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Raw Parenting Podcast
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Growing as parents through deep, real conversations to raise better kids.
Tom and Malorie here. A married couple who have two (soon to be three) beautiful children. We are parents that are trying protect our children's innocents, build their self esteem and make sure they are resilient in direction that this world is headed.
If you are feeling the same way, or you are on your way to parenthood, this is the place for you. This is where we speak the unfiltered truth and provide the nitty-gritty stories, experiences, and information about parenting. Come check us out every other Wednesday - where we discuss what new parents need to hear and what current parents can relate to.
You can also find us on Instagram, Spotify, Facebook, Apple Podcast, and Twitter.
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Tom and Malorie here. A married couple who have two (soon to be three) beautiful children. We are parents that are trying protect our children's innocents, build their self esteem and make sure they are resilient in direction that this world is headed.
If you are feeling the same way, or you are on your way to parenthood, this is the place for you. This is where we speak the unfiltered truth and provide the nitty-gritty stories, experiences, and information about parenting. Come check us out every other Wednesday - where we discuss what new parents need to hear and what current parents can relate to.
You can also find us on Instagram, Spotify, Facebook, Apple Podcast, and Twitter.
Visit our website and sign up for our newsletter - www.rawparentingpodcast.com
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Is Homeschooling The Ultimate Choice? #27
Homeschooling has been a hot topic between us so today we will discuss whether or not to put our kids into homeschooling or the public education. Furthermore, we will be talking about the goods and bads of public education and homeschool. Whether is it a good idea to teach our children through the hands of ourselves or trust that the public education will give them what they need to survive in this ever changing world. Stay tuned for this episode of the Raw Parenting Podcast!
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Welcome to the Raw Parenting Podcast with Tom and Malorie! Tune in every other Wednesday for our latest episodes.
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What happened to Canada...#26
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It is no surprise to the world that our Prime Minister Justin Trudeau has officially stepped down as the leader of Canada. This has been a long time coming to many Canadians here in the Northern Region. In today's episode we will are opening up about what it's been like for the last several years and what has potentially lead to Trudeau stepping down. How are Canadian families really feeling ab...
2024: The Year We Learned Our Biggest And Toughest Lesson #25
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As 2025 approaches, Tom and Mal reflect on the trials, errors, lessons, and mistakes they endured in 2024. It was a big year for these young parents of two as they navigated the challenges of raising two children, faced unexpected events that came their way, and now prepare for the arrival of child #3?! Are they ready for 2025? Have the lessons of 2024 prepared them to take on the next year? An...
Modern Christmas Vs Old Christmas - Which is Better? Giveaway Winner Announced!! #24
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Modern Christmas Vs Old Christmas - Which is Better? Giveaway Winner Announced!! #24
Must have children's book for ages 1-3 #23
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Must have children's book for ages 1-3 #23
watch this if you want to fall in love in 2025 part II #22
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watch this if you want to fall in love in 2025 part II #22
How Your Child's Cartoon Choices Impact Their Behaviour #21
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How Your Child's Cartoon Choices Impact Their Behaviour #21
watch this to find your true love #20
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watch this to find your true love #20
Can chatgpt make our marriage better...? #19
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Can chatgpt make our marriage better...? #19
How we faced our parenting burnouts and what we have learned. #18
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How we faced our parenting burnouts and what we have learned. #18
Is Your Past Holding You Back from Being the Parent You Want to Be? #17
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Is Your Past Holding You Back from Being the Parent You Want to Be? #17
What we have learned about Parent's Gut Feeling #16
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What we have learned about Parent's Gut Feeling #16
How we dealt with our child's rash and what've we learned #15
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How we dealt with our child's rash and what've we learned #15
Things our kids eat will blow your mind...#13
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Things our kids eat will blow your mind...#13
Common parenting guilt and how we deal with them #11
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Common parenting guilt and how we deal with them #11
how we made it to our 10th podcast #10
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Training your Baby to Sleep 10+ HOURS Every Night #9
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Training your Baby to Sleep 10 HOURS Every Night #9
Lovers to Roommates: Overcoming Post-Childbirth Challenges #8
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Lovers to Roommates: Overcoming Post-Childbirth Challenges #8
Newborn’s First 3 Months: what we should've done #7
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Newborn’s First 3 Months: what we should've done #7
Introducing Your Newborn to Pets and Siblings: Tips for a SMOOTH Transition #6
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Introducing Your Newborn to Pets and Siblings: Tips for a SMOOTH Transition #6
Debunking Pregnancy Myths: Facts Every Expecting Parent Should Know #5
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Debunking Pregnancy Myths: Facts Every Expecting Parent Should Know #5
Preparing for Labor: Expert Advice for Expecting Moms and Dads #4
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Preparing for Labor: Expert Advice for Expecting Moms and Dads #4
Post-Birth Hospital Experience: What New Parents Need to Know #3
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Post-Birth Hospital Experience: What New Parents Need to Know #3
Induction vs. Natural Birth: Pros, Cons, and What to Expect #2
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Induction vs. Natural Birth: Pros, Cons, and What to Expect #2
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what we should've packed in our hospital bag for our first born #1
Welcome to the Raw Parenting Podcast - Trailer
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Welcome to the Raw Parenting Podcast - Trailer
What if your child is very intelligent, how would they qualify for a scholarship if they are not in a school setting?
