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The Final Adelaide Vlog ~Catch Ups, St Louis & Driving back to Melbourne
I hope you enjoy watching the Adelaide vlogs! Travelling with a our 3 month old baby was an interesting experience, but he did really well! Thanks so much for watching!
My name is Mayanthi and I am a qualified Counsellor in Australia. I will be sharing my journey as a counsellor and tips you might want to consider if you are interested in becoming a Counsellor as well.
I hope you enjoyed this video!.
For more, check out my:
Website - www.withthegraciouslife.com/
Instagram - thegraciouslife_counsellor
Tik Tok - with_thegraciouslife
If you would like to book in a 1:1 zoom consult, please email mayanthi@withthegraciouslife.com for more details and pricing.
Thanks for joining me on my journey!
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New Years Eve Vlog ~ Games and Grapes!
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I hope you enjoy watching our New Years Eve vlog! It was a lot of fun playing games and eating grapes under the table with my Sri Lankan family, let's hope all our wishes come true! Stay tuned for more fun Adelaide vlogs! My name is Mayanthi and I am a qualified Counsellor in Australia. I will be sharing my journey as a counsellor and tips you might want to consider if you are interested in bec...
The Adelaide Vlogs ~ Come shopping with us, Family Dinner and more
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I hope you enjoy watching our Adelaide vlogs! Adelaide was home for most of my life, so it was so nice to take Siyan back and introduce him to everyone! Also I hoped you enjoy joining us shop at Sephora, our Sephora haul and having a wholesome time at my brothers place. Stay tuned for more fun Adelaide vlogs! My name is Mayanthi and I am a qualified Counsellor in Australia. I will be sharing my...
Counselling Career Q&A ~ Placement, Relationship Counselling and more
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Do you want to be a Counsellor? It can be so confusing trying to figure out what to study and/or what path to take to become a Counsellor. I hope this video will be helpful for you in answering questions about what to study in the counselling field and what potential path to take towards a successful counselling/psychology career. My name is Mayanthi and I am a qualified Counsellor in Australia...
The Adelaide Diaries ~ Cherry Picking & Whispering Wall
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I hope you enjoy this day trip in Adelaide vlog! We went cherry picking at Kersbrook cherry farm and then to the Whispering Wall! I hope you enjoy this wholesome vlog! My name is Mayanthi and I am a qualified Counsellor in Australia. I will be sharing my journey as a counsellor and tips you might want to consider if you are interested in becoming a Counsellor as well. I hope you enjoyed this vi...
Spend Christmas With Us
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I hope you enjoy spending christmas with my family and I! This was Siyan's first christmas, so it was special to be able to spend it with family! I hope you enjoy this wholesome vlog! My name is Mayanthi and I am a qualified Counsellor in Australia. I will be sharing my journey as a counsellor and tips you might want to consider if you are interested in becoming a Counsellor as well. I hope you...
The Adelaide Vlogs ~ Meeting Santa, Making Sri Lankan Love Cake, Friend Catch ups and more
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I hope you enjoy watching our Adelaide vlogs! Adelaide was home for most of my life, so it was so nice to take Siyan back and introduce him to everyone! Also I hoped you enjoy joining us when making Sri Lankan Love Cake. Stay tuned for more fun Adelaide vlogs! My name is Mayanthi and I am a qualified Counsellor in Australia. I will be sharing my journey as a counsellor and tips you might want t...
Road trip with our 3 month old ~ Melbourne to Adelaide
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I hope you enjoy watching our road trip from Melbourne to Adelaide with our 3 month old baby! Stay tuned for the fun Adelaide vlogs! My name is Mayanthi and I am a qualified Counsellor in Australia. I will be sharing my journey as a counsellor and tips you might want to consider if you are interested in becoming a Counsellor as well. I hope you enjoyed this video!. For more, check out my: Websi...
How to Decide Where to Study Counselling in Australia
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Do you want to be a Counsellor? It can be so confusing trying to figure out what to study and/or what path to take to become a Counsellor. I hope this video will be helpful for you in answering questions about where to study Counselling - Uni or Tafe? GO8 Uni or smaller Uni? Etc.... My name is Mayanthi and I am a qualified Counsellor in Australia. I will be sharing my journey as a counsellor an...
Daily Vlog ~ Wardrobe Clear Out, New Skincare and Tea Time
