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Hi sis, super aa soneenga. Enakum mood swing, depression, anxiety edhellam kalam pona kalathula dhaan teriyum.. adhuve evlo plus nu nenapen.. 😅. Same mindset sis, enaku easy aa connect aaga mudiyudhu. Meal plan ku thankyou sis, it's much needed especially in usa, already enga help kammi, somethings andha andha edhathuku etha madhiri panradhula thappu ellanagaradhu ennoda opinionum kuda. Again thanks for sharing sis. ❤

nothing like that sis... I'll put the status pic in all festivals whatever we celebrate like birthday's n Trips n anniversary.. its all about our thinking only... Nalladu nenacha nalladey nadakum...

It’s true some negative vibes r there if we keep status

@Malar- you are saying “ intha vali kooda thangika mudilena”. What do you mean by that? If your life is super easy and smooth, then dont think everyone’s period is the same. Please be sensible while sharing opinion about these kind of topics. Everyone’s life is different and you are not a doctor to share these type of opinions. I am happy that your life is smooth so please stop talking about these type of sensitive issues where it will hurt other feelings. Please change your mindset.

My mind voice yesterday ❤

Hi unga old video patha, February 14 , unga marriage date 17.06.2010, ea ea marriage date same, 17.06.2018, antha video la nenga bro roomba azhaga irukinga wow ❤❤❤❤

Hi sister, old photos semma 🎉🎉🎉 nenga bro roomba azhaga irukinga wow super 🎉🎉❤❤❤❤

Nenga iruka place la snow Kami ah … sister enga Canada la Nanga snow kula tan valundhutu irukom too much this year …. Happy to see u enjoying 😂😅 nala fun panunga 🎉

This is my 2nd comment as your thought process is bothering me a lot. My mum has given me medicine with her own hands when she saw me suffering in pain. Does that mean that she would have done that to mee because she wanted me to have a shorter life eventually? No mother would want to see their child suffer if it can be controlled. I’m sure your kids fall sick and you give them medicine too. Kids all sick very often - do you avoid giving them medicine just because it hurts their body in the long term? No. You want them to recover and get better. Even if someone gets flu/diabetic you can say that it’s self created cause they did not take care of themself properly. If that was the case, you give them medicine? Menses cramps can hit even the most healthiest people every single month of their life. I’ve had the most cramps and every medical reports shows I’m in the pink of health. This is uncontrollable. How can you say that we should just tolerate it. I know you are talking about your own experience sis but maybe you’ve not had the excruciating, unable to move, vomiting and fainting episodes. I think you don’t understand how bad it can get. Pregnancy is also very natural and part of a women’s lifecycle. Would you go through that with no medicine at all? I’ve thoroughly enjoyed your content and your thought process all along, as you can see from my comments in previous videos. However this is coming as a shock and it’s bothering me. If a woman don’t understand another woman’s pain, it’s hard for anyone else to understand it.

Exactly daa,this is happening to my MIL, but when I tell her ,she gets angry,so I also l ignored this bcoz nothing could be done unless she realises it.👌🏻👏❤️

