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Dear Brothers and Sisters, Gender and Its Responsibility *Ch 9-12
Chapters 9-12 of Elder George's book : Dear Brothers and Sisters, Gender and Its Responsibility
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Dear Brothers and Sisters, Gender and Its Responsibility by: Elder George *Ch1-8
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Chapters 1-8 of Elder George's book: Dear Brothers and Sisters, Gender and Its responsibility.
Created to be his Help Meet *Ch 26 **Last Chapter
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Created to be his Help Meet by: Debi Pearl Last and Final chapter: 26
Created to be his Help Meet *Ch 25
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Created to be his Help Meet by: Debi Pearl Chapter 25
Created to be his Help Meet *Ch 24
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Created to be his Help Meet by Debi Pearl. Chapter 24.
Created to be his Help Meet *Ch 22-23
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Created to be his Help Meet by Debi Pearl. Chapters 22-23
Created to be his Help Meet *Ch 20-21
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Created to be his Help Meet by Debi Pearl. Chapters 20-21.
Created to be his Help Meet *Ch 18-19
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Chapters 18-19 of Created to be his Help Meet by Debi Pearl.
Created to be his Help Meet *Ch 16-17
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Chapters 16-17 of Created to be hi Help Meet by Debi Pearl. The start of part 2, a Titus women.
Created to be his Help Meet *Ch 14-15
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Created to be his Help Meet by: Debi Pearl Chapters 14-15
Created to be his Help Meet *Ch 12-13
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Created to be his Help Meet by: Debi Pearl Chapters 12-13
Created to be his Help Meet *Ch9-11
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Chapters 9-11 of Debi Peal's Created to be his Help Meet.
Created to be his Help Meet *Ch 7-8
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Chapters 7-8 of Created to be his Help Meet by: Debi Pearl
Created to be his Help Meet *Ch 5-6
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Created to be his Help Meet by: Debi Pearl Chapter 5: The Gift of Wisdom Chapter 6: The Beginning of Wisdom
Created to be his Help Meet *Ch 3-4
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Chapters 3-4 of Created to be his Help Meet by: Debi Pear Chapter 3 A Thankful Spirit Chapter 4 Thanksgiving Produces Joy
Created to be his Help Meet -Debi Pearl Introduction
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Created to be his Help Meet -Debi Pearl Introduction
Thank you so much for putting this book on UA-cam. I have been in desperate need of a book like this! I'm listening, as I do my housework and I'm learning so much. 💜
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Marriage is nothing simple, communication is so vital. The struggle is real, and resisting the temptation is part of that fight. Jesus is able to deliver any person with their struggle and it take husband and wife to be honest, church to be supportive and prayerfull. Being aware how powerful modesty is to a struggling soul is a compassion when lived out. Blaming won't fix anything, but taking responsibility and being proactive in modestly is the key!
So, if your husband sexually assaults your children, pray he gets at least 20 years so the children will be grown when he gets out. Take them to see him in prison 3-4 times a year and provide him with Biblical teachings so he can change his ways?? Are you kidding me?? No way would I take my child to the prison to see their rapist!! Idc if he is their father. Pedophiles can’t be rehabbed. They are messed up. No way would I subject my child to that. What a ludicrous idea. I don’t believe God would expect me to do that either.
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"hillbilly ugly is worse than regular ugly" Uh...seriously? Someone is on their high horse.
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God will never break up a marriage to bless another one
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Thank you so much to this !!! ❤
Thank you, dear sister for taking the time and effort to create these audiobook videos for us. It helps me tremendously- I've been needing so much encouragement to serve my husband and to honor him. From the bottom of my heart, I thank you and I thank Christ for His unwavering faithfulness. With love from California, Natashua
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So happy you did this! God ordained
Thank you for reading this. It has truly opened my eyes to the truth of a truly Godly marriage. I am extremely blessed that God has restored my marriage,but God convicted me to be a more biblically submissive wife. My marriage is even more blessed now. I am so grateful for you reading this so I can do my homemaking and homesteading chores as I listen to biblical advice on how to be a good submissive wife. ❤
Oh gosh this is horrible. The emotional cheating one was awful advice
I’ve been listening while I am waiting for my book to arrive.
