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Gregory V. Diehl
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Gregory V. Diehl is a teacher and mentor for deep thinkers unsatisfied with ordinary approaches to life’s most important subjects. His work challenges common cultural narratives, educating and inspiring readers about self-knowledge and confident self-expression. Residing now in a scenic village in Armenia after a lifetime of global cultural experiences, Gregory runs an educational NGO called The Kalavan Retreat Center-an international beacon for uncommon learning, development, and freedom from personal suppression.
Are Religious People Stupid?
Faith, which operates outside the bounds of rational evidence, is a fundamentally different category of thought than beliefs grounded in reason and evidence. Faith is rooted in personal or cultural acceptance, not intellectual demonstration. Despite this, many religious people, including scholars and scientists, are highly intelligent. Intelligence is about the capacity for reasoning and organizing information, which exists independently of one's accepted postulates about the nature of the universe.
If faith-based claims could be scientifically demonstrated, they would cease to be religious. They would simply be a new branch of science.
What is a god? One rational answer.
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If faith-based claims could be scientifically demonstrated, they would cease to be religious. They would simply be a new branch of science.
What is a god? One rational answer.
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The Feminine Perspective on Relationships
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For my new book, The Romantic Ideal, The Highest Standard of Romance for a Man (amzn.to/4e7y5Y6), I collaborated with Svetlana Sevak, a psychotherapist who provided a complementary feminine perspective to the masculine approach I take through the book’s examination of intimacy, sex, and love. She wrote the foreword that introduces the topic as a woman gifted at articulating and expressing her f...
When total honesty is a barrier to intimacy.
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My new book launched today on Amazon. Check out The Romantic Ideal-The Highest Standard of Romance for a Man: amzn.to/4e7y5Y6 “Perhaps the feelings that we experience when we are in love represent a normal state. Being in love shows a person who he should be.” -Anton Chekhov Read the introduction here for free: www.gregorydiehl.net/blog/the-romantic-ideal-by-gregory-v-diehl-introduction Read th...
Just Because You Wouldn't Spend Money on Something Doesn't Mean Other People Wouldn't
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One thing that prevents people from seeing and acting on entrepreneurial opportunities is that they don’t recognize when something not particularly noteworthy or valuable to them would be to plenty of other people. Something they or their friends might never justify spending money on can be something a huge market of buyers would. You have to look beyond your own economic paradigm and preferenc...
What is a god? One rational answer.
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What is a god? If God is everything, then discussing it might feel redundant, akin to describing the universe itself. Why are there so many diverse interpretations of God across religions and cultures? Why do so many view God as an incomprehensible, advanced intelligence or source of will beyond human understanding? It’s easier to look down the spectrum of sophistication than up it. The less in...
Politics and Economics Are Two Sides of the Same Coin
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It’s impossible to learn about politics without also learning about economics, and vice versa. Every political action or claim is also an economic action or claim. Both, ultimately, describe our paradigm about and response to how people make choices. #PoliticsAndEconomics #PoliticalEconomy #EconomicsAndPolitics #PoliticalDecisions #EconomicImpact #InterconnectedWorld #PoliticalClaims #EconomicC...
How I Stopped Wanting to Unalive Myself
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Disclaimer: This is not therapy or advice. If you are suffering with depression or mental illness, contact a mental health professional. Gregory V. Diehl recounts the causes of wanting to end his own life for more than ten years and what finally resolved the issue. This is a subject he will cover in his upcoming book, Courage to Live. #MentalHealthJourney #OvercomingDepression #SuicideAwareness...
Women as Non-Volitional Objects: Trophy Wife Mentality and Manipulation
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Gregory V. Diehl delivers a talk at the Kalavan Retreat Center that delves into the concept of non-volitional objects, particularly the idea of the "trophy wife." Men in traditional societies treat women as objects by suppressing their ability to think for themselves and make their own choices. Women come to adore this demeaning treatment from men and society at large because they do not see ho...
How Your Image of Yourself Shapes the Image Others Have of You (Brand Identity Breakthrough)
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Branding is about crafting an authentic narrative that defines who you are at the core. This extends from the individual all the way up to businesses and group identities they participate in. Author Gregory V. Diehl dives deep into the philosophy of brand identification, based on his first book, Brand Identity Breakthrough: How to Craft Your Company's Unique Story to Make Your Products Irresist...
