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Office Politics Building Your Political Intelligence
We spend 2/3 of our lives at work and it's an inescapable part of social life. ⏰ If you experience drama at work, you can't just walk away from it (not without losing your job). 🚫💼 Learning how to deal with red flags at work is super important for your career success and mental health. 💪🧠
One major cause for drama at work is office politics. 👥👥 Politics (or workplace/organizational politics) is present in every organization and often has a negative connotation. ❌👎 This is why many people refrain from engaging in organizational politics or why most business schools don't want to teach how to deal with it. 📚🚫
What many people don't realize is that office politics entails such a broad spectrum of behaviors, most of them being very positive attributes. 👍 In this podcast, you'll learn about office politics and how to build your political intelligence. 🧠💪
Let's dive into the world of work politics together! 💼👥
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Identify Toxic Behaviors in Dating
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In this episode of Red Flags, Green Flags, I'll be chatting with the amazing Elham Murdaa and Abdullah Ahmad to discuss the harsh realities of modern romance. 🥀 We'll dive deep into the toxic behaviors plaguing today's dating scene. From ghosting and catfishing to breadcrumbing and orbiting, we'll break down these terms and explore their psychological impact. 🤯 Social media is flooded with stor...
Red Flags vs Self Discovery
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Red Flags vs Self Discovery
What Do Men Really Want
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What Do Men Really Want
Understanding the Attraction to 'Bad Boys'
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Understanding the Attraction to 'Bad Boys'
To Succeed in Dating You First need to know Who you Are
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To Succeed in Dating You First need to know Who you Are
What Men are Looking for in a Partner
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What Men are Looking for in a Partner
The Truth about Cheating
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The Truth about Cheating
Episode 3 - Being Attracted to someone older
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Episode 3 - Being Attracted to someone older
The untold truth about modern dating
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The untold truth about modern dating
Season 2 - Episode 3 : The red and green flags in the world of startups
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Season 2 - Episode 3 : The red and green flags in the world of startups
Red Flags Green Flags - Episode 1 - Why Modern Dating is Failing?
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Red Flags Green Flags - Episode 1 - Why Modern Dating is Failing?
Red flag #3 : False Future Projections
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Red flag #3 : False Future Projections
Why modern dating is failing 😱
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Why modern dating is failing 😱

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  • @The3289691
    @The3289691 13 годин тому

    In other words..don’t flinch. Pick yer spot. No charge😊

  • @fairyland9682
    @fairyland9682 20 годин тому

    Interesting... But how can I built alliances people with oposing interests? 😮 They were my worst enemies. Diplomacy is a really complex skill to have but sometimes is simply not working.

  • @thepragmatist
    @thepragmatist День тому

    This podcaster's insights are spot on.

  • @thepragmatist
    @thepragmatist День тому

    I clicked on this video with no expectations...absolutely excellent interview. Thank you!

  • @MrTribalsun
    @MrTribalsun 6 днів тому

    Hi to everyone, Doc gives us a good video about relationships today. But you know what? A person with a certain experience would easily understand things... and how they are supposed to work. Good for us, that Doc here, is explaining everything to detail, in a logic sequence of objective and logical observation, from a solid point of view. But sometimes i honestly believe these new generations of men and women, are so naive, so dumb, excuse me the word dumb, but it's true. For example, when Doc is explaining that you should not believe in a person, that tells you after the second date, that she or he loves you. Doc explains also that in order to have some credibility, that person should have been with you multiple times, living some experiences with you, sharing moments. Of course. Only that way maybe someone is entitled to say that "you're the only person that understands me" or "i never met anyone like you" or " you're so special". If there's no background for those words, the person is just trying to win you over. Common sense! come on guys! Everyone understand this. And that is why i think that we, people from the 90s and also people from 80s or 70s, older generations, had more life experience and more knowledge about life, because we lived life. Not like nowadays choosing partners from Tinder. We had our disappointments and our griefs, but made us stronger and more aware. Nowadays people look like mental retards. Sorry to say this but it's true. Good video Doc. Keep up the good work.

  • @HustleHabit
    @HustleHabit 8 днів тому

    This was a good discussion.

  • @YohannChatellier
    @YohannChatellier 11 днів тому

    or maybe is it that people don't give a sht about doors

  • @yasameenaliaalibraheem3829
    @yasameenaliaalibraheem3829 12 днів тому

    Thanks for very great information!

  • @lukrelukreciacia
    @lukrelukreciacia 14 днів тому

    It is trauma response for rejection.

  • @mosesedgamhe7395
    @mosesedgamhe7395 15 днів тому

    😂😂😂

  • @patriciabiral6659
    @patriciabiral6659 16 днів тому

    A hundred thousand followers 😮

  • @victorriaxgn
    @victorriaxgn 17 днів тому

    It’s interesting to me that you didn’t mention the lack of emotional intelligence, a self-reflection skill or critical thinking as purposes for leaving a relationship directly rather than discussing how we can improve our communication and well-being finding the suitable solution to keep the relationship thriving. To me it’s also a sign of laziness, immaturity or stagnant egoism which cannot be associated with love and building anything longterm.