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I hope you enjoyed watching my daily vlog - wardrobe clearout post baby, nudie glo haul and twinnings tea! My name is Mayanthi and I am a qualified Counsellor in Australia. I will be sharing my journey as a counsellor and tips you might want to consider if you are interested in becoming a Counsellor as well. I hope you enjoyed this video!. For more, check out my: Website - www.withthegraciousli...
Family Shopping Vlog and Haul
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I hope you enjoy joining me and my family for a shopping vlog featuring Daiso, TKMAX, Tea White and more! My name is Mayanthi and I am a qualified Counsellor in Australia. I will be sharing my journey as a counsellor and tips you might want to consider if you are interested in becoming a Counsellor as well. I hope you enjoyed this video!. For more, check out my: Website - www.withthegraciouslif...
Can A Counsellor call themselves A Psychologist?
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Do you want to be a Counsellor? It can be so confusing trying to figure out what to study and/or what path to take to become a Counsellor. I hope this video will be helpful for you in answering questions about if a Counsellor can call themselves a Psychologist. My name is Mayanthi and I am a qualified Counsellor in Australia. I will be sharing my journey as a counsellor and tips you might want ...
Daily Vlog ~ Mum Life, Tidying & Chia Pudding
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I hope you enjoy joining me for a realistic day in my life, feeding my newborn, tidying the house, making chia seed pudding and Vietnamese chicken noodle salad (bun bowl). My name is Mayanthi and I am a qualified Counsellor in Australia. I will be sharing my journey as a counsellor and tips you might want to consider if you are interested in becoming a Counsellor as well. I hope you enjoyed thi...
Life as First Time Parents ~ A Realistic Vlog
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I hope you enjoy joining me for a realistic day in my life! First Mums group and family day out. My name is Mayanthi and I am a qualified Counsellor in Australia. I will be sharing my journey as a counsellor and tips you might want to consider if you are interested in becoming a Counsellor as well. I hope you enjoyed this video!. For more, check out my: Website - www.withthegraciouslife.com/ In...
A Realistic Day in My Life ~ Cooking, Shopping, Journaling
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I hope you enjoy joining me for a realistic day in my life! My name is Mayanthi and I am a qualified Counsellor in Australia. I will be sharing my journey as a counsellor and tips you might want to consider if you are interested in becoming a Counsellor as well. I hope you enjoyed this video!. For more, check out my: Website - www.withthegraciouslife.com/ Instagram - thegraciouslife_counsellor ...
Counselling Career Q&A ~ Part 4
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Counselling Career Q&A ~ Part 4
Creating and Changing your Self-Identity ~ Thoughts from a Counsellor
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Creating and Changing your Self-Identity ~ Thoughts from a Counsellor
How to Embrace Change ~ Thoughts from a Counsellor
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How to Embrace Change ~ Thoughts from a Counsellor
Overseas Psychologists wanting to Migrate to Australia
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Overseas Psychologists wanting to Migrate to Australia
What is a Counselling Psychologist?
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What is a Counselling Psychologist?
Counselling Career Q&A ~ Part 3
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Counselling Career Q&A ~ Part 3
Creating a Visual Journal with a Counsellor
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Creating a Visual Journal with a Counsellor
How to Focus ~ Chats with a Counsellor
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How to Focus ~ Chats with a Counsellor
Pathways to become a Psychologist in Australia
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Pathways to become a Psychologist in Australia
Counselling Career Q&A ~ Part 2
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Counselling Career Q&A ~ Part 2
Counselling Career Q&A
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Counselling Career Q&A
Why study Psychology to be a Counsellor?
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Why study Psychology to be a Counsellor?
Counselling Placement ~ My Experience
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Counselling Placement ~ My Experience
Should I study Counselling or Psychology?
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Should I study Counselling or Psychology?
A Day in the Life of a Counsellor
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A Day in the Life of a Counsellor