Traveling the World to Conquer the Limits of Culture (Travel as Transformation)
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Traveling the World to Conquer the Limits of Culture (Travel as Transformation)
How Cultural Inhibitions Stop the People of Developing Countries from Fully Self-Expressing
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How Cultural Inhibitions Stop the People of Developing Countries from Fully Self-Expressing
The Philosophy and Practicality of Writing a Nonfiction Book That Matters (The Influential Author)
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The Philosophy and Practicality of Writing a Nonfiction Book That Matters (The Influential Author)
Resolving the Deepest Burdens Faced by Heroic and Exceptional People
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Resolving the Deepest Burdens Faced by Heroic and Exceptional People
Spreading Economic Knowledge for the Good of Humanity (Everyone Is an Entrepreneur)
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Spreading Economic Knowledge for the Good of Humanity (Everyone Is an Entrepreneur)
On the Importance of Improving English Language Education Worldwide (Our Global Lingua Franca)
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On the Importance of Improving English Language Education Worldwide (Our Global Lingua Franca)
Romantic Idealism and the Masculine Experience of Love, Sex, and Intimacy
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Romantic Idealism and the Masculine Experience of Love, Sex, and Intimacy
Our Global Lingua Franca by Gregory V. Diehl (Full EFL Audiobook for Foreign English Teachers)
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Our Global Lingua Franca by Gregory V. Diehl (Full EFL Audiobook for Foreign English Teachers)
Everyone Is an Entrepreneur: Selling Economic Self-Determination in a Post-Soviet World - Audiobook
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Everyone Is an Entrepreneur: Selling Economic Self-Determination in a Post-Soviet World - Audiobook
The Heroic and Exceptional Minority: A Guide to Mythological Self-Awareness and Growth - Audiobook
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The Heroic and Exceptional Minority: A Guide to Mythological Self-Awareness and Growth - Audiobook
Carl Jung studied mythologies from around the world and was fascinated by the similarities in all cultures. Though some have never been in contact, they tell the same stories and even have the same dreams. Some say this is proof of a collective consciousness. There are also similarities in near death experiences. Jesus and Buddha might not have literally gone so long without food or water, but that doesn’t mean that they didn’t exist. Perhaps people dramatized their stories to spread the wisdom and truth of the words. I just learned while watching Roseanne’s podcast that the Jewish texts have many scientific and mathematical teachings. Like they knew the world was round before the west, the two men who funded Christoforo Colombo’s expedition to the new World were Jewish men who eventually converted to Christianity.
And we continue to retell the same basic myths in our modern stories, though now usually with a veneer of lasers and explosions. My guess is that they reflect some basic truth about our evolutionary psychology and how we make sense out of the chaos of the world. Personally, I love many aspects of the *story* of Jesus as a mythological hero. My favorite version is the "blasphemous" one written about by Kazantzakis in The Last Temptation of Christ, which portrayed him as a human struggling with the weight of his destiny, which was made into a movie by Martin Scorcese. But none of this requires me to literally believe any of this happened anymore than I believe Superman is really flying around and saving the world from supervillains.
So god created a world full of complexity. Math, science, an entire universe. Dimensions. Takes a single planet out of trillions. Makes humans. Punishes humans for being human. Sends him self down as the ultimate sacrifice to him self. And then dips, promising that one day half the planet will burn in hell. 🥰🥰🥰 amen
Not necessarily. They are definitely hurt people tho. Religion isnt bad until people think theyre better, and that tends to happen with people that are hurt…
Personally, I think that happens with everything, not just religion, heck .. people even argue about food! "My country's food is better" "thats not the traditional way to make it" etc... humans just have a very tribal mindset :/
@ very true
@@adaninurs It's all aspects of culture and group identification. When you question or attack a series of ideas someone has learned to identify themselves with, they interpret it as though you are attacking them.
I just commented on your newest video, and ended up watching this one too xD.... part of the reason why I chose Islam is because of that, Allah is just arabic word for God, not a human, not a being, just something that human cannot comprehend, no multiple Gods, etc. For me personally, the way I see it, the "rules" exist for human to live in society, kinda like, everything that created has manual book, computer has manual book, washing machine has manual book, well.. human too. But yea, great video!! I might check out the cosmic horror haha
I hope God(s) like me enough to let me ask them some questions someday.
I didn't mention this in the video, but I'm planning for my first novel to be about this principle in a science fiction context. Working titles include: "Hierarchy of Will" and "It's Gods All the Way Up"
@@gregoryvdiehl God definitely will let you ask xD even I wanna ask some too haha.... good luck for your novel!🎉 I read books too, but mostly non fiction, still... post a video when you release the book:) I might check it out~
@@adaninurs You can read some of my non-fiction in the meantime, if you want: www.amazon.com/stores/Gregory-Diehl/author/B017USY7IU
@@gregoryvdiehloh wow! Definitely gonna check it out! Thank you!!!
I'm a muslim and HUGE science nerd with math degree, for me personally, it took a WHILE to "accept" all of this stuff mostly because a lot of "religious" people dont really have rational reasoning, don't really read the scripture itself, just accept things, blabla I couldn't connect with a lot of them....a total mess, but yea I finally found it.... and one of them is because of one of my fav theorems called Godel's Theorem, it gives me comfort about incompleteness but also about God. But anw, good video! I like the last part, when you said that it won't be a religion anymore but more a new branch of science, I find it interesting because religion and science has the same root, we just wanna answer where are we from and other existential question, etc.......... we might not agree in some things, but yea good video:)
As long as we maintain open minds about when we don't understand, there's no reason to have any conflict over differing beliefs.
