Where Do Gays Retire?
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Why Pittsburgh is the Perfect Place for LGBTQ Seniors to Settle Down - With Michael Madden
In this podcast episode, Mike Madden shares his experience of living and retiring in Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania. Born in 1952 and living in several states, Mike provides insights into the city's appeal as a retirement destination, especially for the LGBTQ community. He highlights Pittsburgh's transformation from an industrial city to a tech-driven one, its Midwest vibe, and the vibrant LGBTQ scene without a specific 'gayborhood.' Key topics include Pittsburgh's accessibility, healthcare options, cost of living, property taxes, and cultural richness, which includes theaters, museums, and dining. This detailed discussion also touches on the city's climate, transit systems, and general safety, offering a comprehensive guide for potential retirees considering Pittsburgh. The episode concludes with Mike reflecting on the city's many amenities, walkability, and cultural offerings.
00:00 Introduction to Pittsburgh Retirement
00:16 Meet Mike Madden: A Life Journey
00:43 Mike's Life in Pittsburgh
03:13 Pittsburgh's LGBTQ Community and Amenities
04:22 Pittsburgh's Transformation and Climate
10:31 Geography and Daily Life in Pittsburgh
19:47 Cost of Living and Affordability
26:09 Healthcare Access in Pittsburgh
29:08 LGBTQ+ Healthcare and Community Resources
31:44 New Housing Facility for LGBTQ Community
31:57 Gay Bars and Social Activities
32:18 Naked Activities and Mainstream Options
33:55 Gay Neighborhoods and Living Areas
37:57 Walkability and Transportation
43:03 Arts, Culture, and Dining
52:02 Crime and Safety
56:52 Final Insights and Advice for LGBTQ Retirees
01:00:19 Conclusion and Farewell
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Why Pittsburgh is the Perfect Place for LGBTQ Seniors to Settle Down - With Michael Madden
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Pittsburgh emerges as a vibrant and welcoming city for the LGBTQ community, particularly for retirees seeking a safe and affordable place to live. Mark Goldstein interviews Mike Madden, a long-time resident who shares insights about the city's unique blend of East Coast and Midwest charm and rich cultural offerings. The discussion highlights Pittsburgh's appealing amenities, including its low c...
Tim McCormick's Guide to Living Your Best Life in Providence, Rhode Island
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Retiring in Providence, Rhode Island: A Local's Insight with Tim McCormick In this podcast episode, Tim McCormick, a seasoned urban planner and Providence resident, shares his experiences and insights on retiring in Providence, Rhode Island. The discussion covers the city's historical context, lifestyle, LGBTQ community, cost of living, climate, and healthcare services. As someone who has lived...
Tim McCormick's Guide to Living Your Best Life in Providence, Rhode Island
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Wondering about retirement in Providence, Rhode Island? This podcast explores the vibrant LGBTQ community in the city, featuring insights from Tim McCormick, a seasoned resident who has returned after years of living in various cities across the U.S. Tim discusses the improvements in Providence over the years, including its welcoming atmosphere and diverse neighborhoods, while also shedding lig...
Discover Why Vancouver, Washington is a Top Retirement Spot for the LGBTQ+ Community.
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Retiring in Vancouver, Washington: Insights from Gary Beagle In this episode, we discuss what it's like to retire in Vancouver, Washington with guest Gary Beagle, CEO of Entrustment Northwest. Gary shares his background, having moved from Texas to the Pacific Northwest, and delves into the region’s climate, cost of living, taxes, utilities, healthcare, LGBTQ community, and more. He highlights V...
