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Dating sounds hard. It sounds even harder for those who are introverted and growing more so as we age. I’ve always been curious about dating apps and how they work. This was insightful.

You guys really need a strong opposing guest to challenge your views. At the moment it's just 4 single women agreeing with each other and validating how good your choices are.

because...you are damned if you DO and you're damned if you DONT.

Women have it so easy on those apps, you have no idea. I put my best pictures on there, Got help from a female friend who has succes on tinder and other apps all the time, knows what women want, she helped me write the bio. I am using like 5 different apps. In the first week I got like 20 likes maybe spread across the apps. some were fake bots preying on desperate lonely men. Some said nothing after the match. I tried everything from hello to corny one liners to saying random stuff. They all just ghost. A few reply a handful of times, never with actually any interest. Just closed answers with no questions asked back. Like why did you even match if you have no interest in a conversation? You just on here for validation and attention? week 2 I got like 5 likes. Weeks 3 and 4 combined maybe 3. Only ONE girl had a genuine conversation with me. Until she out of nowhere ghosts. Women have it absolutely piss easy on these apps. So many men to choose from. When guys, especially ones that God was not favorable towards at birth, have basically no chance.

As someone in your late 40s, shouldnt you still be online gals looking for men?

Have you checked out Twinby? It seems like a fresh approach to dating.

Congratulations Kash! So happy for you!

Hahahaaa!

This one hit home :'(

This was a good episode. Good job ladies! I agree with not believing in breaks. If we need a break from one another, we are just ending things. If we wanted it to really work, we would've tried, not give up. I've never asked for breaks, only break ups. Lol.

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I came a little more than halfway through the video. It's enough..... 😢 After hearing you, my decision would definitely be to be reborn as a man. I stopped dating a long time ago. It's not worth it. I've done the mistake to date occasionally, but I always regret it.

I love the realness in your topics, maybe because it's close to home, but regardless, I think in our community, these things do need to be discussed

Woman in America are delusional its sad

Finding one and keeping one is two different things

Single people always say they "can always find a partner" it's like ok, do it then.

You're totally right. I could find someone today, if I don't mind him being toxic and bare minimum low effort. Lol the point of this video is lost on me. 😂

I really enjoyed this episode. It was relatable and refreshing to hear because this isn’t a topic all cultures openly discuss, especially on the side of choosing to be child free. I wonder had all of you had children when you were younger, do you think you would be where you are career wise?

Also, kids that don’t have it so easy, grow up tougher. Pain is not always a bad thing.

I didn’t have children until I was 29, but never thought of them until God told me to have them. After my daughter, never felt the call to have another. My son actually healed a part of my heart just by being born. Second, I had 2 parents, both were terrible and abusive. So sometimes having a child even if your partner doesn’t, I would always chose the child. Men come and go.

God granted me with a shlong 10+(BBC with girth). I've only had two women complain about my size. My last relationship was with a white women(30, petite with a good figure, 135lb) in Gulfport Mississippi who was getting a divorce. We met at work and she came on to me very strong. I don't walk around with a bulge, so she must have been attracted to my good looks and my work-out body(runner, swimmer, rollerblade, weight lifting). I had only just moved there, so I biked to work because I didn't have a car. She offered to give me a ride home not long after we had met and I accepted. No sooner than when we got into the house, she was at me. She didn't allow me to say no, and was then at me almost every day. She had put her husband out of the house and had brought me in as much as possible. She wanted it everywhere(Pier, Beach, Bed, Car, Garage, even at her mom's house in the bathroom). Once we moved in together, she took care of everything. The car, money, the rent, and my needs were all provided for. The only thing she wanted was to get it after she got home from work every day. I was in excellent shape, so our sessions easily lasted 4-5 hours. The only problem I had was that she told me she loved my p__ long before she ever said she loved me. The relationship lasted for 7 years and we would still be together if I didn't have to return to work driving trucks all over the USA. She picked me and couldn't get pregnant... AMAZING WILD WHITE WOMAN.

