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Jules
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Welcome to my channel! I create psychology based videos about the MBTI personality type: ENFJ
My content is relevant to ENFJs themselves, people who are friends with ENFJs, and anyone interested in this personality type.
I am the creator and admin of your favorite ENFJ page on Instagram. I've had the privilege of spending a few years now running the IG Account, and I've loved every minute of it. I'm so thankful to my Mentos (YOU) for continuously being so supportive of my content. I hope that this content I make on UA-cam can be insightful to you and help you better appreciate yourself for who you are.
My content is relevant to ENFJs themselves, people who are friends with ENFJs, and anyone interested in this personality type.
I am the creator and admin of your favorite ENFJ page on Instagram. I've had the privilege of spending a few years now running the IG Account, and I've loved every minute of it. I'm so thankful to my Mentos (YOU) for continuously being so supportive of my content. I hope that this content I make on UA-cam can be insightful to you and help you better appreciate yourself for who you are.
How to tell if an ENFJ likes you
It can be so hard to know if an ENFJ is interested in you or not because they’re generally friendly to everyone. Although, there’s a few things that ENFJs do only around their crush.
⤑ Comment the things you do as an ENFJ when you’re interested in somebody.
Looking for regular ENFJ content in your feed? Check out my Instagram page
@ e.n.f.j for memes, relatable posts, advice, and more. I post multiple times a week!
MY SOCIALS ✧˖°
Business email: jewelsprkle@gmail.com
Personal Instagram: bbyjulesy
ENFJ Instagram: e.n.f.j
Tiktok: bbyjulesy
⤑ Comment the things you do as an ENFJ when you’re interested in somebody.
Looking for regular ENFJ content in your feed? Check out my Instagram page
@ e.n.f.j for memes, relatable posts, advice, and more. I post multiple times a week!
MY SOCIALS ✧˖°
Business email: jewelsprkle@gmail.com
Personal Instagram: bbyjulesy
ENFJ Instagram: e.n.f.j
Tiktok: bbyjulesy
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Відео
Become Confident - Channel your most independent self with these tips
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People will always have something different to say about you. Instead of listening to others opinions of you, choose to listen to your OWN convictions about yourself. ⤑ With a few mindset changes and noticing your bad habits, you can find peace of mind and outwardly radiate confidence. Discover your worth, confidently take on challenges, and follow your ambitions. Looking for regular ENFJ conte...
perfectionists need to hear - make it your strength, not your weakness
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A lot of us deal with perfectionist tendencies that affect our lives more than we notice. Here I share some tips that have helped me so much in my my daily life. Comment your own experiences of perfectionism, and what helps you. ✧ If you liked my video, please subscribe to my channel! ✧ ✦ Looking for regular ENFJ content in your feed? Check out my Instagram page for memes, relatable posts, advi...
Eric Nam You're Sexy, I'm Sexy - Live in Seattle 2023 House on a Hill Tour
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Thee Eric Nam was right in front of me performing this song and I lost my mind a little during this performance so if you hear me occasionally scream like I'm being murdered that's why #ericnam #houseonahill #houseonahilltour #ericnamyouresexyimsexy #youresexyimsexy #ericnamseattle #seattle #concert #showboxsodo #youresexyimsexylive
Why ENFJs love to help people
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Spilling ENFJ secrets! To really understand the ENFJ you have to know their motivations behind why they do what they do. Let me know what what you guys think! Copy & Paste the Link to directly go to the post I mentioned in the video: pCcavjT6LN0d/?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA Looking for regular ENFJ content in your feed? Check out my Instagram page for memes, relatable posts, advice, a...
How to know if someone is an ENFJ
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Here are some signs you can trust that someone has the ENFJ personality type. I hope you found my first video insightful. Comment more content you want to see from me. Looking for regular ENFJ content in your feed? Check out my Instagram page for memes, relatable posts, advice, and more. I post multiple times a week! ˗ˏˋ ★ ˎˊ MY SOCIALS ˏˋ ★ ˎˊ˗ Business email: jewelsprkle@gmail.com Personal In...