@@gregoryvdiehlagree! I find it ironic tho, idk about other religion, but at least in islam Holybook (Quran), it always emphasize to "Iqra" or read... and to think about the world, which probably influence islamic golden age too🤔 but yeah stay open mind✨️ thanks again for the cool video! I'll subscribe to you~
@@gregoryvdiehl addition: I kinda wish that human won't make any conflict over differing beliefs, like ever, but yea, i dont think so... our tribal mindset would just come up with something to different ourselves from others and argue about it, still... it's important to recognize our biases tho
Look up the transcendental argument for God. You can’t even have reason or logic without God.
Yet, even that argument relies on the use of logic.
@ you could thank God for logic and reasoning, all you have to do is look past your pride!😉
@@Ezrasghostpride… that is very ironic.
@@gregoryvdiehl you seem to agree with Descartes that because you think, therefore you exist. It's a self-attesting claim akin to the laws of logic. Similarly, we have claims like these: - Words have meaning. - An absolute, objective authority exists. Any attempt to counter those claims results in assuming they're true. I realize you'll likely take issue with the second claim, but I'm hoping you'll see it's in exactly the same category as the aforementioned laws of logic. These types of claims are so obvious, they exposes us as fools when we try to argue otherwise. That is what is in view here: Psalm 14:1 The fool says in his heart, "There is no God." The transcendental argument is in the same vein as these basic truths. God designed this reality such that we can't reason about it without assuming he exists. We might have difficulty seeing this when we don't want reality to be this way. I pray that God opens your eyes to see this.
@@Ezrasghost what leads you to the conclusion that you cannot have reason or logic without god?
Your ego is stopping you from being truly happy and receiving eternal life. I was once like you--young and naive. I pray one day you see. God bless 🙏🏼
Fingers crossed.
Which eternal life are you referring to? The one where 70 percent of the earths population BURNS for eternity?
If you believe the man in this video has an ego than you failed to listen to his words. He is trying to teach you to be rational.
@@sceplecture2382 I'm probably 10 years his senior. Rationality is what made me a staunch atheist for most of my adult life. Having everything I've ever wanted or asked for and still feeling empty and meaningless brought me to my knees in front of the Lord. Knowing Jesus Christ filled that emptiness. He's the only rational answer my friend.
Oh spare me😂 your mental health problem is stoping you from living your life and minding your own business
Do you believe consciousness? How can you prove it? In you? In others?
Great question. My own consciousness is already demonstrated by the very fact that I am able to question my own consciousness - "I think, therefore I am." It's a premise I have to accept before I can consider any other matters. However, in others, it's a matter of rational inference. I observe behavior from them that cannot be explained in any simpler way than that they, too, are conscious. Occam's Razor. This avoids solipsism.
@@gregoryvdiehl Ha! you make some interesting assumptions here and misapply Occasm’s Razor… consciousness in others isn’t necessarily the simplest explanation - it’s the most intuitive. Behavior could arguably be simpler if described as an unconscious neurobiological “program” because it does not invoke the unobservable (or unprovable) phenomenon of “consciousness”. 1) “cogito, Ergo Sum” - Thought or awareness doesn’t necessarily prove the existence of an individual self. The concept of consciousness may be a byproduct of brain or natural processes, and not necessarily guarantee of an independent, self aware entity. 2) You also assume that the observable behavior is a result of consciousness. However, behavior could also be the result of a sophisticated yet unconscious process like artificial intelligence or a robot. To give you an example, an algorithmic entity can mimic “human-like” behavior. Consciousness is NOT observable (or unprovable).
@@User007RD I am conscious. Therefore. consciousness exists. It's perfectly reasonable for me to assume it exists in other processes I observe as similar to myself, such as other people. That interpretation requires fewer assumptions and leaps in logic than assuming that all people except me are the result of unconscious algorithms. In any case, I'm not sure what this otherwise interesting discussion has to do with my video about the intelligence of religious people.
@@gregoryvdiehl Thought you’d never ask. Bingo buddy! 😂 it was just a bait for you to argue to me that you believe in consciousness. Somewhere in your video you said something along the lines that you don’t believe in something that is not testable or tangible. Both religion and consciousness involve elements that are untestable or unmeasuravle empirically. Consciousness, like religion, is largely based on subjective experience. if you accept consciousness as real despite its intangibility, you dont really have very good argument against religion… regardless you sound smart and from what I see, you are able to articulate your thoughts… so I respect the hustle but just be open minded man
@@User007RD All observations and conclusions derived therefrom are based on subjective experience. That's how science works. And you don't need to bait me into admitting things I already freely admit. You're working harder than you need to here. ua-cam.com/video/3OJnWBiM_1g/v-deo.htmlsi=x99WqaFYe6rn4Tz3
The evidence is there. Read the bible. Ever hear of mind, body and spirit? Why is that a used concept within many areas of study? Why is spirit included? Where does material come from, or how has it come to exist or have originated? Is it just some 'thing' that has made it all come about, with such organised and beautifully articulated species and elements, of which are all superbly beautiful in their uniquely individual essences. Jesus Christ had thousands of eye witnesses, and in the bible, the many things noted or mysteriously predicted have been prophecied. The remains of Noahs ark has been found. The area has been carefully scoped out and examined. Moses splitting the Red Sea in 2, has also had many different artefacts found in the exact area of where it happened. The stone that had water flowing from it in the dry desert, was also found with water-formed grooves to prove it happened. The flood and it's impact on the layers of sediment which have been excavated, with fossils swallowing other animals or galloping or looking back and are frozen or paralysed by debris and water having solidified their bodies. I don't know the correct terminology. The evidence you're "not" looking for is all out there. Stop being so ignorant like the majority. True Christians are the minority for a reason. Christianity is openly hated by the world for whatever reason. People call out into the world for something to help them from their constant struggles, and that help came downand suffered for us and because of us, and this is where we are still, rejecting God - the One Who gave us life in abundance. Mere human reasoning is just pathetic when speaking of such a beautiful being that has orchestrated everything so perfectly and divinely. A big bang did not happen. This was all very carefully created, by a beautiful, caring, loving and selfless being - The Lord, God and father of all. All knees will bow and all tongues will confess, that Jesus Christ is Lord.