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  • @saiyadayub
    @saiyadayub 5 днів тому

    You looking so sweet mam 😊

  • @saiyadayub
    @saiyadayub 5 днів тому

    Very nice mam ❤❤

  • @Joshayyy
    @Joshayyy 12 днів тому

    Thank you for this ❤

  • @Kwalalove
    @Kwalalove 16 днів тому

    Thankyou for sharing!

  • @mkinnovations25
    @mkinnovations25 19 днів тому

    I am doing master of counselling and what I need to do after completion of this study

  • @supercatfood1
    @supercatfood1 20 днів тому

    I really appreciate your videos! I'm about the start a cert iv in mental health.

  • @deshanigokarella8026
    @deshanigokarella8026 22 дні тому

    Omg its your mum taking siyan away and leaving for me 😂😂😂😂 so funny and cute!! Love these vlogs girl

  • @deshanigokarella8026
    @deshanigokarella8026 22 дні тому

    Omg this was so much fun to watch!! Love the video quality, editing and just seeing your everyday life was so cute!! Cant wait to see more ❤❤

  • @Andrew-c8c6l
    @Andrew-c8c6l 23 дні тому

    Hi Mayanthi, i completed the grad cert in counselling and want to start the masters. My goal is to become a marriage counsellor. Is this the best path forward or should I be looking at something else? Thanks in advance for your advice

    • @thegraciouslife_counsellor
      @thegraciouslife_counsellor 16 днів тому

      Thanks for watching! I’ve answered your question in this video ☺️ ua-cam.com/video/YIunXGq8Swo/v-deo.htmlsi=1lB1_EfaiVMbVVFm

  • @Kwalalove
    @Kwalalove 28 днів тому

    Hello ma’am this was so helpful! A question. Can we not work in the field of counseling with the bachelor degree? Do we need the Master degree to qualify as a counsellor?

    • @thegraciouslife_counsellor
      @thegraciouslife_counsellor 16 днів тому

      Thanks for watching! I’ve answered your question in this video ☺️ ua-cam.com/video/YIunXGq8Swo/v-deo.htmlsi=1lB1_EfaiVMbVVFm

  • @rimelheig
    @rimelheig Місяць тому

    Were you nervous during placement? I feel sick everytime I think about it 😅

    • @thegraciouslife_counsellor
      @thegraciouslife_counsellor 16 днів тому

      Thanks for watching! I’ve answered your question in this video ☺️ wishing you all the best with placement! ua-cam.com/video/YIunXGq8Swo/v-deo.htmlsi=1lB1_EfaiVMbVVFm

  • @somebodymee6535
    @somebodymee6535 Місяць тому

    Hi I got an offer from AIPC which is the Australian Institute of professional counsellor and another offer from IAP which is The Institute Of Applied Psychology to study Diploma Of Counselling. IAP are offering a $1000 discount to study this course but I can’t find too many reviews from students who have done counselling with lAP, however they have a lot of good reviews from students who have studied NLP with their institute. Do you know anything about this institute IAP? Should I go with AIPC or IAP? Their Courses are both accredited by ACA. I’ll appreciate your urgent response because I need to make this decision fast. Thank you.

    • @thegraciouslife_counsellor
      @thegraciouslife_counsellor Місяць тому

      Hi, thanks for your comment. I don’t have any specific information or experience with either AIPC or IAP unfortunately. However, as they are both accredited with ACA, I suggest going with the one that’s more financially viable for you. Also, my most recent video might have some tips for you to help you decide! ☺️

    • @clairemosley5709
      @clairemosley5709 14 днів тому

      I'm in a similar boat looking at both of these courses. Which one did you end up going with? What helped you decide?

    • @somebodymee6535
      @somebodymee6535 13 днів тому

      @@clairemosley5709 Hi, I ended up going with IAP. I looked at the course outline and it’s exactly the same for both institute however my deciding factors were: 1) The $1000 discount IAP was offering for a limited time which wasn’t on offer for AIPC at the time, however AIPC is now offering this $1000 discount on this course for a limited time. 2) The fact that AIPC were offering some courses and practicals as paid and advertising them as free. I I found this a bit odd because this courses are free and included in the course outline for IAP. However, I have found that the two Institute have very good student Support, AIPC based on reviews and a bit of my experience during inquiry about the course, IAP based on my experience so far as a student. Ultimately I believe they are both very good institutes and you will get the knowledge and skills that you seek in the counselling field. It is also worth noting that AIPC is strictly a counselling Institute. Whereas IAP Offers other psychotherapy courses should you decide to expand your knowledge and skills.

