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I think its not a good place for children its not age appropriate they will eventually get ansty and disrupt the ceremony because boredum tired hungry . Then reception full of adults under the influence not to mention weddings are expensive with food they will likely not like will not eat so paid alot of money for it to be waisted etc . Instead get a babysitter or stay home .

Love this. Some really refreshing thoughts on childfree x

It’s a personal choice, and I don’t understand why it’s even a topic for debate. Personally, I couldn’t imagine not having children. Spending time with my siblings, their kids, and our parents now where I am an adult has made me want to be like my parents someday. However, I would never question or judge anyone who feels differently and doesn’t want children, let alone suggest they’ll regret it. They may have moments of regret, just as many mothers occasionally regret parenthood.

If children are a legacy, then what kind of legacies did the mothers of Charles Manson, Lyle & Eric Melendez, Hitler, Jeffrey Dahmer, Eileen Wuornos et al leave us? Huh? Nature vs. Nurture...

When a coworker asked me if I had any kids, I told her no. Didn't want any, didn't have any. The other lady in the room got defensive, as if I personally attacked her choices! Started telling me bout how many she had(both ladies were mothers) & how glad she was that she had 'em. We both just looked at her. The conversation changed after she spoke her mind 👀

Well, in the case of the Sanderson Sisters, they were childfree...& they were witches 🤣

I was looking to your face and a saw a depressed drunk alone oldie

Wow thats so cute to see a old couple alone faking hapinness 😂 i have all of this fake hapinness and...a family 😊

Hi, thank you so much for your channel. I am 26 yrs old and am in a 6 yr relationship. I've never thought about kids but I feel the pressure to have them since I am going into my late 20s. I always felt like I have to over explaining and watching this video made me realize that simply not having a desire to have kids is enough of a reason.

Different path, yes.

Mom of two here, all my friends are child free and I never ask why they don't have or want kids not my business and also it is great because they dot on my kids as they have them in small doses hhhhhh😂

Its "bad" for US, thats all.

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Not that bad = the struggle is real . Sis it’s ok to say it is hard . It’s ok , just say it.

hey guys. thank you for this its crazy how the childfree by choice experience is pretty much the same im from South Africa. I rate your husband did great I wouldn't avail myself as a babysitter ever would just let them know I can't, saying basically the same I dont feel comfortable with watching children so in the future they wouldn't ask me at all

The Bible says that a woman without children is always left unsatisfied.

So if it’s not so bad, then… it’s also not so great either.

LOL I didn't realize my own parents, cousins, aunts, uncles, siblings, grandparents, grandaunts/uncles were totally NOT my family already. Darn

Lineage is children. Legacy is what you've contributed to society. Your welcome.

my coworker said she only wanted 2 children (has 3), I feel sorry for her youngest 😅

My current job is "not that bad" but if I won a lottery, I would never go there again. She became pregnant when she didn't want children, and she probably realized having children is not as bad as she expected, but still kinda bad.

The reason we say it is bcuz that's the next question they ask: Don't you like children? Then comes the next question: Do you have nieces & nephews? People just think that grownups HAVE TO HAVE kids in their lives. No thanks; I like my crafts, my peace, & my quiet... except for when it's football season. HOW BOUT THEM COWBOYS😍 🤠🏈😂

I’ve felt this way too in my early adult years,,, so I do know where you’re coming from…at the same time, it’s kind of sad to live the rest of your life zeroing in on yourself,,the world would seem to revolve around me, myself and I,,,and I don’t want that tbh

I know that I don’t want kids since I’ve 16… I’m now 26 and still don’t want kids but sometimes during my period idk why but I want it but it’s a “irrational want” because after my period I don’t want it anymore.

The reason why you look so amazing for your age is because you DON’T have kids. I’m the same way… look very young for my age (because I don’t have kids). ♥️👏♥️👏

Just cuz she's rocking "the baby" around she's gonna be a good mother? Takes way more than that to be a parent! Btw..the doggy is way better than a kid 😁 ✌️ 🐶 🐾

I think people say that bc instinctively they know it’s not right. Like choosing to live child-free is a choice, but sound like a right/good choice since you’re limiting yourself to being a selfish person with you in the center for the rest of your life... I used to think like that too in my 20’s,,so I understand but I’m glad I wasn’t forever committed to that choice now and it was due to an advise of a very wise/trusted friend. So I think the people saying this are trying to help you not be stuck on yourself and lose out in the end.