Romans 1:26 For this cause God gave them up unto vile affections: for even their women did change the natural use into that which is against nature:” Sodomising someone is definitely against nature, according to God's word its not natural, its vile.
8 days later😭😭wow
I have chicken breast, can of mushroom soup, chopped onion and celery, with cream cheese in my Crock-Pot right now. I plan to add either rice or pasta tomorrow.
I am soo thankful for this book. Honestly, it’s been a blessing. I myself have been the foolish woman who tears down her home. I have so foolishly acted like I am my husbands conscience and I have nagged him to the point of misery. Thank God that I found this book before it became too late. God has chosen to show us divine grace and rest or our marriage. He has led me to turn away from my selfish pride and seek to serve my husband. 😊
I love this book ans it's shifted my life. But just to clarify eve slept with the serpant. Then Adam slept with eve. It was sex not an apple. This chapter balming woman is what has sent Christianity into abusive patriarchy. I am not triggered by this but I stand against woman being blamed.
Why wouldn't God have said it that way if that is what had happened? God does not shy away from talking about sex and people having sex. If Eve had lain with the serpent, God would have put it in Genesis. He would not have disguised it as "fruit." Genesis discusses Lots daughters committing incest with him. He talks about Adam having sex with Eve and then her conceiving (just two examples of many). Throughout the Bible when the fall is referred to it says that Eve was deceived, not seduced. Also the whole conversation in the garden was nothing about sex. It was about the fruit, eating it and the fact that she wanted to be like God, knowing good from evil. Trust me, if she had had sex with the serpent, God would have just told us. He is not a prude. Secondly, if the sin of Eve was sexual, then how did Adam sin? How is it a sin to have sexual relations with your wife, even if she cheated on you? If that is the case, then Adam did not sin, and Eve did. Humanity would not be sinful if that were the case. "For as in Adam all die, even so in Christ shall all be made alive." Also please read Romans 5:12-21 which basically says the same thing just in more detail. What we are seeing is that Adam fell, and that is why humanity fell. Adam took the fruit, full well knowing what he was doing, and ate from it. Eve was the one who was deceived and gave it to him, but Adam was the one who's sin doomed all of humanity. Christ, the second Adam, is the one man through whom all are made alive. How can this work if the fall was all on the shoulders of a woman? Honestly, your take is even more patriarchal. It is saying that the fall is entirely woman's fault, not partly. Even though it is partly Eve's fault, Adam gets the main blame in the Bible. If I were to believe your perspective, then women are the bane of human existence and men (who are perfect) should have complete and utter control over their every move because they clearly cannot be trusted at all. Biblically, women were deceived first, and they do have their share in the blame, but Adam, the representative of the family, is the one who's sin doomed humanity. Had Eve sin and Adam not, it is possible God would have just killed Eve and given Adam a new wife, and humanity would have been perfect. Who knows for sure, but we would not be sinful without Adam's fall. That is how Jesus was able to be born of a woman and yet be sinless. His father was God, not a human father. Mary's sin was not passed on to him, only the physical body. Under the Biblical perspective, women AND men share the blame. Both are in need of God's salvation. See the problem with your theory and then claiming that the biblical take leads to patriarchy? Please read this excerpt discussing the theory you are proposing. The whole article is good as well. Here is the link www.equip.org/article/eve-sex-satan-serpent-seed-view-genesis-315/. The Seduction. Branham explains, “He seduced her [Eve] and by her did Satan have a child vicariously. Cain bore the full spiritual characteristics of Satan and the animalistic (sensual, fleshly) characteristic of the serpent.”5 Some proponents of the serpent seed doctrine point to the word “beguiled” in Genesis 3:13 (KJV) as evidence of Eve being sexually seduced by the serpent. This requires the interpreter to suggest that “beguiled” in this context actually means sexually seduced. However, in contemporary translations, the Hebrew word that the King James renders as “beguiled” is often translated as “deceived” (ESV, NIV, HCSB, NLT) or “tricked” (NRSV, NET), while none of these translations render the word as “seduced” or imply sexual seduction. In short, “beguiled” means to charm, enchant, deceive, or trick. In context, Eve is blaming the serpent for tricking her into eating the fruit of the forbidden tree. She is not stating that the serpent seduced her sexually.
Where does it say that? What Bible are you reading?
