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I was scavenging for this video for so long when a reel of it showed up on my instagram, I decided to watch this later at a better time and lost it I can so I’m so glad I took the time to hear this and finally finding it again

YOURE SO ARROGANT AND SUCH A DOCTOR i HAVE TO HAVE THE POLICE COME AROUND AND OB TAIN MY MEDICAL RECORDS. SOLD. They sold your uterus and then I tookl action. you crashed on the stock market

you made it all grotesque and physical physics with youR 3459849845398987357345 NASA BROS UP THE A HOLE ALIYAH IN THE A HOLE YOU JUST LIKE IT IN THE AZZ N PSYCHOLOGY N MOUTH MMMMMM HE MMM LOCK., SOCRATES WTF. LOL. IM GONNA POIOSN THE YOUTH AND YUOURE NOT. CUK YOU

Uhhh you ashot me im such a narc. I repent maaan. use the 4s. ok now youre goign to prison LOL so you were go to school but you have to fail a word puzzle and you cant read plain english WHO about NOTHING when youre doneBUT I PRESERVED THE ENGLISH LANGUAGE TO ALL OTHER COUNTRIES THEY NEED IT SOOOOO MUCH MAN A CHINA HOUSE RELIC SYMBOL ON THE BANK AND YOU QWANT THAT TO BE THE ORIGIN OR MAYBE THE BIG BANG OR MAYBE A WOMAN ? ur all ucked up for touching my property and reality

This girl is the epitome of grandiose, attention-seeking person, that's why she attracts narcissists. Nothing special about her, she just plays the game of grandiose victim.

Came from Sadia's YT to here to watch all of what this amazing video reveals. Which is interesting, insightful & motivating. Motivating in that I'll try my best to be a great boyfriend/husband. Because my significant other may need to be shown goodness unfortunately being raised around bad things. It is insightful because I've learned so much more about females' childhood & motherhood. It's been almost confusing & mysterious for me but I'll get there someday.

I waited almost 6 months getting to know my toxic x partner before we had sex. I thought that meant a genuine commitment from each of us, but because of the investment in the relationship before we got serious, breaking the trama bond post relationship was horrific. Now well on the healing path 🙏🏼😊. As you said at some level you do know. For me it was the shared idealisation that drew me in, and the guilt of abandoning them and therefore myself that kept me stuck. In reality you abandoned yourself when you entered the shared fantasy. A good psychologist , a cupboard full of tissue boxes ( lol) and one or two good friends and a lot of hard work on my behalf got me to the other side. Learnt so much, so grateful, but please never again !!!

Intuition...gut felling can tell u something

"The child goes through the world thinking that nobody loves him/her and does not know where to find love". That's so true. It is so heartbreaking ..

What a beautiful podcast. Honesty, transparency and healing journeys. Thank you both for this amazing time shared.

Excellent conversation!

I’ve lost confidence and trust in everyone. Ironically, at the end she said she gained trust in people. She became so cold. She projected, Triangulated, was controlling. I had to say goodbye for good.

@untemperedpodcast you survived your childhood abandonment but you haven't healed. ❤

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I WENT AROUND THE WORLD MAN. SHUT UP

I GOT BOOKS MAN. SO IM ALREADY BOOKED. STUPIDS

STACK DOTS ON THE POLCIE AND DA AND EVERYONE THEN GET A LAWYER AND HEAL HIM BRO. OH THATS RIGHT. YOU GET REAL LIKE ISRAEL. CNAT TO BUSY WITH THIS HOE NOT

STAY PSYCHO STILL. I WANT THAT PAC LOVE. YOURE ALL DEAD PEOPLE,. GO TO YOUR DISTRIOCT ATTORNEY YOU CANT. I GOT KIDNAPPED WITH THE FORCE YOU GOT THE 4S. HILLARY CLIINTON . STAY IN YOUR LANES SATAN U WANT IT SOOOO BAD IN IT ISNT YOUR WORD OR THE WORD. IT WAS

Please invite her again.

I think two words are missing from this whole analysis and those words are ... NAIVETY and TRUST. No, we didnt all 'know' what we were getting into. Not on ANY level. Victims of narcissist abuse aren't looking for a narcissist to make theirlife hell so they can learn lessons... they're looking for a relationship based on mutual trust, affection and respect ... and that's exactly what the narcissist APPEARS to offer them at first. And that's because the narcissist ISN'T naive, ISN'T trusting, plays their cards very close to their chest and has an AGENDA from the start. Their agenda is ... what does this person have that I can exploit them for and gain for myself ... then it's now I've got what i want out of them how can I get rid of them and take the lot? Narcissists only concern is about winning. They'll play the longest game and the dirtiest game and that's why we call them 'players'.

