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Relationships are complicated and, if you think about it, most of them fail. Look at the divorce rate. Even if they don't fail, how many couples remain together, but live in quiet desperation. They stay because of circumstances, not love. Women are as bonkers as men.

i think if a couple wants to invite the government into their relationship by getting married, it only makes sense for a mandatory dna test for children born in this marriage. Don't put the weight on the husband, make it the government's responsibility. So many families have a kid or two with a different father, unknown by the legal father.

I totally agree. Both women and men I believe use their looks to manipulate people. Its hard to find a person who you can trust and will be completely committed to you now. They are out there, but very hard to find. I think social media has a big part of this problem. When I was growing up before computers and cell phones, everyone communicated face to face. Today all communication seems to be done via text messaging or other apps. People also change over time and grow in different directions and beliefs.

My parents were high school sweethearts so I was in for a rude awakening when I started dating. I grew up in a quiet house with love and respect where we told the truth and valued integrity. My dad adored my mom and vice versa. I never married nor had children. Suffice it to say that the men I dated were not in any way like my Dad and I walked away 3 different times.

I related to everything u said but flip it to a female perspective. I.e. I used to put men up on pedestals, I was naive in the past and now can reflect back on the character of those men (which was rly not good), and I too realize that the only power I have is to walk away (although I don’t even know if making that move holds any real weight as men seem to move on v quickly.) Interesting stuff and thx for sharing. 🙏💜

Hearts are delicate. We all need to be careful who we allow to handle our heart.

The saddest thing in the world is the belief that one is loved when one is not... And the most fortunate thing in the world is having the wisdom to recognise the difference.

Thank you for your thoughts. aren't most people blinded by Hollywood? Most people don't even know what love is. They enter into agreements. If the agreement is broken, things get uncomfortable very quickly. Is love really a feeling or an emotion, or is it more a state of mindset? Don't most women have a Jezebel spirit and most men an Ahab spirit? (as described in the Bible) Your thoughts make me think :)

There’s a lot here to digest. I started thinking about my EX, and how she was so incredibly STUBBORN and premeditated her manipulation on me. I am very spontaneous in my life and not a planner. I love to live one moment at a time. But she was a planner and it’s almost like she was not living in the moment, cause she was always worried about her list of shit. 💩. Women definitely play heads games IMO way more than men. I think men are reactive and women are always one step ahead in what they want and how they will get it. If they don’t budge which majority won’t we do walk away.

Nothing wrong with being on your own and having a small circle of genuine friends. I see more single older folks these days and talking to them, they're happy on their own. If I ever become single I'll never date at this stage of life, I'm actually envious of single folks. I think the key is living a healthy life style, staying humble, keeping busy and a strong family bond. I also agree with what you said about the power men have and that is to walk away. It's actually a very powerful option that more and more men are taking.

Thank you for your thoughts. I have been by myself for many years because I have such a hard time trusting anyone. The world is getting more corrupted every day.

Yes, the truth is anchoring in and it reveals all as it is, no more games will be gamed that aren't known to be games when they happen Truth keeps it directly as it is without entertaining deflection and projection that's done from a state of fear of the truth when the truth means it is vulnerability time We fear vulnerability because we've been programmed to shame, guilt, judge and suppress our true feelings onto ourselves ans others Trauma/wounds and fear/protection programming around them Humanity is waking up and healing the heart, coming home again Love is all there is, when we shed the onion to the core ❤ I want to add how funny it is that me being a woman has had to just recently walk away from a man who was doing me dirty mentally/emotionally and in that connection I was the backboned and he slimey so all depends on individuals ultimately

You're right except we're not just the same exactly, like you don't get women having sex with the Berlin wall and car exhausts and other bizarre shit I saw on this documentary and the serial killing.

Thank you for sharing and being vulnerable. Have faith that the right one is out there. Your happiness will be a tripled when you find the right one. Love isn’t meant to shrink your soul - it’s meant to heighten and enliven it. Wait for that. That is when both man and woman become magical for each other. I believe it does exist.

Through childhood trauma, we learn we are not good enough. Or we create the illusion inside our young minds that we are not good enough. For yourself, you would have thought in your young mind, “Dad left me. I’m not loveable enough, not good enough for him to choose to stay.” That wound has been with you all your life. It has affected the women you have loved. You were willing to take breadcrumbs off their plate just for a mere hint of affection and attention. You then worked hard to attain their love, even though you felt you weren’t good enough. You kept accepting their breadcrumbs. The key here is to begin the journey towards self-love. Have gratitude and compassion for yourself. Decide that only you can set the bar for who you choose to give your heart too. I was also like you. Any attention from a man soothed my soul. I leapt at any opportunity to love and be loved in return. This strategy didn’t work out very well, as I realised after 2 broken marriages. I have spent 10 years rebuilding myself, my faith in myself, having comfort in my own solitude - in order to attract the right sort of man. 10 years ago I didn’t have a clue. So many of us walk around, broken, and that brokenness ultimately transfers onto the ones we love. When we are whole, we ultimately find true love and a sacred bond. But it has to start from us healing.

Men are success objects, women are beauty objects.