Agreed
ENFJs are like magnetic to me as an INFJ here. I can confirm this my ENFJ he is super sweet to me always checking on me if I’m happy, very caring person❤
every time I come across this video I feel 10x better
I saw your UA-cam short and I'm glad to find your channel. SUBSCRIBED! lol
Great video 😊
LOL as an ENFJ, these are so true.
You like Kai? It's funny because as an ENFJ I like Kai too🤭💕💕
OMG BOTH OF YOU ARE SUPER GREAT WOOOO 🎉🎉🎉🎉 IM ALSO AN ENFJ! IM SO GLAD TO MEET UUU ✨☀️💖
Ladies, you nailed it, and both of you have the quintessential ENFJ deeply loving kind eyes that we all share. You're definitely ENFJs. Great video 👏
Yay I finally found my type. I've been conflicting with deciding if I was an INFJ or INFP but I was also depressed during that time I tried to type myself. Now I am better and finally found out my true type. Lots of the things you said made me believe I might be an ESFJ but I guess I should study the functions more because there are a lot of stereotypes. Thanks❤
you ask......no need to make 10 mins vid :D
You feel like a good friend that I should meet lol
Very accurate (from an ENFJ)
i feel so seen 🥹🤍
Jules, I love how you sign-off your videos by saying you love us. I'm confident that I can say, we love you, too! :)
Hey Jules, I HAVE to tell you this... so yesterday I listened to another video about ENFJ, and the person said that one of the hallmarks of an ENFJ is their soothing, calming voice (as part of their overall energy/vibe/presence). I just discovered your channel this morning, and I HAVE to tell you, your voice IS that soothing, calming voice! :) You have great content, but I gotta tell you, if you made a video just reading off a grocery list, I'd listen to it just to have my soul nourished by your voice! :) Peace and love, David :)
Jules, I LOVE your deep understanding of an ENFJ. I know, it makes sense, that/since you are one, you would. But to be able to articulate such deep-felt things, it's greatly appreciated! THANK YOU!!! Peace and love, from a fellow ENFJ, David :)
You made such a marvelous list to identify ENFJ! Love it! So true being able to flex from serious to fun! And only as it compliments those present. Im 50 years old and had fun with little tests for years. Psychology has interested me since I was maybe only 10 years old. Nothing helped me know myself but alas I married a narcissist and I'm at the end of my rope. So I've been looking inward to not repeat this kind of thing. Took a test, read a bunch, watched a bunch of UA-cams. I'm ENFJ and so much makes sense now. Your list was like kisses on my heart. Thank you!
Infp, Your eyes... I hate to generalise but there's something about ENFJ eyes
Being honest, I'll said the same about infp (it shines like I can see you guys soul and it's mostly magical to look at).
@@garbageMoonkey5834 yeah, mostly 😅despite the flaws Anyway the message that I took from the video is that it's almost impossible to tell, especially since you told the entire channel that you love them! Just kidding, it's probably not too hard..
I agree with everything you said! I actually talk a lot less and blush more if I have a crush on someone.
It's rare that I come across an ENFJ video that I fully relate with. Often times I often feel like I'm one of those weird enfj's that doesn't quite fit in the mold everyone has for them. One thing I would add to your explanation of us wanting appreciation though (and yes, I definitely need it) is that the appreciation has to be authentic. At least, I can sense when it's fake, superficial or just going through the motion of it for the hell of it. And that kind of has an opposite affect on me. But maybe that's just me.
You're right, it feels like everyone is lying or if the person is lying doing it. We may take it as we respect everybody mostly, but it's awkward to be there (You rather feel truly hate than fake cheering/friendliness).
what do you think about ambiverts enfjs ?
Key takeaway: they start acting like an INFP
It's true 😭
ENFJ male here. To win an ENFJ, you don't need to be an E, but you need to be very considerate, generous and nice!
I am a INFJ 2w1 and I was mistyped as a ENFJ. I relate a lot with everything you’ve said.
Ur mbti??
Where are these enfjs?!! Infp here. I need one of those in my life!
how to even get an ENFJ to respond and where to meet them irl? I wish I had a cute ENFJ girlfriend, I could learn so much from her. - INTJ
by learning emotional intelligence and dare to be vulnerable when meeting them as the very first step. Likes attract likes -INTJ
@@maybemaybenot1491 i attract only INTJ currently^^ how would I learn emotional intelligence?
