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Glad you like it Barb! 🌞

Hi Barb! I'm so glad to hear that you found this information helpful. Sharing these tips with your parents is a great idea, especially if they've had similar experiences in the past. It's important to be prepared and know how to respond to these kinds of calls. Hopefully, these strategies will help them feel more secure and confident in handling any suspicious calls in the future. Thank you for helping to spread awareness and protect your loved ones! ❤️❤️

Hi! UA-cam really is amazing for creativity and connecting with the world! 😄 I agree, it's hard to imagine life without it now. I’m excited to share more about my animals with you. Thanks for your support! 🌻

Hi Lexij! You're welcome! I'm glad it resonated with you. 😊 If you have any more thoughts or questions, feel free to share!

Hi Lexij, It sounds like you've had quite an adventure living in different countries! England must be an interesting place to work and explore. If you ever decide to move again, I hope you find the perfect spot that suits your needs and interests. 😉

Hi Lexij, That's great to hear! Being from Sweden, you probably have a deep appreciation for exploring different cultures and places. I'm glad you can relate to the experience. If you have any tips or stories from your travels, I’d love to hear them! 🌻

Hi Lexi! Thank you so much for your kind words! I’m thrilled to hear that you’re inspired and working on your own videos. Taking your time and working without stress is definitely the best approach. I’m excited to see what you create and am here to support you on your UA-cam journey. Feel free to let me know when you start uploading your videos-I’d love to check them out! If you have any questions or need advice along the way, don’t hesitate to reach out. Best of luck with your channel, and thanks again for your encouragement!

Thank you Lexi 💙

Hi Lexi, Thank you so much for the encouragement! It really means a lot to hear that. I’m thrilled to have reached over 450 subscribers in just two months, and your support is incredibly motivating. I’ll definitely keep uploading and working hard to bring more great content. Thanks for the kind words and for believing in my channel! 🌞

Hi Lexi, I really appreciate your honesty and support. You’re right-it’s not always easy, but knowing that you and others find value in what I create makes it all worth it. Thank you for thinking my videos are great; your feedback truly motivates me to keep going. I’ll keep focusing on quality content, and I’m excited to share more with you soon! 🤗 Thanks again for being such an amazing supporter! 💙

Hi Sandra, 🌻 Thank you so much for your kind words! It really means a lot to me that you see my life as purposeful and authentic. Sharing my journey with you all has been incredibly fulfilling, and comments like yours make it even more rewarding. I’m grateful to have such wonderful people like you supporting and encouraging me along the way. Thank you for being a part of this journey! ❤

Hi Mary, Thank you so much for your warm and heartfelt message! I’m really glad you found the video helpful. Your support means a lot to me! ❤️❤️❤️

Hi there! Thank you so much for your kind words! 💙 I’m glad you and your mom are enjoying the content. It means a lot to hear that it feels genuine to you. I’ll definitely keep going! Warm wishes, 🌻

Hey Kristin, there you are again thank you so much 💕💕💕💕

Move to Spain! And volunteer with the animals. Currentlybhave 5 cats and a dog.

BTW I'm 65 years old : )

Hi Madeline, That’s wonderful to hear! Living alone and enjoying your independence is such a great achievement. Thank you for the congratulations and for sharing your positive experience! 🌹

Welcome Tess 🌻

Thank you for your kind words! I'm glad you found the ideas helpful. It sounds like you've got a great setup with magnifying glasses in all your key areas-that's such a practical solution for dealing with tiny print. The Advanced Photonic Therapy Torchpen is amazing. I use it for all kinds of pain, to strengthen my immunesystem or to heal up quicker and I also use it on all my animals which lowers costs. There is a free course you can follow on www.advancedphotonictherapy.com if you want to learn more or check FB under the same name. Blessings to you as well, and if you have any other questions or need more tips, feel free to reach out! 🌞

Hi Elizabeth, Thank you for sharing your experience. It sounds like you've found a place of contentment and self-fulfillment in your solo life. Embracing your independence and finding joy in your own company is truly empowering. If you ever want to share more about what’s been working for you or if you need any tips on enhancing your solo lifestyle, feel free to reach out. Wishing you continued happiness and peace in your journey! 💙

I also agree 🌻-freedom is such a vital part of enjoying living alone. It’s wonderful to hear that you’re finding happiness and freedom in your solo life. 💥

I’m so sorry for your loss.🌻 Adjusting to life alone after such a long time can be incredibly challenging. It’s understandable that you’re still figuring things out and finding what interests you now. It’s a journey, and taking small steps towards discovering new passions and activities can be a positive way to move forward. Remember to be kind to yourself during this time of transition. If you ever need support or someone to talk to, I’m here. 🌞

I’m so sorry for your loss. Learning to live without a loved one after so many years is undoubtedly challenging. I’m glad you found the tips helpful, and I hope they offer some comfort and support. Please take things one day at a time, and remember to be gentle with yourself. Sending you warm thoughts and blessings from here. 🍀