@@tracyknopp5454 great question! I believe you would still have to use a government program base of some sort. You are still teaching them what they need to know and they would still have to test and such. It would be strange if homeschool kids were exempt from scholarships. But thank you for asking! Definitely something we didnt think about and will for sure look into!
Listening further, yes it is hard to flip a switch and be the teacher. But you are smart enough, and you can do it! There are tons of resources out there to help guide you! Getting started and setting a routine is probably the hardest part. (If you want a routine) As far as socializing, there are tons of other ways to do that within arts and sports as well as other moms and maybe homeschool groups that get together once a week.
@@heatherperry2176 haha, that is a big aspect we fear… being teachers rather then parents. But it kind of goes hand-in-hand doesn’t it? In a way? Thank you for your confidence in us 😂 We have heard good things about the resources out there now available for homeschooling! Phew. It’s crazy how much homeschooling has increased percentage wise over the past several years that is for sure! Thank you for watching our video and your helpful comments!!
I have 4 children and three of them were or are still being homeschooled. My oldest went all the way through and graduated high school at a tech school. My middle two were pulled out around 3-4 grade and then asked to go back to school for high school. One currently is still in high school and the other opted to leave in the 10th grade and finish at home. And my fourth has been homeschooled from the beginning and is currently being homeschooled. My experience has taught me a lot about the different changes a child goes through either in or out of the public school system. I agree with both of you on your stances and appreciate you both discussing this! Personally I have sided with the homeschool avenue. I want my children to be independent thinkers and not be indoctrinated on whatever is going on politically at the time. I find public school is greatly influenced by whatever is going on at the time as far as political movements. For instance with the DEI movement, schools were given funding if they excepted this policy which inherently goes down the line and affects the children. I only know this because I was actually on the board of education for a period of time and this was one of the issues that came up. Now with the current administration that has gone into office, this DEI policy that was excepted now has to be replaced because it doesn’t follow the current administrations ideals. So all of the children that were raised in the public school system with this policy in place have a different view than those who will not have this policy in place. It’s sad that instead of school focusing on education, they focus on indoctrination. I feel if you can and have the means to do so then one should opt to raise their child in the family setting and not the school setting. Unfortunately I know that not many people can do that due to both parents having to work.
@@heatherperry2176 wow Heather, thank you so much for your comment! Thank you for all the valuable information and confirming our thoughts on the whole thing. It’s nice to know that you have factual information regarding how the school district makes decisions. We completely agree that schooling has nothing to do with actual education but rather enforcing their own agendas onto our kids and it is pretty startling. We should be raising independent children just like you said. We just feel like it’s nothing but raising sheep - as we like to put it haha. It’s nice to hear that you have the same mindset and we aren’t over thinking this whole thing to much. Thank you for sharing your story with us, it truly means a lot!
I like the "looking forward to" or "small goals" versus resolutions. This year I'm looking forward to/small goal of doing more outside activities!
we hope all your dreams come true in 2025 :)
I enjoyed that. Thank You. So much more could be said and shared although lets try for the greater good to put this nightmare behind us.. He is a dirty person and deserves every thing coming his way. Health and housing.. Blessings to ALL 🙏
@@TamaraGrahamToronto Glad you enjoyed it! You are completely right that there are many more issues that could be said… but we like where your head is at. A brighter future ahead is all that matters now! Thank you for watching 😊 Here is to health, wealth and prosperity!
@RawParentingPodcast and to you as well. 🌹 Every Child Matters. All Lives Matter OneLOVE 🙏🐾💙🌬
@@TamaraGrahamToronto amen.