Correct,eppavume u can’t satisfy everybody.👌🏻👏❤️

Hi Malar, I'm Preethi, and I've been watching your videos for quite some time. I absolutely love them-they're so natural and simple. While I've had different opinions at times, I respect that everyone has their own thoughts and perspectives. However, after watching your video on "HOW I MANAGE MY PERIOD," I felt compelled to share my experiences with you. This might be a long message, but I hope you'll take the time to read it and understand my perspective. Let me explain. My family has four daughters, and I'm the third. All five of us, including my mom, have different patterns in our menstrual cycles. My mom never experienced pain, just discomfort, even during menopause. My eldest sister had a similar experience but suffered during menopause. My second sister had back pain, and I didn't even feel any discomfort during my periods until after I got married. Now, I suffer from severe back pain that has worsened over the years, and as I approach menopause, I endure almost ten days of extreme back, leg, and stomach pain, along with heavy flow. Despite being prescribed medication, my body doesn't accept it, and I have to go through this ordeal every month. My younger sister faints every month due to low blood pressure caused by hormonal changes, and this continues to this day. Even within a single family, there are so many differences. Imagine how different each person's body and pain tolerance can be. You mentioned that it's not true that "only when you get the pain you'll understand." From my experience, I would say it's absolutely true. I've gone through both painless and painful days. I never understood my sisters' or friends' menstrual pain and thought they were just able to tolerate it. But when I started experiencing pain, I completely understood and realized how foolish I was to dismiss their pain so carelessly. I don't want you to make the same mistake I did. If your friends are taking medication for their pain, please encourage them to consult a doctor. It's not just about home remedies or pain tolerance. One of my friends from school had severe stomach pain and would often miss school during her periods. Her family made her believe she was weak and couldn't tolerate the pain, dismissing her suffering as a lack of endurance. When I gave birth to my daughter, she visited me along with her mother. Her mother was wailing, lamenting that her daughter would never give her a grandchild. After two years of marriage, my friend discovered she couldn't conceive because her uterus was severely damaged. The doctor asked why she had never been checked before. After consulting many doctors, she learned that her period pain was due to a chronic infection in her uterus. If it had been properly diagnosed and treated earlier, she might have been able to conceive. The pain in her eyes when she saw my daughter is something I'll never forget. Her mother blamed herself, and my friend blamed herself for blindly believing her parents' dismissive attitude towards her pain. Ignorance and blind faith can lead to tremendous consequences. Therefore, it's crucial to take care of your body and consult a doctor rather than relying solely on home remedies. I'm not saying that one should completely avoid home remedies. In fact, I firmly believe that home remedies can be beneficial as they are natural and good for you. However, if you experience consistent pain, it's essential to visit a doctor and seek their professional advice. If a doctor prescribes medication, it's important to take it as directed, in addition to following your home remedies. Regular checkups are also vital to ensure that there are no underlying issues and that your health is being properly monitored. Lastly, I strongly believe that periods have nothing to do with being positive or negative. It's a natural biological process, not a divine punishment. It is possible for a person’s period to coincide with an auspicious day, but this would be purely coincidental and not influenced by any external factors. Please don't be proud of not getting your period on auspicious days. Imagine the guilt you might be imposing on those who do. I experienced this firsthand when I got my period on an auspicious day, and my mother-in-law scolded me, calling it a source of impurity and shame. Fortunately, my husband stood up for me and explained that menstrual cycles are biological processes and have nothing to do with religious factors. Menstrual cycles are controlled by hormonal changes in the body and are not influenced by external factors such as auspicious days. I understand your point about not taking periods too seriously and learning to be comfortable with them. However, many women suffer from period pain. I'm writing this to educate you, not to find fault. Being in the media, you have the power to give more exposure to this topic than I do. Thank you and like you always say, "NALLA ERUPOM, NALLA ERUPOM ELLARUM NALLA ERUPOM."

It's not ok to bear that pain. Some people may have cyst or endometriosis or metritis. So it is advisable to take painkillers it will make to sleep peacefully.

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Looking beautiful ❤️❤️

Xmas T-shirt nalla iruku malar

Very wrong mind set ! I am somesome who took help of medicine during extreme pain . Not just for period pain , for any health related issues definitely take doctor advice and take medicine ! Be it physical health and mental health there is nothing wrong in taking external help ! What you are saying is working for you but your advice is very very ignorant. Especially if someone is taking medicine and by hearing you they will feel very inferior. So please do not give advice like this or talk about such sensitive issues with so much reluctance ! And taking medicine does not reduce life expectancy. I totally agree we need healthy lifestyle but taking medicine is not harmful . Because of such ignorant opinions these days people risk their conditions and avoid doctors ! So pls pls pls .. I request you to not talk like this !

How can a child 10-12 year old understand period pains??? And also know that later in life she will be experiencing worse pains. 8:08

Amanga enakkum apdidhan nadakkum

💯malar akka

ஹாய் மலர் niraya டிப்ஸ் soninhka thank you ma ❤

Hi sis, im very suprised by your thoughts on this. If you had a daughter and she’s having severe cramps and can’t live a normal life during the few days, and you see her throwing up and fainting, will you tell her to tolerate it and rest? As a mother knowing how bad it is, you will give her medicine to relieve her of her pain. I’m very surprised by your sweeping statement on this. Some people are really blessed to not have bad cramps. The pain range for period is very very bad. No one wants to be in pain or take medicine. A lot of people take medicine during period because they experience extreme pain. Maybe you don’t realise it because you don’t experience excruciating pain every month. And it’s not ‘just one day’. People like me get pain before, all 3 days. I’ve passed out many times from the pain, I vomit each time my pain reaches a certain range, I have cramps in my leg until I can’t even walk. You can’t even rest when you are so uncomfortable. If im the office and in pain, it gets so bad that I can’t even walk to go leave and take a cab. It’s impossible.