Hi Gary, Thank you! Living in Spain with all the animals has been such a joy. A cocker spaniel sounds like a wonderful companion! As for cities to visit in Spain, each one has its own charm. If you’re into vibrant city life and culture, Barcelona and Madrid are fantastic. For a more relaxed atmosphere with beautiful beaches, consider Valencia, Alicante or Málaga. Your trip to Porto sounds amazing-Portugal is such a beautiful country! I’m sure you’ll have a fantastic time exploring. If you have any questions about Spain or need travel tips, feel free to ask! Safe travels and enjoy your adventures, 💥

@@evaellenjoan he's an amazing dog but he takes up a lot of my time. Im thinking about going to Granada, Santander or Girona. I don't really like big cities so I might not enjoy Barcelona, Seville or Madrid. I haven't ruled out Seville. I've solo travelled many times and also with a friend. I much prefer solo travelling. My friend liked to go to the beach all day and go clubbing at night I like to visit historic sites and just have a few drinks in a quiet bar at night. I also like to go to bed at a reasonable hour. My friend would be up all night till 7am.

Hi X, Thank you for your thoughtful comment! You’re absolutely right-finding the balance between nurturing yourself and maintaining relationships can be quite challenging. It’s important to recognize that while distancing yourself from draining friendships can feel difficult, it's a crucial step towards preserving your own well-being and happiness. Balancing kindness to yourself with kindness to others involves setting clear boundaries while communicating with empathy. It’s okay to prioritize your needs, and I definitilly had to after putting everybodies needs before me for over 50 years and sometimes that means making tough decisions about who to keep in your life. It’s important to remember that self-care isn’t selfish; it’s necessary for maintaining your mental and emotional health. One approach I’ve found helpful is to be honest and respectful when communicating changes. Explain your need for space or a change in the relationship, but do so with compassion. This helps to minimize hurt feelings and reinforces that your decision isn’t a reflection of the person’s worth but rather a step towards your own balance and peace. Thank you for your kind words, and I’m glad the video resonated with you. Wishing you strength and clarity on your journey! 🌹

Yes! Thank you so much for this, it’s what I’m trying to do and getting better at - the amazing sense of freedom after taking control of the people and things in my life is definitely worth the challenges. I’ve got more time and energy to do all the things I want and love to do, and wake up every day with a sense of excitement and gratitude. There have been a couple of people who didn’t understand my changes, even though I tried very hard to let them know they were no reflection on them or their worth in any way, but I kind of knew this would happen . Thank you so much for taking the time to share your thoughts , I love your channel and always look forwards to the next instalment! Xx

I'm so sorry for your loss.🌹 I can’t imagine how difficult it must be to go through something like that. It’s incredibly strong of you to continue living life on your terms, even when facing misunderstanding from others. It's true that societal norms can be limiting, and it's unfortunate that some communities still hold onto outdated views about what a "proper" lifestyle looks like. Your perspective is so important-many people don’t realize that, at some point, everyone might face life on their own. It's a reality that should bring more compassion and understanding, not judgment. Thank you for sharing your story and for standing up for a lifestyle that works for you. You’re not alone in this, and there are others who understand and support your journey. Stay strong, and know that your voice matters.💙

Gary, that's awesome that you're traveling solo to Portugal next month-you're going to have an amazing time! Portugal has so much to offer, and traveling solo gives you the freedom to explore exactly how you want, without having to compromise. As for Spain, there are so many great cities to visit depending on what you're looking for-Barcelona for its vibrant culture, Seville for its historic charm, or Granada for a mix of both or what I said on your other comment. If you love the solo travel vibe, I think you'll really enjoy the independence and flexibility it brings. Safe travels, and enjoy every moment of your trip! 🌞

Hi Gary, I'm really sorry to hear about your loss. Losing close friends is incredibly tough, and it's understandable to feel the way you do. Sometimes it takes time to find new connections or to adjust to the changes. If you ever want to talk or share more about your experiences, I'm here. 🌻 Take care, and I hope you find comfort and support as you navigate this difficult time. Warm regards, Eva

I am a widow this year it sucks hard to find good friends who understand your grief I was with my partner for 15 years

Hi Lexi, Thank you so much for your kind words! It’s wonderful to hear about the care and compassion you show to the cats in your neighborhood. Every small act of kindness makes a big difference in their lives. 💖 Keep up the great work, and thank you for all that you do for these furry friends! 💥

Absolutely, living alone can indeed be a wonderful luxury. It offers the freedom to create a space and a lifestyle that truly reflects who we are. Thanks for sharing your thoughts! 🍀

Hi Lexi, Thank you for sharing your perspective. It’s true that there are many paths to a fulfilling life, and choosing not to have children can certainly be one of them. Finding joy and connection in other ways is incredibly valid and can be deeply rewarding. It sounds like you’ve made a thoughtful decision based on your experiences and values. I appreciate your openness and am glad to hear you’re happy with your choice. 🌞

Glad you enjoyed it Lexi 🌹

Hi Joyce, Thank you so much! I enjoy exploring different languages🌻.

