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I think if more people knew how lonely some feel they would go more out of their way to befriend others

society changed for the worse after the 60's , once it was family minded with community spirit. now with rampant sin marriages are just a peice of paper and not a genuine commitment. this evil world is passing away look to the future eternal life in a world like no other.

Life is kinda sad ur born alone n mostly leave this world alone everything in between is kinda n illusion family friends ect.

The number of lonely people is appalling, but that is the core of isolation and one of the foundational elements of the simulacra - not only are so many lonely, so many that give the appearance of romantic bliss, are, in fact, in some twisted sexual Hell - well, that's in reference to those that make it their business to project the appearance of a blissful, romantic life - they are selling you exactly that, they aren't offering it and they've really no means of attaining it... You don't financialize ayou relationship that is truly fulfilling... now, that isn't to say that people may be significant others and create content together and have a wonderful coexistance, and even some of those individuals that profiteer off of their blissful marriage or whatever likely attain it, but once your brand is built on the success of a relationship, the creation of content and the perpetuation of the image would by nature suffocate the relationship by preventing it the opportunity to breath, to be private, and to be truly honest without risk - eventually, once you financialize something, if it is you livelihood, then it becomes far less likely that your participation is entirely voluntary... I am mentioning this because your loneliness is the product of mass intentioned exploitation; moving the "public square" onto the internet has loads of advantages, one of which being the passive pimp role that social media has started to play... what is worse, the social media has so *intentionally* distorted so many people's conception of a relationship and romance that much of it becomes theatre in pursuit of the perfect simulacra... I guess my point is, though frustrating, your loneliness is almost requisite in this paradigm... it's preferrable to being with someone that is exploiting you, that is certain... Though it is a bullshit platitude, you should learn to love yourself...educate yourself... learn to understand the sociological and economic macro-influential forces that are advantaged by your isolation - and isolation is more than just loneliness... it is ignorance... and that makes you easily exploitable... You need to explore ANY social group that is unfamiliar to you. Seriously. You're almost certainly in some kind of silo - physicially go somewhere unfamiliar and social - anywhere... anywhere you will know no one... and don't got there trying to find romance, but rather, try to find some people you could share a hobby or interest with - A NEW ONE... seriously. i didn't listen to all of it, but this sounds like a mixture of the consequence of the strong mass-manipulation forces mixed with some strong more proximal exploitive forces mixed with definitely some reality and mostly, it sounds like uh... well, ya know, we all should feel sick, they've isolated all of us as a means to more easily exploit us. It is in the UK as well as the US. I wish i could quickly and easily convey the breadth of problems that contribute to the common sense of loneliness, hopelessness, helplessness, and guilt... In the United States there is a massive "mental health" crisis, which, given our atrocious system which completely ignores a massive swath of the population due to poverty, injustice, ineffectiveness, intentioned discrimination and the perpetuation of the "boogie man" narrative as a justification for the dehumanization of the homeless (a group with a high need for psychiatric drugs but a very low incidence of "good" treatment or access), the fact that 50% of the country has a "history of mental illness" speaks volumes not about those with mental illness, but about the society itself. The uptick in mental illness is directly related to the anxiety response (cortisol) related to the intuitive sense of exploitation; the constant presence of surveillance, the manipulation of atavistic psychology in media as a means to exploit (politically or financially, culturally, ethically, sexually), and the trauma of being dominated by a hierarchy populated by narcissists and designed to fail everyone but the wealthiest, the donor class, while offering varying degrees of dignity to their bootlickers and subordinates... Our world is run by a bunch of bratty rich children that grew old but never developed past the "ego" as Freud conceptualized. I don't think the Id<Ego<Super-Ego is a complete conceptualization of mental/moral development, but I think it is a good conceptualized generalization for a large part of the earlier, simpler aspects of intellectual development in humans...In other words, I believe it accurately describes stages of intellectual development, but is not complete by any means; but an Id/Ego dominant psyche without or with complete suppression of the "super-ego" and any psychological empathy really. Now, i believe there are further biological mechanisms which promote empathic behavior, but most of those are deep in the peripheral nervous system and really only prevent murderous violence and wanton destructive impulses directed toward something like a person...but, you can psychologically overcome that by dehumanizing certain groups of people... Further, the in-grouping is the culprit, ultimately. It is a mechanism of silo-ing and echo-chambering people both online and in real life by developing and repeating an overarching narrative which will reinforce a distinction between those in and out of the tribe... It is easiest to describe with sports teams... Sports teams build loyalty and make money by exploiting the in-group/out-group psychological atavism in humans - the joy and rage that people feel for "one of us"; the vicarious relation between "team mates", "comrades"; this feeling of camaraderie is a highly profitable commodity. A commodity that is manufactured and mined, it is prospected, there are books and books written about it for thousands of years - in Western Culture a big title is "The Prince" by Machiavelli; one could look to contemporaries of the time as well, like alexander sextus, or look at Andrew Tate... Woodrow Wilson & Creel... Goebbels & Hitler... WHAT KINDA ASSHOLE WOULD WRITE THIS NONSENSE!!!!! (i am on a shitty smartphone and I just kept typing after the text started to lag so I just typed almost all of this without any real way of knowing what I was saying or what typos I was making - it is hard to write in this way, lol at first i was trying to maintain narrative integrity as long as possible but now i am just being absurd.

