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How I Overcame My Darkest Moment. School of Rock Bottom 44: Gareth Berliner.
This episode is about how, when life throws everything at you, the choice to keep going can change everything.
Gareth Berliner opens up about living with Crohn’s disease, short gut syndrome, and ADHD. After enduring years of surgeries, pain, and battling severe depression, Gareth reached his breaking point. In a moment where life or death was on the line, an unexpected realization made him choose life-leading him to an unlikely savior: comedy.
From Comedian to now actor, Gareth’s story isn’t just about survival. It’s about finding love and discovering that the hardest struggles can lead to the most beautiful of journeys.
If you’ve ever felt like giving up, Gareth’s journey will make you think twice. His raw honesty and resilience show that rock bottom isn’t the end-it’s the start of something bigger.
More on Gareth -
Gareth Berliner, a true Cockney born within the sound of Bow Bells but raised in Redbridge, Essex, began his stand-up comedy career in 2003. He’s graced stages at festivals, corporate events, and gigs across the UK and internationally. Beyond comedy Gareth is passionate about mental health, having spoken publicly on the topic and running workshops for the disabled and neurodiverse.
Gareth transitioned into acting, landing a role on Coronation Street that expanded from two episodes to over 20. Since then, he’s appeared in Doctor Who, Eastenders, The Bastard Executioner, The Essex Serpent & the animated film Mog's Xmas & he has even shared the screen with his wife - actress Kiruna Stamell in Doctors.
Topics -
0:00 Intro
3:15 Gareth's rock bottom
13:05 How Chron's disease saved my life
14:05 Gareth's mental health prior to suicide attempt
16:05 Was Gareth's depression situational only?
18:20 From suicide to an amazing life
21:55 Comedy saved my life
24:30 Let's talk about hope!
31:00 Getting back into work
35:00 Do you need the darkness to access the light?
37:00 ADHD, dopamine, weed & coke!
44:35 If you had of died what would you have missed out on?
If you have been affected by these topics, Gareth suggests the following support -
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The Samaritans: 116123 or email jo@samaritans.org
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  • @OliverMason1
    @OliverMason1 Годину тому

    Thanks for stopping by! Please drop Gareth and I a comment below it really would mean the world! Please also help more people discover this video by hitting subscribe, like and by leaving us a comment!

  • @AddictedToMore_
    @AddictedToMore_ 2 дні тому

    Yeah isolation has been a huge issue with me and addiction. I started loving going to my job that I use to hate and not wanting to leave at the end of the day because at work I knew I was safe and the people were familiar and were the closest thing I had to family

  • @billdoty6438
    @billdoty6438 6 днів тому

    Great job, great decision! I have same relationship with alcohol in the past. We had to break up 18 years ago and I don’t miss her

    • @OliverMason1
      @OliverMason1 6 днів тому

      Huge congratulations to you! Hope to see you on the channel soon - lots of addiction & alcohol related content on it's way! X

  • @AddictedToMore_
    @AddictedToMore_ 8 днів тому

    My channel is all about this. The anxiety went away when I got sober and when I got some help with medication. Great video!

    • @OliverMason1
      @OliverMason1 8 днів тому

      Keep up the great work - just subscribed!

    • @AddictedToMore_
      @AddictedToMore_ 8 днів тому

      @@OliverMason1 thank you!! Will do

  • @blonka123
    @blonka123 10 днів тому

    Great podcast! Issy is so inspiring 😊

    • @OliverMason1
      @OliverMason1 10 днів тому

      Thank you. She is ❤️

    • @blonka123
      @blonka123 10 днів тому

      @@OliverMason1 you’re amazing too!

  • @blonka123
    @blonka123 10 днів тому

    Such a mature beauty

  • @blonka123
    @blonka123 10 днів тому

    Wow!!! She is so me. I can’t relate sooo much. Fortunately for her, she got out young. I’m 34 and have been an alcoholic since 16 years old and still struggling. Finally put myself on the waiting list to go to rehab, it’s my last resort

    • @OliverMason1
      @OliverMason1 10 днів тому

      @@blonka123 this is brilliant and well done to you. I got sober at a similar age - you got this! ❤️

  • @blonka123
    @blonka123 10 днів тому

    Wow!!! She is so me. I can’t relate sooo much. Fortunately for her, she got out young. I’m 34 and have been an alcoholic since 16 years old and still struggling. Finally put myself on the waiting list to go to rehab, it’s my last resort

  • @OliverMason1
    @OliverMason1 11 днів тому

    Please drop Sammy and I a comment - thanks for tuning in & please hit subscribe so you don't miss future epsodes! See you in 2 weeks!

