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I wish to thank - you for making it clear, " blow- outs, emotional explosions " ( not the hairstyle) are never acceptable. They are the sign that someone has lost total control. They usually involve, in my experience, at the very least, verbal abuse. I appreciate your continued teachings. Blessings to you and Shalom Bayis to all of us lovely women❤

I want to thank you so much. I am not sure which video of yours but one of your previous ones suggested to solve disputes by buying something small that can fix them. I did that recently by buying a magnetic to-do list and my husband was very pleased! Now he doesn't need to get upset about reminding me to do things I've forgotten. I can just see his list for me any time! Thank you!

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my husband owns his business and is gone 13 hours a day, 7 days a week. when i do go to his job, i’m asked to sit upstairs (office) alone and not disturb him. so i could be at home or at his workplace and still be alone. when he reaches home he doesn’t even hug/kiss/talk to me. i know he’s exhausted. he goes to shower then eat dinner w his movie on his phone (i don’t understand the language). till he falls asleep or asks for intimacy. it feels like i’m 24/7 alone, i don’t even like being intimate with him because it hurts but he doesn’t care even when i tell him.

You’re the best!

Thank you for this!

A short walk does wonders!

Absolutely beautifully said !!!!

That is good. Don't threaten divorce. It's horrible to do that. There are moment people have to go down that path, but to use as a threat undermines trust and respect.

So finish is mothers job for the sake of us… I mean I see why the girl in your story is doing it… but I guess we all give ourself different values or idk what I’m saying

Thankful ❤ You are making the world a better place, one home at a time.

Highly recommend the book Garden of Gratitude by Rabbi Shalom Arush for the women who asked about positive attitude.

I ordered the book and cannot wait to read it. Any WHatsapp groups?

This was eye-opening. Thank you!

She really took out the duct tape 😂 I love it

My boyfriend is short temperedhe getsmade even if um jokin with him

Dear Leah, thank you for reading, no one deserves to be treated the way we are often treat ourselves..... it is really so sad if think about , but this is often reality, greetings, ❤

Q nr 5 this is the case of my husband... i always wait for him... thank you very much, great show, 💖

Is this even if he doesn't mind me sitting there?

Well I’m dating someone for 3 months and they are already having temper tantrums- And I’m not at 51 years old interested in coddling a giant man baby- especially when I only see him once a week I’d rather hang out with my friends and myself instead I have zero patience for someone who’s seemingly mad at the world and then takes it out on me

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Totally burnt out, oi vey!!!! So happy listening to this, the reminder to give, needs such reinforcement. Also that “what you can get, what i can get ends up in a Get!!!! Im mindblown 😅. Thanks Leah 🙌

No man likes to be micromanaged.

Thank you! 🕯️💐💙🙏🇺🇸

Ladies Gold!!!! ❤ Thank-you!

So interesting. Next time I get angry I will be looking to see what hurt me. That is so insightful!

it starts mid sentence. need context. i think that the 50 50 is how much effort put in. it needs to be 100 100

maybe its to teach her that these reactions and feelings she is having are due to her own perspective and that that perspective is flawed. like some people get mad when in trafic but i dont because there is no point. like that.

I know this is late in answering but the last comedy. I totally took it differently, it should definitely not be the “talk” of the day but I happen to always call my husband when I drive and visa a versa because it makes the drive so much shorter even though we go through spotty parts and (yell at drivers 😉)

I've just come across your channel I'm newly wed 3months in. Should be enjoying my honeymoon phase but it's so difficult because we live in different continents so this has been very helpful.

Thank you 💯

My husband is on his cell phone 24/7 from morning to night I think he married his phone instead of being with me and my family

Hi. My husband keeps having random temper tantrums as though he is a little boy. I camt be doing with this . Why does he beuabe this eay. There always somethng he is picking at me for. Everything is a problem to him with me. We go away for a trip away from things and he spoils it by being mouthy and trying to knock me down. I ask him to speak properly to me what is wrong with him. Also lately he is forgetting things too. Like he has said soemthing to me then few hours after he saying it again. Or he forgets things like his car key or he gets the wrong car key.. when he used to be so with it amd alert etc. He seems to show he is the one in charge. I say none of us is in chsrge as thst isnt right in a marriage

But it's happening subconsciously. When I do let go of control I become to submissive. How do you find that middle ground? I don't want to lose him.

Thank you ❤🎉

Hi Mrs. Manolson How can I get in touch with you? Is there an email or phone number ? Thank you so much !

I know this deep inside, exactly what I needed to be reminded of. Thank you! ❤

She is doing it all, to accommodate him, his not even thinking of that, his doing what he wants, to have time with him, you asked him to go to the shop, to which he wasnt interested in

I love the BOOK made wifey material.. Sexy...

Its funny; we've had marriage around as an institution since forev3r, and women still need to be told to say thank you.

Shalom ❤

Toda ma'am 🙏

all these are possible if a partner will understand that we need to work together , not when he answers its your problem not mine..

I LOVE this. So good! Thank you.

The most beautiful thing you shared was the concept of taking a problem and repackaging it as a gift you are handing him to figure out how to use, is just delicious! Its an art form I will be practicing! Thank- you!❤

Showered my husband with attention his temper is still there. His whole family have tempers. I became quiet wife , got a smidge better.

I make a really good living as a pipeline inspector but I'm away from home but I keep my wife and my children fed and in a pretty good lifestyle if I were to move home it would all go away and she knows this she supports me most females today want you to do everything but you can't do that a man's job is to support his family

What a lovely book cover! My aunt had Tulips from Amsterdam flown in for her wedding. It’s such a delicately feminine bloom 🌸 🌷

I’ve been binge watching your videos, you have a unique perspective on relationships (well unique in comparison to the “new normal” that the media portrays)

Strangest thing. My ex had a temper- and would end up doing stupid things that would hurt us- eventually I left and I watched his new wife (which was also an ex) “coddle” him (like you said) almost immediately after I left. I always noticed how she’d talk in whispers and used alot of touch in conversations but never realized how it would be used in relationships with a man with a temper. (Btw her touchy/whispering made me extremely uncomfortable around her during our marriage). She used words of endearment throughout everything also. Of course I was less touchy/feely having been traumatized over the years. Twice she “held him back”- with her hands and whispers (as he was about to attack me over some miscommunication) she handled him like some kind of wild stallion about to trample everything in sight. And he calmed down. To me it was too much. It was something about the “control” she had over him or that he welcomed this “attention” in order to be a decent man. It was so confusing. I once felt our marriage could have been saved- if not for his temper tantrums- but this “need” he found in another woman. It looked incredibly co-dependent (or manipulative) from the outside. But maybe that’s what he “needed” (a good mothering). It seems to work for her, for now. I don’t think I could do that. I felt he could be a decent man on his own- tame the temper if he knew the damage it caused- but it never mattered. 😢