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I've just watched 2 of your videos. You seem like a good person. I wish you luck in the future.

Your ex doesn't owe you friendship. How would she explain you being there to her new person? Would you tolerate this in someone? Just because people are Christian doesn't mean they are less of a believer because they don't partake in a friendship with you. Nobody owes anyone anything in life, we are responsible for ourselves. You're luckier than most, you have parents. I couldn't listen to your entire video as most of the time you seem to project your rejection onto others. Perhaps look deep within and examine your feelings of inferiority and low self esteem. Hanging onto exs is a prime example of this. You are experiencing the lesson of non attachment which if not handled correctly will lead to the path of self destruction and outward projection. Have a look at videos of low self esteem, projection and try and work on yourself instead of wanting others to rescue you from your loneliness. I have no family no friends no next of kin for many decades. Nobody other than the bill company writes or texts me. You aren't alone in this journey. There's many individuals around the world completely alone. Nobody owes us anything, we owe ourselves self reflection however on how to move beyond our limited self beliefs. Wish you all the best.

I can relate to everything you said and I watched to the end. God bless you and I hope to meet you in a dimension of peace coming soon. There is a dimension where loving people live in peace and I believe part of you is simultaneously there now and is so disappointed in this other realm we call 3D Earth 2024. Thanks for sharing; you are less angry than I am. The realms are merging within us, walk into the Light every day until the Eternal Day and we will all recognize each other again. Just my 2 cents, thanks for letting me comment. 🌟

I believe forced diversity is isolating us Whites.

Bro you're a man so buy u some hiking boots and a fishing pole and hike for a couple days catch some fish start a fire cook the fish and just sit back eat and really take it in. The country is so beautiful and doing man shite will always make u feel better. If u haven't ever hiked then take it slow go hike for a couple hours. Nature will make u feel better and when ur able to do what I suggested, it will make u feel better because u did it with no help. I hope u start feeling better bro! New sub

We are in a new "cultural revolution". It is a good sign if one is isolated now...as many people are now working in the Agenda 2030 system. Why? Money. "in those days men will be lovers of themselves - covetous - boastful - traitors.....haters of those who are good". Yes...we are here. Right now. Stay in joy and hope and yes many of us are being tortured by weapons unseen.

I would recommend you read the book called "Imagine Heaven" if you want to know what is beyond this earthly life. Near death experiences recorded for our benefit. GOD bless you and protect you and keep you safe in this world. I think friends are over-rated. GOD never changes, people will change, given enough time. Do not let go of your faith in GOD, that is eternal. Thank you for posting this video, it is a real talk, real talk this world needs more of...God is not just in a church building, GOD is in every human heart that seeks Him. Revelation 21:1-4

