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Reset With Robb
Приєднався 17 лип 2022
REALITIES OF RETIREMENT
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The real culture of Thailand and retiring overseas; dating, retiring, staying busy, managing your money, and transforming your new life. My journey in realizing I needed some serious changes if I was going to have the best opportunities for making myself happy. Living in the USA, I was married, yet extremely lonely.
Over 1 Million Views
The real culture of Thailand and retiring overseas; dating, retiring, staying busy, managing your money, and transforming your new life. My journey in realizing I needed some serious changes if I was going to have the best opportunities for making myself happy. Living in the USA, I was married, yet extremely lonely.
WHY WOULD A THAI WOMAN WANT A FOREIGN HUSBAND
I say “may want” because it’s up to her, of course. However, I’d say much of this can be useful in determining IF you’ve found that “good Thai woman” we’re all seeking. It’s also useful to help you manage your behavior and your relationship AFTER you’ve found her.
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How can I retire in Thailand? What is the visa process like? What does it cost to retire in Thailand? Can foreigners retire in Thailand? How much money do I need to retire in Thailand? Is $2,000 per month a good pension to retire? Where are the best places in Thailand? What Healthcare does Thailand have? Does Medicare work overseas or in Thailand? How do I open a bank account in Thailand? Can I work in Thailand? What is the process of getting a retirement visa? How safe is Thailand? Can you retire in Thailand with 1 million dollars? Do Thai women really like older foreign men?
PLEASE JOIN/ BECOME a MEMBER: Login to your UA-cam account on Android or PC device (Apple users are not supported by YT and will have to borrow a PC device- apologies.) Go to “Reset With Robb”, click on “View Channel” at top, see list:
“Home • Videos • Shorts • …Membership”
Click “Membership” or “JOIN”. I have set the fee to YT’s minimum allowed.
Thank you for supporting my channel. This is a great hobby, I enjoy sharing, and appreciate your support very much.
*** THANK YOU***
NEW THIRD EDITION BOOK IS UP!!!!!!!
PAPERBACK & E-BOOK @ AMAZON (USA):
www.amazon.com/dp/B0CQ4QR3KB
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PAPERBACK SALES IN THAILAND:
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EMAIL ROBB to ask a free question or to arrange a ROBB & FAWN live chat, cultural or relationship consultation ($75/ hr.)
E-mail: resetwithrobb@gmail.com
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Learn to speak Thai
Locations in Bangkok and Korat
email Kruu Usanee directly at:
email: usanee3@gmail.com
www.thailearningschool.com
#divorce #marriage #dating #korat #retire #thailand #isan #pattaya #love #pension #farang #culture #speakthai #usa #farang #australia #uk #costofliving #thailand #safety #overseas #marriage #bargirl #massage #khonkaen #bangkok #marry #girlfriend #scammer #401k #kohsamui#huahin #sugarrelatioship #sugardaddy #love #gogo #village #temple #culture #buddhist #younger #women #english #thai
How can I retire in Thailand? What is the visa process like? What does it cost to retire in Thailand? Can foreigners retire in Thailand? How much money do I need to retire in Thailand? Is $2,000 per month a good pension to retire? Where are the best places in Thailand? What Healthcare does Thailand have? Does Medicare work overseas or in Thailand? How do I open a bank account in Thailand? Can I work in Thailand? What is the process of getting a retirement visa? How safe is Thailand? Can you retire in Thailand with 1 million dollars? Do Thai women really like older foreign men?
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SEVEN DEADLY SIGNS YOUR THAI LADY IS DONE WITH YOU
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I count up to the top (#7) signs you might see when your Thai girlfriend or wife is done with you. This is based on my personal observations. Often when I saw some of these things I was with a Thai person and they would help explain to me what was actually going on or some facts regarding the situation, etc. PLEASE JOIN/ BECOME a MEMBER: Login to your UA-cam account on Android or PC device (App...
FINDING PEACE IN RETIREMENT
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Whether overseas or at home, you cannot go on doing the same thing in your retirement, nor should you. But this is still a challenge, especially in Thailand. PLEASE JOIN/ BECOME a MEMBER: Login to your UA-cam account on Android or PC device (Apple users are not supported by YT and will have to borrow a PC device- apologies.) Go to “Reset With Robb”, click on “View Channel” at top, see list: “Ho...