Unfortunately, as a mere human, mere human reasoning is all I have to work with. Perhaps that was a design flaw on God's part.
Women thrive in achievement too. Fundamental misunderstanding there. Rest and beauty are good for men too. It also made think think of that meme of a man and a woman walking and the man is saying *women are such complexe creatures* with the woman interjecting *if I could just-*; the man *so strange and difficult to understand; woman *let me just expl-* .... man: *truly a mystery lol. The words of this psychotherapist are no revelation. No offense. They are also coming from one woman. One woman cannot explain the experience of all. It's different for everybody. The things we share are and have been known and understood by women since forever. Never heard a woman say "Please be loyal, please be supportive, please show up for me emotionally?"
@@PsychesFlora rather than interpreting it as a binary absolute between how men and all women are, it's meant as a generalization of masculine and feminine ways of being, which are overrepresented by but not exclusive to each gender. The book goes into much greater detail about this.
From the introduction: www.gregorydiehl.net/blog/the-romantic-ideal-by-gregory-v-diehl-introduction "For whatever reason, masculine traits are naturally overrepresented in men and feminine traits in women. If they are the product of our evolution, experts more qualified than me can only speculate about the advantages they’ve provided that have led to their proliferation in our species. Though the potential for endless diversity and individuation exists and should be respected, there are still broad categories of personality, values, and experience that most people will primarily identify with. Most masculine men are attracted primarily to feminine women, and most feminine women are attracted primarily to masculine men, for instance. Both natural genetic/hormonal expression and social conditioning likely play significant roles in this - though that’s not a can of worms I’m ready to open here. Still, neither masculinity nor femininity is exclusive to men or women. If you don’t feel like you belong squarely in the categories I describe, apply your own judgment and self-analysis to see how what I am talking about could still broadly apply outside of you. "
@ I understand and I think it’s not a bad idea to be interested and curious about this topic at all. I just got a bit confused by the idea that it’s in any way a new topic. Also the fact that you said that this psychotherapist expressed it more eloquently than any woman you’ve ever met seemed a little far fetched? Women have been expressing and trying to express these things to men who disregard their opinions for a long time.
@PsychesFlora then I guess you should be glad I am giving one of them a platform through which to contribute to that expression
@ Maybe I would have been but telling me what to do does not really make your argument convincing. I’m sure she could have had her own platform if she already has a career. Women do not need to be “helped” in order to be successful, they are capable of being heard on their own! But yes it is good that you are taking an interest. Just saying if you’re going to be speaking for women maybe tone down the certainty.
The title interested me, but there's no way I'm watching 38 minutes of this. 2 minutes in and I'm already bored.
@@dantepatel You can always read the book instead!
Dude women dont wanna date you because you have a pre-copernicus concept of reality where you are the center and the universe and women spin around you. You are full of half assed semi intelligent knowledge pieces of philosophy and psychology that has absolutely nothing to do with reality because you are so self absorbed. Idk why youtube recommended me your videos and you know, I NEVER COMMENT on youtube but your arrogance pissed me off so hard that i am typing this message. Please for sake of god, start studying actual philosophy from actual philosophers, read Plato and Aristotele, listen to lectures, read Marx himself and not half assed posts on reddit or 4chan or what not, humble yourself, take psilocybin or something - but please stop bothering people with your non scientific theories and thesises and stop rolling your eyes when your guests dont understand what the fuck you are saying (becauss i legit dont understand what the fuck you are sayin and im not stupid), start respecting people around you and start to listen to them, their stories and their lives, instead of imposing your insufferable opinions on them when they just wanna have their breakfast
I thought i was insufferable with my interest in philosophy but then i found your channel
@@alism7743 Don't be so hard on yourself. I hardly know you and I can already get a sense of how in sufferable you are.
Dude how much do you pay these people to listen you
@@alism7743 if they don't listen to my ramblings, they don't eat. House rules.
cringe. You have a too big of an ego and naive to merge two concepts. Maybe spend some time educating yourself in philosophy starting from basics. You should rewatch this video and watch your face, your eyes, your gestures - you seem very arrogant and obviously think you are smarter and deeper than people around you. This kitchen as a "stage" for you is your best shot anyways. Be humble, man.
This is ultimate nonsense Source: im a woman
love this. is your book out yet?