You could do a "survey" of lots of people's traditions, and keep your favourite ones for your family! We play that "head-bands" game with the paper hats you get in Christmas crackers every year
@@FlanHummus-cu9kl that is a great idea! Need to hear more about this “head-bands” game 🤣
Never use the words "try this" we go with here is dinner .... what is it? Dinner..... so far only thing she flat out didn't like was turnip but wasn't a great turnip to start lol
@@trentt4618 this is GREAT advice!!! thanks for sharing. We will definitely try saying that instead haha and avoid turnips 😂
A grower (not a shower) person, what an elegant concept!
@@FlanHummus-cu9kl Haha! Malorie isn’t always classy haha 😂
You guys a weirdos
and happy to be 😊 thanks for the comment!
Mini golf is the number 1 first date! Never fails!
@@FlanHummus-cu9kl couldn’t agree more!
What do you think about how much more advanced televisions have become in the last 30 years. Do you think a boxy, fuzzy, 48in 90s TV was less stimulating than a 60in 4K OLED TV?
great question as technology gets more advanced TVs are becoming more real life every few years, in my opinion even a 48in 90s TV would be less stimulating than TVs now. Fun fact TVs in the 50s/60s are called boob tube because boob was an old slang for someone who is simpleminded. The idea of "boob tube" is a form of entertainment for those who are unintelligent. I like TV im a TV watcher as well but too much can eat away at your mind.
Cool picture! If you're still in contact with that other person, you should re-create it, where the other person is the jealous one this time!
Haha that would be a fun idea!
I needed to hear this, thanks guys! Awesome video!
@@teaguepokarney7388 so glad you liked it! You’ll find someone when the time is right.
The sword analogy was awesome! Anyone that wants to feel tough (whether they are or not), can be comforted by the fact that they are a sword in progress
As sharp as a sword doesn't that sound good??
Great podcast, guys!
Thanks for listening and glad you enjoyed it!!
The fact that you did Ferber/ Cry it out with your kids, it's fine. Sleep training is for the parents. Even you say that ("the bags had to go"). But saying that you'll give good advice and then say that "you should force the baby to take the pacifier and if they don't put a towel to block it" is wild. Babies have a natural reflex to throw up. So basically you're blocking the way out. And no, that fact that you're watching the naps, doesn't help. There is no indication that baby will throw up. They just do. Also, babies like to move their head. Overall it is a very bad advice. Also the swaddle it is recommended to be used until 8 weeks or until baby gives the first sign of rolling. Rolling can also happen at night. 🚩"we have two different kids so our information is right" is just survival bias. You based your bad information on two kids out of what? That is just info that worked for you.🚩
Hey, thanks for your constructive comment! We obviously did not clarify the soother aspect when we said we used a towel to help hold it in. When we say this we meant that it helped prop up the soother if it started to fall out. At no point did we state that it was forced to stay in. If we had a prop it would mean that our children could easily, on their own, suck it back up without help. Our girls as newborns could barely lift their heads. So yes, babies do like to move their heads but not at such a young age, which is also why it’s recommended to switch the side their heads are laying on during the newborn stage. We appreciate your comment about reflux and completely agree that if you know this about your children then you should be cautious for sure. However, sucking actually helped our girls with this. Overall regarding the soother, it was very clearly mentioned that you can choose other soothing options and we stated this was an unprofessional hack. You are also correct that rolling can happen at any point. Which is why we mentioned that we even stopped swaddling our baby months before she started rolling because we thought she may roll early. It was just mentioned that newborns like to be swaddled because they feel safe. It was never said that you do this for as long as possible, or anything regarding being unsafe. Again, your constructive criticism is welcome but overall, it seems like you are putting words in our mouths. Our information was based on the fact of yes, our two kids who were just completely different newborns. The fact that it worked for both kids regardless, has some weight to it, in our eyes. You are free to disagree.
Sounds similar to a widely used business process: 5 whys analysis, which was originally developed in Japan! Five Whys of your life, very interesting.
@@FlanHummus-cu9kl oh that sounds interesting! Thanks for the information. Will have to look into that!
What do you think of that phrase "it takes a village to raise a child"?
@@FlanHummus-cu9kl Honestly, it couldn’t be more true in our minds. The amount of things you learn, people to talk to, the help you could receive - its valuable!
What about a ceiling fan? Keeps the air moving too, so less muggy
Thats a good idea big fan of the ceiling fan!
At least it wasn't during a picture day or family photos!
hehe that might've won the big Best Picture Award if there ever was one!
Self-defense and martial arts training is such a good idea! It teaches other good values like discipline too. I did it for years
I think the self confidence part of it, is the big yes for us as well!
