Suzette Halterman
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Feedback Wheel part 1
Feedback Wheel Part 1: Introduction
Why do we use this tool called the "feedback wheel" in relationships. What is the purpose, why is it helpful to have a specific structure to follow?
This is part of a series of videos about the Feedback Wheel and how to implement it. For all of the videos, go to the "Feedback Wheel" playlist.
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Feedback Wheel Part 2: The Customer Service Window
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The feedback wheel is unidirectional, where one person raises a concern, and the other person is at the "customer service window" to listen. This is critical to using the feedback wheel effectively. This is part of a series of videos about the Feedback Wheel and how to implement it. For all of the videos, go to the "Feedback Wheel" playlist.
Feedback Wheel Part 3: Trading in Old Ways for New Ways
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The feedback wheel is meant to keep you out of some of your knee jerk reactions and some of your old habits and patterns. The goal is to do something more productive and relational than getting stuck on whose version of reality is "right." This is part of a series of videos about the Feedback Wheel and how to implement it. For all of the videos, go to the "Feedback Wheel" playlist.
Feedback Wheel Part 4: Speaker Role
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The speaker, or the initiator, needs to do more than just speak about what is on their mind. They need to do some specific things and be focused on what their purpose and intention is in bringing up a concern. But it doesn't end there, the speaker/initiatior has important things to do even after bringing up a concern. This is part of a series of videos about the Feedback Wheel and how to implem...
Feedback Wheel Part 5: The Steps
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In this video, Bev and Suzette outline the steps for the Feedback Wheel tool. This is part of a series of videos about the Feedback Wheel and how to implement it. For all of the videos, go to the "Feedback Wheel" playlist.
Feedback Wheel Part 6: The Listener Role
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In this video, Bev and Suzette talk about the role of the listener on the receiving end of the feedback wheel. This is a tough position to be in and one that requires a lot of self-control and self-awareness! This is part of a series of videos about the Feedback Wheel and how to implement it. For all of the videos, go to the "Feedback Wheel" playlist.
Mixed Faith Marriage Mastermind: Baptism
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How do you navigate whether or not your child should get baptized if you are in a mixed-faith marriage? What are your options? Should they get baptized when they aren't old enough to make a commitment or understand their own religion? What if it is viewed by one spouse as an essential step? We address these questions and concerns and more in this discussion of all the ins and outs of navigating...
Speaking Up in Your Mixed Faith Marriage
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In this episode, Suzette Halterman, Brooke Booth, and Chris Rich discuss the critical mechanism of speaking up in a mixed-faith marriage. They discuss "rocking the boat," bringing up concerns, making requests, and setting boundaries. They also explore how to make explicit requests, and how to handle rejection when it doesn't go well. The coaches provide personal and professional insights and st...
More on Negotiation
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Bev and Suzette talk more about NEGOTIATION as a relationship skill, especially for the partner who tend to avoid and disengage from conversations.
Relationship Skill #3 Negotiation Part 1
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Bev and Suzette talk about the relational skill of negotiation and how important it is to relationships and collaborating together.
Relationship Skills # 5 Time Outs part 2
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Bev and Suzette talk more about how to use TIME-OUTS and how they can help you to better manage your differences.
Relational Skill #3 Time Outs Responsible Distance Taking part 1
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Bev and Suzette talk bout the relationship skill of taking a TIME-OUT and how that can help you navigate difficult conversations more effectively.
Mixed Faith Marriage Panel Discussion: Extended Family
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Navigating Mixed-Faith Marriages with Extended Family: In this episode, three mixed-faith marriage coaches offer insights on navigating dynamics with extended family in LDS mixed-faith marriages. They share personal experiences and discuss setting boundaries, managing unsolicited advice, and handling family gatherings when faith choices differ. The coaches emphasize the importance of effective ...
Relational Skill #1: Repair
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In this video, Bev Joy Ehrlich and I discuss the essential relational skill of repair. We cover what repair looks like beyond an apology, emphasizing the need to reconnect and offering to listen to your partner's perspective. The conversation highlights the maturity and empathy required to prioritize the relationship over self-gratification and the importance of approaching repair from a place ...
Mixed Faith Marriage Panel Discussion: Navigating Sex and Sexuality in an LDS Mixed Faith Marraige
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In this episode, join Brooke Booth, Suzette Halterman, and Chris Rich as we dive deep into the complex and often sensitive topic of sex and intimacy within a mixed-faith marriage, predominantly in an LDS context. We share personal experiences, discuss shifts in beliefs and approaches to sex post-faith transition, and address common issues such as shame, sexual desire discrepancies, pornography,...
Winning Strategies # 5 Cherishing What You Have
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Winning Strategies # 5 Cherishing What You Have
Mixed Faith Marriage Panel Discussion: Blame
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Mixed Faith Marriage Panel Discussion: Blame
Winning Strategy #4 Respond with Generosity
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Winning Strategy #4 Respond with Generosity
Winning Strategies #3 Listen to Understand
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Winning Strategies #3 Listen to Understand
MFM panel discussion: Sundays
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MFM panel discussion: Sundays
Winning Strategy no 2: Speak to Make Things Better
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Winning Strategy no 2: Speak to Make Things Better
Winning Strategies no 1 Advocate for What You Want
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Winning Strategies no 1 Advocate for What You Want
Losing Strategy #5: Retaliation
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Losing Strategy #5: Retaliation
Losing Strategy #4: Withdrawal
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Losing Strategy #4: Withdrawal
Mixed Faith Marriage Panel Discussion- Parenting in a Mixed Faith Marriage
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Mixed Faith Marriage Panel Discussion- Parenting in a Mixed Faith Marriage
Losing Strategy #1: Needing To Be Right
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Losing Strategy #1: Needing To Be Right
Losing Strategy #3: Control
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Losing Strategy #3: Control
Losing Strategy #2: Unbridled Self Expression
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Losing Strategy #2: Unbridled Self Expression
Mixed-Faith Marriage Mastermind: Flexibility and Adaptability!
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Mixed-Faith Marriage Mastermind: Flexibility and Adaptability!
LDS Mixed Faith Marriage Mastermind- Tithing
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LDS Mixed Faith Marriage Mastermind- Tithing

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