OVERSEAS: SELFISHNESS, APPEARANCES, & MANNERS
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Apologies- some intermittent distorted audio- I think I was too close to the microphone. After almost 3 years of immersion I share some opinions and helpful tips on socializing and better understanding this interesting and extremely polite culture. Along with my usual updates & opinions. PLEASE JOIN/ BECOME a MEMBER: Login to your UA-cam account on Android or PC device (Apple users are not supp...
EXPAT HOLIDAYS: THAI HALLOWEEN
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My recent holiday celebration’s retired overseas in Thailand. I talk about peripheral subjects as well, including cost of living, making g friends to celebrate with, and I give my usual brief personal update as well. Also with special guest Davo from @onthegowithdavo PLEASE JOIN/ BECOME a MEMBER: Login to your UA-cam account on Android or PC device (Apple users are not supported by YT and will ...
WHAT IS A THAI LOVE BOMB & IS IT GOOD?
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I talk about the frequent practice of Thai women of “Love Bombing” their romantic prospects and how Thai can be either a good tho g or a bad sign depending on the situation. PLEASE JOIN/ BECOME a MEMBER: Login to your UA-cam account on an Android or PC device (Apple users are not supported by YT and will have to borrow a PC device- apologies.) Go to the “Reset With Robb” channel, click on “View...
THAI vs. WESTERN MARRIAGE- CONTROLLING YOUR LIFE
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I attempt to walk you through what I see here (again, where I live) as a typical Thai marriage and how various aspects, and therefore your lady’s expectations, may vary from what you might be thinking is fair or normal. JOIN/ BECOME a MEMBER: Login to your UA-cam account on an Android or PC device (Apple users are not supported by YT and will have to borrow a PC device- apologies.) Go to the “R...
CHANNEL, PERSONAL & RELATIONSHIP UPDATE
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So many changes in the channel audience size lately it was time for an update. I also provide personal and some relationship updates for me and Fawn. E-BOOK ONLY @ AMAZON (USA): www.amazon.com/dp/B0CQ4QR3KB PRINT PAPERBACK THAILAND & S.E. ASIA: www.ebay.com/itm/225944441602 EMAIL ROBB to ask a free question or to arrange a ROBB & FAWN live cultural or relationship consultation ($75/ hr.) E-mail...
ROBB REVIEWS PAK CHONG THAILAND
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I rarely make tourism videos but we had to make an exception for Pak Chong, Thailand. It is a beautiful, mountainous region which also features incredible amenities of fine dining and extreme wealth. The famous UA-camr “Davo” from “ On the Go With Davo” joins Fawn and I, along with his wife, Noi. We had an incredible time, as you will see. Near the end Davo and I collaboratively discuss the are...
RETIREMENT: BIG 3 GOALS & BEYOND
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What am I doing in my retirement and what am I doing with my channel. The parallels and contrasts between both things. I specifically compare retirement and life goals with that of my channel- showing my attempts to help some others. PAPERBACK & E-BOOK @ AMAZON (USA): www.amazon.com/dp/B0CQ4QR3KB PRINT PAPERBACK THAILAND & S.E. ASIA: www.ebay.com/itm/225944441602 EMAIL ROBB to ask a free questi...
DIVORCE & RETIREMENT- STICK TO THE PLAN
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NOTE: POOR AUDIO (sorry) My experience, successes and failures in planning and executing my retirement in Thailand. How and why I’ve learned to stick to my various plans. Four years after my initial thought that my retirement needed a total overhaul and after having retired in Thailand 2 1/2 years ago, I look back on my planning and lessons learned. PAPERBACK & E-BOOK @ AMAZON (USA): www.amazon...
IN THAILAND YOUR MILEAGE MAY VARY
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I talk about my specific circumstances retired in Thailand, and what differences you may want to not to compare against what kind of retirement you might wish to have. PAPERBACK & E-BOOK @ AMAZON (USA): www.amazon.com/dp/B0CQ4QR3KB PRINT PAPERBACK THAILAND & S.E. ASIA: www.ebay.com/itm/225944441602 Learn to speak Thai Locations in Bangkok and Korat email Kruu Usanee directly at: email: usanee3@...
THAI RETIREMENT- WHAT MIGHT WORK FOR YOU
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I talk about what underlying structures and realities give me the most underlying joy in my retirement, and how that might apply to your situation. I talk about some of the related social and cultural factors here as well. I give a few ideas as to something’s you might choose to focus on as well. PAPERBACK & E-BOOK @ AMAZON (USA): www.amazon.com/dp/B0CQ4QR3KB PRINT PAPERBACK THAILAND & S.E. ASI...
