Mr Jay:  Relationship & Trauma Practitioner
Mr Jay:  Relationship & Trauma Practitioner
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Your Daily Dose of Vitamin Jay on Questions
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Відео

Your Daily Dose of Vitamin Jay: You Are A Casualty of Your Partners (Internal) War.
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Surviving Trauma
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Mr. Jay (Trauma Coach) www.MrJayRelationshipCoach.com here to give you your weekly dose of Vitamin Jay on surviving trauma Please share this with others and Quickly tap Subscribe to ensure you do not miss any weekly doses of Vitamin Jay *Please share this with someone who may need to hear it." Thank you
Your Daily Dose of Vitamin Jay on Acknowledgement
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Your Daily Dose of Vitamin Jay on Lost Info
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Your Daily Dose of Vitamin Jay: Love Your Every Emotion
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Your Daily Dose of Vitamin Jay: 3 Critical Musts After Dday
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Your Daily Dose of Vitamin Jay: My Best Friend
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Your Daily Dose of Vitamin Jay on Attachment Styles
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Your Daily Dose of Vitamin Jay on Affair-proofing Your Marriage
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Your Daily Dose of Vitamin Jay on Affair-proofing Your Marriage
Your Daily Dose of Vitamin on Mountain Climbing
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Your Daily Dose of Vitamin on Mountain Climbing
Your Daily Dose of Vitamin Jay on Acknowledging Forwards
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Your Daily Dose of Vitamin Jay on Acknowledging Forwards
Your Daily Dose of Vitamin Jay: Somatic Movement
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Your Daily Dose of Vitamin Jay: Somatic Movement
Your Daily Dose of Vitamin Jay on Definitions
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Your Daily Dose of Vitamin Jay on Definitions
Your Daily Dose of Vitamin Jay on Healing 4 U
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Your Daily Dose of Vitamin Jay on Healing 4 U
Your Daily Dose of Vitamin Jay on Boundaries
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Your Daily Dose of Vitamin Jay on Boundaries
Your Daily Dose of Vitamin Jay: 3 Reasons We Forget Affair Details
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Your Daily Dose of Vitamin Jay: 3 Reasons We Forget Affair Details
Adulting After Trauma
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Adulting After Trauma
Your Daily Dose of Vitamin Jay on Strengths
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Your Daily Dose of Vitamin Jay on Strengths
Your Daily Dose of Vitamin Jay on Limbo
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Your Daily Dose of Vitamin Jay on Limbo
Your Daily Dose of Vitamin Jay: Trust But Verify
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Your Daily Dose of Vitamin Jay: Trust But Verify
Your Daily Dose of Vitamin Jay: There’s A Stranger In My House
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Your Daily Dose of Vitamin Jay: There’s A Stranger In My House
Your Daily Dose of Vitamin Jay on Intentions
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Your Daily Dose of Vitamin Jay on Intentions
Your Daily Dose of Vitamin Jay on Negative Growth
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Your Daily Dose of Vitamin Jay on Negative Growth
Your Daily Dose of Vitamin Jay: What Do You Ideally Want?
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Your Daily Dose of Vitamin Jay: What Do You Ideally Want?
Your Daily Dose of Vitamin Jay on True North
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Your Daily Dose of Vitamin Jay on True North
Your Daily Dose of Vitamin Jay on Kicking Your Triggers A$$
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Your Daily Dose of Vitamin Jay on Kicking Your Triggers A$$
Your Daily Dose of Vitamin Jay: Your Inner Dialogue
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Your Daily Dose of Vitamin Jay: Your Inner Dialogue
Your Daily Dose of Vitamin Jay on Shrinking Your World
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Your Daily Dose of Vitamin Jay on Shrinking Your World
Your Daily Dose of Vitamin Jay on Stealing Consent
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Your Daily Dose of Vitamin Jay on Stealing Consent

КОМЕНТАРІ

  • @Elize-i5t
    @Elize-i5t 13 годин тому

    Im a nurse. Very proud. And dont like lyers and cheeters. When you proud on yourself, you never played with others heart. Im also liked to learned. And worked hard to completed all my tasked. Thankyou for your daily vitamins. ❤

  • @wm7929
    @wm7929 19 годин тому

    This is a good video. After my wife's cheating, I've come to see divorce as a very natural and inevitable result of cheating and it doesn't really feel negative. I still have some sadness now and then but that's the grief that I expect will be there for a very long time.

  • @Deb10729
    @Deb10729 20 годин тому

    👏🏾👏🏾

  • @mac-ju5ot
    @mac-ju5ot 22 години тому

    I never trusted the ex bosses wife and yes a causality if war .......he'd go for everyone's throat if threatened. All the newest I terns that learned in his vet clinic had no idea how many people got burned .let's put this way someone's living in public housing while they just a almost two hundred million dollar home

  • @Elize-i5t
    @Elize-i5t День тому

    Sir Jay, you have beautiful eyes and calm voice. Did you speek with your wife also with this beautiful voice?