Discover Why Vancouver, WA is a Top Retirement Spot for LGBTQ+ Community - With Gary Beagle
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Discover the unique advantages of retiring in Vancouver, Washington, as Gary Beagle shares his insights on the area's vibrant LGBTQ community, affordable living, and stunning natural surroundings. With no state income tax and reasonable housing costs, Vancouver presents an attractive option for those looking to settle down in a welcoming environment. Gary discusses the moderate climate, excelle...
Discover Lewes, Delaware: A Small Town with Big LGBTQ+ Charm - City Snapshot Series
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Exploring Lewes, Delaware - A Charming Retirement Destination for the LGBTQ Community In this episode of the 'Where Do Gays Retire' podcast, host Mark Goldstein highlights the quaint town of Lewes, Delaware, as a compelling retirement destination for the LGBTQ community. The discussion covers key aspects such as the town's climate, cost of living, crime rates, and access to healthcare. Mark ela...
Discovering Lewes, Delaware A Hidden Gem for LGBTQ Retirees
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Retiring in Lewes, Delaware: Climate, Community & Cost of Living In this episode, we explore what it's like to retire in Lewes, Delaware, with our special guest, Terry Mansberger. Terry and his partner Charlie retired to Lewes in 2020, attracted by its quaint towns, LGBTQ-friendly environment, and low cost of living. Terry shares insights into the local climate, geography, and how climate chang...
Discovering Lewes, Delaware: A Hidden Gem for LGBTQ Retirees With Terry Mansberger
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Summary/Intro The podcast episode explores the appeal of Lewes, Delaware, as a prime retirement destination for the LGBTQ community, highlighting its welcoming environment, affordable cost of living, and proximity to beautiful beaches. Host Mark Goldstein interviews Terry Manzberger, who shares insights into life in Lewes, emphasizing its friendly atmosphere and rich cultural heritage. Terry di...
Retire in Style: Discover the Charm of Olvera and Elvas for LGBTQ Seniors - City Snapshot Series
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Discover the hidden gems of retirement in Europe as we explore Olvera, Spain, and Elvas, Portugal, two charming towns that offer safety, affordability, and a vibrant LGBTQ community. With their stunning landscapes, rich history, and welcoming atmospheres, both locations provide an appealing alternative for those looking to retire abroad. Join Mark Goldstein as he delves into the local climate, ...
Two Countries, One Community LGBTQ+ Retirement Insights from Olvera, Spain and Elvas, Portugal
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Spain vs. Portugal: Expat Life, Cost of Living, and Culture In this episode, our hosts interview Bruce Jaffe and Russ Warren as they compare living in Spain versus Portugal. They delve into their personal experiences, discussing reasons for relocating, residency and visa processes, cost of living, healthcare, climate, and culture. The episode provides insights into the pros and cons of living i...
Two Countries, One Community: LGBTQ+ Retirement Insights from Spain and Portugal
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This episode of the Where Do Gays Retire Podcast features an insightful discussion comparing retirement options in Spain and Portugal, focusing on the towns of Olvera and Elvas Vila Buim. Hosts Mark Goldstein, Bruce Joffe, and Russ Warren explore various aspects of living in these regions, including the friendly LGBTQ environment, cost of living, healthcare, and the vibrant local culture. They ...
Fort Collins Snapshot: A Vibrant Life for LGBTQ+ Retirees - City Snapshot Series with Mark Goldstein