Nope, she ate a fruit. Not everything is a sexual innuendo. That's really quite a stretch.
It was not an apple, nor was it sex!
This is the kind of wife I was with the father of my children. It was never good enough and he still abused me physically, emotionally, spiritually, verbally, and mentally. I tried to please him and of course please my Father in heaven, to no avail. I became that single mom of 3 and we were all better off. The court mandated anger management and a psychiatric exam which he failed. I met him as a freshman in high school, but didn't marry til 23 & after he was a believer for 4 yrs. As I listened to this, I couldn't help but think of the many women who are putting up with this and their churches will not even pray a prayer of repentance with these men. Some of the opinions sound like advice to be an enabler of the husbands bad behavior, just to avoid poverty or other difficulties. My children are and were grateful that I left him. I didn't divorce him for 7 years hoping and praying that the marriage could be saved. But to this day he refuses to apologize for anything, (my children have told me as I have no contact with him). They have very little contact with him because he can't get along with anyone. But they are adults now so it is their choice, as the court order which denied him access to them ended when they were 18. Maybe this book does minister to women like me in other chapters, I only searched this out because I have a friend who's going through a divorce with her husband. She doesn't have children and will be financially fine without him, so this may not even minister to her.... If there are other chapters that might be more helpful to her, please send me a link. Thank you in advance!
I'm so sorry for the hardships you have had in your life. No one wishes that on anyone. I believe that for most cases when the wife says to her husband I'm going to make your vision mine and love the direction you want to go, in most cases that will solve the discontent. But people are free to choose their own behavior. My struggle was thinking I knew what my husband should be doing and I was the kind of wife I thought was good. I told myself I was a good wife when I really wasn't a good wife to him. Our culture plays on women's fantasy that the men live to fulfill our wants and we should punish them when they don't do what we want. We can be doing this without even realizing we are. I leave you and your friend with the burden of asking God if you were really the wife your husband needed or the wife you thought he should have. I'm not leaving a judgment saying you were one or the other, that is only for you to know.
I have a friend going through a divorce and my council to her was God's order is women lead children, men lead women, and God leads men. If women overstep and make themselves leaders of their husbands, every relationship with struggle.
@@followinghisway7705 maybe most cases, but most definitely not all. I was submissive to an extreme, so as not to ever yell back at him, nor fight back when he assaulted me. I'm not a part of this culture which caters to women because I know it's not Scriptural, but satanic. He most definitely behaved one way in front of others, particularly at church, and completely differently at home and behind closed doors. So while I can agree with your statement for the most part, there absolutely are cases where even that would not work. He never kissed me during intimacy, and made sure that I was unfulfilled as Yah intended in intimacy. He would wake me up in the middle of the night when I could not function and have his way. I was a virgin at 23, and on our wedding night he flipped me over and had his way, and when I screamed in pain he put his hand over my mouth and angrily told me not to wake up the neighbors in the hotel. On our honeymoon, he rented the most wretched broken down vehicle he could find, which did break down in Mexico. We then spent the next 3 days in the house of Mexican strangers who were good enough to take us in on a single bed in the same room with their five children, and he spent more time talking to them in Spanish than he spent with me. Then when we finally got a tow truck to take us to the border and to get a new car, I asked if we could just pull over to a lake and spend some time together alone, and he angrily refused, as though I were asking too much and being ridiculous. He was so bent on the fact that no one could tell him what he could and could not do, including the law, that he audaciously told the police officers everything he had ever done to me after my 12-year-old daughter called 911 and they showed up, interrogated us both, and arrested him. He tried to have the courts put me in jail for kidnapping his children while I was taking care of my dying mother, which he had agreed to, and petitioned the courts for full custody of the children. The judge told him that not only was I going to get full custody even though I didn't ask, but he would not see or be near the children unless he got a psychiatric exam and anger management, which as I said above, he failed. There is a lot of evidence and testimony from before we got married, during our marriage, and now, that he is a homosexual. His family are not believers and keep telling him just to come out of the closet because they don't care, and many of them are homosexual and bisexual. When I tell you that I was a good wife to him, I tell you with a clear conscience before my Father in heaven who has seen it all. Perhaps a chapter in your book helping women in such dire straits would be helpful. Blessings and shalom 🕊️🙏🏻
@@amyspringstead2208 I hear you and I believe you. YHVH can't save all marriages because humans have free will. You did everything you could and our Elohim who reigns, see it all and gave you and your children safety because of your obedience. YHVH bless you and keep you and your family. Shalom sister in Yeshua. ❤
@@amyspringstead2208 if you look at 28:30 - 29:00, the author encourages women to go to the authorities if she’s being hit by her husband
But we aren't to take on the role.of Jesus. Our husband is. We are the church. We are the weaker vessel.