Yes Malar❤lovely to see you in the snow

Reala ve unga kuda kadavul than kuda erukar. Neengalam great ma

Ceramic jars on the counter top link share pannunga sis.....

Lovely sis❤

Akka ❤,👌👌

You are absolutely right, Malar. Don't unnecessarily consume medicine for minor sickness. Period is a normal issue for all women. At first day of period, it would be a bit painful with heavy flow. If they really can't bear the pain, then they can take some medicine for relieveness. Hot water bag massage will also work. Have a bed rest. Try as possible not to consume medicine. It is not good for health. Take care of yourselves, ladies.❤😊🎉

Not true Malar. Severe cramps and period pains is considered one of the worst pains. It's not the same for everyone. Endometriosis needs medical help.

பனி விழும் மலர் வானம் பாட்டுக்கு அடடா அட பனி மலையே நம்ம மலர்கிட்ட பக்கம் வந்துருச்சு 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰 சூப்பர் போட்டோ எடுத்து இருக்கீங்க 🙌🙌🙌🙌

சூப்பர் சூப்பர் மலர் சிஸ்டர் எனக்கு இந்த மாதிரி போட்டோ எடுக்க ரொம்ப பிடிக்கும் பனி மழை நாங்களும் ரொம்ப மிஸ் பண்றோம் 😍😍😍😍

Lovely

Where do you bought tea kettle?

Super malar sister.

Hi sister😊😊

I disasgree Malar. Period ellaruku ore maadhiri irukaadhu. Example me. 10yrs to 36 years unganaala imagine kuda pannamudiyadhu adhu evlo vali. Unlimited doctor visite. I always used to ask doctor, eppidi Doctor mathavanga ivlo free aa irukanga period appo ennala batroom vittukuda velila varamudiyile nu. Doctor said avagalaku vali irukum aana sambalika mudiyira alavuku irukum. Unna maadhiri romba bleeding and painful periods kuda berayaperuku irukum thats unfortunate idhu disease onnu kedayadhu but uterus appidi form aayirukum adenomayosis andha condition peru nu 36yrs la enaku uterus remove panniyachu. So edhu romba vali dhu kammi vali nu nammalala solla mudiyadhu Malar adhu avugulaku dha teriyum. Pain tablets injections illama irundha naa andha valila thudichiye sethurupe. Neenga ivlo easy ya solradhu ennala ethuka mudiyile ennamo naa chinna vali kuda thaangama tablets eduthu thappu panna maadhiri feeling varudhu. Avanga pain thresh hold avagulaku dha teriyumnga. So easy ya edukadhinga. Sorry this is my opinion nga no way I am disrespecting you.

Can we use normal shoes in snow sister

Athunalla namakku athoda impact irruku.

S malar 💯 true. I faced it. Intially I don't believe it. But after facing the problem I changed myself. 50 persons status patha kandipa athula negative and toxic kannu ullavanga irrupanga.

Enna nadanthalum nan dp vaippan sister ❤

Sis name solluga Fri..

Malar akka enna theivamay, 1 month a kitchen irukura switch work agala.. after seeing this video nighto night i tried it's working... Thank you so much 🙏

Red blue dress super 👌 What all u say? It seems like ur my XEROX...❤

Exactly sister

Sis oru doubt, night thoongum bothu sweater poda koodatha? Entha country layum winter la while sleeping poda matanga thane? Nalla thillanu solrangale Reply me sis

Super i am waiting snow reel's 😊😊😊

Enjoy the snow

Malar can you give recipie for roadside kadalai kuruma. It looked so yummy

You look beautiful in this Red sweater ❤

Hi Malar akka good to see you...❤ சின்ன வயசுல நீங்க எப்பவாச்சும் வெளிநாட்டுக்கு போய் settle down ஆகணும்னு நினைச்சது உண்டா because நினைக்கிறது தான் நடக்கும்னு சொல்லுவாங்க....