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Fort Collins, Colorado, is showcased as an ideal retirement destination for LGBTQ individuals in this enlightening episode of the Where Do Gays Retire Podcast. Mark Goldstein, the host, guides listeners through the city's unique offerings, emphasizing its welcoming atmosphere and strong LGBTQ community, which comprises nearly 9% of its population. The discussion highlights Fort Collins' only ga...
Finding Home in Fort Collins: LGBTQ+ Retirement with Patty and Pat
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Retiring in Fort Collins, Colorado: Insights from Locals Join us in this episode as we explore what it's like to retire in Fort Collins, Colorado, with special guests Patty Book and Pat Nelson. We delve into Fort Collins' moderate four-season climate, the importance of its 300 days of sunshine, and its low humidity. The discussion covers the city's outdoor activities, including hiking, biking, ...
Finding Home in Fort Collins: LGBTQ+ Retirement with Patty and Pat
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Pat Nelson is a retired Dean of Education. She served as a professor and dean at several universities, including the University of Alaska Fairbanks, Penn State, and the University of Akron. She is a Christa McAuliffe National Fellow for Education and an Anne Lister diary decoder. Patty Book is a retired academic administrator who has served as vice president of continuing education and distance...
Syracuse NY with Scott Hier
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Syracuse NY with Scott Hier
Syracuse, New York With Scott Hier
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Syracuse, New York With Scott Hier
Embracing Retirement: Waldron McGinnis's Journey to Courtown, Ireland
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Embracing Retirement: Waldron McGinnis's Journey to Courtown, Ireland
Embracing Retirement: Waldron McGinnis's Journey to Courtown, Ireland
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Embracing Retirement: Waldron McGinnis's Journey to Courtown, Ireland
Climate Change and Retirement - Where Should You Settle for the Future
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Climate Change and Retirement - Where Should You Settle for the Future
Climate Change and Retirement - Where Should You Settle for the Future?
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Climate Change and Retirement - Where Should You Settle for the Future?
Exploring Retirement in Spain: Valencia vs. Malaga for LGBTQ Expats
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Exploring Retirement in Spain: Valencia vs. Malaga for LGBTQ Expats
Exploring Retirement in Spain: Valencia vs. Malaga for LGBTQ Expats with Dave Piccolo, Jesus Bart...
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Exploring Retirement in Spain: Valencia vs. Malaga for LGBTQ Expats with Dave Piccolo, Jesus Bart...
Seattle Washington, with Steven Chapman
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Seattle Washington, with Steven Chapman
Seattle, Washington with Steven Chapman
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Seattle, Washington with Steven Chapman
Which City Wins? Sitges or Torremolinos?
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Which City Wins? Sitges or Torremolinos?
Which City Wins? Sitges or Torremolinos?
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Which City Wins? Sitges or Torremolinos?
Sitges vs Torremolinos Spain with Rich Jasicki and Leo Boni
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Sitges vs Torremolinos Spain with Rich Jasicki and Leo Boni
Sitges vs. Torremolinos, Spain With Richard Jasicki and Leo Boni
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Sitges vs. Torremolinos, Spain With Richard Jasicki and Leo Boni
Where Do Gays Retire Asbury Park, New Jersey
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Where Do Gays Retire Asbury Park, New Jersey