What i wanna do doesn't need to be better than what you wanna do. This isn't a competition. It's not about being right or wrong. It's about freedom. This is what i want to do, but you want to force me to do what you did and that is not fair.

♥️♥️👏👏…cute couple.

Enaknya jadi manusia = 1. Ada makanan 2. Fisik sehat 3. Panjang umur 4. Punya keluarga 5. Ada tempat tinggal bagus 6. Manusia Jujur 7. Saling toleransi 8. Masuk surga 9. Dapat rezeki. 10. Damai dengan orang. 11. Mempunyai pemimpin yang mendukung rakyat. Dll Tidak enaknya jadi manusia = 1. Kelaparan 2. Kadang merasakan sakit , ada yang berkebutuhan khusus ( tidak bisa melihat, tidak bisa mendengar, tidak bisa berbicara ), ada yang sakit berat = stroke , kanker , dll , ada yang kehilangan anggota tubuh . 3. Suatu hari meninggal 4. Ada yang tidak punya keluarga 5. Ada yang tidak punya tempat tinggal atau tempat tinggal jelek 6. Ditipu orang 7. Rasis SARA ( suku , agama, ras dan budaya) , Rasis yang lain. 8. Masuk neraka 9. Harus bekerja kalau mau punya harta 10. Di hina orang 11. Mempunyai pemimpin Tidak mendukung rakyat Dll. Maka dari itu saya memutuskan tidak punya anak. Ada gak enaknya jadi manusia. Mungkin anak saya mengalami hal buruk tersebut . Ya walaupun ada enaknya jadi manusia, saya tetap tidak punya anak. ( Indonesia language)

We should normalize asking people why they DO want children rather than asking them why they do not.

being childfree is so GREAT!!!!

Division of labor is normal in a market economy. Child care also creates employmemt. Having said that my wife was adamant not to leave our kids with a stranger. Some women of Somali origin are raising an amazing number of kids in our quarter and they take turns looking after all of them on the playground, for example. The older children also help look after the younger ones. I like this model except that the dads are not involved at all. There are lots of possibilities.

To each their own, I knew by age 4 I wasn’t having kids, I am 42 zero regrets.

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I experience many moments of gratitude as well! whenever I’m having a hard time, I think about how much harder it would be with kids, and it helps bring gratitude into my day and into what I’m doing. I appreciate you guys so much for putting out child-free content. it makes ME feel seen in this world of families with children and societal pressure to conform to this standard. I see your haters posting comments all the time, and I feel sorry for those people. thank you for this much-needed content.

Many people act like it's a virtue to add more challenges and complexities to our life, but you really just don't have to if you don't desire to. It's really not necessary to live a fulfilling and purposeful life.

Gheez. Not a good look. I wouldn’t be 1) eavesdropping and then 2) bragging about your “child free choice.”

Your DNA will stop with you, as well as, all your ancestors who had to come together to make you, that’s a sad truth. Everyone can do what they want, but 65 comes quick then it’s too late.

What about not leaving your child with a stranger and parenting their own children

Move to Scotland. You’ll be delighted by how much we DON’T CARE whether other adults have kids or not. More and more of us are childfree and just accept each others choices. I’ve never experienced any condemnation or expectation from other people around my status as a non parent. I am surprised by how much Americans seem to care about it and wonder if it is to do with the lack of a social safety net in America?

When they're defensive without warrant, it's probably a little bad, lol...#teamCHILDFREE

Most of us are not the Roosevelt's for God's sake. I think these are just lines people continue to say because they are essentially parrots.

I’m a single mom and I support ALL women who don’t want kids. I was blessed to have a home, job and decent income + I traveled to 6 countries before I was a mom. Many don’t have that opportunity so I’m rooting for child free moms once you have the kids the focus is more on them unless on you. I have been suicidal many times, but my kid gives me a purpose.

I’m a single mom and I support ALL women who don’t want kids. I was blessed to have a home, job and decent income + I traveled to 6 countries before I was a mom. Many don’t have that opportunity so I’m rooting for child free moms once you have the kids the focus is more on them unless on you. I have been suicidal many times, but my kid gives me a purpose.

From HER experience not mine. Parenthood is just a living Hell to me.

Reverse the but: say kids are great but nah. Maybe its still part of that trap, i don't know.

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I never say that I respect parents because all they did was have unprotected intercourse! A lot of them are so insufferably dense too! Their poor children don’t stand a chance!

so true I feel like I have to explain how i still like kids. Just because we are childfree does not mean we do not like kids. I know that goes for some people because there are those who do not like children.