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I'd like to die. My mom, my mom's sister, my brother, my son... is it me?

Walker Larry Thompson Gary White Gary

Thank you for these clear reflective questions parents should stop and ask themselves. The hope is that they would realize and take responsibility for their hurtful behaviors. The reality is not many would.

Hernandez Lisa Lopez Barbara Martin Larry

I was the scapegoat, Narsissistic grandmother- so all 11 of her children my aunts and uncles- and all of their children. I was the only one that spoke up at 6 years old of an older cousin Molesting me. Same story- shared with an adult that caused more damage and I was shamed and isolated for speaking up. That cousin went on to hurt multiple other family members because she wanted to protect her "image" instead. No one stood up for me- I stood up for myself. They didn't stand up for themselves and worked collectively to shame me... a 6 year old... They are now older and adults and they try to invite and include me with family things- but I will never forget. I will never forgive them. I feel sorry for them and I would never want anyone I love to be around a bunch of cowards and weak people. They do not deserve your energy, your time -nothing. Protect your energy and peace. Protect your loved ones. "being friendly" is not worth the amount of damage - hurt people can inflict. You deserve so much better. Love yourself. The best thing I did is go no contact. all of a sudden my energy was up, I'm able to enjoy the good things that happen to me and I'm healing and improving everyday. You can too! Thank you for sharing this video and helping others see the love in themnselves.

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I am unable to edit my comment I hate spell check. *bad was BPD.

Resonate. Same Story. Thank You❤‍🩹

Kerri unraveling one lie at a time. One curse at a time. Giving the heavy laden a path to heal.

I can relate to everything explained. I used to get jokingly called Forest Gump because I would just leave anytime I felt uncomfortable.

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Like the old saying goes the demon you know is better than the one you don't. Sometimes I ran from authentic love because I felt like I was undeserving or at any moment they might go from loving me to turning their back on me.. Thankfully all of those people are still around and although it's taking me years to see it I now see that it was authentic Another reason is the concern that they were just faking it so they could get something out of me, whether that be praise, money, validation, or attention. That caused me to distance myself from people that really only meant good for me. Because so many times in my life I didn't see when I was being manipulated I just assumed that everyone was trying to manipulate. And that I wasn't smart enough to notice it, so maybe I was just better off isolating.

02:05 I used to do this when I was with friends family. I would respond in a negative way to something they said that brought up bad memories. And that would give them even more reason to belittle me for make me feel negatively.

Amen!

Constant verbal assaults such as criticism, un-asked for advice, judgements, threats & fault finding throughout childhood & into adulthood can emotionally & mentally destroy a person's ability to trust or believe that anything good can come from them. The harmful words can stay with you into adulthood. Particularly if the parents are still berating & belittling the now adult child. Please see the book "Between Parent and Child" by Haim Ginott. In it he explains what helps & what harms a person's ability to feel confident in themselves. Safer communication guidelines, with plenty of examples. To all my fellow survivors...keep writing, keep learning, keep making this world a more interpersonally safe place to live. Never give up. You are so strong to have withstood the damaging words used against you, all these years. My brother was verbally beaten by my parents when they could no longer physically hurt him. He had had enough by the age of 32. I miss him all the time. Words matter. They can build & energize, or frighten & devastate. You are not crazy. But you may have been subjected to unrelenting harmful words used against you, by parents who could not control their frustration & took it out on you. Please, I beg you, learn about verbal & relational & emotional & psychological safety. Please never give up. Even when it is hard to get out from under other's hurtful words. This world needs survivors to make it a kinder, safer place to be. You are very much needed and wanted !!!

Sometimes people are just overwhelmed.

Kerri: You are an Inspiration to others.