THE THREE WIVES YOU CAN HAVE IN THAILAND
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A deep dive into the three “wives” (Pan-Lay-Ah, Gik, Mia-Noi) in Thai culture, the various terms used to describe them, the relevance of that and how these women function in Thai society, and how that varies for foreign husbands and boyfriends. JOIN/ BECOME a MEMBER: Login to your UA-cam account on an Android or PC device (Apple users are not supported by YT and will have to borrow a PC device-...
HOW I LOST 50 LBS. AND RETIRED IN THAILAND
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My experience, methodologies and tactics for how I rearranged my thinking and ultimately controlled my prior bad habits and lost 50 pounds over one year and kept it off. PAPERBACK & E-BOOK @ AMAZON: www.amazon.com/dp/B0CQ4QR3KB PRINT PAPERBACK THAILAND & S.E. ASIA: www.ebay.com/itm/225944441602 Learn to speak Thai www.thailearningschool.com #divorce #marriage #dating #korat #retire #thailand #i...
WHAT IS SOCIALLY FAIR IN THAILAND FOR RETIREES
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WHAT IS SOCIALLY FAIR IN THAILAND FOR RETIREES
3 WAYS YOU CAN ENGAGE SOCIALLY IN THE VILLAGE
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3 WAYS YOU CAN ENGAGE SOCIALLY IN THE VILLAGE
YES YOU CAN RETIRE IN THAILAND & HAVE A BETTER LIFE
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YES YOU CAN RETIRE IN THAILAND & HAVE A BETTER LIFE
IS A THAI VILLAGE RETIREMENT FOR YOU?
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IS A THAI VILLAGE RETIREMENT FOR YOU?
HORMONE PRODUCTION & TRAINING FOR OLDER MEN
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HORMONE PRODUCTION & TRAINING FOR OLDER MEN
A USEFUL RESOURCE FOR YOUR THAI RETIREMENT
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A USEFUL RESOURCE FOR YOUR THAI RETIREMENT
IN THAILAND WHAT IS POLITE AND WHAT IS NOT
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IN THAILAND WHAT IS POLITE AND WHAT IS NOT
I BROKE THE RULE OF LENDING MONEY
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I BROKE THE RULE OF LENDING MONEY
THE LOWER STRESS OF EVERYTHING RETIRED IN THAILAND
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THE LOWER STRESS OF EVERYTHING RETIRED IN THAILAND
THAI CULTURAL PERIMETER WALL CONSTRUCTION
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THAI CULTURAL PERIMETER WALL CONSTRUCTION
RECOGNIZING AN INAPPROPRIATE FLIRT
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RECOGNIZING AN INAPPROPRIATE FLIRT
BUILDING MY HOUSE, PHASE 1 & The Legal, Practical & Cultural Issues
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BUILDING MY HOUSE, PHASE 1 & The Legal, Practical & Cultural Issues
THE UPS & DOWNS OF RETURNING HOME (from Thailand)
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THE UPS & DOWNS OF RETURNING HOME (from Thailand)
Hey Robb, I've been checking your channel out a lot recently and really value what you have to say. I'm 51 and have been in Thailand for 7 weeks (Khanom) and have not made any attempt to date. I was here 25 years ago and am well of the traps. But these days I'm literally just happy to be in this wonderful country. I Believe that any foreigner chap 50 + should watch your shows as mandatory . Reset with Robb is a realistic show that will save many a fella from disappointment and heartache. Many Y's and low bows from this guy !!
Thank you!
Please explain what a “cultural husband” is in Thailand 🇹🇭 and what that includes (responsibilities, legalities, expectations?).
You can become a cultural husband in one of two ways. Firstly, you can just live with a woman and then culturally, especially within the villages you’ll be considered her husband. Secondly, you can do a cultural wedding or marriage ceremony, typically at the mom‘s house. I outline this in detail in my book by the way. Neither of these gives you any responsibilities, legally, that I am aware of, and that anyone has ever been able to point out to me. But it is a good way for the woman to save face to at least have a ceremony. Which I plan to do with Fawn next year.
Please explain what a “cultural husband” is in Thailand 🇹🇭 and what that includes (responsibilities?)
Robb, can I ask where you got your dragon ring? In Yaowarat?