Hello Dear Kristin 💚 How are you today?🌞

Hi! That’s a valid point. It’s important to nurture relationships with people who genuinely care and make the effort to check in on each other. Building and maintaining those connections can make a big difference. 💥

Hi Vera, Thank you so much for subscribing and for your kind words! Barney sounds like a wonderful companion, and I’m glad to hear he brings you such joy and protection. I’m looking forward to sharing more videos with you. Sending love and best wishes to you and Barney in Northern Ireland. 💕

Absolutely Kate 🌻

HI, what are you referring to?

Theresa, I'm really sorry to hear that you're feeling this way. It sounds like a tough situation, and it's understandable to feel isolated when you're not receiving the neighborly support you'd hoped for. Living in a different country with different cultural expectations can be challenging, especially when you feel like you're being treated differently because of where you're from. 💥 It's possible that the community might not fully understand your financial situation or that there could be cultural differences at play. Sometimes, people may assume that foreigners have more resources, which can lead to the kind of experiences you're describing. It might help to gently communicate your situation to those around you, letting them know that you're on a budget and would appreciate neighborly kindness without expecting payment in return. In the meantime, consider seeking out expat communities or online groups where you can connect with others who might be going through similar experiences. These communities can offer support, advice, and even friendship. Also, don't hesitate to look for volunteer opportunities or local groups where you can engage with the community in a way that doesn't require financial transactions. This might help bridge the gap and build connections based on mutual respect and understanding. I use Workaway to get help at my non-profit. Remember, you're not alone in feeling this way, and reaching out to others, whether locals or fellow expats, might help ease some of the challenges you're facing. Take care, and I hope things start to improve for you. 🌞

@@evaellenjoan Thanks...I've tried the ex-pat community here. Actually. not very nice and not very helpful. I have talked to other people who have lived abroad and they say the same thing. I've told my neighbors I live month to month...but still, my. house is nicer than there's, so they only see me as a bank or source of work for some pesos. I had a maid for awhile, and she just kept doing more and more than I was asking and I felt guilty so I gave her more after clearing stating I don't want her cleaning my garden. Then she started bringing me things to sell to me saying her sister was in the hospital. I bought a couple of things and I only had a 500 peso bill and she shoved two other things in my chest and didn't give me my change. I got rid of her after that, saying that my work cut down and I couldn't pay her anymore. Now it is really uncomfortable in the calle. Anyway...I'll get by. I have a debilitating painful chronic illness for 30 years and have always gotten by. It is getting harder, but damned if I'm going to hire any of these manipulators. I hate to say it, but after five years here, I will never trust a Mexican national to be decent without anything in return.

Sad I know...but racism is real and it exists everywhere, and the Mexicans are some of the most racist people I have ever met in my life, even with their own (the Mestizos)....it is a VERY classist society and sexist, which just makes me boil. Perhaps someday I'll have to move to a gated community in San Miguel where the really rich gringos live with a bunch of other old fart expats to hopefully have some decent humans, but my expectations these days are very low. It just seems to me people have changed a lot. I think it has something to do with the state of the world. Faster I can be outta here, happier I am.

then why continue to live there?

@@GM-jv9jz I came down with one dog, and that was hard enough, then getting through all the immigration stuff was so horrendous, finally obtained my residency. Then I adopted a street puppy because he would have had a terrible life. I also have a chronic illness...just getting down here, thinking the weather would help me and also leaving behind all the traumas of the past and, at that time, the lower cost of living (not anymore).....so, getting back with two dogs I find super overwhelming. I have a gorgeous house for the first time in my life a stable home at 59...I'm so tired of moving, I'm mean SO tired. I've made my gardens so incredible and all my artwork is all over the place (in the past I had to leave it to move). So guess the main answer is I'm so tired of moving. People treated me like shit in the States, and I've never had family or even a decent friend, so there really isn't anything to go back to. I know...I've kinda had a shitty life I guess. A lot of really manipulative crappy humans and because of my abusive childhood, I couldn't recognize what was happening (I can now!). I have a hard time driving...here I don't have to drive, taxis and buses or get things delivered...that was one of the reasons I chose this city. My house is quiet and a fortress.....and the US is in chaos right now. So......I will stay. Seems I was born alone and with no support, and I will keep on keeping on and pass that way. I'm ok with it.

Thanks for sharing! I'm glad to hear you enjoy these types of videos. Living alone can be both rewarding and challenging, and it's great to connect with others who appreciate content that speaks to those experiences. If there's any specific topic or challenge related to living solo that you'd like to see covered in future videos, feel free to let me know. Your feedback helps me create content that's truly helpful and relevant. Stay safe and enjoy your solo journey! 🌞