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Wtf your bio dad has TikTok 😂😂😂

I want to see depersonalization & derealization vids plz

You vids are making me realize why I have so much ✨trauma✨ & so many empty spots in my memory of my childhood. Here's to healing yall 💜💜💜

You rock! You triggered a dream because I used to idolize a girl also named Danielle. She had something great to say to me in the dream, a part of myself saying something like, "You did it!" Thanks for speaking out! Hearing your story helped me know it doesn't have to cross some physiological threshold (a sort of neurological collapse in my case, anything to appease the torturer) to be defined as torture. Fixating on a singular event is part of the abuse and cover-up, kept me stuck, in my experience (gaslighting), I've now expanded my understanding to pervasive traits of torture in how they treated me, and talked about it in a video. War crimes is right, I'm happily no-contact with them and everyone in their orbit. May you be safe and stay amazing!

so whats csa? The Confederate States of America?

I was sexually abused most of my childhood By my father, and I’ve done a ton of emdr and also IFS which is internal family systems, parts work has helped me a lot! I also was adopted. My adopted dad sexually abused me from 2-15. I couldn’t remember my memories till 28. I felt like I had two different people abuse me but it was the day dad and the night dad. I had to separate them in my head to keep myself safe. I also was filmed as well… My mom Also was very passive and didn’t help and still to this day denies what happened to me. thank you for sharing your story. You give me hope and strength and just wanna send you so much love and healing! ❤❤

I married a woman who had been assaulted by her stepdad from 12 to 17. I was 20 and she was 31 when we married. We have two adult children both were completely protected and made it to adulthood without being raped. Some people think SA victims can't enjoy sex. It's not true. My wife jumped on me often so it's possible to beat your abuser and give them the middle finger by enjoying your spouse like crazy lol. All the healthy sex will begin to replace the bad memories is what happens.

damn, you are a narcissicistic monster

This is amazing, dove! I’m so proud of you!! I had a really rough time implementing chores because my mother treated me like a slave, and not a very good one! I just wanted my daughter to feel like I was happy to see her, and that her responsibilities were to herself! Affirmations work so well! You are so far along in your journey! My mother called me a “little bitch” for the first time when I was 2 for wetting the bed. My father treated my xx chromosomes like an invisibility cloak. I just offered my father the opportunity to get to know my family with some hard truths. He BLOCKED me! His name is Dick. A fantastic coincidence! Anyway, to see a younger person make these choices, these no map choices we that come from chaos are faced with, and not choose beer? Salut! Your self awareness really resonates with this old broad. I was the bad kid too, people saw what I was going through and no one dared to question my errors, or help me. Just blame me for my Mother’s psychosis, which I totally believed! Crazy thing is? I absolutely bloody love being a mom! I was able to be at her level in a good way. We grew up together, with her guiding, and me drawing safety boundaries. I wish you this healing, many blessings!💖

I believe you. Take care and God bless you.

How do you have your head screwed on so straight? You sound so enlightened. Youre inspirational.

Im glad that you were able to move on with your life and turn something terrible into something positive by advocating for other victims. It's so easy to sink into depression and Im happy for you that you seem to be doing very well. Sometimes people in your life are toxic and not capable of doing anything but disappointing you, it's hard but sometimes it's best to cut them out. Although it still hurts and I'm sorry that happened to you. About the main issue its hard to hear but I believe by looking away and pretending it's not happening you become an accomplice. I think that it's so important to educate yourself about abuse, and what the signs and systems are especially when you have little girls. We have to be willing to put the men in our lives under a microscope and not just trust blindly. Even biological parents. You just never know. When my mother was a girl her moms boyfriend abused her and when she went to her mom to tell her she accused my mother of trying to steal her boyfriend. She was a drunk and an addict. But as a result, my mom was hyper-vigilant about me, and thanks to her stories I was the same way with my daughter. Best wishes thanks for sharing.

🦋Yup💯OMG!🦋

🦋I was never really allowed to have friends🦋

🦋Me too! Only I couldn't say anything or I'd get beat & my mouth duct taped🦋

🦋Me too! I had to break away from my whole family to protect my kid.🦋

🦋Yup!🦋

🦋Me too!🦋

I am proud of you gor speaking about this. You are so brave❤you are my daughter's age and i cant imagine ever doing anything to jeopardize my relationship with her, she is my life. You deserved so much better and the mom in me is giving you a hug😢im so sorry.

