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1st: THANK YOU for sharing your highly intelligent, honest thoughts AND keeping the comments on. I don't think anyone truly realizes how much it takes to do that, and makes me want to rage preemtively for anyone endeavoring to take advantage of that. 2nd: I could really relate. I have asked my own therapist 3xs throuhout our session if I could also have NPD or ASPD, and he always reassured me that I did not. Despite agreeing or not, the key does truly seem to lie in the crises, where BPD would tend to show itself in ways that Narcissists can back out of. As you've said, if Narcs expressed your vulnerabilities more openly, you may as well have BPD. And if us Borderlines were able to maintain the mask, we may as well have NPD. What you tell yourself (about being god/ others are stupid) is verbatim the inner monologue I consciously work to adopt, but is abruptly chucked out of the window as if it has caught fire in times of intense loneliness and pain.

Great video. I have one question: How are you feeling when you are mentioning your own "insecurity".Don't you feel that your image is being tarnished in some way?

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6:54 *lack of object constancy

I think NPD is so important to talk about because these experiences are actually present in so many people on a lower level and we ignore them because it's so uncomfortable, all the things someone with NPD can't possibly ignore. Not to say the narcissistic point of view is the "right" one but a very human one.

Do you relate to being considered “dramatic and erratic”?

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It's cool that you're honest about it. You certainly explained it in a way I could understand. I think I knew a girl with NPD and she it sometimes seemed like she hated herself a little bit. I think if you hate yourself, you're certainly at risk of abusing other people because you'll devalue them as well, but I don't believe the platitude that you absolutely have to love yourself before you love someone else, though I do think it helps. It's the sanctity of life that people need to be able to see within themselves first that leads to their success in deriving gratification from relationships with other people.

Thank you

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5:12 *incoherent

What are your thoughts on the argument from reason?

My answer before watching: I don't know, but I'm ok with not knowing. It may be impossible to know.

Think of it as a science question. We're not investigating the universe when we ask "why is there something rather than nothing", we are investigating existence itself. The universe exists. Okay, that's a verb, that's the universe doing something. Has it always been doing that? What is it about the universe that demands that it exist? Is there some law that describes the quality of existence? Is existence causal? Is it accidental? Is it probabalistic? Is it cyclical? Does it follow some other pattern that we haven't even discovered yet? Can existence change over time, or be effected by events? Does existence necessarily demand matter and space and time and energy, or does it have a more complicated relationship with those things? Can existence itself be described mathematically? What makes you think that nothing exists outside the universe? Does existence have a start, an end, both, or neither, or do the concepts of beginnings and endings not apply to it at all? Does existence necessarily imply a Creator? And if so, can we learn anything about that Creator by observing and studying existence? If existence is not dependent upon a Creator, what does that imply about the universe? What is the relationship between what is self-evident, what is obscure, and what is impossible? What is the precise relationship between existence and non-existence? Are the laws of mathematics built-in to existence, or does existence generate them in some way? Do mathematics precede the universe, or do they only exist within the universe? Could existence be alive or conscious in some way? Is it actually true that existence does nothing? How do you know? Does "mattering" matter to existence? Is there actually something rather than nothing, or is existence iself a meaningless word? How do you know? Are there any experiments we could run to investigate existence, rather than merely things that exist? What if there is some incredible equation that elegantly solves the problem, but you would never know because you never bothered to ask? All of these questions are variations on the "why is there something rather than nothing" question.

don't you equate teleology with causality. The question asks for a cause, not a purpose. You pull back to doubting structure and causality later but we do expect causes and structure in science and reasoning about the world is fundamentally causal can I ask you a simpler question, to which the answer is not monotheism but it makes you think about what is material and what "immaterial" Why fundamental particles/fields move?

If you really believe nothing matters, you won't be making this video, because it doesn't matter.

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I have vivid dreams almost every single night. Often the dreams are more fulfilling than real life.

how does asking the 'why is there something rather than nothing' presuppose teleology? i dont think they are necessarily saying there has to be an explanation, but that at least the intuitional seeming to most people is that this fact (that there is something) cries out for an explanation are you attacking the actual arguments or just the people that make the arguments? i could flip your argument: you are so stuck in with the new atheist tradition that you have to use this mental gymnastics of saying to ask for an explanation of the universe is silly. why should my argument be favoured over yours? again, are you attacking the arguments they make or the people that make them? why is your theory about people's religious beliefs correct? sounds quite disrespectful to call all religious believers 'weak' just because they have a different metaphysics to you if the problem of criterion asks for a foundation of knowledge (im not sure it does), why should we assume this is the case for the why is there something rather than nothing question. are there not non-foundational groundings (sensu lato) for metaphysics, i.e., some form of coherentism, infinitism, etc.? you say you argue it is mental gymnastics, but when will you actually provide an argument (assuming you intended to provide this sort of argument in this video)? you're talking about a completely different question to the one in the title are you just equating on what the universe means? if the god debate was so simple that some guy on youtube debunks theism in a few sentences, do you think there would still be people arguing about whether god exists (and im not talking about your uncle using pascal's wager, but actual top-level philosophers)? what has mereological nihilism got to do with this video? i feel like you have watched a few of alex oconnor's videos and are not just using buzzwords to make your rambling seem intelligible.