    • @MelaniNair
      @MelaniNair 6 днів тому

      Such an inspiring episode & huge thanks to you both ❤

  • @KathleenAlex-ic3kc
    @KathleenAlex-ic3kc 11 днів тому

    28 years old and I hit rock bottom. I knew where my Grandpa's shotgun was and I knew how to load it. My sobriety date is December 15,1981. Grateful to God and AA 🙏❤️🙏

    • @OliverMason1
      @OliverMason1 11 днів тому

      Thank you for sharing & being part of the community 💓

  • @BluBeaz80
    @BluBeaz80 14 днів тому

  • @jamesbyrne9312
    @jamesbyrne9312 18 днів тому

    It makes no sense to run a pub knowing the damage it does, and knowing that the majority of the revenue you get from the pub comes from problem drinkers. I am actually disgusted by this man

    • @OliverMason1
      @OliverMason1 18 днів тому

      I completely understand where you’re coming from, and your concern for the potential harm caused by alcohol is valid. It's a complex issue that affects many people in profound ways. However, I believe that someone who has struggled with alcohol and is now in recovery might be in a unique position to run a pub more responsibly and with greater empathy. Their personal experience could help them create a more supportive and aware environment for others, especially those who might be at risk. Knowing Rupert, this will be exactly his intentions as his heart is absolutely in the right place. Is your comment more about wanting alcohol to be banned outright? I can understand your desire for this but won't this just lead to the conditions we saw during prohibition in America?

    • @jamesbyrne9312
      @jamesbyrne9312 18 днів тому

      @@OliverMason1 I get this. Thanks but if it was any other drug, can you imagine someone who was addicted to heroin saying that he just set up an online shop selling heroin. Only with alcohol do we make the excuse. He's profiting off a drug. That's as simple as it gets. It reminds me of Gus Fring in breaking bad, he doesnt partake in snorting meth, he just sells it. Does that make sense ethically, of course not.

  • @jamesbyrne9312
    @jamesbyrne9312 18 днів тому

    Co owns pubs!!!! Wow thats an evil twist

  • @amossnowdaharleyman9179
    @amossnowdaharleyman9179 19 днів тому

    I worked at a brewery for 10 years. They gave employees 6 cases of free beer a month and we were also allowed to drink beer on the job. Good/bad job.

  • @bruno12_3
    @bruno12_3 22 дні тому

    If we drink a highly addictive drug every day it’s not hard to work out that we become addicted but the forget to put this in there bull shit alcohol advertising 😥😥😥😥😥😥

    • @OliverMason1
      @OliverMason1 22 дні тому

      We know 1 in 8 people get addicted to alcohol - it should come with an addiction warning ⚠️

  • @bruno12_3
    @bruno12_3 22 дні тому

    We can function for a while but it’s far from high functioning alcohol is a highly addictive drug no different to all the other drugs it kills more people than all the other drugs put together 😢

  • @bruno12_3
    @bruno12_3 23 дні тому

    Fantastic I can relate to so much I had so many Christmas days like you

    • @OliverMason1
      @OliverMason1 23 дні тому

      @@bruno12_3 Thank you ❤️ How are you now?

  • @davidjames6638
    @davidjames6638 23 дні тому

    Great interview Oliver. Kelly is amazing.

  • @OliverMason1
    @OliverMason1 24 дні тому

    Thanks for watching! Please leave Ben & I a comment 😊 Please hit like & subscribe for more content ❤

  • @789quicky
    @789quicky 25 днів тому

    OCD is so misunderstood. More professionals and ideally everyone should be shown how it can manifest.