On the topic of HVM dating baddies and the reverse not really being true for women, men get some sort of ego boost/ dopamine rush when they can be the one pampering a woman(bragging rights to the bros) but I doubt the same is true for most women(maybe there’s a group of women that enjoy it) but HVW who choose to be breadwinners are pretty much not allowed to have children unless they choose a surrogate mother because who is going to provide while the women is “out of commission”, and yeah I’m sure men who take on the stay at home dad role take a hit to the ego that society is forcing on them. It’s unfortunately the way our society has been built. Edit: who cares about any of this when the divorce rate is as high as it is lol

I liked this conversation. It would be nice to have a man on the panel to bounce these ideas off of. Btw it's not fair for a woman who's struggling to want to date a HVM man (Aka Baddy) when you know what comes with (cheating, narcissist, materialistic, etc.)😂

Definitely depends on the situation. But I am a scaredy cat and don't like being anywhere alone. Lol.

Also when a guy annoys me, it’s open season for insults😂😂

I ghost everyone if I feel like they don’t respect me or care about me. No questions asked. I’m finished by then. Even if I see them in public I don’t look at them, talk to them or respond to them. 😉

It’s not smart!😂😂😂 that was funny 😂

Finding out if you are going to get along well with someone new is hard enough. However, to have to appeal to her family and friends while you are supposed to be getting to know her... No thanks. NEXT!

I gave you a thumbs up, but is didn't show up. Better check with UA-cam, thanks for your videos!

I have a better chance fighting back a man than a bear.

That’s when the guy says great, me too!

I've dated two covert narcissists. It was a coincidence (i think) that they both are single child from a one-parent household. I was able to break free from both. The thing that haunts me is the ppl around them don't know they are wearing masks.

What an amazing podcast

I attract men and friends that are emotionally unavailable..the same as my parents were to me ..

I know something is wrong with me because I know a phrase like "I swear I will kill you if I see you talk to another man" and "I will kill you if you leave me" is a toxic and very dangerous sign of someone prone to physical violence. Yet that very toxic phrase turned me on and made me more attracted to him. 😮 I know the reaction should be the opposite. But I was irresistibly attracted after those phrases. Fully aware of domestic violence precursors and risk factors, I forced myself to stay away from that individual. But it was like torture to resist the pull towards him. He'd also say a lot of "I love you" and "I love you to death".... So, I took a break from seeing him and decided to stay single and celibate for a few years. Honestly, I'm scared to get in any relationships because all my prior relationships caused me deep hurts. So, until I know I changed my inner beliefs to completely re-orient my attraction into the right and healthy direction, I will not date.

It’s always the women saying being single is so fun…maybe because you constantly get attention… try being an average dude….

All honesty y'all aren't talking about size matters instead of prepossessing not the actual topic the title of the episode feels like click bate

Why? Why do women have to say that we love kids as a disclaimer ? I don't what are you going to do about it? 😮

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My celebrity crush has always been Sylvester Stallone❤️

Now I have to watch A Moment to Remember 😂😂

Omg I immediately got chills from your dream, Mao…! Those kinds of dreams are so unsettling. I hope whatever your dad is going through, he feels better soon. I really enjoyed this episode. I like to think dreams are manifested from our subconscious and what we’ve experienced throughout the day. I don’t like overthinking dreams but it’s definitely interesting to hear what the possible meanings could be.

& Mao, I'm sorry to hear about your dad. I hope whatever he's dealing with, he recovers soon!

Great episode ladies! I dream ALL THE TIME, every single night and I hate it - even when i take short naps. My partner rarely ever dreams.

He ordered a replica sports memorabilia championship ring and she mistook it for a wedding ring.

1- wait, but a one-year old’s infamous smash cake is a def yes for me… too cute 2- MB is such a sweetheart and always so considerate 3- no exes. That’s just weird. I don’t think the question is “why not?”, it’s “why yes?” Why do they need to come? If you think about it that way it might change the dialogue. (Even if no one is attached) 4- yes, agree on the etiquette- code of polite behavior! Really, I think the bride and groom should not need to worry about what is etiquette to preserve, the ex should do the right thing and have some etiquette. 5- at my wedding, I invited my maid of honors ex (she was fine w it) but he still didn’t come out of politeness. Lol 6- immediate family children is ok. But can agree with what you guys said about no kids too. So true Mao, some parents just don’t parent! Trust me, LC, it’s annoying!

Freddie Prinze Jr!!! I loved him growing up. 😍😍😍

I’d love to see an episode about dating advice. (ie: dating as a young adult vs adult, dating in your 20s vs 30s+, safety, apps, etc) Love listening to you ladies!

Mao I couldn’t even recognize you! Wow 😂😂😂 still so pretty!