I'm not convinced. Did you diagnose yourself? There is room for only one god, and you ain't it.

Ok if you are so satisfied with yourself and everyone else is too stupid for you then do me a favor and stay as far away as possible from other people. It’s best for you and for them

Are you filipino?

You guys have ptsd and anxiety disorder BUT also it’s related to Austism. I’ve dated 3 intp’s so I know

Hey, thank you. Really hope you will find yourself. You're giving yourself your own key to get out of it, without realizing it: you can't have a sense of self when you don't care about others. It is like saying I cannot open this golden door because I don't care about the key. The key is the state of your heart. You need to get to a place where you would want to love others. It feels really good to do that. It brings warmth and joy to the soul. Look at it that way: the good you do to others, you're doing it to you too. This is only to help: if sadism is into the equation, then fall on your knees and cry out to Jesus in repentance for deliverance and salvation, because it is a demonic addiction. And beware, God resists to the prideful ones. Again, all is about the state of your heart and what you desire. If you want to get out of it, start by the 10 Commandments without any manipulation. Walk straight in them. This teaches a harden heart how to start in the path of true love. You don't need to feel some good emotions about that. It is a firm decision you take consciously. Then move on to Jesus' commands that will refine your being to the most profound way. He rebuilds broken souls on rocks. Jesus blesses you and may He comes into your life to bring you to life.

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I know at least two intp guys narcissists lol

Loved that, quite eloquently put thoughts. You may like "The Conspiracy Against The Human Race" by Ligotti.

Thanks for sharing. Do you think there's a link between personality type and metaethical stance?

i went the nihilist route and it wrecked my life. i logically came to the conclusion of reincarnation. also, if you want meaning to your life, marry an enfj, they will change your life. as im married to one, it blows my mind that she will sit and listen to my ramblings and be interested!

_Five_ is defined as one plus one plus one plus one us one. The _five_ is in that repeating the operation five times (or one being added five times). Admittedly, putting this into words is circular. Wittgenstein would say there's nothing we can add with words to make sense of it logically. But we understand it intuitively. BTW the operation itself is what you would call 'empirical'. (Mathematician and a nominalist here.)

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How do we tell if something is true? Not by an universal criterion, as Godel s incompleteness shows.

From the perspective of someone who has resonated quite strongly with many of your past thoughts and messages: There are a LOT of philosophical labels being thrown around here. I often repel those, finding them limiting and restrictive per my personal take on any one issue. Challenge: redo this vid (and some of the other newer ones), but without using a single philosophical label or term. Yes, that would be nearly impossible. But we’re INTP, aren’t we?

W Stoner Chul for paying attention to his community and engaging with it.

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6:45 *not safe

i think: working inside a particular language game involving fact-stating, true propositions are those that don’t encounter overwhelming opposition, and/or receives enough assent

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Stoner Chul, I've been following you for a while (I believe I have NPD too, or maybe OCD, I'm still trying to figure it out) and appreciate the videos you've posted. One thing I've always been curious about is your decision to reveal who you are given the stigma surrounding NPD. Is there a reason for it? Or does it not bother you too much in your current life circumstances? Personally, I was mortified when I was confronted with the possibility of having NPD and have largely isolated myself since, giving up on most friendships. Now, part of me wants to get a formal diagnosis and be simply candid with it so at least I won't live in fear of being exposed - I am who I am, and if others like to try be friends, sure, but at least they know the risks beforehand.

I would also be confused if I just leave out half of the arguements on both sides lmao

Atmluv1 is weird. You’re contributing to the furtherance of research and understanding into people who suffer with NPD, which is exactly what society needs right now. As a psychologist, I find immense value in these videos of yours. Thank you.

Unironically think that you pinpointing a lack of object constancy is a solid observation and I think that explains your hateful attitude. It also explains your inkling that positive sentiments are always fickle in some way. There’s a lot of anguish underlying these rants. It seems like your mind could be a very stimulating place to be in, but also potentially exhausting and tiring. I understand why you annoy people but there’s a sympathetic way of seeing these videos, which is something like wow, this guy is at bottom confused and wary.

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Know Jesus, Know Peace No Jesus, No Peace ❤

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4:44 Yes, absolutely - you do NOT have to always do small talk when you meet somebody! Fellow INTP here. Recently there was this new guy at work, we hadn’t exchanged a word yet. One day I walked slowly, unassuming towards him. When up close I dramatically locked my gaze with his and stated “ENFP?….. or maybe ENTP?!” We hit it off instantly and haven’t wasted a second on small talk yet.