  • @Gain-Health
    @Gain-Health 26 днів тому

    I’m on day 6 … for my desire to leave my life of pain and trauma … alcohol and weed really worked … but because of my deep spiritual beliefs… Choosing the exit button on your own that’s not an option… Otherwise I would’ve done that… So I was just trying to exist until I could get out… But then the divine powers that be kept giving me messages, so if you want to get out… The way is to overcome the tribulation hero to earth and then also find some heaven on earth being in the state of joy, happiness… And when you get time is it worse, you get it to elevate… So… That brought me too… The reality of I’m not gonna find any joy to drink… I’ve been doing that for Long enough … and it only was bringing me down and pushing joy and happiness further away … I don’t what even got me to take on my day 1 … then finding all these videos .. and realizing that it might just be the alcohol .. as I had so much going for me … why could it not happen again .. and it could .. but not with alcohol in the way .. in the few days of cutting it out … I have been blessed in little in big ways .. and that’s the God and divine in ourselves giving confirmation we are pointing onwards and upwards ✨❣️✨

  • @Odipodi
    @Odipodi 27 днів тому

    I have 6 beers on a Saturday afternoon .I don't drink at all the rest of the week. Do i have a problem with alcohol ?? It's just a routine, and I enjoy it. Do I have a major problem???

    • @OliverMason1
      @OliverMason1 27 днів тому

      @@Odipodi hey there my friend. The only question I ask myself is this: "Can I be SURE I can stop at 1 drink?" My honest answer is NO - I can't be 100% sure. Could you have 1 beer on a Saturday afternoon if you needed to and then stop? An alcoholic just doesn't know if it will be 1 or 20, if they'll drink one day or 3 in a row (or longer).

  • @image30p
    @image30p 27 днів тому

    Hang-ziety lol

  • @goosemanjohn
    @goosemanjohn 27 днів тому

    Relate a lot to this. Vodka in smoothies suited as a covert method but red wine in a water bottle sounds pretty risky business. Good video thanks 🙏

  • @image30p
    @image30p 28 днів тому

    Thanks, Rupert, for saying it's never just about having a good time. I believe this is one of the places that it hides. Therapy will help a lot.

  • @chrisdownie4011
    @chrisdownie4011 Місяць тому

    Thanks mate, useful stuff. Eight weeks in and a lot of this resonates, so very helpful, cheers.

    • @OliverMason1
      @OliverMason1 Місяць тому

      Thank you & huge congrats to you! 👏

  • @LOLIloveyourmother
    @LOLIloveyourmother Місяць тому

    Awh I love issy Hawkins - great sober tiktok content!

  • @frenzyclips8304
    @frenzyclips8304 Місяць тому

    Amazing guys!

  • @Bridgetjune666
    @Bridgetjune666 Місяць тому

    Very inspiring! Thank you so much for sharing❤

    • @OliverMason1
      @OliverMason1 Місяць тому

      Thanks for joining us ❤️💪🏻

  • @StaceyPalmer-uc5qj
    @StaceyPalmer-uc5qj Місяць тому

    Those who come from nothing usually become something 🙌

  • @MJA5
    @MJA5 Місяць тому

    the way I try to explain it is like a big fence or wall, and it’s tall and you can’t see over it or what’s on the other side, so you can’t conceive climbing over it or understand why it’s worth the effort, but once on the other side you understand feeling joy again. The giant wall also has doors in it, but they might only be evident after you reach the other side.

    • @OliverMason1
      @OliverMason1 Місяць тому

      @@MJA5 excellent, love this 👏🏻👏🏻

  • @sionnewton3550
    @sionnewton3550 Місяць тому

    Needed to say that the help he is taking about is alcoholics anonymous ,look for your local meeting s and the help is available. Thanks