A lot of great points here! From what I understand from Hawkins and Rosenberg is that there’s a scale with codependency on one end and narcissism on the other. The general goal is to be in the middle… For me that’s building myself up, being my own savior, building my own kingdom, in order to heal and be balanced enough to be open to allowing a healthy relationship. I need to forge a healthy relationship with me first.

Anybody that triggers that trauma on purpose…..you need to let go! If you bring up a concern such as communication, making an effort, clarity etc. and they continue to do things that trigger you, that’s abuse. Yes, we’re responsible for dealing and healing our own trauma and triggers….but you do not need someone that makes it worse. 😅

Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really loved him so much I can’t stop thinking about him, I’ve tried my very best to get him back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of him, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss him and just can’t stop thinking about him

Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really loved him so much I can’t stop thinking about him, I’ve tried my very best to get him back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of him, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss him and just can’t stop thinking about him

the ‘codependent supply’ is real- i haven’t heard anyone admit it . the way i refer to it is. the codependent will give as long as their own emotional addictions are being met. notice that the ‘empath(codependent ‘ never complains until their addictions are no longer being met. also, it’s absurd people call themselves ‘empaths’ but can’t sense that ‘love bombing’ is manipulating until they themselves start to devalue the ‘narcissist’ if both are idealizing, then devaluing, then discarding it’s part of the same trauma cycle. How can you say ‘love bombing’ is manipulating when it’s what happens when you idealize someone.. on both sides. if we’re talking about psychopathic manipulation i think that would be different.

Good good good questions here!! Fully relate. Finally some others who have not been love-bombed. Subscribed, thank you❤

Ladies, thank you so much for your enlightening conversation. I'm especially grateful for the "little" tip that I picked up , namely, that visitors are preoccupied with the infant. 👍🏻 I will DEFINITELY make sure that I express sympathy towards the mother, if and when I visit a household with a newborn child. 👍🏻

You need the peace of Jesus, he did say he has a peace to give mankind. He understands and loves you and is the doctor for our souls.

What a great chat, I enjoyed every minute of it. Thanks to you for showing your vulnerable side and story and to Sadia for her wisdom!

Its madness how we let them in and make excuses for their bad behaviours ...... covid lock down kinda saved me as he was furloughed i wasn't (thankfully) he got amazingly worse (as i didnt think it could of) its been 4 year's free from that relationship to that date, been single for that long an quite happy about it as im still healing (shockingly) and by they way your right ive blocked quite alot out of what he said as my friends have asked things and i just cant remember, is that a coping mechanism?xx

Thank you so much for this. I’ll need to watch it over and over. It’s so heartbreaking to know this about myself.

This is great!🎉

I wasn't love bombed

Both my parents passed away when I was a child. I didn't realize it. But after a few relationships and experiencing trust issues. I realize I have separation abandonment issues. I did try to communicate so my partners would understand. But they never seemed to care. But I falsely accused my last girlfriend. Bestfriend I could ever have. And I was toxic. I couldn't fix it for her. Today I say pain is a better teacher than love. If you have issues. Fix it before you loose your family.

Maybe the co-dependent doesnt feel like they deserve any better...at least in my own relationships.

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Wow. That's an amazing answer. Right before she says "Wow, that just blew my mind." This guy really knows. I love this. "If that's what the person is doing...", yeah. Turn away from those behaviors. The inner fantasy world compared to reality is so interesting. Ugh. I was stuck for a long time. I will never let summertime treat me like that again. I only talked to the guy bc I knew him for a year or two at age 15. Just kept thinking he just couldn't be as awful as it seemed. Then I had to try to figure it out. Oh, my GoOd. Richard G. is so funny! He sounds like my friend Shawn from Wales, who is so, so funny.

I have seen many many videos and podcasts, listened to dr Ramani and Richard Grhanon, Crappy childhood fairy and many others... but this podcast was the best i have ever came across. Now im actually intrigued and curious about Richards lectures. Thank you. 🎉

Parents had parents ! Parents were kids of wounded parents .. break the pattern/ curse and dont start over a new pattern of hurt is the challenge !!

I truly enjoyed your interview with Richard. I have followed him for years, and benefitted from completing quite a few of his courses. You have a lovely, sweet and authentic style. This was 'therapy' for me as well, so thank you. ❤

Money for stem cells and she has no knowledge

Great interview! There are a lot of dynamics to play out in your mind while dealing with a narcissist, but they all derive from one basic truth, we were not true to ourselves first of all. I guess that's the whole point, 😀 to know thyself and to stay true to it.

Yes! Yes! And yes!!😫😫😫 why ? Why ? Do I keep attracting narcs ?

This was very refreshing and allowed me to do an introspection

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What about those they have empathy to other people but not on their partner?

Abusive mum and my dad was brained washed by her

New subscriber from Australia 🇦🇺 love your channel ❤

"the trail of the self sabotage" 😫