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It would be amazing if all parents had the choice financially if they wanted to stay at home but if any parents want to work or need to work they should have that choice but then maybe a recognition from the powers that be that a higher level of nurturing support maybe needed for longer by any community the child goes into like nursery maybe needed. We used to be raised by the village, grandmother used to be in the same house, auntie and uncle over the road, next door were called auntie and uncle even if they weren't related. It doesn't have to be one parent or the another. Kids need play and kids need empathy from somewhere.

Aboslutely, the work/life balance is paramount! As is having that time to bond and adjust to being a parent. Thank you 😊

I agree, a lower risk of violent death, better education, decreased childhood mortality, longer life expectancy, reduced global poverty and yet we are still not happy. Mental health is the worst its ever been so something is still not working. So are we measuring metrics of well-being the wrong way or do people just need to get a grip? The challenge is that resilience to challenges seems to be poor, why do you think this is?

@@abletocarepodcast mental health is as you want it to be. Especially in modernity. When you tell yourself that you are more privileged than 99% of humanity (117 billion people who’ve existed) everything goes away. We GET TO LIVE AND WORK IN AC WITHOUT PREDATORS CHASING US.

@@abletocarepodcast people are non-resilient today because of they are pampered and everything is already made for them. They don’t have historical perspective. It seems as though they’re incapable of imagining the 30’s……..

@@Egalitarianism_Secularism again from a logical point of view you are correct. We are so safe. However, our biological evolution has not kept up with our cultural evolution. If you have ever felt nervous on a job interview or when giving a speech your brain triggers a similar response to when a predator is chasing you. So why have you ever "logically" felt nervous? Did you not have control of your brain? emotions are not logical. Now its amazing if you personally have a brain that works typically and has really good psychological strategies for managing that fear. However, under the biopsychosocial model, not everyone has the same biology, psychological strategies or social support. So what would your answer be to those who can't yet do what you can?

@@abletocarepodcast everyone can develop it. CIA are highly functional psychos who can become a different person on command. How you act is a choice. Everyone can be trained to suppress emotions as they should sometimes. When we get to live in a place where the roads are made for us AND EVERY ANSWER IS GIVENNNNN TO US (INTERNET) and we’re on the cusp of commercial space tourism in this human arc… There’s very little reason for despondency barring heath issues.

'Oh No no, except we would never prefer or want that.. No fun you see!' - Greedy politicians, exclusivity loving elites and monopolistic business opportunists who own everybody.

Great quote. Thanks for your comment. I often refer to it as an internal battle of cost and benefit. The benefit and cost of maintaining vs the cost and benefit of changing. Some people will change when the pleasure of changing becomes greater than the pleasure of maintaining. For example if I offered someone a million pounds to stop eating chocolate, even though they love chocolate, it might be enough motivation for them to change the habit with no pain involved. 👍 Thanks so much for engaging. 😊

Thanks for your feedback. I won't pass on your feedback to Alison who is the podcast guest on this occasion. As she is talking about her and her daughter's experience of being neurodivergent and constantly being corrected, it seems a little too ironic to then correct her. I'm sure your intention was well meaning though and you are 100% correct so thank you.

@@abletocarepodcast hahaha that is fair, this is the Internet and I'm always thinking of the sociopolitical game theory, it isn't always healthy.

no I appreciate the correction and I know but forget due to my neurodivergent memory issues. 😂

That's an interesting concept. So you feel the number 1 cause if the increase in crime since the 80's in British youth is because we are now more open about feelings. I'm not sure there is a direct correlation but it would be interesting to explore and see if there has been study done. My only thought though is the majority of crimes don't seem to carried out by the youth who have higher emotional literacy and intelligence, in fact I'd statistics show exactly the opposite but I'm always open to new theories.

Which just like early dementia in general, has become much more common since ignoring rampant long term effects of COVID infections and constant reinfections became an international policy to pander to short sighted corporate greed not wanting to install HEPA filters. We are all affected, it is only different in degree. Hidden pandemic of neurocognitive decline while everyone complains about air traffic control, pilots and doctors making more mistakes than ever before

It's our pleasure. Please could I ask why this was useful for you? ❤️

@@abletocarepodcast sorry I just saw your response. I am an adoptive momma of 7 amazing angels and my 3 younger kids were all born with drugs & alcohol in their system. I have never heard of this before your video. 🩷

You're right the concept of halo effect or reverse halo effect does seem to fluctuate based on cultural perspectives. My example doesn't not exist anymore it just more nuanced than I could describe in the clip but great feedback. Thank you.

@@abletocarepodcast thank you for taking it as feedback, too often coddled people take raw data as confrontation.

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It's 100% misused at times. It's designed to protect and empower but is often not. Education is the one of the only ways we will be able to improve things. Thanks so much for your comment.

Thanks for your comment Robert would you like to expand?

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I've been compared to worse! 😂

Sounds sensible to us

Everyone needs a hobby 😂

We'd love to take credit but we have used it for years as its simple but applicable. Thanks for your comment.

Of course! We love to encourage discussion :)

We love to hear that! It's such a useful tool for everyone to use. Hope you feel relaxed

That is certainly an interesting response ot the video. Thank you for interacting.

I guess touch and "feeling" are different. You can feel angry, but you don't know what texture anger is because you can't feel it. Just my two cents 😊

Actually most of the public senses are subconsciously processed to and your brain fills in gaps. For example our eyes don't see colour in our peripheral vision and we don't see our visual blindspot. Pain is very interesting though. May require another podcast. 😊

Think that's in the 53 😂

So interestingly evidence suggests that although we feel like we experience this it's a mix of cognitive bias (we remember the times we noticed and forget the times we don't) and that we subconsciously notice things around us that let us know someone is looking at us without us being consciously aware of them!

Southern answer, it's the eyes in the back of your head. Most men don't have it, but almost every woman does, especially if you're a mom.