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Extraordinary conversation.

God doesn't have a dark hand!

I think it's so hot their is no better sex than with your own mom

You are amazing for having come through this.

So helpful n inspiring.

1:03:38 if thought makes you feel bad, don't believe it 1:06:08 take action on inspiration 1:10:10 purpose of friendships is to bring you energy

36:37 we create parts to suppress things we knew 36:53 the ego undermines our growth and discourages us 37:20 that part may be coming from inner child thinking 46:30 doubt and questions before taking leap 46:52 thought something disastrous would happen 47:33 when you have fear, it may mean you're on the right track 47:53 ego tries to keep us small and safe to steer us away from authenticity 53:23 when panic happens you can know you're on the road 58:09 if it really feels bad it's not true

4:33 Lindsay 5:41 internal voice 6:37 i had a vision 13:05 dont let rational mind figure out your purpose 13:42 purpose is intuitive, emotional 14:12 opportunities that give you energy 16:34 when we get on the path of our purpose we may feel fear 22:56 flip the dial and listen 25:43 purpose is remembering something that was in us all along and having emotional visceral experience 27:11 part of purpose is to work with people who have had your experiences 27:43 child prodigies', inventors', geniuses' purpose is to pay attention to their thoughts 31:15 your energy will rise when finding things related to purpose 31:41 interested and fascinated

Exceptional! This just summarized and clarified a handful of my inner concerns and showed a way out.

UNBELIEVABLY HELPFUL!!!!! THANKYOU SOOOO MUCH❤

When an emotionally immature parent projects trauma and stress on baby and young children, the children respond with confusion and terror. The parent interprets it as rebellion, naughtiness, meanness, disrespect, ungratefulness, and punishes the child for receiving projected stress. The parent’s unregulated emotions caused the behavior and the child needed a calm parent. Child can have no needs.

Fantastic video, bravo!!!

I have listened to 100s of videos over the years and this one is now under a new playlist: THE VERY BEST VIDEO EVER 😂 Needless to say, thank you both so much. It is what I needed to hear today to keep on going on my path. ❤

This needs to be spoken of. My mother was both verbally and sexually abusive to me. At 61, I can talk about this with some ease but that was not always the case. My entire childhood was filled with incidents and madness. While I am not currently writing on this now, It has been my plan to tell me full story in a way that I hope would help others.

Why didn't I find this channel before..great content, great host and guests...it deserves more views, more subs!

My mother abused all the boys in our family and any boys that visited our home back in the later 70's.... I was the only girl and completely ignored and mentally abused to keep me away from knowing anything I believe. At least wo family members entire lives ruined by her actions ....

This is a big subject that people don’t understand and don’t want to. I’ve spoken to two different behavioral health professionals recently, one a psychiatrist, that won’t even talk about or touch the subject. You bring it up and they just change the subject like nothing was said. It won’t change because the world doesn’t want it to exist.

Thanks. Helps me

Wait a minute did she say she was 20, married and let her father screw her but it wasnt her fault, all on him? Really?

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Aime I heard you say you went to 14 schools growing up and you have rheumatoid arthritis… I went to 13 schools and was diagnosed at age 28 w RA. I’ve done a lot of inner work and what was true for me is that , while I I was not permitted to complain about moving bc that would upset my mother, I swallowed the anger and now it’s no surprise that I feel the pain of moving w every step…

Psychopathy can be summed into two words: Brain damage. It's huge damages of the insula, prefrontal cortrex, the right frontal lobe, amygdala and the hipocampus.

Turn your phone off or on airplane mode when you go to bed. No one and nothing disturbs....people figure it out and the world will not end.

Dangerous are the ones who don t dirt their own hands but mask & use others (includindtheir own chidren like a cult) to do the work. & they literally destroy lives.