    • @clairemosley5709
      @clairemosley5709 5 днів тому

      Thanks so much for all the details. Super helpful. I've just signed up for IAP, scraped in for the discount too Thanks again!

  • @nwaezeamuche6403
    @nwaezeamuche6403 Місяць тому

    I wish i can learn too

  • @nwaezeamuche6403
    @nwaezeamuche6403 Місяць тому

    I feel same too. Don't seem to know myself sometimes

  • @nwaezeamuche6403
    @nwaezeamuche6403 Місяць тому

    I'm planning on becoming a constant in counseling. What so you think?

  • @nwaezeamuche6403
    @nwaezeamuche6403 Місяць тому

    Hi! I studied MassCommunication with Higher National Diploma buy want to Navigate to Counselling. I never knew i had been counseling people on what to do and what not to do and it worked for rhem, but it never occured to me what it was. Can i still switch into PGD or Diploma? I'm still conside the schools to choose. Ill appreciate you give me immediate feedback. I love the video. Thanks

  • @Joshayyy
    @Joshayyy Місяць тому

    Thank you 🙏

  • @crosskingpeters2400
    @crosskingpeters2400 Місяць тому

    Nice one

  • @teporas
    @teporas Місяць тому

    Hi Mayanthi, Very interested in Counselling and wanting to become registered as a Counsellor. Is it better to just do the Bachelor of Counselling or Diploma first? I'm thinking everything in the Bachelor will cover what I'll do in the diploma so I might as well do the degree anyways? Thank you

  • @betolangsch5589
    @betolangsch5589 2 місяці тому

    keep at it!

  • @tiffanyyen6132
    @tiffanyyen6132 2 місяці тому

    Hello, I'm planning on studying Master of Counselling in Australia. I currently received offers from Monash and Western Sydney University. Could you give me pointers on how to choose the best school that suits me? Thank you!

    • @thegraciouslife_counsellor
      @thegraciouslife_counsellor Місяць тому

      Hi, thanks so much for watching! I will make sure to answer this in an upcoming video. In the meantime, ask the Unis for their course guides and see what units/subjects they teach in the degree, and from their you can see which subjects interest you most. I will provide some more pointers in a future video! ☺️

  • @shilparoy12
    @shilparoy12 2 місяці тому

    Hi! I am curious to know about the job market for those graduating with masters of counselling degree in Australia from one of the top 8 universities. Would you mind telling me a bit about that?

  • @Joshayyy
    @Joshayyy 2 місяці тому

    ❤ Great vid

  • @garden_pink
    @garden_pink 2 місяці тому

    Your baby is so adorable

  • @deshanigokarella8026
    @deshanigokarella8026 2 місяці тому

    Omg loving your vlog era!!! Thankyou for sharing your day with us 🥰🥰

  • @letstalk_payal
    @letstalk_payal 2 місяці тому

    Thank you for answering & can you please tell me which institute is better : IAP : Institute of applied psychology Or AIPC : Australian Institute of Professional Counsellor

    • @thegraciouslife_counsellor
      @thegraciouslife_counsellor 2 місяці тому

      Hi, thanks for watching! What course are you looking at studying? Once I know this I can look at doing a comparison video ☺️

    • @fnny47
      @fnny47 Місяць тому

      ​​Hi ​, can international trained counseling psychologist (physically disabled, doesn't need an ongoing medical treatment) be accepted, and especially by employer?

  • @deshanigokarella8026
    @deshanigokarella8026 2 місяці тому

    Loved this vlog!! Siyan’s little smile is so cute ahhh

  • @mayarochlin4336
    @mayarochlin4336 2 місяці тому

    Make more vlogs !!

