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After burnout fried my brain, stumbling upon her books felt like Neo finding Morpheus in The Matrix. Suddenly, the world of self-care made sense! Thank you soooo much for sharing your knowledge!!

This! So good. As a therapist, I too have volunteered with colleagues to further their practice. It takes courage and openness and the therapist here in the video was so welcoming and appreciative of that, it made that inter subjective space come to life in a very safe way.

This woman is amazing! Her sensibility and understanding of the clients and their pain is fantastic. I have read her and her husband´s books and they are so clear.

I really apreciate Richard Hill. He has the BEST Projective Identification explanation ever on his Channel. ❤

YES!. This work, this co-journeying with another human is BEAUTY. Thank you Tori!

Hi there … You might consider that many people … likely most … who come here are not therapists but rather folks like me learning new ways to understand resistance to change after years of work to recover from childhood & ongoing trauma. I stumbled on IFS & parts work through Dr. Jacob Ham on UA-cam (amazing!) & Stephanie Woo’s memoir detailing her time as Dr, Ham’s patient. That led me to Richard Schwartz’s teaching to learn the bones of parts work (his book No Bad Parts). The book was ok but a bit abstract imo & kept me too much in my head. So I searched for more on IFS & found Dr. Tori Olds who gives simple, embodied examples I need on her UA-cam channel. Tori’s generous video series on IFS led to her other video series on Coherence Therapy which I’m on the front end of exploring. She is brilliant & presents the technique is such a compassionate & easy to understand way. I’m thrilled I found Dr. Olds I suppose the algorithm put your video in my path. Grateful to expand my small group of teachers, I listened to your video then felt very disappointed to discover the bait & switch tactic midway -> first free then pay to listen to the whole video. Therapists listening here who have a career & paying clients can afford to pay, but many of us cannot. And not having insurance to be able to access a qualified trauma informed therapist often moves us to find information & resources online to help ourselves while saving money to afford therapy. This Aetna is so Wright with privilege which is why I appreciate the generosity of Jacob Ham & Tori Olds who offer solid help free of charge through their online teaching videos. I did learn one thing listening to you, which is to eliminate the word *not* when reframing experiences for using self-guided Coherence Therapy & System Deprivation. My desire is to eventually find a therapist or a group that uses both. Until then, as a trauma impacted adult, I’ll be reading & listening to the work of Tori Olds & her mentor Bruce Ecker. All the best to you!

Lisa, you look beautiful. So happy to see you.

This is great! The positive framing of a new experience is so important to communicate to new folks interested in therapy

Do you work on emotions too because it is connected to memory!?

Would love to have you both on my podcast How to be happier for entrepreneurs ❤

Great stuff!❤❤❤

Maybe It isn't the memory of things past that creates intense feelings in the present. Maybe the feeling is created by mistaking memory, or thinking for that matter, with some thing real. The fear response is appropriate when danger is present when the thing is happening. Once the truth is known; that thinking is an internal description of something that happened, it's not the actual thing, the intense feeling doesn't materialize and if it does it's very short lived; it's not real. The only difference between experiencing intense emotion during a movie and experiencing intense emotion from memories and past events, is that in a movie we know we are experiencing something illusory and transitory and it passes shortly after the scene ends. Thinking and memories are no more real than sound & images on a movie screen.

I don't seem to be able to find you on Apple podcast, are you not on there? Is there an easy way to download your podcasts to my phone? I'm kind of a caveman and it would be nice if you were on an easy to use platform, FYI

Does memory reconsolidation not also require juxtaposition for the memory to become labile, rather than just recall?

Awesome podcast episode, Juliane. Wow so fun listening to you and your expertise.

This was excellent!!! After a while therapies all start looking the same. This really clarified how this one is different. Very clear and great examples. Thank you.

ua-cam.com/video/cPiUj5VQGSQ/v-deo.htmlsi=EY7L1QPo0POJzUo_ It is marvelous to talk from a privileged stand point! Congrats to you Ma'am!

This was valuable❤ Thank you so much for this video😊

I think it’s also possible that the crying was a defense against deeper more intolerable feelings, like anger.