34 year old woman here, 10 years since going low contact with family of origin. I remember this one key moment that kind of opened my eyes to the fact that I was likely experiencing enmeshment trauma, even though I wouldn't have the words for it until years later. Backstory: I was depressed and suicidal though all of middle school and high school, but I tried to hide it as best as I could because my mom was MUCH more openly depressed and anxious. Like, coming home from work every day crying and just looking dead in the eyes, and the only thing that would put a smile on her face was her kids (all late teens early twenties) hugging her, holding her hand, or sitting on her lap. (if our dad ever gave her this type of attention, she would shoo him away with a disgusted look on her face.) I had a really hard time choosing a college because honestly, I didn't want to go to college, I didn't want to do anything, I just wanted to die. I ended up choosing the college that was the cheapest, closest, and safest. I didn't actually want to go there. Anyway, at the end of my first semester of college, my parents insisted that my siblings and I go on the Birthright trip to Israel (it's fully sponsored 10 day trip for those of Jewish lineage). I was SUPER against it. But they forced me to go, so I went. Long story short, I felt inspired for the first time in literally years, and I researched volunteer programs designed for young people who want to spend time in Israel. One day a few weeks after the trip, I approached my parents and sat them down to tell them that I wanted to put my college education on hold for one semester and go volunteer in Israel. I could see so much bright potential for the things I would see and the people I would meet that would give me a better idea of what I ACTUALLY wanted to study, since my current major was something I didn't actually care about (and no, it wasn't even a lucrative major) My mom's response: tears. Heartbreak. The look that someone gives you if you just tell them somebody you love died, or is breaking up with you. She was distraught. And I changed my mind instantly. I didn't go. This moment caused me to being to realize 2 big patterns with my mom that had been occurring all my life: 1. Rather than being parented with the idea of "what should I do to grow into a confident, good, actualized person?" I was being parentsed with the idea is "what should I do in order to make mom feel less sad?" 2. If I do something (a certain job, experience, etc) at the request of mom, the only "takeaways" I am permitted to get from said experience are the ones that she deems appropriate. Basically, I realized that my entire life was being emotionally policed. We know that it is normal for parents to be upset with their children's choices and scold them at times. What most people don't realize is that to a developing young person, there is a HUGE difference between "Do this because it will make you into a better person" and "Do this because it will make mommy feel validated." I strongly believe that familial enmeshment is one of the biggest and most discreet causes of mental illness. Let's spread the word and teach the terminology. The best we can do is make sure future parents know what enmeshment looks like and catch themselves before it is too late.

This totally makes sense for a recent family thing with my sister. She was calling up to 4x a week with issues in her personal life that needed big help, of course i wanted to be there for her so i was making a sincere attempt at doing so. However, the problems weren't being resolved and i realized late at night with another of those calls that things were unhealthy in several ways. When i approached the idea of all that and said it needed to stop i got a very negative, lash out, gaslighting response. It was pretty bad and it's been challenging for me ever since because i realize it's been an issue for a long time and i needed to have more self protection from now on. All of this is why I've been more diligent now with the "beedtime" mode on my phone lol, I've turned it off for small time periods in the past or felt i didn't need it on weekends and now i have it so it's on every night so this doesn't happen. Texts and phone calls are delayed or turned over to voicemail and that is helpful.

Hello, great content ! BTw, also wanted to mention that the music in this video was a bit distracting to me. Thank you

I wish Lindsay got more time to talk. I feel like the host talked most of the time.

HOPEFULLY NON legal reproductive incest will be LEGALIZED in the ENTIRE world SERIOUSLY

Couple of points: Aimee - my mother just like yours with the clothes and never did, even now and I am 62 see me for who I am and not who she wants me to be. Ms Rutherford - my father was happy to hand over my mother to me to deal with her instead of him being under her microscope. He betrayed me this way by never supporting me when she was after me for one thing or another because he was glad she was after me and not him. He is a co-dependent enabler. She is borderline with narcissistic and histrionic traits and I suffered a great deal in my life before I figured out what was going on.

