місяці тому

      Yes!! They like to push the boundaries of friendly people to see how much they can get away with. I’m starting to see “being mean” as a shield for myself tbh 🤷🏾‍♀️

  • @Gontse_Maleka
    @Gontse_Maleka 4 місяці тому

    Thank you❤ I sometimes forget I'm beautiful because i am very humble and cannot balance that with my ego but when men and women tend to use humbling tactics on me unprovoked i be like dangggg am i pretty like that?😂

    • @TheCleverExotical
      @TheCleverExotical 4 місяці тому

      Yup, people will always try the pretty girl 🙄😂 Good for you for recognizing where you are on the scale!

  • @AndreaPortley
    @AndreaPortley 4 місяці тому

    Procrastination was my weakness! Fear of failure and rejection played a part!

  • @AndreaPortley
    @AndreaPortley 4 місяці тому

    Imagine how uncomfortable we feel when societies nonblack exotics stare you down! Tiny cute nose, thin or shaped lips without fillers and the eyes!!! Eyes are the windows to the soul!!! We’ve been through the fire! 😳😳😳😳

  • @AndreaPortley
    @AndreaPortley 4 місяці тому

    New Subbie! I’m here to support and share my experiences from years ago. Stop excepting crumbs from losers of all genders, social groups and ethnicities. People will treat you the way you allow them! I can go on for years sharing stories of how people wasted their time and energy trying to humble me!!!

  • @OpulentAristocrat
    @OpulentAristocrat 4 місяці тому

    Agreed‼️🩷

  • @AndreaPortley
    @AndreaPortley 5 місяців тому

    My mom told me years ago as a teen, a persons aura can enter the room before their identity! I’ve was living the introverted life until I began to embrace my exotic features, traits and captivating style! ❤❤❤❤

    • @TheCleverExotical
      @TheCleverExotical 4 місяці тому

      Cheers to coming out of your shell, you deserve to be seen ❤

  • @Mini-ge9sm
    @Mini-ge9sm 5 місяців тому

    Agree 100%. I’m working on this as you speak!! I’ve become a lot less accessible to people: I’ve learned numerous times that being overly friendly, accommodating, works against you and causes a lot of disrespect and betrayal. As you said make people work for it. I’m naturally very friendly,outgoing and bubbly but I’ve realized it makes people deem you as an easy target who is desperate for people to like them.

    • @TheCleverExotical
      @TheCleverExotical 4 місяці тому

      THIS! I'm naturally bubbly too, and although it's inviting I'm starting to notice how it can invite "anyone" in. That's why I also think it's important to find those people who you can be yourself around and have mutual respect and integrity. Thank you for sharing💕

  • @Browngemini2024
    @Browngemini2024 5 місяців тому

    Sometime people think I am from Bangladesh.

  • @MymythaymiHeavenna_RC
    @MymythaymiHeavenna_RC 5 місяців тому

    The way I see it is like the movie, "Memoirs of a Geyshia." Imagine being that in those times, being Asian with blue eyes. People, just wouldn't know how to deal! Your frightening, yet beautiful, haunting, alluring, and mysterious. Now, imagine being on the other side, wouldn't you be a little jealous but also amazed at someone SO UNIQUE? People are stunned by that beauty. So, next time you go down instagram, and see mimic exoticals, and even celebrities do it, (yeah, I know it can be annoying, and down right traumatizing and dehumanizing.) Suddenly they're all mixed and just so happen to have your phenotype, just because its "in" and "its cool" and "its trend" or "trending" with disregards to your feelings, but just try to understand, they see you as the blue-eyed geyshia in their story. They can imitate the cover but not the contents.

  • @HaahmayanShaalManasseh
    @HaahmayanShaalManasseh 5 місяців тому

    Thank you I’ll give this a try 🥰🫶🏽 I’m all for leveling up and setting more boundaries. I remember a time I was just walking to the store I was minding my business and two people a man and woman were smiling at me in awe 😂 and I said hi but they looked stunned by me when I left the store a group of people were on a bench and as I walked to the car they all stared at me 😅 one time a guy carried my bags for me 😅 and depending who’s in the store one woman when I walk in that works there always greets me with hey pretty!