    • @thegraciouslife_counsellor
      @thegraciouslife_counsellor 2 місяці тому

      Thank you so much for watching and commenting! I will definitely make more vlogs ☺️

  • @mansi8963
    @mansi8963 3 місяці тому

    Mayanthi, which part of the world do you practice as a counsellor?

  • @TheHealthTuber
    @TheHealthTuber 3 місяці тому

    Hello Mayanthi, Thank you sooo much for uploading these videos. I had a question, can counsellors call themselves psychologist in Australia or only those who've done their master's in clinical psychology can do so? So if I do my master's in counseling psychology, will be able to do a PsyD to practice as a counselling psychologist? Can you please help me find a clear pathway to become a counselling psychologist in Australia. Also just for the context - I've done by undergrad in social work and want to focus on counseling as my main career.

    • @thegraciouslife_counsellor
      @thegraciouslife_counsellor 2 місяці тому

      Hi! Thanks so much for watching! I’ve just addressed your question in my most recent video ☺️ feel free to check it out here: ua-cam.com/video/Ot7VBNbumi8/v-deo.htmlsi=HuDXXO90ydLny0R8

  • @dasunalwis3489
    @dasunalwis3489 3 місяці тому

    Thank you so much for answering my question

  • @isurujayandi1252
    @isurujayandi1252 3 місяці тому

    Hey are you from sri lanka ?

  • @michalcaganek8287
    @michalcaganek8287 3 місяці тому

    Great video thank you for your answers!

  • @deshanigokarella8026
    @deshanigokarella8026 3 місяці тому

    This video really made me think about my own life and how I am socially and at home! I think life is so seasonal and if you're not growing and changing over time, then I guess people would just know you as one consistent version of yourself (which I don't believe is healthy anyways). As social beings I think naturally we have so many layers to who we are and we show certain parts of ourselves to who we don't feel so close with and those who we are close with, see us for all our layers through different seasons of our lives. I've also felt imposter syndrome especially being in a majority white school and not connecting with my south asian roots, so I really appreciate this video! You're doing amazing in all your roles as a mother, a friend, a creator, a daughter and a lover! 🥰

    • @thegraciouslife_counsellor
      @thegraciouslife_counsellor 3 місяці тому

      Thank you so much for watching Desh, I appreciate your thoughts so much and completely agree with you! Each stage and season of life should bring some growth and change! 🙌🏽 you’ve explained it so well!! ❤️

  • @letstalk_payal
    @letstalk_payal 3 місяці тому

    Should I do diploma of counselling from tafe? Can I get entry to any association through that?

    • @thegraciouslife_counsellor
      @thegraciouslife_counsellor 3 місяці тому

      Hi, thanks so much for watching! I’ve answered your question in my most recent video! Feel free to check it out here ☺️ ua-cam.com/video/rg7T4OY9Jx0/v-deo.htmlsi=G-VR43WJul70lBeY

  • @letstalk_payal
    @letstalk_payal 3 місяці тому

    Thanks for the informative video. Can you please give a brief details about the 'Diploma of Counselling' & outcome of that coarse?

  • @dasunalwis3489
    @dasunalwis3489 3 місяці тому

    Hi, I'm thinking of starting a diploma in counselling. Live in Australia. Are there any books or materials that you recommend that I could read before starting just to get an idea.bit worried if I can get through the course.thanks in advance

    • @thegraciouslife_counsellor
      @thegraciouslife_counsellor 3 місяці тому

      Hi, thanks so much for watching! I’ve answered your question in my most recent video! Feel free to check it out here ☺️ ua-cam.com/video/rg7T4OY9Jx0/v-deo.htmlsi=G-VR43WJul70lBeY

  • @freak.showtv
    @freak.showtv 3 місяці тому

    A diploma of Counselling through Australian Institute of Professional Counsellors AIPC comes with registration to the ACA. I'm about to start mine today. 😊👍

    • @dasunalwis3489
      @dasunalwis3489 3 місяці тому

      How do you like it so far? I've seen a lot of good reviews about AIPC

    • @letstalk_payal
      @letstalk_payal 3 місяці тому

      @@freak.showtv Thanks for your comment. How can I start that coarse? Can you please help me with that?