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  • @raymondclark1657
    @raymondclark1657 8 днів тому

    Just seeing your pod cast, wonderful to see. Might you do another for single people, who's income level is less. For example renting a one bedroom apartment, with cost of living. I am looking to visit both of these regions either in May or Sept for 2-3 moths.

  • @fosterfoster1218
    @fosterfoster1218 2 місяці тому

    Did I miss an accounting of property taxes?

    • @wheredogaysretire
      @wheredogaysretire 2 місяці тому

      No, you didn't miss it. We didn't discuss property taxes.

    • @wheredogaysretire
      @wheredogaysretire 2 місяці тому

      As per our guest Bruce Joffe - We pay taxes when we first purchase a property in Spain and/or Portugal: 0.1% of its value in Portugal for principal residences costing less than €100K and 7-8% of their value when buying in Spain. Thereafter, property taxes are charged annually and depend on the location and value of the property. For instance, we pay about €125 each year in property taxes for our place in Portugal and our home in Spain.

  • @marcgoldbergdogtrainer
    @marcgoldbergdogtrainer 2 місяці тому

    I love Saugatuck and Douglas. For 10 years I had a farmette in nearby Fennville MI. All that being said, this area is a tiny blue dot surrounded by very deep red. Hold hands or be obvious in the nearest Walmart (which isn’t very close) and you may well get unwelcome comments. Even in super gay friendly Saugatuck itself, there are times when it is infiltrated by less than friendly heteros who don’t fully realize the culture of where they are, and you may hear comments. Saugatuck is actually gayer than Galena for example. Yet, I found far fewer things that made me and my bf uncomfortable in Galena. Having those years of experience owning in the area, I can say that the vibe in Saugatuck will definitely vary depending on the weekend and the type of tourists in town. So it is not that consistent. Of course, if you stick to the gay beach and resort/bar (the Dunes), there are fewer concerns although those can be very cruisy-good if you like that sort of thing but less so if you don’t. Long and short is that Saugatuck is very fun for a weekend but it is surrounded by Redneckland and, depending on the day, might be more predictably comfortable for those who are less obviously gay. As you can tell, I have mixed feelings about it, especially now that my bf is nonbinary and dresses however the hell he wants without worry. This attracts more attention in this area than when I was hanging around more “standard” gays. Oh and the weather. Some lake effect snow? Some? I am based in the Chicago area and when we got 6 inches, my little farm would get two feet. Saugatuck is truly beautiful with many wonderful gay people and businesses. But last time I was there I was shocked at the way it felt given my bf’s style-and I’m certainly not going to put baby in the corner. One day it’s super gay friendly in town and the next you’ll remember how red neck the surrounding area truly is. I’m not going back.

  • @wheredogaysretire
    @wheredogaysretire 2 місяці тому

    Thank you so much!

  • @juliec2476
    @juliec2476 2 місяці тому

    Loved this video. It was very helpful!

  • @Samwise337
    @Samwise337 2 місяці тому

    I will be retiring and would like to move to Malaga.I want to plana visit for next June.

  • @waynewheeler7929
    @waynewheeler7929 2 місяці тому

    This is very helpful information- Thank you all. My husband (who has Italian citizenship, btw) and I are exploring the idea of retiring in Spain and will be traveling there next year to check some areas out.

  • @wheredogaysretire
    @wheredogaysretire 2 місяці тому

    I am having a great time! Miss you too Sheila!❤

  • @sheel05
    @sheel05 2 місяці тому

    Had to listen today…..needed to hear your voice!! Hope you are enjoying your new life to the fullest ❤ we miss you!!

  • @petermalbin1629
    @petermalbin1629 5 місяців тому

    Outstanding conversation and information about Torremolinos and Sitges. Thanks!

  • @frankrodriguez4856
    @frankrodriguez4856 5 місяців тому

    NYC is 5 hours away, not a difficult drive.

  • @AndreyScherbakov-p6m
    @AndreyScherbakov-p6m 5 місяців тому

    I love trans women

  • @AndreyScherbakov-p6m
    @AndreyScherbakov-p6m 5 місяців тому

    I love trans women, i want to meet

  • @HT-vi6kb
    @HT-vi6kb 5 місяців тому

    T people are not really gay people. I don’t know why the gay community acknowledges them.

  • @matthewcarr8745
    @matthewcarr8745 5 місяців тому

    around milton DE much better option,very gay friendly 25 miles from salisbury

  • @matthewcarr8745
    @matthewcarr8745 5 місяців тому

    I would not recommend lgbtq move here,its a gay desert. And not super friendly towards gays(im from there)....better options are oc maryland,milton DE,rehoboth DE..its a very RED area. 25 years away from change..

  • @BryanTudor1124
    @BryanTudor1124 5 місяців тому

    A new place to visit when I decide to move back to the RVA area.

  • @michaelpower5845
    @michaelpower5845 6 місяців тому

    Neighbors are awesome. Amazing 2024 PRIDE festival

  • @michaelpower5845
    @michaelpower5845 6 місяців тому

    Salisbury has a very accepting attitude towards LGBTQ.

  • @michaelpower5845
    @michaelpower5845 6 місяців тому

    Wishing Wishing for more snow … peninsula and bay definitely have an influence.

  • @michaelpower5845
    @michaelpower5845 6 місяців тому

    And Mark D … loved meeting you at Brick Room … great podcast.

  • @michaelpower5845
    @michaelpower5845 6 місяців тому

    Hi Mark G … it’s SAWLZBERRY 😊 … as a new LGBTQ resident of 1.5 years, I was taught this early on.