    • @TheCleverExotical
      @TheCleverExotical 4 місяці тому

      Love this 😆💕

    • @HaahmayanShaalManasseh
      @HaahmayanShaalManasseh 4 місяці тому

      @@TheCleverExotical aww thank you hun I’ve realized over the years YES pretty privilege exists and we’re living proof of that my mother always told me men will always help feminine and pretty girls 💞💓

  • @marieestelle709
    @marieestelle709 5 місяців тому

    Thanks ❤😂🎉😊

  • @HaahmayanShaalManasseh
    @HaahmayanShaalManasseh 5 місяців тому

    I love your channel and your name 🥰 it’s a pleasure to watch ❤

  • @cynthiapickett7403
    @cynthiapickett7403 5 місяців тому

    🎯🎯🎯💯💯💯💘💘💘❤❤❤💗💗💗💕💕💕

  • @Melhoney935
    @Melhoney935 5 місяців тому

    Perfect timing! ❤

  • @clintonyoung9813
    @clintonyoung9813 5 місяців тому

    You sound wise beyond your years.

  • @2008topshelf
    @2008topshelf 5 місяців тому

    sub #152

  • @Bestlivexg
    @Bestlivexg 5 місяців тому

    There is to much self hate in black people so you should have non black blood in youor mixed with other race to be something so called exotic really 🤔😬😕

  • @beautyburden
    @beautyburden 5 місяців тому

    Well said ❤❤

  • @cynthiapickett7403
    @cynthiapickett7403 5 місяців тому

    💯💯💯🎯🎯🎯

  • @Dash-of_love
    @Dash-of_love 5 місяців тому

    Almost like Jodie Woods she is out there but you don't really know anything about her, unlike Alabama and Sky Jackson.

  • @ExoticalHoney
    @ExoticalHoney 5 місяців тому

    Come through with the definitions! I love the style of your videos.

  • @ExoticalHoney
    @ExoticalHoney 5 місяців тому

    I'm a new subscriber🎉 Your channel topics are really intelligent. Looking forward to seeing your channel grow.😊 Thanks for making this video. ❤

  • @Awesome00012
    @Awesome00012 6 місяців тому

    Agreed. You have a new member of the channel.

  • @Awesome00012
    @Awesome00012 6 місяців тому

    Amen

  • @Awesome00012
    @Awesome00012 6 місяців тому

    Amen

  • @ButterflyBaby888
    @ButterflyBaby888 6 місяців тому

    ❤. New subbie

  • @IntellectualExotical
    @IntellectualExotical 6 місяців тому

    Omg yesss! I love this!! Keep going girlie ❤✨👯‍♀️👯‍♀️

  • @IntellectualExotical
    @IntellectualExotical 6 місяців тому

    I walked into a room full of people at work today, and everyone shifted and looked my way. One lady got out her phone and pulled up a pic of her mls aunt , showed it to her friend, then came to me and said “you look just like my aunt, she’s in Japan now.” Her aunt was beautiful and I told her so. I was flattered. You are spot on. People can’t help but to respond to your energy and beauty

    • @TheCleverExotical
      @TheCleverExotical 6 місяців тому

      Yes! A strong aura will naturally attract people and opportunities to you. Thank you for sharing your experience ❤

    • @TylerRandall-o4m
      @TylerRandall-o4m 3 місяці тому

      Hi ❤️❤️

  • @IntellectualExotical
    @IntellectualExotical 6 місяців тому

    Omg yes honey! This is such an important topic! I love other pretty content creators 💜👯‍♀️👯‍♀️

  • @PrettyWorldwideOfficial
    @PrettyWorldwideOfficial 6 місяців тому

    🥰🥰🥰 Excellent video!!

  • @michelledarkentell7536
    @michelledarkentell7536 6 місяців тому

    I'm glad you discovered this at a young age. I wish I had known this when I was a teenager, and in my early 20s. It's never too late. Thanks for the video.

    • @TheCleverExotical
      @TheCleverExotical 6 місяців тому

      It’s definitely never too late. We can always find our light again. You’re so welcome! ❤

  • @PrettyWorldwideOfficial
    @PrettyWorldwideOfficial 6 місяців тому

    This is so relatable!

  • @PrettyWorldwideOfficial
    @PrettyWorldwideOfficial 6 місяців тому

    Great video!! 💕💕