  • @MarilynMike
    @MarilynMike 2 дні тому

    Such important tools. Thank you Dr. J. Especially the part about letting myself feel sad, etc. And realizing that right now i am safe in my house and i can feel Gods peace surround me.

  • @janineplamondon8893
    @janineplamondon8893 2 дні тому

    I’m so grateful to see you here on your own platform Mr. Jay! Thank you for doing what you do

  • @Elize-i5t
    @Elize-i5t 3 дні тому

    Thankyou Mr Ray. Your voice are so calming. Im did not have a fair. No problems.

  • @Deb10729
    @Deb10729 4 дні тому

    Totally relate to this I just stopped talking and now I just talk to my therapist and wait for him to heal and maybe someday he will want to talk and heal.

  • @MarkSummers-g2n
    @MarkSummers-g2n 4 дні тому

    Wrong

  • @Elize-i5t
    @Elize-i5t 5 днів тому

    Thankyou for your friendship. Im alone. And im enjoy your Daly dose of vitamins.😂

  • @Elize-i5t
    @Elize-i5t 5 днів тому

    Thankyou for your friendship. Im alone. And im enjoy your Daly dose of vitamins.😂

  • @Deb10729
    @Deb10729 5 днів тому

    This is good I felt this 👏🏾👏🏾

  • @Elize-i5t
    @Elize-i5t 7 днів тому

    Sorry, maraiges.

  • @Elize-i5t
    @Elize-i5t 7 днів тому

    Protecting come 100%. From husband and wife. The thing they said, a relationship are 50%. Nonsens. In marriage and relationship are 100%.

  • @Elize-i5t
    @Elize-i5t 7 днів тому

    Protecting come 100%. From husband and wife. The thing they said, a relationship are 50%. Nonsens. In marriage and relationship are 100%.

  • @marycaruso6096
    @marycaruso6096 7 днів тому

    John dinoi

  • @Elize-i5t
    @Elize-i5t 8 днів тому

    5 months ago. Im great him for the last time. Im give him a hug and a kiss. 😢

  • @Elize-i5t
    @Elize-i5t 8 днів тому

    My husband passaway on the 25th April 2024. For me, it's very hard. He have had bone canser. The last 15 monts im nurse him. Im care him. Im change his navy's and give him a urine bottel. Im try to ceap his pride for him. When he fall, the bone broken easy. He have (im hope the spelling are correct. )He have Mastasis bone cancer. He was on morfine and he stil feel the pain. Im have the best Dr in my town. Im from South-Africa. Good night.

  • @burst_ch.
    @burst_ch. 10 днів тому

    Trickle truth comes the most from those that can handle accountability the least.

  • @mac-ju5ot
    @mac-ju5ot 10 днів тому

    They are no longer on my life..... They acted abd said things that let me known w how little they cared

  • @Surfsup448
    @Surfsup448 12 днів тому

    That’s a beautiful place! Thanks for all you do ! Love it ❤

  • @donnasimmons2241
    @donnasimmons2241 12 днів тому

    Why would you want to look at their heart? You said it yourself, if they really love you, they wont hurt you. You can analyze all you want and it will not justify cheating behavior. Betrayal is the devils weapon to ruin marriages. If a spouse chooses that more than once they have chosen to do evil regardless of how much it hurts their spouse. No thank you to any of that. I can forgive as I walk away. Hopefully I can create a better future with an honest person. Trust is everything.

  • @DvO82
    @DvO82 13 днів тому

    🙏🏻

  • @Elize-i5t
    @Elize-i5t 13 днів тому

    Im a old lady. 73 years old.

  • @Elize-i5t
    @Elize-i5t 13 днів тому

    Good morning sir. Can im help you?

  • @Elize-i5t
    @Elize-i5t 13 днів тому

    Im a widowed 😢

  • @10stephenrose
    @10stephenrose 18 днів тому

    Ed-in-burr-ah

  • @lindseyferguson2739
    @lindseyferguson2739 18 днів тому

    Lovely pronunciation!

  • @blackaj69
    @blackaj69 18 днів тому

    Been following your videos for sometime. Hope you enjoy Scotland. If you are passing through Glasgow would be good to say hello to you in person. Enjoy your holiday.