Thank you so much for sharing this!
I’m going through the book in my church. It is a gem , and has been a great blessing for me and my marriage. I highly recommend this book to anyone who is thinking about getting married or married already. This book through the Holy Spirit will be a great blessing for you. Praise Jesus! 🙏❤️🙏❤️🙏
Thank you so much for reading this for us! So excited for this book 🥰
Thank you for making these videos! Such a big help as I work around the house!
"The Assignment" starts at 8:30
My husband had a hidden pornography addiction and was drinking and driving behind my back. A 3rd DWI was how our miracle came to our marriage. Even what the devil means for evil, God can change for good. Read your Bible, and fast and pray, God still does miracles...
Thank you so much for narrating this book! Thanks to you, I was able to listen to its teachings while doing chores at home and finished it in 2 days! I could learn and understand what I need to change. It was very kind of you 💜
I respect my mom for being frugal. I love the Pearls but this book is funny. Sorry. 😎
I appreciate that. What's the funniest part to you?
Make sure your spouse is a committed believer before you even consider marrying him.
Thank you so much for doing this. I’m single and still feel this is an amazing book for all women married or single.
I wish I would have had this before I was married. Best wishes too all trying to become Godly women.
My husband and I are equals. Neither of us rules over the other. The word “obey” was not part of our vows.
There are all types of relationships, but not all relationships God's type. The purpose of this book was to learn about God's type.
@@followinghisway7705 he is xtian. I am not. He does not expect me to be servile. We both think that Paul had some major issues with women in general.
Paul just had women issues!! 🤣
Then why are you here.......? I'm not going to discourage you from learning from a wise woman through this book, but seriously, if you don't want to learn from this, why are you here?
Thank you for reading this book out loud for us.
Hey Stephanie 😁
This will harm so many women by encouraging them to stay in abusive marriages. Their blood will be on your head.
I don’t think so. I understand why you’re saying this but abuse is abuse and every single woman should report this to the police. He has a part too and abuse isn’t it.
No. She addresses this in the book. Your comment is false
Better for him to fuck it up than for me to do it right? No, baby. No.
Listened to the entire book with you. I lost my audiobook C.D. I bought. This has been a tremendous encouragement. My heart would swoon when I would hear your sweet little children in the background, and on rare occasion even you're blessed husband. God bless you and thank you 🙏
Thank you. In the feminist world we live in, encouragement is definitely needed for all of us. 💞
Please I love your book, but STOP encouraging women to use birth control bc their husband says so. This is Not biblical and false info on Page 269 "...using birth control (a form that does not abort a fertilized egg)...." Birth control DOES indeed abort a fertilized egg, therefore rendering it an abortion and an abomination to God. I urge you to really take a look at what birth control really does and revise this area!
I don't remember her saying anything about birth control. But this is a fine line, what do you when your husband wants you to do something but you don't believe it's right? If after expressing your concerns, he still wants you to do it. God will hold him accountable for his designs and God will hold you accountable to following your husband or not.
The food sounds terrible
Thank you 🤗
Once again, blessings for reading this for us. I can cook and clean and listen to this book simalteneously! 🙏🌹
Thank you for your reading 💖 such a blessing.
I got this book from a friend 20 years ago and it will forever remain my favorite! I use it in discipling younger women and recommend it to young and experienced brides...
Love this
I dont know how but 3 days ago i asked God to prepare me for this moment and he showed me your book which i found about a year ago and now am ready to read. Thank you very much debi❤️
Love the chapters. Not sure if at one point he was against interracial relationships though. Don't think it matters to God as long as both are followers of Christ :).
I think faith in God can bridge the gap between cultural differences, as one tries to live "God's culture" rather than just traditions. If I'm understanding him right, he was describing how it was. Not if it was right or wrong.
@@followinghisway7705 Oh ok makes sense.