The gold shop in the basement of the Mall Korat, across from the pond. There’s 4 shops in a row. Second from the left has a bigger assortment of men’s rings. It’s part of my long term value plan. I am SLOWLY accruing gold men’s jewelry, which I will give to Fawn upon my death. It’s a natural incentive per human nature.
@@resetwithrobb Makes sense. You're a good man. Thais have such a deep cultural affinity for gold. I went all over Yaowarat last time I was there looking for one, but none caught my eye. Very few of them look good on a westerner, IMO. But when they look good, they look great.
@Nordic_Sky IMO, and it’s only an opinion, wearing a small amount t of Thai gold can show you are at least attempting to participate in the culture. I never wear more than 1-2 pieces total because I also don’t want to (or really need to) flex. I think that’s not good either. Fawn really pushed me to wear some because I live very immersed.
@@resetwithrobbi enjoy your honesty on what you see as growing knowledge. My case, the deep Isan lady, the Bangkok lady I am now with have little to no interest in gold. Focus is an aging life without hardship ... all said I am not a traditional American so a lot may be what I project and they like that ?
My first Thai girl also was named Fon. That particular relationship was definitely strained. When you refer to the women that work multiple guys at once, I automatically think of her. She didn’t scare me off though. I have met some really kind women since that rather rough experience. 🙂👍🏻
I have had a very difficult time finding a really solid Bourbon in Thailand. It seems like Beam is the “go to Bourbon” anywhere that I have been. I’ve had the same experience finding a good Scotch as well. I did find a nice Ardbeg Islay Scotch at the airport. Where do you find your Bourbon?
Check but I think you can bring up to 1 liter in your checked bag. The duty free shops at connecting airports (Thailand closed theirs), and the liquor store at the Mall Korat had Woodford reserve, Maker’s, and a few others.
PROS of foreign husband: more money, less likely to cheat, get violent or gamble. CONS of foreign husband: culture and language differences, usually older, fatter, balder and dresses worse.
I am enjoying your channel while relaxing on my lunch break. Thanks for the mental vacation.☺️
Stumbled across you channel. GREAT videos......... Sage advice.
Thank you.
Don’t be a loser
Fawn is so cute😊
Hi Rob I'm in Korat for about a week starting Nov 26. If you come to town I love to buy you a good coffee and pick your brains a little. Tony
Thanks!
Thank you.
My ex-Thai girlfriend and I were together for a little over a year, and one day she told me, “If you don’t give me a daughter, we are finished.”…. 😮 A month or so later she called me and said “I think I made a mistake.” I told her “That’s possible but it was a choice that you made, and I hope that you find the man that you need.” She still messages every once in awhile.
My ex lived in the Surin Province. She and her family would speak three different languages in all of their conversations. It was a mix of Thai, Lao, and Khmer… but not full on Cambodian. It was like some sort of border language. It gets more than a little bit confusing when you’re attempting to learn Thai, and you’re consistently getting new languages thrown into the mix.
Yes. Was thinking the exact same thing today: Thai, Thai Korat & Thai-Isan. And those are very different languages.
@ Definitely
@ If I can figure out how to make it happen, I really would like to move there before I hit 60. I truly wish that I would have had the foresight to know to prepare my life earlier in order to make it there at a younger age.
@streetracingmiscreant8589 fully understand. Best thing that happened to me was forced retirement at 57. I would have wasted 6 more years of my life.
@ Air Traffic Controller?
Good job with your videos Robb. I enjoy your philosophies on life. Take care of yourself and thanks for the effort.
Thank you!
A pool is a MONEY PIT. I filled in mine after 14 years of massive costs..... Pass on the pool.
Help me out… I did not know what a “love bomb” was until I was 3/4 of the way through your video. I had to watch it twice. Not a criticism because it was absolute wisdom!
Thank you and yes- I suppose it would have been massively helpful to say that early er- ha!
Just discovered your channel. As an engineer I really appreciate your frank, no-nonsense assessment of how best to make life there work for you. Excellent tips on communication and most efficient way to align expectations! I'm in the 'chronic back sufferer' camp and you have my sympathy. Here's hoping for a healthy outcome to your procedure(s)!!
Lol! Money.
I’ve been conversing with a 47yrs old Thai woman for almost a year. No children, never married. She seems ok, doesn’t ask for money but will accept if offered. Her backstory is a little sketchy, there seems to be some missing information but she’s ok for now until I get over there to investigate further.