  • @DaveCortesMusic
    @DaveCortesMusic 17 днів тому

    Awesome, Doc! As always 🙌🏼

  • @healingspace3602
    @healingspace3602 17 днів тому

    So informative thank you Doc Ali 😊

  • @evanvasquez242
    @evanvasquez242 17 днів тому

    I had a coworker “forget” they picked up an extra shift to punish me with extra work. They got written up for a no-call no-show, lost pay for the day, and were forced to work alone for an hour and a half the very next day. Karma is my home girl and I stay on her good side. 🎉🎉🎉

  • @bsmlbn
    @bsmlbn 17 днів тому

    diving in

  • @ayudiahindiravirgiastutita5881
    @ayudiahindiravirgiastutita5881 18 днів тому

    Superb ❤❤❤ thank you so much

  • @LegitimateEU
    @LegitimateEU 19 днів тому

    Yes. Yes yes. Yes yes. Absolutely.

  • @anokhaaoka2954
    @anokhaaoka2954 21 день тому

    A great episode. I like the part of self - development in the context of working with your feelings. It is a very valuable content. Thank you !

  • @rottencarrot
    @rottencarrot 21 день тому

    Thats not how corporate works...

    • @Modern.day.psychologist
      @Modern.day.psychologist 21 день тому

      @@rottencarrot yes you should definitely document everything that is happening

  • @ATCE1993
    @ATCE1993 22 дні тому

  • @icefanxiah
    @icefanxiah 22 дні тому

    I'm so glad that u have UA-cam channel ❤❤

  • @imroseahmed7638
    @imroseahmed7638 24 дні тому

    So true

  • @chrisseatea4146
    @chrisseatea4146 25 днів тому

    Infidelity happens … whatever… that’s a clear message to their so-called love partner …

    • @Modern.day.psychologist
      @Modern.day.psychologist 25 днів тому

      @@chrisseatea4146 agreed

    • @chrisseatea4146
      @chrisseatea4146 24 дні тому

      @ Blessings and protection to all persons who take vow of monogamy or marriage can be fruitful and happy ♥️❤️🌿✨🕊️♾️♾️♾️🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 longevity, good health, good wealth, good prosperity, good freedom #GODBLESSALLFAMILY #ALLPEOPLECOUNT 🌟✨💫🌏🌍🌎🍃🍂🍁🌾🌅🌄

  • @ParticlePhysics321
    @ParticlePhysics321 25 днів тому

    All the industrial chemicals that can’t break down, like PFAS, lead to endocrine disruption. Lower testosterone levels would explain some of the drop in masculinity

  • @josipstaba6474
    @josipstaba6474 25 днів тому

    Mizandry is rampant and disgusting in mizandric western civilization

  • @Guiomar26
    @Guiomar26 25 днів тому

    women are becoming less tolerant … because women are creating pathways for options to op out of relationships that are unhealthy & they are empowering themselves in many ways through education (formal & informal), financial means, health & wellness, emotional health & mental growth, maturity and evolution etc. owning their voices and power to choose differently and some men are ill equipped to respond to those changes bc it comes at the cost of their unearned privileges, granted by patriarchal narratives that have dominated society for centuries.

  • @ayudiahindiravirgiastutita5881
    @ayudiahindiravirgiastutita5881 26 днів тому

    Need the full version💗💗💗

  • @stefanasf
    @stefanasf 28 днів тому

    Definitely we need one Episode with Sadia !

  • @hereforthelaughs992
    @hereforthelaughs992 Місяць тому

    Depends what context they are talking about their ex?

    • @Modern.day.psychologist
      @Modern.day.psychologist Місяць тому

      In which situation would you run and in which situation would you stay if your dating partner talks about their ex?

    • @hereforthelaughs992
      @hereforthelaughs992 Місяць тому

      - "My ex did something I didn’t like..." - Reasons for their breakup (so you can learn from their mistakes). - Or maybe it’s a long-term partner of 5+ years. Naturally, some life stories will include their ex. You can’t and shouldn't erase your past just because it involved an ex. Just because someone mentions their ex doesn’t mean they still have feelings for them. In fact, it shows they’re willing to open up and share both the good and the bad. Instead of encouraging them to shut down, maybe you might not be as confident in yourself as you present in the video. That last part sounds like I'm attacking your character but I'm not. Just an honest feedback. No offense=)

    • @Modern.day.psychologist
      @Modern.day.psychologist Місяць тому

      Super valid points! I would add a person who says “all my ex were crazy” - run as it often reflects a person who doesn’t take any responsibility for own faults

    • @hereforthelaughs992
      @hereforthelaughs992 Місяць тому

      @@Modern.day.psychologist Lucky that is not my case. But I will be careful 😉

    • @Modern.day.psychologist
      @Modern.day.psychologist Місяць тому

      @@hereforthelaughs992 💪

  • @ralval5376
    @ralval5376 Місяць тому

    I tried this with my wife.. she uses it against me. We are only as good as the money we bring in. I was suicidal at one point she scoffed at me…

  • @aglassofwhitewata8759
    @aglassofwhitewata8759 Місяць тому

    😂 no.