@@dantesmith3664 yes, since Nov 19. Here's the amazon link. The book is just 99 cents right now. Drop me a line when you finish it. amzn.to/4e7y5Y6
You are autistic?
I wish you gave a specific/practical example of what you mean by extending the offer of a fantasy world to a woman and her copping out/being distrustful.
It applies in any case a woman has adapted to a comfortable social role that prevents her from fully expressing herself. In my book, I give the example of a woman I dated and attempted to marry in a repressive culture where her parents and peers traumatized her out of believing it was possible to be with a man of her own choosing who came from a foreign culture.
feels like you moved to armenia because your views are more welcome there. not meant as an attack or anything. I'm half tempted to read your books, but i might feel like slapping you with it. not that i would.
@@none_of_your_business i always prefer a good debate about my view AFTER someone has read my book instead of before. It saves a lot of time for both of us.
Someone's on their period.
I take umbrage with generalities. They oversimplify the nuanced complexity of human nature and make us all worse for it. Please avoid such characterizations of any group, it is not truth. I wonder if the issue is whether these women have spent enough time with you to properly contextualize the things you are telling them. Time spent together is important because words are just words; we can vomit them all over someone, but they may not have seen your day-to-day persona enough to know whether what you are telling them is a faithful characterization of yourself or bs. Actions speak louder, after all. At least if you give them the information over time, when it is relevant, they can make a more informed decision about this new information in the greater context of your relationship. They might decide that what you have is worth compromising for. Don't be dishonest or misleading, but a little mystery is sexy. Why do you feel the need to share anything and everything right away? Are you afraid that if you don't, they will find out something about you later on and leave anyway, so you don't want to waste time? Also, I wonder, would you do this to a guy you just met or didn't know well, or is it only with women you expect to have a romantic relationship with? If this is the case, I would evaluate your motivation. This is a little hard to explain, but if you are only doing it with relationship potentials, it seems like you are putting the horse before the cart, valuing the concept of the relationship itself over the actual experience of having and being in a relationship with someone. "Relationship" and "getting to know one another" kind-of go together, you know what I mean? Like... I feel that relationships of all kinds exist because I can only see myself from my perspective. Even if you think you are giving them your whole self right away... are you? Are you 100% confident that you know and are characterizing yourself accurately? I don't think it is possible. Finally, and I am not saying you are doing this but, in my experience, when some people say "honest" they mean "judgmental", so do be careful of that.
@@joshuastevens2804 as a rule, I seek total transparency with anyone I socially bond with. The only exception is when I start to perceive someone as dishonest or manipulative, someone who would potentially try to use information about me to harm me, much in the same way I might lie to a mugger about how much money I actually have on me. Self-defensive deception is necessary in a dishonest society.
Your perspective is really biased. It's all about "what I do right" vs "what women do wrong". The dynamic you describe is you coming into a relationship being too intense and needy, and the women spending the whole relationship working up the courage to break it off and not cause further damage. In relationships both people are seeking healing through intimacy, and by you coming in too strong with your own baggage, you are driving potential romantic partners away, because by being too blinded by your own baggage, they can't expect you to help them with their baggage.
That's one possible interpretation, but I don't really see how confidently expressing who you are and what you are looking for necessarily equates to being needy. Intense, certainly. But a woman who doesn't want intensity shouldn't be getting involved with someone like me in the first place.
@@gregoryvdiehl Fair enough. I'd say from expeirence it can often be a bit of a pitfall to be too confident that you know who you are or what you're looking for. Just my two cents.
Nah…..none of that would matter with women if he was really handsome, really rich, or both. Trust me, I’m an extremely polarizing person and always have been. I’m also extremely honest and direct. That directness is off putting to MANY people and appreciated by few. But, I’m 6’4, fit, and handsome so I’ve always been successful with women for the most part.
This reality is like a dream. In dreams, what you see is symbolic. Reality is no different. What is the symbol these women represent to you? You see it as a personal failure that they left eventually. Perhaps this theorizing is you trying to figure out why you failed. Perhaps as long as you see yourself as a failure, reality will offer you opportunities to reinforce that belief. Are you a failure? Just because women left you? No. And you wouldn’t be a failure no matter what happens to you. But you can experience the experience of feeling like a failure if that is what you believe you are
Ya "failure" is the default since all things come to an end, all things change, and we must face enforced slow death through systems that are clearly rigged and propaganda soaked; without considering we're creating new humans and entities that will surely be twisted by this machine. I picked up on this assumption almost immediately. I suppose it'd be easy to look past those things when you think life is a dream where it's impossible to fail.
If I was in your shoes, I’d be asking why I keep picking the “wrong” woman. I know I was for a long time. Sure, they are actually immature but why are those the ones you pick to date? The first sign that my soon-to-be wife was different was that she was so open with me the first time I met her, it kinda caught me off guard! I wasn’t used to that much openness but man it was refreshing. Keep your head up, heal yourself and it’ll get better!
It's a conversation I've had with myself more times than I care to remember. Lack of better options is the most obvious answer, but also kind of a cop-out. Or maybe I'm naive and keep thinking the pattern can change if I try and invest myself hard enough. But it seems like I may have finally found a unicorn of a woman who is as self-determined as I am in this regard.