I always tell guys in that situation to be very skeptical. We have no idea of anything we are told is true or not. Obviously, women with children and kids already aren’t likely to admit that. In some cases they go years before their foreign husbands find out.
I must be the only men married to an older than thai woman.
Rob, yes, there are many kind, caring ladies in Thailand . At the same time, there are evil ladies who will, alongside their family . Suck farlang guy's of all their money, hopes and dreams. Choose wisely ❤
Absolutely correct. There are actually homeless farangs in Thailand who were fleeced of their life savings.
@TruthTellerTH-k3w yes. I’ve known a couple. Very sad stories.
In which videos do you discuss the two times you were scammed? I can’t find them . I enjoy your work.
Thanks. Well, I’d look through my scams and scammers playlist. It’s gotta be in there. But honestly I couldn’t recall which videos- and it’s probably a bit here and there in several. Maybe it’s due for a revisit.
I spent 3 months there. I avoided the bars like the plaque , because I learned through these videos that they are nothing but scam artist. Its shame. But thats just the way it is. They are dirt poor and desperate and you are a rich American ATM machine to them. And they are very clever at what they do . Most seem to have no conscience, I quess because its survival for them. And the real pretty ones are the ones getting rich. You can find you a plain Jane girl at a regular job , but sooner or later she going to expect you to support her too. I had one that latched on to me . I told her I was nt rich , just looking for a cheap country to be able to love in. But she obviously didnt believe me. Because the nagging for money was every other day. And she had a good job , home and nice car too. She was a safety engineer working 7 days a week.
Messaging you and saying " I MISS YOU " is another big one.
Even the slow serious ones are soon going to start hitting you up for money. Its absolutely going to happen. And when you give it to them , it never ends , its a bottomless pit that never ends.
It is sick place, Money, Money , Money. What Tradition, what Moral, in Thailand people are objects.
Great video! Thank you for your insights...
Persnickety, great term to use................Thanks.
Thumbs up 👍 Robb
alot of the problem is cultural and language barriers unless you speak & understand their dialect fluently you"ll never know whats going on for sure
Yeah Saving and making face very important in the village.It runs their lives.Like feeding the monks.They do that to save face.One lady I knew would never take anything back if she bought the wrong size because she would lose face.A farang can take things back.
The best redeeming feature of Thai Culture is definately "Taking Care"
Finish the family Nah, the ladies want you to support her family, that's it
Spot on
Women over 27 is considered old for marriage in Isan region. Anyone with Thai language above basic level can ask locals about this. Majority of them will gave the same answer - something is wrong with her. Beautiful, 35 years old women especially with kid(s) for majority (95-98%) of Thai man might be interesting for only one and single reason and it's not a marriage or serious relationships.
That said though times are changing even in this region. It's super easy to meet partners now given AI and online apps. 27 maybe old to Thai standards but they are many over 50s super old
Easy Thai women don’t want there partner to be a cheat and or a drunk or a gambler Facts
Quite a few Thai women do the things you just mentioned.
Lucky guy
Sounds like you have a good woman looking after you. Very rare these days. You are a lucky man.
The motivation is to get as much money as possible from the Farang.
The answer to the title: So she can have more money than she otherwise does with a Thai husband.
You could also turn it around, Rob. Why wouldn't a Thai woman date a foreigner. I assume they are not endemically racist.....🙂
One extremely common trait they all tend to share is that they’re pragmatic.
To pay off the debts her Thai ex and her accrued
Yea, guys plz be careful. That’s actually not uncommon.
@@resetwithrobbvery common, just after the Prayut coup it came out that the majority of Thai teachers were up to the necks in debt due to special government loan programs aimed at teachers, I knew a few guys that thought they had done well getting a non-bar girl but got a rude shock when they realised their wives had massive debts
It is true that when a Thai person is in the hospital a Thai family member will stay overnight with the Thai person in the hospital. A Thai person is never alone in the hospital.
True
true for western husband too.
And it's allowed. In the States (when my dad was hospitalized, and once when a girlfriend was, and her mom & aunt & I were visitors- I had to sneak overnight crashing in visitors' lounges or late night lobby) not so much. Here, my best friend in Thailand is Kuwaiti- has been here 35 yrs. He was in a motorbike wreck a few months after we met. His wife traveled down from her village, to crash overnight in his hospital room on the extra cot. 95% of the time I visited, she was in the room
for Fawn and me
Money - alot of money ...
Money - alot of money ...