  • @michalcaganek8287
    @michalcaganek8287 3 місяці тому

    Hi, thank you for making this video, as this is exactly where I am at. I am currently finishing my diploma in Clinical Hypnosis and Psychotherapy and want to continue to study further. Psychology was always on my target, however I do like also how counseling is structured. Is hard to get into Masters of counselling? Thanks again, great video

    • @thegraciouslife_counsellor
      @thegraciouslife_counsellor 3 місяці тому

      Hi, thanks so much for watching! I’ve answered your question in my most recent video. Feel free to check it out here ua-cam.com/video/rg7T4OY9Jx0/v-deo.htmlsi=G-VR43WJul70lBeY☺️

    • @michalcaganek8287
      @michalcaganek8287 3 місяці тому

      @@thegraciouslife_counsellor I will check it out thank you congratulations to you and your baby 🙏

  • @giovannaricciardimontenegr2083
    @giovannaricciardimontenegr2083 4 місяці тому

    Hi, thank you for this video! I just got to Australia one month ago, I was a psychologist in Chile (more than 10 years), I also have the australian citizen, How do I start? thank you!!

  • @dalbirsingh9757
    @dalbirsingh9757 4 місяці тому

    Good morning Mayanthi . I need your help please I want to start bachelor of counseling. I want to know is counselling in high demand in Australia and what is annual salary and after finishing the degree can i also start my own practice please advise thanks .

  • @deshanigokarella8026
    @deshanigokarella8026 4 місяці тому

    You are such a champ for going through ALL those changes within 3 weeks and still finding pockets of happiness through it all! Love your positive outlook and watching melbourne grow on you has been so much fun to witness ❤

  • @Inmykitchen325
    @Inmykitchen325 4 місяці тому

    Any time institution you would recommend for diploma of counselling

  • @John-ps3pu
    @John-ps3pu 4 місяці тому

    5+1 path = 3 years Bachelors, 1 year Honors, 1 Year Graduate Diploma, 1 year internship and then the big test. Thanks for the video. I found it easy to follow. I am a diploma qualified counsellor moving towards becoming a psychologist. I think its better to be a psychologist. You can always counsel as a psychologist. Takes forever and cost a fortune though! :)

  • @yasminefaumuina3418
    @yasminefaumuina3418 5 місяців тому

    Starting my bachelors in psychological science in November. What are your fave books that have helped you throughout your journey in being a councellor?

  • @deshanigokarella8026
    @deshanigokarella8026 5 місяців тому

    I want to scrap book with you

  • @deshanigokarella8026
    @deshanigokarella8026 5 місяців тому

    Omg you are the queen of scrapbooking!!! I was so inspired by you whenever Id see your creative journals and scrapbooks!!! Thankyou so much for sharing!! So freaking nostalgic 😍

    • @thegraciouslife_counsellor
      @thegraciouslife_counsellor 5 місяців тому

      Awww I love that 🥰 definitely a throwback hey!! But it’s such a nice way to capture and reminisce on memories!! You should defs start one too!!

  • @harjeetkaur9446
    @harjeetkaur9446 5 місяців тому

    I m from India

  • @harjeetkaur9446
    @harjeetkaur9446 5 місяців тому

    Hi mam ... I have 3 year graduation degree and 2 years masters degree in psychology... Can I apply for psychologist?

    • @CosmosKramer
      @CosmosKramer 5 місяців тому

      Unless you mean how to "apply for psychologist" in Australia, like the topic of the video, I don't expect this is the right place to ask. Assuming you mean in India, surely that was discussed frequently as you took & completed a psychology post-graduate degree program? 😐 (and for future reference, it's generally a good idea to give the actual name of the degree...)

  • @yasminefaumuina3418
    @yasminefaumuina3418 5 місяців тому

    I appreciate you posting these vids! Found you on tiktok! Reallyy contemplating on what to study. Its so hard so these are re-assuring ♥️

    • @thegraciouslife_counsellor
      @thegraciouslife_counsellor 5 місяців тому

      Thank you so much for watching and your kind words, I’m glad these videos provide some reassurance for you ☺️