Very nice subject. Thank you for the nice rant. :)
Sounds like praxeology. You might like Ludwig von Mises
its so cringe when people who dont know what they are talking about look confident and make absolute shit analogies
Sorry about that.
851 years ago, this kind of sharp tongue and quick wit would make one a fearsome preacher. the ability to gymnast facts, wildly jump between unrelated topics building emotional bridges between them, and effectively create narrative/semantic voids just to fill them with performance driven authority moments later... only difference might be that them then preachers actually held some aspects of the human condition to be sacred. economics is everything and everywhere, just like god was, or france, or the class struggle ... similar to controlled explosive dihaerrea as a skill, to be able to reduce every conceivable topic down to a/the single same thing is a marvellously empowering feeling. and that power is necessary, to be able to wilfully ignore any other interpretation or narrative, or rather .... "single point of reduction". unlike most of the "buy my book" crowd, you have apparently managed to monetise with at least a modicum of success. nothing wrong with that, jsut that i don't really see any value being created here. at least not after my surface glance at the relevant bio. i'm guessing some people will pay top ruble for someone to condescend at them for a while, or ... whatever this is... be that as it may, why not try and peddle this stuff somewhere outside of a post-soviet country that had it's intellectual elite thoroughly exterminated in favour of more marxist-leaning intelligentsia. saaay ... someplace decidedly evangelical in the US or perhaps singapore? fuck, i just watched the last few seconds. your idea of marxism is entirely wrong in a very american way by the sound of it. not being versed in that might explain the rest of the shitpost-level take on political economy or the economy of politics (tho im fairly certain you are fumbling through the former here). either way, best of luck, and I hope random chance throws your work my way again in some 10 years or so. would be interesting to see where it goes from here.
@@evtikarina I appreciate your willingness to continue giving me a chance.
completley agree. what the fuck was that video
I have an unusual situation in our current society. My girlfriend WANTS to be treated as a non-volitional object. I don't treat her that way though, and it frustrates her that I make her think for herself and make decisions. AND I hold her accountable for her choices, which she really has a hard time accepting. This woman wants me to make all of the financial decisions and to only give her money when she has something in mind that she wants to buy. Did I mention that she likes to call me daddy? That is not a dynamic that I manufactured, or even desired, it is just how she wants to think of me. She wants to be controlled, and she wants me to control her. But most of the time, I am uncooperative with her efforts to be this way because I'm not willing to assume all the responsibility for both of our choices. My life is hard enough without having to take responsibility for her life in addition to my own. I'm sure this personality mismatch will eventually lead to the relationship ending, but I'll just keep riding while it lasts. BTW, I believe she is this way because she was raised by her DAD. Her mom left when she was young, and is not a part of her life. If I had the life that I think I would have in a healthier society, I would feel like more of a man for accomplishing my goals in life. If that were the case, I would be in a much better position to rule over another person. Only then would I feel like I could treat a woman this way and be justified and right in doing so. But the way things currently are, I'm barely making ends meet and feel that I don't have any business making anybody else's decisions for them. Nor should any other loser.
It's good that you can at least recognize the fundamental mismatch in self-determination now.
Your popularity reflects your philosophy
A gay man would disagree. This is definitely the perspective of a man who is sexually attracted to women.
@@JohnSmith-rv6nf what gave it away?
@@gregoryvdiehl The obsession with women. Lol
@@JohnSmith-rv6nf yeah that'll do it
@@gregoryvdiehl From this gay man’s perspective, women are required for making babies and that’s about it. I see homosexuality as a form of birth control. Lol. If a gay man doesn’t want to make a child, bonding with women is pretty much not worth the effort from a gay man’s perspective. Lol You see a whole lot of value in women that I just cannot even fathom. Lol
I'm also ethnically Armenian, raised in America, and interested in visiting/getting citizenship in Hayastan (which is how I came across your center). In listening to you speak, I keep wondering what you hoped to gain in yourself from immigrating? In your website and this interview, you talk a lot about what you hope to offer/teach to Armenians - English language, entrepreneurial mindset, "hippies," etc. - but I can't help but wonder if you've allowed yourself to change as well during this move? Personally, when I think about moving to the motherland, I get extremely excited at the idea of learning traditional crafts, songs, cooking, etc. To me, a big reason why I travel is to deprogram my own culture and learn from the locals rather than trying to spread my own values and ideology. To be honest, our individualist American culture has made me feel extremely lonely for most of my life, and if/when I move to Hayastan I want to build relationships with my neighbors and seek advice from my elders and have the feeling of the big Armenian family that the genocide took from me. And in order to do that, I know I'm going to have to get uncomfortable, question my own values and upbringing, make myself vulnerable, and change some things about myself. I'm going to have to confront the fact that, even though I passively "am" Armenian, I still have so much to learn in order to actively BE part of Armenia. So I guess my question is: are you trying to explore and connect with your Armenian heritage, or are you trying to create a little America within Armenia? If the first, what do you think Armenia can offer to you, and are you accepting it? If the second, why bother going to Armenia at all?