When it comes to love, I think it's better to focus on a person rather than what's their MBTI since it's not guaranteed a relationship will work just because both have certain MBTI, but if you like girls with ENFJ personality traits, to get them talk to you it's really easy, just sit there alone in a room full of people, and if it happens to be an ENFJ in the room, this person will probably go to talk to you, you'll have higher chances if you're not on your phone or doing something that makes you look like you're busy or that you don't want to get interrupted. When it comes to ENFJs you shouldn't be afraid of being awkward or vulnerable around them, they won't judge you for that, and if an ENFJ approaches you and talks to you, you should try to engage in the conversation, an ENFJ will read very well if you want to talk with someone but you don't know how to, or if you just don't want to talk with anyone, as ENFJ when I notice a person doesn't want to talk to me, I just let this person sit in peace since I think I may be bothering this person, if you don't know what to say to them you could ask them back what they're asking to you, for example if you're both in an event full of people, and this ENFJ asks you what you think about this event or if you like this event, and your answers are too short or general since you don't know what to say, ask them back what they think about it and that will lead to more conversation, if an ENFJ knows you're making an effort to engage in the conversation even if it's a short conversation it doesn't matter, that's enough, they just have to see you're open to it, and now when it comes to where to find ENFJs I think it depends the person and their personal interests, since every ENFJ is different, so I will talk about myself when I point these places, as an ENFJ woman myself I like nature and animals so I like going trekking, camping, I also like visiting cafes, watching movies, activities related to art and culture, activities related to music like playing instruments or going concerts, having fun with friends. I do think ENFJs in general like to engage in a lot of activities and learn a lot of things so, I guess that's it
@@coconutcoco6889 Hi, thanks for your long response. I think MBTI has ruined my dating as i now avoid sensors or problem cases like INFP. ^^ However I feel like what you are describing sounds more like ENFP not ENFJ. An ENFJ typically is more calculating and maybe doesnt want to be seen with the person who sits alone in a room full of people. Personally I know ENFJs only as influencers and they only seem to like other ENFJs.
OMG!!! you just made me realize why I am the way that I am with people. A lot of girls think that I like them (I can see it in their faces). It is just the way that I talk to people. I can talk to anyone as if they are a best friend but the person that I like I find it harder. I can't date just anyone because that person that I have a crush on is always on my mind. I will find that they are into me (I think) but I will analyze and I think they think that since I haven't asked them out yet that I don't like them. It's not the case, I just find that it is hard to ask them out due to being not 100% sure. This leads to not asking them out and as you said fantasizing about it in my head instead. Ans yes I know their schedule due to patterns. Thanks for the info fellow ENFJ 😁
We may "love" our crushes deep enough to a point that feeling or knowing that we may lost him/her at some point hurts as deep as we love. I only had 2 gf till now and I know that if I invest into someone again I may lost her again, this angst of "losing" the person is what freezes our "asking out" moves. We have the guts, the feelings and the intentions; But since this "lost love" feeling comes before "asking out" we may avoid to not regret decisions.
Ay, man, don’t call me out and give out our secrets 😳😫 (great video btw)
"You fittin' to be 'exposed,'" haha... :) Jules shows a really deep understanding of ENFJs, now.
Well jules I'm late here but yeah I was geeting multiple types in test but i know that I'm more enfj cuz I'm Fe but all the characters i found are Te and yeah so Your video explain me but there's tiny things that I don't match but i thing that it doesn't matter....
