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Or maybe schools are glorified daycare centers and to kids they're prisons... Old people have been out of school so long they won't even bother asking their kids the question why they hate it so much... Because there are horrible people in society and they happen to breed too.

I needed this. Thank you

Its a little different when your not with the other parent and the teen chooses not to come home for weeks on end, no calls or texts. What do i do in this situation as he wont even talk to me? Im being nutral and open with my communication already but his dad is perpetually the soft "buddy buddy" parent to our 13yo. He different witg our eldest daughter and much stricter with her 😢

Grown children in there 40's no longer talk to me maybe a text. They very rarely say I love you. I have 4 grand kids i only know 2. The other 2 i really don't know them sad

Noone tells you how f***ing painful parenting can be. My feelings are hurt, im hurting for my husband and I'm really tempted to do some reverse psychology and reject back. But that hurts even more. It's bs. I can't hate her no matter how mean she is.

My nephews..my sister's sons treat me like i don't exist. I feel enraged by that so to cope i had to cut myself off from them.

It hurts not to even get a phone call, finally realized I did a good job with sons off to their lives.My adult children seem bored with me😂😂😂

Dear Mrs. Kolari, I just wanted to let you know that your presentation long ago (introduced by Erika Ehm, and Dr. Gabor Maté also presented at some point) absolutely changed my relationship with my kids! In it, you mentioned tucking in a very prickly teenage girl at night that no one wanted to work with, and how your own change in attitude changed everything for her. I took that to heart and it transformed my own daughter who has (low support needs) ADHD and Autism. Her tantrums stopped and everything improved once I changed my own attitude. I can’t thank you enough for that! I had a very dysfunctional upbringing and had never been treated with kindness. Your presentation turned my world upside down, for the better!! Thank you !! BTW, whatever happened to that video? I used to recommend it to just about EVERYONE and one day it was gone from UA-cam.

This is so so much better than "gentle parenting" it's both empathetic and realistic

I’m literally both

I like that question: How am I going to be my best self anyway?

This video is bs crap

Sad as it is for me to say, I feel like black parents just don’t ever think this deeply about parenting. Most of the blk parents I know would have lashed out and hit the kid for rejecting them, or gotten “even” in some other way. It’s such a sad contrast to the approach this therapist advocates. They give the impression that they literally resent their kids for costing time and money.

What? Realy? I thought it was to give love, security and discipline. And. You chose to do it

I missed about 8 months with my son in his first year due to a separation and then divorce. I’ve had 50% physical custody of him for a little over a year and he barely has started saying he loves me back, and very rarely. I appreciate the advice. I sacrificed a lot to be with him and sometimes he makes me feel like it would have been better for him if I hadn’t tried. It makes me feel better to know other people go through this and that there are solutions I can explore.

Can you cover unconnected parents. Specifically, youtube.com/@TheAnti-AlienationProject?si=ntqmzic--Il8Bh6f

I’m experiencing this now with my 2 and half years toddler, and my heart is broken 💔

THIS IS FIRE 🗣️🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 PUT IT OUT

That’s a really great way to help explain it!

Honestly the best break down of what a parent does on a phycological level I have heard in a while.

부모와 자식관계는 서로 믿을수있고 진정성있는 관계를 기본으로 보지만,어떤 가족은 아이앞에서 한쪽부모, 특히 더 착한부모의 모자람을 강조하고 비난하는 가족환경에서 어린 자녀를 성장 시킬수있다.. 어른들도 건강하지못한 정서로 아이를 키우면 그 아이는 매우 편협한 상태로 성장할 확률이 매우 크다. 참으로 잘못된 안타까운 상황이다. 잘목된을 알아차리고 경계를 세워 어린 자녀일수록 잘 보살펴야… 잠깐의 건강한 사춘기라면 부모의 진정성때문에 스스로 곧 바로 잡는다.아이를 믿어라.

Whinging wallaby has no clue what a parent is nor what they should be.

Whining is a plead for kids to get attention, & if it takes longer to get it. . Toddlers or teenagers will do the stronger , louder beddin..

When i want more my s .o. undivided attention,, i say " when you're done" . 😃

So distracted.. or concernd with work.. 🤷‍♀️

Plenty of times people are mad longer than 90 sec. Whats your resources?

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What about parents with CPTSD experiencing this....

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Shes never ment a real man

Only a woman would say something so ridiculous, parenting is not the hardest job. It is certainly the most rewarding

How hard can being a mom be? You can do it in pajamas. Try bricklaying in pajamas, or plumbing, or carpentry.

Boundaries may be the answer to be kind to ones self too when dealing with abusive treatment by the other parent & who teaches child to abuse parent by proxy.

I really wish she would do a segment on how to deal with the Santa Clause myth transition as our little ones get older with siblings at different ages, especially for our "gladiators" who can feel more traumatized that we deceived them for their whole lives than actually about Santa not being real.🤦‍♂️

Thank you

Thank you...

We need some new videos! Love your message. And we want to share it far and wide 💝

But mental discipline is hard.

Thank you Dr. Kolari for all of your wisdom and all of your practical advice!! It's really helped me over the years!! Even a 5 minute "break" can work wonders and over time be very transformative! I've seen it in my own life! Be blessed friends! 💕😊

imagine if they're paying attention to our "politics"

You might want to buy a. Microphone

so sick of these mommy blog writers claiming that their made up bullshit is a scientific fact. you can in fact be angry indefinitely

If your a woman there mad forever!

Latins love drama

Latinas disagree.... And now they will remember You were telling them how to act. Que music ((RUN))

I solved this problem fortunately at a very young age. I never got married.

She’s describing women here. The vast preponderance of men do NOT do this.

So it's good that my brother molested me as a kid....gee thanks for letting me know that...I'm 62 and lifes been way too hard ....no kids here on purpose because of the childhood adverse events

A nice simple heuristic to reflect on further!

I'm pretty sure reacting based on emotional response is alot harder than shelfing it and thinking about something critically. Empathy is important and should be applied but I don't think Empathy is rare or easier said than done unless the parent she's talking about is a literal sociopath.