  • @midcenturymuse
    @midcenturymuse 7 місяців тому

    I'll underline the need to consult with a tax attorney before deciding whether to relocate to Spain. For example, last I checked, U.S. Roth withdrawals are taxed by Spain, which defeats the purpose of that financial vehicle. Also, it's important to keep in mind that tax laws are not static; they can change suddenly, whether positively or negatively, especially after a political change.

    • @wheredogaysretire
      @wheredogaysretire 7 місяців тому

      William, you are correct. The same with inheritance and wealth taxes, they can change at anytime. I think you would need to liquidate a Roth, and transfer to a regular savings account before you got residency in order to avoid taxation. Sounds crazy to me.

    • @midcenturymuse
      @midcenturymuse 7 місяців тому

      @@wheredogaysretire Yes, it negates all the Roth's advantages. Similarly, my understanding is that one would want to sell any property before becoming a tax resident so that the capital gains aren't taxed by Spain. A couple of years ago, I was set to move to Spain. I was better prepared than most to do so, because I have a strong connection to the culture (being of Hispanic origin and fluent in Spanish) and thoroughly enjoyed living there off and on. But once I gained a thorough understanding of the financial issues, I decided relocating permanently would be too risky for me.

  • @midcenturymuse
    @midcenturymuse 7 місяців тому

    Very good info in this wide-ranging episode. Renato was a perfect guest for the topic. (Incredible that he's only 22!) I'd add a few things: 1. In the Queer Money podcast from a month ago, you mentioned how all the factors one has to consider for a move to Spain are mind boggling. Like you, I consulted a Spanish tax attorney. He said, "Americans come here with stars in their eyes, having researched little, and then they're shocked by the tax issues." These significant issues are counterbalanced by the superiority (both in quality and affordability) of Spain's healthcare system, but once you qualify for Medicare in the U.S., you're in a similar-enough boat. My opinion: There's an optimal retiree window for this sort of major move, and it's roughly between the ages of 50-55. 2. Although I'm convinced Spain's quality of life is better, in some ways our lives are easier in the U.S. In Spain, you have to go to a pharmacy for just about anything related to health (even common pain relievers like acetaminophen), whereas in the U.S. these products are readily available elsewhere. Banks are a total pain; if you think opening an account is challenging, wait until you have to close it. Apartment buildings can have poor construction, and units are very small by U.S. standards, with limited appliances (e.g., dryers and dishwashers are rare). To my knowledge, buildings don't have HOAs, just a community fee that covers garbage pickup and shared utilities. I've heard horror stories -- like someone whose older building was damaged extensively by termites, and she lost the apartment since she couldn't afford the sudden massive assessment. Apartments can be easier to buy than they are to sell, and the government taxes you coming and going (although the property tax is relatively low). Finally, the bureaucracy is just as bad as you've heard; you'll never complain about the U.S.'s bureaucracy again. 3. A couple of additional facts about restaurants: Because Spaniards are night owls, not early birds, mealtimes are hours later than in the U.S. I know this drives some Americans nuts, but the times match my body clock perfectly, so for me it's a plus. The food is delicious but never spicy hot. Again, perfect for me, but some find it bland. The *menu del dia* is the greatest bargain ever: Generally you get a soup or salad, then an entree, and then dessert -- plus bottled water or wine/beer -- for around 15 euros. 4. Anyone who has allergies should be sure to experience a hot, dry, dusty period in Madrid. My sinuses were on fire in a way they've never been elsewhere. 5. Renato mentioned that those 65+ can ride the metro free; I think that might be limited to city residents. There's also a *golden ticket* for those 60+ that lets you ride the Renfe trains at a 50% discount. It costs only 6 euros for a year.

  • @beadot8629
    @beadot8629 7 місяців тому

    Missed opportunity. Almost nothing on UA-cam for gay singles/couples retiring to Thailand for quality of life and culture but your guest just kept bringing it around to gutter talk. Had to stop listening at 23minutes as he just wouldn’t let up with the smut.