None of us are magical creatures… but some of us try and be magical authentically

I'm not sure 'the one' actually exists. It's all very much a compromise.

I find manipulation by people one of those things that puts me off in a second. Men or women. Its very selfish and often times people don’t even realise they act that way. Doing it intentionally, even worse, but haven’t faced that myself. Mostly people play victim, put the fear out on others, or their frustrations, things like that.Love the snow 😊

Aubrey Marcus did this video - ua-cam.com/video/UegqxIizvRo/v-deo.htmlsi=gh82qCUFOJ_GNrqD It encapsulates the very essence of a man that must never be dulled or ridiculed. Just as women were best explained in Clarissa Pinkola Estes’ book “Women who run with the wolves”, men must be their wild wolf self. Only then can the match be made in heaven.

Don't people abuse their power when they have no self-worth? A person who has healed their themes has entered a calmness that is not of this world. He no longer fights, sets borders early and usually leaves the field quietly. Nothing is worth losing your inner peace. There are too many drama queens and kings. A little reference to Charlie Chaplin's Speach: when I began to love myself

It’s so beautiful out there…the snow and the naked trees. The light is just perfect. Nature has created the perfect canvas for the words you share.

This is such an accurate description. Wow! The word you are looking for is Strategic. Women are strategic. We have honed our skills of manipulation over the millennia in order to survive under a male-dominated society (pre-1960s). I have always found it fascinating that the strongest man can be brought to his knees by a mere glance from a woman - the story is as old as the bible with Samson deceived by Delilah when she cuts off his hair in his sleep. Women are mens Achilles heel - the one vulnerable spot men have in their emotional shield. And yes, we have the greatest power to abuse that vulnerability as women. Women also have the power to build a man up to greatness. We are his backbone and his strength if we choose to be. So I say to all the men out there, be careful the woman you choose to give your heart too.

you got through it man... your doing great! .. you had a very difficult life growing up without your father in your life. the pain I cant even imagine. So I can totally understand drinking. but you got though it and your so much stronger know....

Your totally right Sufferous. Women do have that ability. Maybe not all women, but they definitely can manipulate men. I've seen it happen at so many places were I have worked. I went through a divorce several years ago, and the girl I dated in college and married, changed.. so was no longer the same person. Some if the things I experienced was actually scary. In my entire life, while dating girls in middle school and up through college, I never treated any girl badly or abused them in any way. I always gave them respect. Maybe because I have a sister and would not want anybody treating my sister badly, so I never treated any girl I dated badly either.... piece man.

I thought you got 2ft of snow but didnt buy snowshoes but here you are. Physical dominance is obvious, manipulation is misguidance, sneaky and kind of a weasel tactic.

For the most part you can have things like motor cycles jet ski nice car etc ,or you can have a woman and chaos etc

Please, once I understood how women work, I thought less of them. I don't hate them but I dislike them intensely. I'll be more than satisfied moving ahead with my life without one.

They're also aware of how the legal system works in their favor and if they aren't aware a lawyer will be more than happy to fill their heads with gains. MGTOW 100% in todays world.

Most women find it a necessity to develop these abilities to extricate themselves from dangerous situations with men. I mean I was 4 and walking home from kindergarten two blocks to my house when the first man offered me candy to get into his convertible in the 1960s. I wish I could say that was a one off but sadly the reality is women deal with inappropriate and unwanted aggressive attention from men from pretty much day one. I was waiting on a playground for a bus for a field trip at age 13 and suddenly there was an adult man swinging next to me asking questions. Lucky the bus pulled up…I told him I was on a list and they would miss me if I went with him. My first kiss was by a total stranger at age 15 who just grabbed me in a park and kissed me. I was not a willing participant. Never saw him again, did not know his name. When I was 17 four drunk men jumped out of their still moving vehicle and chased me “want to go to a party?” one evening while I was walking home from my job at a local park. I escaped all of these encounters because I listened to my instincts. Most if not all women have these stories. Ask them. And those are not all of mine by a long shot. Men are born with superior physical strength. Women develop their advantages through necessity. This never excuses the misuse of power on either side but the world has changed little since I came up.

how about six months we no money whatsoever? you aren't going anywhere.

I am protective of myself and others too and have learnt that many people unfortunately operate different emotional and psychological manipulations with intent to harm for some self-gain purposes It's very weird I have changed my personality into a hiding one in order to not attract people to me as I have had bad experiences of what can happen inter-relationally I'm very picky and discerning today and prefer solitude to avoid causing or being caused harm from interactions/relationships My highly sensitive nature also requires me to steer off from environments, situations and others who hold energies my being can't do well with, it's like allergic response when it's not clicking with my energies

Well said! Nicely articulated Sufferous! Yes IMO females use their “superpowers” sometimes unconsciously too not realizing the negative effect it has on men. Premeditated manipulation. It’s an exhausting terrible experience being the one who is victimized. Controlling is an understatement!