Great episode. I said I am never going to raise my children the way I was raised…. But never thought why and how do I do that 🤷♀️
It is a lot easier to find guidance and resources than it used to be, that is for sure! Like anything, awareness is the first step!
Hopefully, peanut isn't getting her wide vocabulary from Tom! - "pepperate"
@@FlanHummus-cu9kl HAHA! Don’t worry, I (Malorie) would correct her just as I do Tom 🤣 We have an agreement where I teach the english and he can teach the math.
thank you for all your support!
Hang in there. Love the honesty in raw talk
I definitely have intrusive thoughts too! Mine are usually like what would happen if I.... Of course, I've never acted on them, but I have them regularly!
can you imagine if you did...
I fight with myself every day to be the best I can be. I don’t want my daughters to ever think, “my mom doesn’t love me, she isn’t there for me.” It’s hard but I know that if I’m trying, it’s me being aware and like they say if you’re worried about it you’re doing good because there’s people with children that shouldn’t be parents at all because they really don’t pay attention to their babies
@@carolinag8943 You are absolutely correct! We should be proud of ourselves for having all of these thoughts no matter how uncomfortable they may make us feel. There are so many parents out there that don’t question any of their thoughts and behaviours. Thank you so much for your comment!
Yup #1 helicopter mom right here 😂
It’s realy hard NOT to be! If you’re the woman of course haha 🤣
Interesting how the guilt topic even carried over into the raw talk about father's day. Do you think it's fair to say expectation is a precursor for guilt?
@@FlanHummus-cu9kl oh wow, what an interesting theory. That could definitely be the case although maybe context dependent? In the situation of fathers fay it seems that way for sure 😂 Would love to hear more of your thoughts on that!
Love raw talk
@@tracyknopp5454 Thank you! It is a great way to get stuff off our chest and dive into everyday real stuff. Thanks for your support!
I think the winner of the appreciation battle is....your kids! Bomb-ass parents being thankful and attentive
@@FlanHummus-cu9kl aww way to be neutral haha 😂 but love that
I've heard something along the lines of: "when the baby is sleeping, the parent should be sleeping". How long did this phase last? Were you taking naps in the daylight too?
@@FlanHummus-cu9kl It is a good idea to nap that way for sure 😂 babies nap lots in the newborn phase so at least 3 months! When its your second baby… that theory goes out the window haha!
Yay to 10 episodes 🎉
@@tracyknopp5454 so excited we made it this far and looking forward to our growth in the future! ☺️
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Al tbe best!!!
@@vivianidelacerda9708 Thank you so much!! 🤞 😃
Do you have a love list that lists all the things that show love?
@@FlanHummus-cu9kl haha just a list in the good ol’ mental library 😂
I had no idea about the balding! You definitely need to coin the "reverse cul-de-sac"
@@FlanHummus-cu9kl haha yes we definitely need to do that 🤣
second pregnancy = father holds toddler
What about the pet's jealousy when people come over? Should people acknowledge the pet first or the child first?
It really depends on the household, the kids, and the pets so this is a tricky question but we would say acknowledge whoever comes to you first. If the pet comes to you right away it makes sense to greet them or vice versa. Also depends on what the parents would like too.
There's that scene in Friends where Rachel's water breaks as soon as she and Ross start getting intimate, was that your experience?!
Haha no it did not. Actually, only 11% of women experience water breaking during contractions. TV and movies definitely play into it as if it was super common!
They give oscars for supporting roles, so it totally makes sense that the supporting role in this situation is important too!
Good point! 😂
Wow what a crazy moment with everyone running in the room!!!
It was pretty crazy! All the things you never expect to happen…
I would love to hear about the mental state of you both in the first month of having baby home ❤
Youre in luck! A video just like that will be coming up in the next few weeks! 🥰
Do you have any photos of your swaddling attempts to make us all feel better about our own?
Unfortunately we dont but i can assure you its as bad as i describe it haha
I wonder what Tom's heart rate was during that heart rate monitoring part. Glad everyone is ok!
That would have been really interesting to see 😂
Thrilling bonus story towards the end of the video keep up the great work!!
Thank you for watching!
100% no skid socks. Also a pen - the nurses always walked out with ours and we were meant to be keeping track of feeds and nappies and could never find a pen! 😂😂
Ah yes order yourself a 12 pack pen 😂
Just Subscribe... find your channel helpful now I know what to bring in that day comes...
When you say swimwear, do you think a speedo would be the best option?
Whatever it takes to make you feel empowered I would go for it!