After living a lifetime with narcissists and personality-disordered people, the Lord removed me from them all at age 50. I was devastated for years about it. I had tried to love them to health and the Christian way of life, but it didn’t work. I sacrificed most of my life for others. Since then, I’ve been taught a lot. I’ve learned about myself, and the people I thought were good, but weren’t. I’m a Lone Wolf for years now, and I love it. Most people are evil and shallow, sad to say. Pray for the unbelievers, and for those who’ve been deceived by Satan to value the things of this world more than Jesus Himself. Jesus is about to rapture His bride. Wait patiently for the shofar blast. God bless you, and hang in there! 😊✝️🙏🕊

Hey Peter, hope yur finding yur way still. U give hope even in your darkest of nights. That's shameful that those friends of yours took u for granted. U seem like a good spirited person. I know how u feel about how took much contact with people can drain u. U might be an introvert. Have u taken that personality quiz? It's called the myers briggs personality test. Carl Jung came up with his theory about the 16 different personalities of ppl in the world. I'm INFJ - The Advocate. (Introvert, Intuitive, Feeler, Judger). Introvert = ppl drain me, recharge with time alone. Intuitive = Have strong imagination. Think of past and future a lot. Not observant. Feeler = Pretty emotional. Can recognize when somebody's feeling bad or good. Judger = Organized. Structured. Like routine. It's the most misunderstood personality type. But anyway, didn't know if u knew about it...if u haven't taken it and plan on it I'd recommend to try to be as honest as u can with it. Otherwise, u'll just be cheating yurself. There are no wrong answers. There's good and bad with every personality type. Also, have u thought about trying to go to sleep at night. I know staying up at nights makes me feel more lonely. Day time has a way of making me feel more...happy at least. Take care man. Let me know what personality u are.

It is not worldwide, it is a Western problem

Peter, you can turn your life around. My long-term relationship ended at 34,. When I was your age (36), I was alone, chronically ill, few friends, little family, in terrible poverty, bits of temporary work was all I could get. Now at 50, I own my own home, have a steady job, am fine financially and healthy. I'm hardly a success story, but much better than I was. You can be too, just tackle one issue at a time. My challenge to you: join a gym and go 4-5 times a week. It's basically the only thing that kept me going during the dark days.

I feel ya man. I'm actually in the same exact boat as u. Women suck. They can't handle men's struggles. U can't count on them for nothing. Except if they're yur Mom. I live with my Mom who is 79, and she's all I got. I have absolutely no desire to move out b/c I know how lonely it would be. I have plenty of money, but it's pretty much useless b/c I have nobody to share it with, and I have nothing I want to buy b/c I know buying things doesn't make me happy. I'm scared what I'll have to do in the future b/c I know I'll have to work to get by, and my job brings a lot of stress and worries. It's good to communicate sometimes with my coworkers, but I also feel like they have bad intent for me at times when they're feeling bad. That's the thing, I feel like people just want others to suffer. Yur video has helped me tremendously man. Thank You! for sharing. Yur just being real speaking facts. We are all in a loneliness epidemic, and the people that aren't have issues with the people they live with probably. If yur church would think little of u for sharing yur story, then it's better to not go there. Yur right. But man, I need to pray more, but will definitely think about what u said. Take care.

Beautiful message

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Volunteer on some NGO or red cross. Sign to a gym. Chess club, do yoga classes. You'll meet people that way.

Maybe it could be you sort of have an emptiness inside which is keeping you bored. Other people will connect with the boredom and also like you know find that boring not want to hang out maybe? Just an idea might help? It seems you don’t have anyone who genuinely needs you? So the solution if you’re willing to try it is to help people who are less fortunate than yourself. Like volunteer some time helping older people tackle technology or some kids with homework or some disabled people with home chores or you know a soup kitchen. You’ll meet some new people they’ll value your help. You might make a friend you might not but it could be an idea to help your situation though I’m from a different country so I’m not sure. Anyway best of luck. God bless.

Be strong Keep on going brother God bless you

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Nice exercise

Do you think God is against standing up for yourself, even if that means being in a physical altercation? I understand being able to not give into your ego and turn the other cheek but I don't think someone should be a push over either.

As a Christian why don't you go to church, works for my Christian mother. It is realistically your only chance, tell your pastor or whoever to meet you up with someone. As atheist with long life experience, I embraced being alone is core of my personality - there is a reason why I only managed to make 1 real life person long term friend in 10 years of trying since 18 Once that one good friend is gone, I won't bother looking for more people. One must learn some things happen for a reason and trying different outcome might be futile.