  • @bittehiereinfugen7723
    @bittehiereinfugen7723 20 днів тому

    Is it possible that smiling and lots of contact with people you can help yourself can help get your brain back on track? When everything came out for us, I was housebound for a year due to illness (herniated disc) and my brain had all the time in the world to focus on this topic for months. It was terrible. After my recovery, I didn't really make any progress until I started a new job. I now work as a nurse in a refugee camp and I love it with all my heart. And it's really good for me to work there, even if it's sometimes dangerous. But that's probably another point that's good for me: I know that we look after each other there and I've already seen how quickly the security colleagues were there and protected me when it was necessary. Phew, now that I'm writing this I realize that it's the appreciation I experience there from colleagues and patients every day that heals my soul. Have a wonderful holiday to you and your family, enjoy your stay in Europe!

  • @Deb10729
    @Deb10729 22 дні тому

    Wow. Mr Jay this is exactly what my husband needs to hear .

  • @donnasimmons2241
    @donnasimmons2241 24 дні тому

    I think the details should be given concerning the betrayal because if not, there will be sugar-coating the truth with as minimal facts as possible. Rather be devastated with the whole truth than soothed with a bunch of half-truths that do not accurately describe the degree of betrayal. The cheater should not get to skim over the ugly parts for his benefit as to not make him look so bad.

  • @evandegenfelder4554
    @evandegenfelder4554 24 дні тому

    Just a couple of days after D-day was the absolute worst for me. I asked where on the computer did he hide his porn, because I just KNEW.... I was bawling, tears streaming down my face and he stood there and lied right to me: "Oh, no, no, I don't have any porn hidden anywhere". Only to find out a few days later when he finally STOPPED lying and handed me a jump drive and said, "I've erased it all, I promise". That he could lie right to my face. . . .it was incomprehensible to me, then and even now, nearly one year later. He said he was afraid of hurting me. That's laughable. He was afraid for himself. Every time I hear Rod Stewart's song "Reason to Believe" I can't help but weep. "Knowing that you lied, straight faced while I cried..."

    • @BetrayalTraumaPractitioner
      @BetrayalTraumaPractitioner 18 днів тому

      @@evandegenfelder4554 Unfortunately that is so common. For what it’s worth there’s a lot of shame and embarrassment around porn. For as much as I would have loved him to be honest, I can understand his discomfort and shame. Porn is a coping mechanism.

  • @jacquelines.5083
    @jacquelines.5083 24 дні тому

    Thank you, needed this!

  • @jodi-bethfelton3696
    @jodi-bethfelton3696 28 днів тому

    Wonderful ❤

  • @winterroses2020
    @winterroses2020 28 днів тому

    The problem is that there are people making toxic choices and think that their loved one who is trying to hold a boundary is actually a person with a hammer wrecking the bridge. There are people who believe that if you do not behave in codependent or enmeshed ways, then they have been “betrayed.”

  • @winterroses2020
    @winterroses2020 28 днів тому

    Pep* talk

  • @don66hotrod94
    @don66hotrod94 29 днів тому

    As Pink Floyd famously said, "I have become comfortably numb."

  • @pleadfive658
    @pleadfive658 29 днів тому

    Wow. Thats totally how i feel right now. 3 yrs after d day!

  • @Elize-i5t
    @Elize-i5t Місяць тому

    Im cant walk. Im not a English women. Im South-Africa girl.

  • @Elize-i5t
    @Elize-i5t Місяць тому

    Good ninght

  • @Elize-i5t
    @Elize-i5t Місяць тому

    Good night.

  • @learning2fly504
    @learning2fly504 Місяць тому

    One of my best videos I’ve watched. My biggest shown emotion is anger.

  • @levmoses742
    @levmoses742 Місяць тому

    ❤ Needed this a year ago!! Grateful for it now.

  • @Deb10729
    @Deb10729 Місяць тому

    So true we have the strength to stop it and say that is not going to steal my joy it is not worth my thoughts and lord we got this . I know easier said that’s why there is practioners to educate us on how to overcome.

  • @relaystationtoo
    @relaystationtoo Місяць тому

    OMG, thank you... I've been trying to figure out every single thing that is wrong with me and the good Lord knows I'm far from perfect. But during this time of trying to figure out the why and what he had that I didn't, etc., hearing so much negative from my wife, I cannot seem to fix me. But thank you for this.

  • @LetsTravelThroughTime
    @LetsTravelThroughTime Місяць тому

    This guy talking about positive comminication techniques whilat being unable to build a following via communication is incredibly funny 😂😂😂 keep spending on ads boy!!! Youll need em...

  • @fairyliciousa275
    @fairyliciousa275 Місяць тому

    I love your vids! I wish the beach was a safe place for me. Its actually a huge trigger now. Him and the AP went a lot. We can’t even go there as a family.

    • @BetrayalTraumaPractitioner
      @BetrayalTraumaPractitioner Місяць тому

      @@fairyliciousa275 You may eventually with a lot of work. But it must be specific and consistent.

  • @charlestaylor6079
    @charlestaylor6079 Місяць тому

    Facts