Thank you so much for sharing your perspective & accumulation of knowledge on these subjects. All of your social media pages have been very helpful for me on processing & how to think about my childhood abuse. I’m becoming braver about opening up about what I’ve gone through, even if my family were to find out too. Your content helps me heal. 🖤 I hope for all the love & peace for you, Danielle.

It is amazing that despite being raised by these monsters, you have grown into the intelligent, beautiful, compassionate person that you are.

This is such a 🤯 wtf moment. IM SO SORRY. So fucking dystopian

I am sorry that so many people failed you growing up. Your grandma should be your everything and make you feel loved and safe. She put herself and her problems above yours. She is a shit show. Your grandma may have started your dad issues and intern yours but your dad is 100% at fault for his own actions. I can hear in your voice that regardless of what he has done you are still defending him in part and putting that on grandma. Why didn't anyone step in until you said something? Didn’t people see what you were growing up around. It’s very sad.

How do you know others had it worse than the commenter? Do you know them? Why even respond when you know they possibly are triggered by your videos. This person has not publicly turned their trauma into whatever your doing. Perhaps if your going to do this, dont respond with aggression to other victims when they lash out. Im confused about your message here.

They do anything-we ride at dawn!

l love your and your channels so bad ohhhmg

A lot of this applies to me, but I have the spicy religious trauma aspect alongside.

Just found your channel and omg did we have the same mom growing up?!? 😂 (And isn't it crazy how much more we uncover just by saying this 💩 out loud??! 🤯) I'm only 9 mins in & I am 💯 here for this! (Subbed!) I've been wanting to start my own yt channel soon, (I'm hoping to roll out by Jan 2025), & if you ever wanna do a collab or a podcast or something with someone who also has some hella familial trauma & has been studying neuropsychology for the last couple decades, (on my own, not like in college or anything), to try & learn more about my own trauma & mental health, hmu!! 😅🤘🏻 Okay, gonna go finish your vid now!! 😆

That part hit me hard. Thank you for doing these videos. It’s really helping me get through my third year of no contact. I’ve resently seen my adoptive family at the place I worked and they looked happy. I just can’t help but feel that I was the problem. But no they are.

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Thank you so much for sharing your experience. I had a similar upbringing but would tell myself, "it wasn't that bad" because I could think of something that could've happened that didn't.. I'm slowly learning to be kinder to myself and the validation that, "yes, that was wrong" and has had significant long term effects helps me to frame my current deficits and compulsive behaviors not as moral failings, but as strategies that kept me alive when I learned them.. and piece by piece unpack it all.. I remember so little of growing up, but who needs 10,000 memories of being spanked and locked in your bedroom while everyone else eats i guess. It's also a survival strategy to not think too much about it, but every once in a while things will just come up a wallop me, it's good to be able to look on those times as healing opportunities rather than "my craziness", and videos like this are very helpful ❤

Well this explains..a lot 😅 And the changing the story and making it seem to others that I was crazy to the point I was even confused into whether literal physical torture was me being dramatic. and OMG they saying that they had it worse and telling stories of getting beated up while u try to vent to minimize ur experience is too relatable. 😅

“She would heat oil up on a metal spoon...🤔” IM DYING💀😂

This woman is so mentally unstable that when I was FOUR YEARS OLD, my dad dropped my brother and I to her house for mother’s day. My brother was 8 at the time. Apparently we didn’t get her the right gift so she started screaming in my face verbally abusing me saying I’m useless basically. When my brother was 8 and could have told our dad what to get her. Yet she chooses to scream in a 4 year olds face as I’m SOBBING not understanding wtf I did wrong. My brother got scared and called my dad to come pick me up to get me away from her. I told her that the only way we could try to have a relationship is if we both go to therapy, separate and together. She said she doesn’t need therapy but she’ll pay for me to go. 🤦🏼‍♀️ I also guarantee that wasn’t the first incident, that’s just the first time my dad remembers or the first incident he knew of. She had us alone half the time so who knows what she did before I was 4 that my dad didn’t know about. I moved out at 16 to live w my dad full time and haven’t spoken to her in 2 years. She is now having health issues, needing surgeries and is trying to use that to make me feel guilty so I’ll go back to her. The torture continues.