All excellent questions, some of which are covered in the video about why I moved to Kalavan village: ua-cam.com/video/FONsi-NSywY/v-deo.htmlsi=wW0M7J846ySPWRsq The short version is that I was initially looking for a community I could play a valuable role in with my unique perspective and skills. I wanted to integrate as much as possible. The people promoting Kalavan welcomed me here and helped me buy the last house for sale on the premise that I would be welcome as part of this purportedly "entrepreneurial" community. I spent the first few years of living here trying to act on that premise, but I found instead that everyone who welcomed me here just seemed very uncomfortable with my presence here. Some seemed to go out of their way to take advantage of me and make things as difficult as possible for me. To date, I still cannot get the vast majority of Armenians to even speak the Armenian language with me, for instance, which has made learning it a chore. I even tried to marry an Armenian girl and integrate with her family, to no avail. I changed my approach when I realized that this culture, in general, would never be truly welcoming of a foreign presence. They are highly threatened by anything new. They are also judgmental and violent toward many types of minorities and alternative ways of thinking and living. So, if I couldn't find a community among the Armenians, I'd rather build one from scratch among those the Armenians reject. I'm happy to share the details of my repatriation with you more and help set your expectations for coming here if you'd like. contact@gregorydiehl.net
@@gregoryvdiehl I wonder if that also might be partially due to the fact that you're in a rural village? I mean, small towns in America also tend to be more conservative and not as welcoming to those who didn't grow up within their community, but that might not necessarily reflect on the entire country? I spent 6 weeks in Yerevan some years ago volunteering at a Women's Resource Center, and I found it to be incredibly welcoming. There was even a non-Armenian woman there who had moved to Armenia completely randomly after literally pointing to a random country on a globe, and she had managed to find community and learn the language with other feminists/progressives in Yerevan. Obviously both of our experiences are anecdotal, but I'm wondering if there might be other factors at play that have caused you to have a less-than-ideal experience.
@@loaleen My experience from five years here is that all the same biases and limitations are present in Yerevan too, though to a lesser or better hidden extent. They seem to want to explicitly distance themselves from the mentality of the rural Armenians, but they are still subject to many of the same fears, such as going against expectations of family and peers. I know modern young Yerevanian women who are afraid to be seen smoking in public or walking with men in case someone starts judging and gossiping about them for it.
Brand is the container that holds reputation and promises.
You don't need to say "bear with me" in a book, you just have more pages.
In 1960, NASA commissioned the Brookings Institute to compile a report on the cultural impact of extra-terrestrial encounters. The report, published in 1961, noted that throughout human history, whenever a lower technological culture encounters a higher technological culture, the result is ALWAYS the complete devastation of the less advanced culture. Brookings recommended that if human astronauts encountered more advanced aliens, the evidence should be suppressed for the good of humanity; and that if those astronauts encountered less advanced aliens, we should leave them the hell alone, for the good of that culture.
Does that imply we shouldn't try to educate people who know less than us?
Not specifically, but the history of Europe is basically two and a half thousand years of supposedly 'advanced' cultures trying to 'civilised the barbarians' and making a TERRIBLE job of it. I'm sure the Aztecs, the Dalmatians, the Cymrics, the First Nations Americans, a large number of African tribes and countless others i can't name off the top of my head would have been VERY grateful for a prime directive, since that would mean their respective cultures might still exist.
I interacted with many tourists and very few of them had the same unique perspective and mentality that you have about traveling, actually I have to say about everything. The 19-year-old Swiss girl, Bily who almost traveled around the world on her bicycle, which was really amazing to me, what a wide thought and insight about the world and how to interact with people and what special effects it can have on people. everyone do not see this world the same way u view، Mr Gregory I have met and talked with many tourists, for whom the number of countries they have traveled is important. Tourists whose most enjoyable part of their trip was staying in Dubai hotels. But what has always been interesting to me is that the tourists who travel to Iran are completely different people who are not looking for a luxurious hotel with special facilities. They are looking for something beyond imagination. I will read this book as soon as possible, I am sure that your experiences that you shared in this book can be useful for everyone
I would guess that that language safe space is in part a semi-deliberate defense mechanism developed as a response to being invaded, taken over, genocided, etc, through history. From having scary neighbors. For one, if the scary neighbors don't know your language, rarely even hear it, it means you can speak privately. For another, when cultural identity is always being ground down, it's something to hold onto psychologically, but also practically, to tell friend from foe. And it is a somewhat passive form of resistance to forced assimilation, one that the scary neighbor who just moved in might find harder to complain about. After generations of it, it is going to be very hard to let go of. And from what I understand, there is reason to believe it might be needed again. The guy you were talking to might have said something along those lines, but he was very hard to understand, between his accent and how his voice was muffled in the audio.
As a person who lived in the Armenian society for 6 months and tried to find a place between them and work with them, I totally agree with Gregory. I'm so happy and grateful that people like Gregory are trying their best to make a change here. I hope Armenians who are looking forward to seeing their country and their society develop and become more progressive find Gregory and cooperate with him through this process that he has already started in his own house in Kalavan.