A very controversial for discussion some people are traumatized some people accept it as a way of life I'm in the middle I don't know what to say I am speechless

I grew up with my parents never validating me in any way. I was never told or taught who I am. I am still working on being able to know who I am or what I even stand for.....once when I was in my high twenty's, I was totally lost. I was going to community college at the time trying to figure out what I wanted to do with my life, I called my parents and made up a story - that as an assignment for a class, I needed for them to tell me 5 good things or nice attributes of my personality. They both sort of hmmmd and haaa'd and didn't give me an answer......then changed the subject....I was sobbing...just realizing that they couldn't even give me that.....we hung up and I went out to go party the night away....again....

This is exactly how I feel and now having this concept to finally apply to my lifelong inability to connect on deep emotional levels with anyone, brings me so much clarity. But I'm still wondering how to rise above

You look like an angry 😠 female.

I broken man hater.

You need to shut up for a min

I recreantly bought two of Orlov's book- the one you cited. We are pretty sure that my 78-year-old husband has ADHD along with cognitive decline. Yes, we had a hyper-focused courtship!! Until recently I was ignorant about ADHD and have been tearing my hair out the past 10 or so years. These books have been game changers for me. He does get hyper focused in the things he is interested in. Little executive function, HIGH IMPULSIVITY, disorganized etc. as DISCUSSED. His son had the hyperactivity as a child, sleep deprived, distractibility and defensive. I NEED to understand how to eventually get better? I am the CLASSIC non-ADHD spouse. I am super-organized and need to have a tidy and organized life, and so, I respond in anger, frustration, stress and resentment and I definitely took on a parenting role. My therapist calls this "learned helplessness."

I loved it and thought it was normal.

This is sick. I think my husband was abused by his mom

Why can’t nonprofits lobby against laws?

I'm so interested in what Lindsay has to say but Amee keeps talking.

What a close family, how they come together is inspiring.

In my childhood my friend had sex with his mother all the time his father was killed in the war at Pearl harbor so his mother sat down and talked with him and he decided to go through with it we were in early teens he literally come back and tell us about his adventure with Mommy it was all very interesting but he grew up okay he had no Hangouts his mother was very beautiful and we kind of called the dude lucky to be in a relationship he had with his mother

I am a 58 year old I guess survivor of father daughter incest. This is only the second time I have ever heard anyone talk abought abuse continuing into adulthood. I have no relationships with others at all because I talked abought that part of abuse. I don't trust therapists anymore. I have no faith in humanity at all. I was also exposed to violence toward my mother until I was . Stalking and random middle of the night attacks from my father caused separate trauma damage and reactions. I never functioned as an adult or was able to work. Now I am homeless and so angry because therapy didn't help and the law supported him. He died a year ago and disinherited me for not allowing him to continue to abuse me any longer. Just wish I could talk to another human being who might understand and help me understand why I couldn't protect the adult me?

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THANK YOU SO MUCH for this deep, rich, extremely useful and detailed podcast - you have both added many bricks inside my inner home and in dealing with my EI mother - I haven’t found this type of specific help anywhere else thanks 🙏 thanks 🙏

THANK YOU SO VERY MUCH FOR THIS 🎁 It’s an extremely useful interview for my healing journey from an emotionally immature mother! And being kind of an introvert, I finally found my life answer in this interview: that my community can be one person, my dog it a bunch of books - I am sooo relieved now, I can stop striving to have something that doesn’t reflect with who I am! THANK YOU 🙏

Now i need therapy because i have been exposed to this. Good work guys. Somebody had to do it.

All i can say about this right now is oh my God! I recently reported a situation like this just to be totally victimized like a dog. They were literally told two consenting adults can do whatever they want in their room even if it is mom and son. Felt like aggravated assault and trauma to me.

Not a beautiful thing. Not the boys fault if he enjoys it for sex is supposed to be enjoyable but not with parents. So disgusting and traumatizing.