I’m widowed. But I had a great connection with the husband. It took time. I had to figure out how to communicate. And then I had to relay to him that he needs to tell me what he needs. I was flying solo before him. I used to say he gave me wife lessons. It took more than a couple months to figure out how to communicate and not waste our energy on guessing what the other needed. I don’t even know how to describe it. Once we got to a place where we had each others backs it made life easier. And our appreciation of eachother grew. It takes more than a couple months. People that get together and six months in they are married are nuts. There is a lot to discover about a person. Now that I’m alone I’m not so sure I’m up for that task. It’s been 10 plus years. With women looking for captain money bags and the guys looking for a skinny idiot. It’s a recipe for disaster if those are the only qualities they want. It happens all the time. I think if I ever dated again. I would listen to what a guy is saying. Not let the looks persuade or dissuade me. I think guys could do that too. They would find women that won’t be nuts and self absorbed. When you get into your 50’s your a late model car. If you can find someone that wants to a hang a pine tree freshener on your mirror be happy.

There is no woman in existence that will love a man the way he wants to be loved. It's a lie. What we really want is a woman that needs us.

This video made me start thinking of a vision I had and documented which was "Rainbow threaded model" I also would like to add that I think it's an optional experience to join in on or opt out from to believe in past, present or future (time) and thus past lifetimes. I think we are all in an eternal now and it's just a projection and you can swish-swosh and delete completely and dance whatever. Freedom :) No rules

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Even if he had never been arrested, your old teacher was a cruel bully. The thought of someone like that in a position of power over children disgusts me. My first grade teacher would shake us and hit us…she said my left handedness was of the devil. After I told my mom though that teacher never bothered me again. I wished that all of the children had someone like my mom in their corner.

Genus: Stereum if smooth and whitish underneath or if violet and toothy underneath genus Trichaptum for the fungi you saw. Slimmer chance old Trametes. Yeah, I’m letting my nerd flag fly today. I have loved nature since day 1. I walked today before I came upon your video but our snow has all melted away temporarily.

this monologue presents a personal and metaphorical interpretation of consciousness, using the analogy of "strings" to connect people with similar mindsets or experiences. the claims made are based on personal beliefs and subjective experiences, not scientific evidence. while exploring different perspectives can be valuable, it's important to distinguish between personal interpretations and objective facts.

There are no soul mates. No love of our lives.. This is delusional to expect.. We are lost. Finding someone who can accept this and stick with us and our problems is the only way for a long-term relationship. Compassion and understanding..

Wow, you have had a "Bright Size Life"! Very cool. I would call that a life well lived!

You are living in your own dream image. People are real with with their personality. Don't let life past by. You looking magic.

Ok, I’m 62 and have been in a long term relationship for over 20 years now, so maybe I can help. When you speak of being disappointed with the women you date because you don’t see yourself reflected in their eyes, you wanna know what they see? They see a guy who is looking at them with eyes of disappointment. Nothing better than that to chase them away. They can see the lack of hope and love in your eyes. They can see you. Your concept of needed to click in a certain way after only two months or even a year sounds a lot like magical thinking. I don’t mean to be harsh, but getting to know someone is messy, there can be conflict, struggle, anger, and disappointment, but it’s the desire to stick with it that makes the difference. A sense of loyalty that once you’ve given your heart to someone, you won’t give up. You sound like you give up on people too soon, your whole video is about giving up. You want someone who is already perfect, but the truth is, no one is, not even you. It sounds to me that you are the kind of guy who has a “deal breaker” list spinning around in your head, and to be honest, people who have those lists are always the ones who are alone. Let it go. Jump in when you find yourself falling for someone. Stick with it, good times or bad, even when you don’t see yourself reflected in her eyes, which btw, sounds a little bit self consumed. Maybe if you spend time looking at them to see who they are and stop trying to see yourself reflected in them, then maybe she will see that you actually see her. Nothing is more intoxicating to a human being than being seen. Anyhow, not trying to be mean or anything, but snap out of it. You sound a little whiny, I hear a lot of complaining and blaming of others, like the culture and, as you say, propaganda, but the truth is, even with all that distraction, people have found one another, and you can too. Drop the standards test, try and really see the next person you date without expectations of some magical thought that you will see only yourself in their eyes. That’s unrealistic and is your primary problem. It’s magical thinking. Life is messy, get on with it. You sound like you’re a classic avoidant. You can change. That’s the thing about the human condition, we can change. We change all the time. I don’t mean to sound harsh, Good luck!

You have to know yourself then understand yourself, then love yourself. You can't love, understand, or even know another before you have gone through this deep, deep journey of self discovery, which starts with knowing your own feelings. That may be very hard to do, but it's the necessary first step, so research this and do it. There are millions of eligible girls out there but you have not developed the tools to connect. Remember the Greek oracle "Know thyself." You're a man: lose the earrings.

I am warn out on seeing the most uncommon sense people with how they think. NO COMMON SENSE !!! Movies....do they still make movies !!!. I can help you with the politicle party that is right. IT'S THE RED ONE.

NGL sonic 3 was well done.

it is great to find people who are at the same level of consciousness as yourself always looking for answers and learning about our world and universe. I'm always asking questions and if I am out during the night, I'm always looking up at the stars wondering... Most people I meet have no interest lol.

That was so thought provoking. Very calm message and scenery! Loved it!

Dune, and I already own the original and the sci-fi channels version.