    • @OliverMason1
      @OliverMason1 Місяць тому

      Thank you for your comment 😊

  • @duncanwaweru6598
    @duncanwaweru6598 Місяць тому

    God is God simple and Clear

  • @55tranquility
    @55tranquility Місяць тому

    I grew up with a functioning alcoholic father, who was a successful engineer. When not at work he was drinking, to blackout. I hated it, it ruined our childhoods. He retired and was at the point of drinking himself to death. He went into psychiatric hospital (on nhs in the days they took you as an inpatient) he had alcoholic psychoses and would experience delirium tremens if he went without drinking and have full blown non stop seizures. He was treated and went through detox and was discharged after 2 months and never touched a single drop again to the day before died. Hair of the dog, means you are basically an alcoholic as you are drinking to stop the withdrawals and are constantly drunk or constantly intoxicated - you then as he says are trapped in addiction. If you are drinking because you're are dependent on alcohol people around you know you are an alcoholic they just don't tell you that they know. If you are able to construct your day around drinking or not being able to not drink - you're probably in a social/career role where there is more reluctance to call it out, particularly if you don't mess up say at work. It's a lot easier to call out and sack the guy who passes out at his desk or is abusive or has numerous sick days and absences. Also people just can't be bothered if it's not close friends or family it's too much hassle. I avoid heavy drinkers and alcoholics like the plague and growing up with one I can spot them a mile off. In the UK it's incredibly easy to be alcohol dependant and carry on, it is everywhere. Pubs, bars, hotels, sports clubs, gyms, cafes, restaurants, cinemas, theatres, most shops sell it, social events are defined by it, drinking after work and at the weekend is a national pastime. Go to a kids party and you get offered a drink, even a church event will have drinks on offer. Some careers are geared around drinking, journalism, creative jobs, pr, events hospitality and drinking is normalised.

    • @OliverMason1
      @OliverMason1 Місяць тому

      Wow, what a powerful comment. Thanks for joining us ❤️

  • @OliverMason1
    @OliverMason1 Місяць тому

    Please drop Brandon & I a message - thanks for tuning in! ❤

  • @dswLIVE
    @dswLIVE Місяць тому

    How cute is this misses?!❤😊

  • @Kasia-p8k
    @Kasia-p8k Місяць тому

    Joining in from Australia. I have been mostly alcohol free for a couple of years, with two occasions this year when I drank. Didn't enjoy it at all. I'm done. I used to drink very heavily in my 20s and 30s. What a waste of time that was. My mental health was destroyed, I struggled with everything in my life. I'm so healthy, anxiety free and happy now. Alcohol sucks

    • @OliverMason1
      @OliverMason1 Місяць тому

      @@Kasia-p8k wow, congratulations! Thanks for sharing your story with us and we wish you continued health & happiness. When I was drinking I had panic disorder and I've not had 1 in last 9 years I've been sober. Hope to see you here again ❤️

    • @Kasia-p8k
      @Kasia-p8k Місяць тому

      @@OliverMason1 it took me 20 years to realise, that what I thought was helping me with anxiety, was actually the main contributor to it. I used to feel almost paralyzed with fear on days after heavy binge. So I would drink...and the cycle would continue.. years of counselling, antianxiety drugs and everything else possible, nothing worked. I quit drinking and within weeks my anxiety started to subside. I watched the video where you talked about your personal journey and one of your rock bottoms. I relate so much. That sense of being in an abyss of sadness and self loathing, knowing that yet again you disappointed loved ones and yourself. So much suffering. I don't think people who didn't experience addiction can really understand the depth of that pain and feeling of hopelessness. Thank you for sharing and for creating this channel. It helps so much.

    • @OliverMason1
      @OliverMason1 Місяць тому

      @@Kasia-p8k Thank you for taking the time to share your story. It’s great to hear how you’ve recognized the patterns contributing to your anxiety and made the brave move to quit drinking. That cycle of fear, sadness, and self-loathing you describe is all too familiar for many who’ve struggled with addiction, and your ability to break through that is truly inspiring. It’s so rewarding to know that my content has resonated with you and been a source of support. Sharing these personal journeys is never easy, but it’s in moments like these-where stories connect-that real healing happens. Keep going, Kasia! You’ve already taken some of the hardest steps, and your strength shines through. Thank you again for your kind words and for being part of this community. Take care and wishing you all the best, Oliver 🙏🏻

  • @vixter28
    @vixter28 Місяць тому

    I’ve been alone for 16 years! I think that’s long enough To be lonely !!! I’m a sex and love addict SLAA has helped me through the last toxic relationship Now I’m in another one and it hurts even more Well, we broke up now 😢💔 My ex partner is a sex addict probably love addict And alcoholic & very needy and emotionally unavailable so he’s an avoidant Don’t know where to go from here I did reach out to my SLAA sponsor today AND THAT GAVE ME SOME HOPE BUT THIS REALLY SUCKS ! I would like a healthy committed relationship I have been recovering for several years even though I have recovery, the loneliness got to me and I needed attention. Therefore, I got into a dysfunctional toxic relationship.😢

    • @OliverMason1
      @OliverMason1 Місяць тому

      @@vixter28 sending you ❤️ and 💪🏻 - hope to see you on the channel soon. Keep us updated on how you're doing.