And what it’s that tiny thing you mentioned :) Like as an Enfj that might help you be sure about it, feel free to share of you want so And that’s fine if you’re not sure, it takes time to be certain about your mbti🤝🦭so no need to feel the need to rush
It's about the volunteering thing, like yeah i volunteer but not when it doesn't benefits me or when I'm tired... @@Maryam-cy6xn
@@Andrew.27y That’s ok, you don’t have to be 100% like Enfj type and one thing I read before “The type presents you BUT you don't present the type” Like ya they say Enfj talk like this, act like this but you don’t have to do these things if it’s not you, just because they say Enfj does So ya be the good respectful self of you and that’s what matters☺️✨☁️ Don’t feel the need to lock up yourself in a box called Enfj, and this is one of the things that did take time for me to see, Like oh no, Enfjs suffer from a lack of confidence or are pretty sensitive to criticism, naive and easy to deceive, ect… Ya you might been there in a point of your life but that doesn’t mean you gonna keep being there👏🏻 You will develop and get rid of your weaknesses and develop your strengths and yourself, to the point that it will be difficult to know that you’re an Enfj :) And that’s what’s mature healthy balanced Enfjs gonna look like a balanced person💪🏻😁 you can be strong, confident, smart, active, achiever, ambitious and what ever you want to be if you want to🙌🏻🔥 And even if it turns out that you are another type, that’s ok, no matter your mbti type you can be great, good and strong person . Any type can be great, loved and wanted if they work on themselves and they become good people😭🙌🏻💞💞💞
I was scouring through UA-cam to find a bit more validation in my actions and this video was a great reminder of a lot of the findings I've had throughout the years. When you mention, "Do not wear yourself thin helping people who wouldn't for you," I couldn't agree more. I can't help but feel like I've been struggling with this for nearly a decade now and could see how it could take a healthy ENFJ to be draconian. It's a tough battle but my struggles really helped build that boundary for myself now. Thank you for your insight and candidness about the ENFJ mind.
what if he missed my bday just today was my bday. oh no! i didnt want to miss it! im sorry i missed your bday. hugged and kissed me hard saying he would make up for it. I asked him for a late bday gift a month later. he said he would get it but then didnt. Is this a bad sign? coming from an enfj?
i’m so sorry i had to say this to you but missing your bday on the day is tolerable but not making up for it after a month is a bad sign. coming from an enfj who would forget bdays but would do my absolute best to make up for it
Same as the comment above me 🙃 as Enfj I rarely forget family, friends birthdays but it did happen before BUT not making up for it, is just impossible to happen, just be straight with that guy, and say that he doesn’t care about you cause if he does, he would definitely spend his money to buy a gift and it would be a priority to do it as soon as possible
this video was too accurate haha
You look annoying bro wth is this 🙏🙏🙏😭😭😭😭😭
Ma'am you aint no ENFJ 😂😂You are an ESTJ through and through... constant Te-Ne loop, and I can lay it out if you want!
Are you typing ppl? I think I am an ISFP, but I'm curious now...:)
@@_angelindisguise_ yes I type people
She is abstract, Fe, Ti. Also it is very hard for an ENFJ to mistype himself due to Ni parent and Ti Inferior.
Good job ❤
The schedule memorizing!!! Haha having their location on makes it easier to know when to talk to them or not talk to them 😅
I LOVED LOVED LOVED this video omg. Jules, you got everything right down to the T!!! Every. single. point is accurate 😩🤯🥹💖 I loved watching. Thank you so much for your work! 💖😁 - a happy enfj
so truee the part about not being that expressive when giving a crush a gift in comparison to giving a friend a gift
INTP. I try to care for them emotionally which may come a bit akward. I tell them that they are not appreciated enough. I do not bend my morals though, just saying. And yes, i do am honest because hey, she is a human too.
Nobody as above my values, morals and what’s ethical - Enfj :)
All so true. It took me years to see I was doing these things with family and friends versus a crush. Breaking it down into a short video gives us ENFJs awareness and more confidence around those we really like. Also, knowing we do these things can help us see when the crush isn't reciprocated and then waste time wondering "Why don't they like me that way?".
I loved it! Looking for more content like this 😊 truly resonated well especially at being confidence and humble!
awesome video!! :>
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when more enfj contents
i’ll be posting more about enfjs soon. my instagram is full of enfj content so makes sure to check that out
You are right consistency builds confidence by time. Some other quote that might match is “fake it till you make it “
but don’t fake your affirmations! all of it can be true of yourself
ENFJ! Long time, no see!
This was such a good video and eye opener for me! 😭 Thanks for doing the research and all the time spent editing!
NEW JULES POST🥳💜💜💜