Hope you're feeling better. I like this song lately when im lonely. Have a good day. ua-cam.com/video/1I3Pg2wSoGc/v-deo.htmlsi=6nXKoosDlVivrOLW

bro, what do you know about isolation.? Go to channel Atticus X who has been alone in Vietnam for 4 years teaching with no westerners and no friends suffering from military injuries. He has over 500 videos and every single one he is alone. Channel name is Atticus X (The Vietnam Chronicles). he has videos about how he deals with loneliness. You wont pray yourself out of your problems. You got to stop being a victim or zealot for religion and find a dream to chase like Atticus did by moving to the other side of the world. He is a good guy and you might learn from him. Imagine being in Vietnam/china border as the only English speaker for 4 long years!

I been alone most of my life. I live where the walls are thin, I hear everyone's words. I drown out the sounds. GET OUT IN NATURE......you will refresh! Get out of the four walls!!!!!! Get a camera. Begin taking pictures. Volunteer at a animal shelter. Animals give unconditional love Write letters to people in Nursing homes who are ALL ALONE!

I've been praying 🙏for death since I was 15 -- I'm 48 now, and things are NOT better with the grueling passing of time. Can't believe I'm still in this Hell. Wish there were a door that I could escape through. This place is not sane. Insanity has been *normalized* . It's a lot worse than most people can even imagine.

Just came across this channel. I feel ya brother. Myself though I prefer being alone. Not many people can handle their own company for extended periods of time and the ones that can are few and far in between. One thing being alone has done for me is gotten me to slow down and just take stuff in. I live in a rural area in Michigan. Beautiful spot. Quiet. You can see all the stars on a clear night because no city lights. One tip I will give to folks struggling with loneliness, don't let society dictate to you that you have to have someone with you to enjoy things. I go to concerts, sporting events, restaurants, movies, etc by myself. I get weird looks at times too. I don't care. I want to sit down in a restaurant and eat, I do it. Go to a baseball game, I go. I think the way I am is because I flat out do not trust people. Not even my own family. I love them, but I do not trust them. My kindness has been mistaken for weakness far too many times. It also comes from me having faith that whatever the hell life is supposed to be for us, can't be what it's all about. I feel like I'm at a way station before the physical body gives out. Try to focus on something tou enjoy doing or try something new. I started building plastic model kits again. I'm just as terrible at it as when I was a kid, but I'm getting better. Brother you got this. I know it can be hard, but we keep pushing through. Life is too short to not have meaningful relationships, but it's also too short to be in bad relationships and it's definitely too short to worry what other people think about you. Think being the key word. Chin up brother.

You are right, theres too much loneliness in this world., im praying for you brother and i hope things change for you. Easy to say this, but maybe you should go to a new church and see if there are good Christian people there who would welcome you into the congregation. Do you have family that live near you? Even a short visit may brighten your day. Ive went through a situation similar to yours, a few years back and i was just bored and down , everyday was the same ..After a few months it lifted and got better. Stay in your faith , i have no doubt that Our Lord will place people and events in your path that will brighten your life and give you much Hope ,cheer, and many friendships.✝️

Nice exercise

God bless you brother

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God bless you brother

Prayers my friend - new subscriber

I'm watching from New Zealand. Haven't seen another sole for going on 2 months. 👋

You should know that 99.99999999% of Christians are full of sh*t. They don't call it the broad road for nothing. Screw church. They're just country clubs masquerading as churches, and 50% of the clergy process porn on their computers.

Congratulations on giving your life to Christ! 🙏

Praying for you, hope you will feel better soon!

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God bless you brother

I have followed you on Facebook More blessings brother

God bless you brother Peter, thanks for sharing, New friend here stay connected God bless you

My family descends from a lady named Side, who was the daughter of the druid Delbath, who was the brother of Mogh Ruith. A gnosis was passed down, that is still being practiced in secret today. Although, druids never documented any of their practices, some actually did.

Really liked this video, the natural flow of your speech makes it feel like talking to a friend. Take care brother!

Amen to that