  • @midcenturymuse
    @midcenturymuse 7 місяців тому

    Very good info in this wide-ranging episode. Renato was a perfect guest for the topic. (Incredible that he's only 22!) I'd add a few things: 1. In the Queer Money podcast from a month ago, you mentioned how all the factors one has to consider for a move to Spain are mind boggling. Like you, I consulted a Spanish tax attorney. He said, "Americans come here with stars in their eyes, having researched little, and then they're shocked by the tax issues." These significant issues are counterbalanced by the superiority (both in quality and affordability) of Spain's healthcare system, but once you qualify for Medicare in the U.S., you're in a similar-enough boat. My opinion: There's an optimal retiree window for this sort of major move, and it's roughly between the ages of 50-55. 2. Although I'm convinced Spain's quality of life is better, in some ways our lives are easier in the U.S. In Spain, you have to go to a pharmacy for just about anything related to health (even common pain relievers like acetaminophen), whereas in the U.S. these products are readily available elsewhere. Banks are a total pain; if you think opening an account is challenging, wait until you have to close it. Apartment buildings can have poor construction, and units are very small by U.S. standards, with limited appliances (e.g., dryers and dishwashers are rare). To my knowledge, buildings don't have HOAs, just a community fee that covers garbage pickup and shared utilities. I've heard horror stories -- like someone whose older building was damaged extensively by termites, and she lost the apartment since she couldn't afford the sudden massive assessment. Apartments can be easier to buy than they are to sell, and the government taxes you coming and going (although the property tax is relatively low). Finally, the bureaucracy is just as bad as you've heard; you'll never complain about the U.S.'s bureaucracy again. 3. A couple of additional facts about restaurants: Because Spaniards are night owls, not early birds, mealtimes are hours later than in the U.S. I know this drives some Americans nuts, but the times match my body clock perfectly, so for me it's a plus. The food is delicious but never spicy hot. Again, perfect for me, but some find it bland. The *menu del dia* is the greatest bargain ever: Generally you get a soup or salad, then an entree, and then dessert -- plus bottled water or wine/beer -- for around 15 euros. 4. Anyone who has allergies should be sure to experience a hot, dry, dusty period in Madrid. My sinuses were on fire in a way they've never been elsewhere. 5. Renato mentioned that those 65+ can ride the metro free; I think that might be limited to city residents. There's also a *golden ticket* for those 60+ that lets you ride the Renfe trains at a 50% discount. It costs only 6 euros for a year.

    • @wheredogaysretire
      @wheredogaysretire 7 місяців тому

      Thank you so much for your wonderful comments!

  • @DenUitvreter
    @DenUitvreter 8 місяців тому

    And then it drifted into stupid American war mongering BS. The natural gas turned out to be a curse in disguise called the Dutch disease, most gas was sold cheaply to EU countries with very long term contracts to integrate a European gas network together with Russian gas, and then our frenemy the USA bombed Nordstream while the EU wants to save the whole planet all by itself and forces ridiculous climate policies onto it's member states.

  • @kgrigoryan4329
    @kgrigoryan4329 8 місяців тому

    Rachel and all this other stuff that he's talking about coming from California born and raised Los Angeles now living Las Vegas, and had a chance to live in Chicago 2 years ago from 2021 to 2022 unfortunately he's right but at the same time he's really being very light on that subject He's he's treading that water very lightly I can see how he's using the right words .

  • @johncarter5707
    @johncarter5707 9 місяців тому

    Good video.

  • @glennwilliams776
    @glennwilliams776 9 місяців тому

    Kurt my brother you are the man!! Keep doing what you do!! You're definitely claim your place in society... You've made a difference in life for many people my brother...🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰

  • @yankee58100
    @yankee58100 11 місяців тому

    Great show! I love this guy!!!

    • @wheredogaysretire
      @wheredogaysretire 11 місяців тому

      Thank you! Marc was a great guest. Even if he spells his name the wrong way! 🙂

  • @expatmamameettheexpats542

    Hi friends! This is an awesome interview with my friend Toby. Hi Mark!