I'm Currently taking notes on your video. 12 minutes into your video but have taken notes for last 30min almost word for word. You two are a gold mine. Thankyou for this. Your understandings couldn't have come at a better time.
Nice to know we are getting through to at least one person.
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Capitalism is the death of creativity.
Only if you don't know how to think entrepreneurially and apply your creativity in the economy.
@@gregoryvdiehlI'm more concerned with artistic integrity and compassion for other humans, as opposed to the parasitic "grind" for wealth.
@@Red_Lion2000 nothing about offering your art on the market requires being parasitic or grinding. That's why I write and sell my books: to sustain myself by putting uniquely valuable products of my mind out into the world for others to benefit from.
@@gregoryvdiehlMany art forms are dumbed down/altered in order to appeal to a larger audience to make more money. Especially where publishers are concerned, rushing art and forcing changes. Capitalism prides wealth over all, and so art along with the majority of the people suffer. Having a unique product is nothing compared to using the media and advertisement to sell a subpar product.
@@Red_Lion2000 the same entrepreneurial innovation in the market that first allowed mass book printing and publishing has now allowed for self-publishing at greatly reduced costs, so virtually any message or art can be introduced to the market. That's how my books exist. www.identitypublications.com/l/the-evolution-of-traditional-publishing-into-self-publishing/
Not a top ten ToDo book, but what might be useful is a book of concrete use cases for the ideas you've presented in the abstract. Either made up or real. Stories about applying these ideas at a very, very local level. A mom & pop shop, or a farmer, a kid who mows lawns in his neighborhood for money, or even a poor person trying to dig himself out. There's a book called "Reinventing Organizations by Frederic Laloux that takes some of Ken Wilbur's very abstract principles and shows how they are being applied across a variety of companies, charitable orgs, etc. It does a great job of cementing the knowledge of those principles while also implying - though not explicitly giving - practical advice. "The Goal" by Eliahu Goldratt does the same basic thing for his own ideas about how businesses work, told as almost a novel. Neither book's subject is exactly in the vein of what you are discussing, but both are worth reading on their merits for their ideas, and both are examples of the kind of thing I'm suggesting. --Reinventing Orgs is about fully integrating employee skills, knowledge, and values into a company and flattening the heirarchy, but in a very different way than the usual kumbaya worker's rights political crap. It's a philosophy, not a technique or a specific practice. --The Goal is about a business strategy - in this case manufacturing - based on identifying the bottleneck to a business (at a holistic level), eliminating it, then identifying the next one down the line (there's always, by definition, one and only one bottleneck). It's one of those popular "must reads" for computer programmers, because the basic principles apply far outside manufacturing or even business.
At the end of the book, I added a lengthy case study about what it took to finally get my neighbors to have enough confidence in these principles to apply them in the tiniest way. I started selling them cigarettes at a small profit, which eventually opened their minds to selling other needed products to each other: www.kalavan.net/l/influencing-the-opening-of-a-store-and-entrepreneurial-development-in-kalavan-armenia/
this was said about Greek, Latin... and then what?
I'm sure those were all good languages to learn at the time.
So when are you going to fix the stoopid spellings in English? Physics should be Fiziks!
Well well well... look what the algo brought to my timeline. Ha. Still looking like a young deadmau5 👅 hope life's treating you nice. It's been 8 years, geez...
How are you?
@@gregoryvdiehl still poor. But single, so less headaches.
Thanks, Gregory, for making your book available like this!
Looking forward to your review.
@gregoryvdiehl Yeah, I know I've got the e. Book, but I think it will just be a whole lot easier to listen to it while I'm driving, and then I can take some voice notes. And I see that you're writing a new book?
@@BookMattic Yes. Watch the interview I posted a few days ago. It's about the masculine experience of romance. ua-cam.com/video/SeUTFuSadIw/v-deo.html
I appreciate your video
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Gregory, I’ve read two of your books so far - The Influential Author and The Heroic & Exceptional Minority, in that order - and you’ve become one of my favorite and inspirational authors. By the end of reading the latter, I felt your ideas resonated with mine so deeply, I began to consider you one of my mentors - along with Jordan Peterson and Dostoevsky, among several others. Then, I found out you’re an American of Armenian descent, from Southern California, like myself - which connected me with you even more. I stumbled upon The Influential Author while searching for an appropriate book to guide me through the writing of my first book (which I am currently working on). I found the audiobook so helpful that I ordered the hard copy as well, for reference. I would love to discuss some of my ideas with you, and it would mean a greater deal to me if you’d be a mentor of mine, personally. As my mentor, I’d be looking for guidance on the collection, filtering, and organization of my ideas, and on the writing process. Even having some deep, meaningful conversations with you would be invaluable to me. The book I am working on, as well as my overall philosophy, is seemingly very similar to yours. My initial inspiration to start writing was that I love teaching and helping others become better versions of themselves. The next inspiration is my great grandfather (may he rest in peace), whose name was also Gregory, and who had published a book (in Armenian) about life in Mousa Ler during his time.
I'm very flattered. Can you email me at contact@gregorydiehl.net so we can talk about the options?