  • @BryanH-h8l
    @BryanH-h8l Місяць тому

    I had forgotten what real energy felt like, yeah, it’s been over 2 years and I don’t crave the stuff anymore, surprisingly I didn’t suffer withdrawal and that was key, not even within the first days after go’ogling Steffon Barkload’s Quit Drinking Forever and quitting because I wanted to with no pressure or anything.

  • @versatilehumanbeing6013
    @versatilehumanbeing6013 Місяць тому

    I am 2nd day of being sober its just a start please pray for me 😞

    • @OliverMason1
      @OliverMason1 Місяць тому

      All the prayers my brother - find a community we have got you 🙏🏻

    • @PhilMorales-ho9ff
      @PhilMorales-ho9ff Місяць тому

      Go to a meeting if you can. One daybat a time.

    • @OliverMason1
      @OliverMason1 Місяць тому

      @@PhilMorales-ho9ff meetings, sponsor, steps, service is what saved me too 🙏🏻❤️

  • @karentonks7581
    @karentonks7581 Місяць тому

    When you look at the red background for long enough and then close your eyes it turns blue

    • @OliverMason1
      @OliverMason1 Місяць тому

      Wow! Going to try that 😉😁

  • @Stevo_YouTube
    @Stevo_YouTube Місяць тому

    To anyone reading this who's only just quit or thinking of quitting, that bit about the stigma of being seen as a 'fuck up' for needing to quit will pass fairly quickly. It's uncomfortable telling people at first but it definitely gets easy after a short while.

    • @OliverMason1
      @OliverMason1 Місяць тому

      @@Stevo_UA-cam agree totally 💪🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

  • @georginaheffernan5743
    @georginaheffernan5743 Місяць тому

    Thanks for sharing this! My favourite podcast!

    • @OliverMason1
      @OliverMason1 Місяць тому

      @@georginaheffernan5743 wow, thank you! ❤️

  • @Stevo_YouTube
    @Stevo_YouTube Місяць тому

    I started to think it would be easier to kill myself than to quit drinking, and that would be the best way to stop. That actually scared me into going AF. 500 days AF and not really been tempted to drink again. I closed the door and nothing would give me a good enough reason to open it again.

    • @OliverMason1
      @OliverMason1 Місяць тому

      @@Stevo_UA-cam wow, this is a powerful comment. Thank you. I can relate and agree. Proud - keep going ❤️🙏🏻

    • @MelissaMcGovern-r9c
      @MelissaMcGovern-r9c 8 днів тому

      @@Stevo_UA-cam what is AF?

    • @OliverMason1
      @OliverMason1 8 днів тому

      Alcohol Free x

  • @scriming
    @scriming Місяць тому

    WHY the CAPTIONS?

    • @OliverMason1
      @OliverMason1 Місяць тому

      @@scriming Good morning from UK ⛅ There are only captions in the intro which is 90 seconds or less - does this spoil your experience? After that, you can turn them on or off within UA-cam. 🙏🏻

  • @Nolaughingmatter23
    @Nolaughingmatter23 Місяць тому

    that is hell on earth- holy smokes.

    • @OliverMason1
      @OliverMason1 Місяць тому

      @@Nolaughingmatter23 amazing he got through and is such an inspiration to so many ❤️

  • @AddictedToMore_
    @AddictedToMore_ Місяць тому

    The Thunderstorm of North London

  • @AddictedToMore_
    @AddictedToMore_ Місяць тому

    Just started my channel on addiction and just hit 170 Subs! We got this Oliver!

    • @OliverMason1
      @OliverMason1 Місяць тому

      @@AddictedToMore_ congratulations 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 you got this too!

  • @sebastianjaniak3851
    @sebastianjaniak3851 Місяць тому

    Well done Oli

  • @SlumberBear2k
    @SlumberBear2k Місяць тому

    she has a big juicy head.