Threatening violence is I acted out like a normal teen like if I even held a cigarette in my hand, she would break each of my fingers individually. She’s made me sooooooooo self conscious about my body and being overweight. I’ve never been more than 125lbs at 5’5 yet my whole life I’ve been told by her that I’m getting a belly and need to watch what I eat. She told me that at 11 years old. I saw her around 2 years ago because it was her wedding and she asked me to be the maid of honour so I thought maybe it would give us a chance to work on our relationship. Nahhhhhhh I got shit on the whole time no matter what I did. I spent the whole day before w her and the entire day of the wedding until she went to bed. I ran from where she got ready back to our hotel room to grab stuff for her at least 12 times that day and I never complained about anything I was happy to do anything I could so she could have her special day. She basically ignored me the whole time unless she was making comments about me doing something wrong or about my weight. It was a destination wedding on the beach and two days before the wedding I’m eating a burger and she goes “if you finish that burger, your bikinis won’t fit anymore” this woman has been clinically obese since before I was born yet all she can focus on is me and making sure I don’t get a belly. I’m 23 now and I’m underweight. Almost to the point of having fertility issues and such. She will never stop with the comments tho.

When I was in highschool, my best friend at the time was a guy. I found out I was NOT allowed to be around guys when I first asked my mom if I could go hangout with him……. Was not allowed to see him if she had anything to do with it. Kept me from my best friend. I would also be sent to my room and I would get the silent treatment. My brother was told not to speak to me while I was being punished so I would spend HOURS sitting in my room alone not allowed to speak to anyone. And if I made a fuss or cried because I was being punished for no reason?? She would start threatening me and saying she’d give me something to cry about. Those are mild things she did…. I have horrible anxiety and playing timed games really stresses me out. Playing them w my mom, hell. So at the time I was like 15 and was mostly living w my dad at that point. I went to see her on Christmas with my brother because I know she’d throw a fit if I didn’t and I didn’t want her to be upset or to deal w the consequences. She wanted us to play a game and I said I didn’t want to because it just stresses me out it’s not enjoyable. For the rest of the night I got the silent treatment. Later she asked if I was staying the night and I told her no because I was already uncomfortable being ignored all night and didn’t wanna stay. She then yelled at me and threatened to take all my Christmas gifts away. Including ones from other people. I started sobbing and had my dad come pick me up and the fucking glare she gave me as I left is burned into my soul. She wanted to kiiiill me. She then lied to my whole fam and said I started it all and was so rude to her that I ruined Christmas :)))))

this happened to me with my aunt i was also sexually abused by her husband and physically abuse by him to. 6 years later he got sentenced to prison. karmas a bitch but it was deserved. and this was done all behind my mom back.

I've also dealt with DP/DR and severe anxiety since I was in kindergarten.

Wow. Like I knew I was being abused as a child but this is really opening my eyes. I've been gaslit by my family for years about the obvious abuse....now it's clear it was worse than I even thought. My mother would force me to sleep in a certain position. I could get any severity of punishment for the expression on my face, even the way I walked, breathed, my posture, how fast I ate or the way I chewed. If I didn't eat everything I was given, at other times I was punished for asking for more than they put on my plate, up til ran away at 17. 9pm bedtime, no TV, no food after 7 pm. No personal calls when we had a landline and when I got a cell phone they'd print out the records and go through every call and text I made when the mood struck them. I couldn't decide how to cut my hair and couldn't dye it. I would be forced to wear revealing clothes as a young teenager that made me uncomfortable bc my dad wanted me to look attractive to his personal taste. Like it's no wonder I can barely function as an adult. It's hard to develop autonomy when you spent all your formative years under someone else's total control.

I look forward to hearing more from you 😊

Me too. Thanks for sharing ❤

This used to happen to me week until i ran away

Just found your channel and thank you for telling your story 1 Isolation. I just remembered the other day a conversation where my mother interrogated me about my second grade teacher and asked if I liked her. I did, she was fine. My mother said she thought she sounded like a drill sergeant. I realized the other day that she was assessing her for how hard it would be worm her way in and spread her narrative of being a wonderful mother and how I was an awful child like she did with most of them😑

A few Affirmations to all comment readers: You DO deserve good things! You do deserve kind people in your life! You do NOT have to please or tolerate people who harmed you. You do NOT have to forgive. You are valid, whether you check all mentioned types of abuse or just one. If your life, safety and/or mental wellbeing is on the line, there is no such thing as "it wasn't that bad". It was bad. Your feelings are valid! And if you aren't a legal adult yet and have to live with your abuser(s): please stay strong and remember that you will get your opportunity to heal, once you are old enough to move out and start your own life!

Very hot story! Commencing carrot polishing.

I didn’t realize that it wasn’t normal for my dad to break my door off its hinges til I watched an episode of Hoarders and this kid didn’t have a door on his room and CPS told the parents that in itself is considered abuse, they reacted soo shocked and I was like.. huh, I guess that’s not normal

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