"you can't leave a place till you arrive there" might be a new quote for my door, really simple and helpful :)

Excellent, Tori! Thank you!💜🙏💜

Wow! This was beautiful. I listened at Tori Old's recommendation from her open chat last Tuesday. I've been studying Gendlin for about three years now and Tori's manner makes me feel witnessed the way videos of Gene do. Now here, too, I felt a deep response to the two of you speaking of how you are present with your clients. There was a great deal of presence in this video and just in listening I felt spaces opening up -- ways I'd like to be with myself that I haven't experienced yet. Tori is teaching memory reconsolidation right now and I've been having trouble making the leap from theory to practice. You touched on how that can happen without forcing issues -- just letting them arise. I'm sure that will give me a better lens through which to view Tori's next session. Thank you!

Thank you for this amazing content!

Lovely conversation! Thanks for sharing IFS with the world! 🥳

beautiful to see Ann explicate her work with the attentive and receptive Sam. Thank you.

So much to learn here, thank you! Such great information! With so much heart and compassion. "To hold it lightly like a feather" I love this!

I have only just started to practise brainspotting. So amazing. It's like an adventurous journey. I love it being so open, the interaction between equal partners, the field that is created. To me it's one of THE tools for this time on earth. Thank you!

I came to the same conclusion as you did about many disorders being natural/survival reactions to “disorderly” conduct of the trauma giver. I don’t know if I’ve heard this perspective from another therapist before, so thank you!! I tried BSp on myself (I have a masters in it and a couple years experience giving it). I am amazed at the response I had. Is it ok to do it on/with oneself more extensively? I will find a BSp therapist soon, but also like doing self-therapy. Have done it for over 50 years. THANKS again! ❤

Does this therapy approach work better for behavioural symptoms? In social anxiety for eg, would the target symptom be avoidance, or would it be the specific feeling, eg feeling worried about judgment of others?

Mahalo from Maui, where I am a trauma counselor. This was very informative and reassuring as I go into service for wildfire survivors.

Very nice experiential therapy interview

Very informative, thankyou so much for sharing!

Hearing the story of this patient, I got chills, too :) It would be interesting to have a talk about what chills mean :)

Brilliant! We need a summary of the main points

Okay, this is dope! I admire your lack of loyalty to any method, which lets you see past the techniques and models. Thank you for sharing your insight.

thank you so much for this

She’s been SUPER helpful for me and my clients.

How do we define “symptom”? Is a negative core belief such as “I am unlovable” a symptom?

The examples could have been better ... people develop cptsd ( and consenquential disorders ) because of abuse / neglect by their progenitors behaviours toward them by the way . Rewind technique and the ideal parent figure protocol are amazing tools to generate mismatch and memory reconsolidation ...

Disappointed that this didn’t continue on link provided.

Nice trainers

What if your client asks to stop or if they need to and they do not know to ask. ?

Thanks for the excellent and inspiring interview!!

Thank you so much, great explanation!

In Military they also work with resistance

This is not a a special new fast fix concept. It's classic subconscious awareness and for most people, knowing "why" these behaviors were put in place subconsciously to make you feel better for a second, does very little to stop people from putting the addictive food like substance into their mouths. Sorry but it just doesn't. Certain feel good foods are designed to be addictive and you can understand the why all day long..it doesn;t change the behavior for most. Some times treating food addiction as an addiction and work it that way might help.

Phenomenal interview. Therapists are born or made . The core isolation wound struck a chord given this past few years . Fascinating Thankyou

Love your focus on permission and collaboration .To start intervening and treating someone before gaining consensus on problems and goals, and most important, task, happens all too often and undermines the process.

You know, to my eye, this is just CBT on steroids. Bringing awareness to body sensations helps to make us feel "embodied" and present, but it doesn't actually process trauma. Currently, the only thing that can help - and only sometimes and never without risk - is psychedelics. With early childhood trauma, psychedelics can give your brain a childhood "do-over" that talk therapy just can't replicate.

Love this