  • @Rishabh_Sharma
    @Rishabh_Sharma Місяць тому

    18:56 I also see we men not approaching women as it’s very easy to shame us on social media and create rumours. Character assassination in general has become very easy to be done on men.

  • @Rishabh_Sharma
    @Rishabh_Sharma Місяць тому

    Great work, need more conversations like this 🎉❤

  • @Amycool901
    @Amycool901 Місяць тому

    These men will not find a woman in their entire life if they will be rigid to their conswrvative nature of manhood.

  • @margaretsegarra7472
    @margaretsegarra7472 Місяць тому

    I really like what you are saying. It’s refreshing and comforting. I’ve heard a lot of bad dating advice that is not helpful. Your point of view is objective and logical. Thank you.

    • @Modern.day.psychologist
      @Modern.day.psychologist Місяць тому

      @@margaretsegarra7472 many thanks Margaret 🙏🏼 more to come

    • @margaretsegarra7472
      @margaretsegarra7472 Місяць тому

      @@Modern.day.psychologist I’m looking forward to it. I love your shorts too!!

  • @julianmiebach1350
    @julianmiebach1350 Місяць тому

    PLEASE! Stop labeling Andrew Tate as „controversial“ and his opinion being „out of the normal“. The man is a monster. He openly shared why he loves 16 year old virgins, physically abused women, very likely groomed dozens of young women into the webcam business and is on trial for human trafficking. Tu put him in the same sentence as Jordan Peterson (who deserves the label „controversial“) is just wrong.

  • @loueybai7635
    @loueybai7635 Місяць тому

    ❤❤❤❤

  • @blahblah7050
    @blahblah7050 Місяць тому

    how to figure out if not cheating is one of their values

  • @blahblah7050
    @blahblah7050 Місяць тому

    how do we contact you

  • @blahblah7050
    @blahblah7050 Місяць тому

    just curious why the I've never met a girl/guy like you before?

    • @Modern.day.psychologist
      @Modern.day.psychologist Місяць тому

      @@blahblah7050 especially when someone says this after the second or third date (fairly early on in the dating process) then it can be a form of manipulation trying to create a connection with you rapidly as a way to control you later. If someone say this to you after a year and it’s based on solid grounds then it could be a valid statement

  • @olivettetuyenvu
    @olivettetuyenvu Місяць тому

    This is so real especially on the first date 😂

  • @edolina2000
    @edolina2000 Місяць тому

    I would not know cuz I am not dating, or looking for the last 9 years. Not that I don’t care to find a loving man. I just lost interest

  • @MathildaFlow
    @MathildaFlow Місяць тому

    A man who is 40 and has not yet found someone to settle down with is not stable. He’s just like the 25 year olds who still want to play the field, he’s just older. If you want someone to settle down with you find a man of 21 who has that goal. You don’t wish upon a star with someone who has not found love during 25 years of dating around, because you’re not gonna be the one for him either.

  • @margo3367
    @margo3367 Місяць тому

    Also, when you’re not going to school or work your social circle narrows precipitively. I’m seeing a man 20 years my junior because we met in his shop and after two years he took it to the next level. I’m not a cougar. He calls me beautiful.

  • @brianjames5685
    @brianjames5685 Місяць тому

    People older than me are dead. Mostly anyway.

  • @UnbiasedGoliath
    @UnbiasedGoliath 2 місяці тому

    This is the only vid I needed to see for confirmation. Thankyou

  • @Modern.day.psychologist
    @Modern.day.psychologist 2 місяці тому

    Explanation: when you dive in the mind and souls of people - people truly want connection. But all the noise around us and the way we respond to the noise with more noise just makes things worse! Before you know it everyone is saying “know I don’t want nobody!” But that’s just a reaction to the external world and sometimes even a fear response! If you truly want to find a connection with someone you can. You need to be committed to what you want! Being alone you can always do - trust me when you get old you will be involuntarily alone which is not that enjoyable! So don’t give up on love! Be intentional about and learn to deal with your own red flags and demons to help you stay committed to what are looking for! It will come ❤️

  • @Modern.day.psychologist
    @Modern.day.psychologist 2 місяці тому

    Explanation: falling in love is a wonderful experience! Everyone should experience it in their lifetime! However as the saying goes “love blinds you” it is important to be mindful of what you’re not seeing and doing but maybe not realizing! One of the most common mistakes about falling in love is not being able to see one’s partner’s red flags 🚩! Those rosy glasses you got makes everything just look perfect - including your imagination running wild imagining how life will be with this person moving forward! Don’t stop that feeling it’s great - but also don’t neglect red flags in the relationship! Another red flag is when you fall in love and start to neglect your friends! Slowly just focusing on your partner, which is a good thing, but never neglect your friends in the process. Sometimes partners purposefully try to keep you away from your friends to coerce your behavior. Never lose touch with your friends when falling in love! And finally watch out you don’t give yourself up (dreams needs passions) when falling in love! Some people just give up on everything when they fall in love! Don’t! Stay focused on your goals and needs - remember everything is balance! ❤️ Tell me below about your falling in love experiences 😏

  • @TrevisWamuthenya
    @TrevisWamuthenya 2 місяці тому

    Came from Instagram