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So actually, I think Rory was even more relatable in the later seasons when she struggled. Most of us do struggle in various ways. It just seems especially apparent when we have obvious advantages - think money or talent or education. But not all of us have that internal strength to allow us to become great people. Most of us are lucky to get to average, or maybe slightly above average. I see Rory in that way. She has advantages, but she is far from perfect.

Why no ones talking about Tristan? 😭😭

If Rory wasn’t as pretty as she is, things would have worked out

I fundamentally disagree with the premise the character was let down by the writers. I think the path they choose was engaging and complex. Not everyone suceeds in life and the fact the writers decided to portray that was a more mature decision than simply a smart girl from a rich family suceeds

Unfortunately, despite her prominence, Rory was never able to settle down.

As a dude this never surprised me, I see women behave like Rory more often than not, whether they have a lot of not. Incapable of being criticized, selfish, mean, egocentric, I mean the list goes on with how A LOT of women behave now a days. Introverted or not, girls now a days just behave exactly like Rory. I see Rory, and I just see another girl doing girl things. Which is unfortunate cause when I was young and the show first came out I thought she was so pretty and cute, with a nerdy side. But just turned out to be another average chick

I was a Rory until I had a burn out Now I am more Lorelai💗

Loralai's childish behavior is annoying as hell. I mean you are 32, act like it.

I have been rory my whole life except having a rich grandparents and being a horrible person.. i used to be soo focused on my ambition and now at the age of 25 years i still haven't completed my degree

wel if you think about it, i know a person who lost her mother very young and people always told her she was so smart and poor of her and tell her evetyrhing you do its okay and perfect, like rory. And as an adult is a very selfish person and only think about her and expect people to tell her shes perfect all the time. Well, in a way its very realistic what the autor did here. I always hate rory´s character since episode 1, i guess i always saw it in some way.

I wish Rory had a better ending but I love the show … it is amazing . But Rory did really mess up in the middle. That is a little bit because of her mom, but we can’t really blame her mom completely. He mom did make a feel a bit too special sometimes and was really the “ scolding “ type of parent . Parents who scold aren’t always bad ! Thats what makes us who we are tdy . She also was selfish from the beginning like what she said . I think everyone has flaws that was fine . And stubbornness also kinda runs through her blood line . What was really annoying though is her insensitivity to other’s feelings especially the boys she dated . I know she came of as a good kinda girl at first but she did not really know how to handle things that well . She did not know who date or what to do !!! Personally I think that she should not have dated when she was 16 . Maybe that was not the right age for her … I don’t blame anyone for the things she did , like her mom and her grandmother etc… Although they are contributing factors it was still her choice . I did not expect the show to be completely perfect where Rory never makes Any mistakes and turns out completely good very successful ( that would be boring ) there were ups and downs but I wish she turned out to be more successful! But In the end she did go back to Yale and kinda got her life back together ( I guess right ? ) so this my opinion! One of my fav shows and my MY FAV CHARACTER IS LORELAI GILMORE ( Rory’s mom not rory 😅)

she became bitch from s 04 and got bitchier season by season😂

Growing up is realizing that Rory Gilmore was occasionally a toxic person. A loveable, but occasionally toxic person. And on an un-related note, Mitchum Huntzberger was right unfortunately in the end regarding her and journalism.

You are wrong. Rory is not a monster. She is a good person going through a difficult life. Growing up with a mother who gave birth to her at sixteen is hard. Especially because she is trying so hard not to be like that. Rory Gilmore is amazing and she is most definitely not fucked up like you are trying to make her out to be. Shut up and maybe try rewatching the show without having a twisted mindset.

thats my life

What could happen other than a downfall? Anyone who is idolized by an entire city as a child will end up hard on the ground as an adult.

the thing is, what happened to rory does happen quite a bit.

hearing that you didn't start highschool until 2016 made me feel really old. i graduated in 2011.

I guess the show is all about the contract between Rory and mother. She did exactly the opposite of what her mom did at every age she turned. Her mom was a baddy teenager, but Rory was the cutest angel. Loreley had a beautiful adult life, she's the real star for me. But Miss Rory sucks.

i just finished the show for the first time and liked that she was kinda floundering in the revival, but i wish they had showed more of her struggle in the original show! maybe i missed the subtleties but it felt like things were ok.. then she’d have one episode of struggling, then right back to being okay. i wanted to see rory struggle and not immediately have her problems solved with money. like one thing i always think about is maybe having her not get into harvard, and having to cope with the fact she couldn’t get into her dream school or smth, but that wouldn’t hinder her future plans!

I couldn't stand her. The time she refused to leave the newspaper office until they hired her... Omg the cringe.

I absolutely loved this essay style video! I'd love to see more like this😁

I'm a couple of years too late but I have watched both this 2005 film and the 1995 miniseries but I prefer the film. In my opinion, the 2005 version has the better acting, better costume, better music, better cinematography, and the emotions better portrayed. It's obviously less true to the book because of the 2hr time constraint compared to the 1995 6hr version. But it's higher quality in everything else.

...and let's not forget, she did sleep with a married man!!!!!

You discuss Rory as if she was a real person. Everything she did was decided by the writers of the show. So you should blame them for bad writing. I think they created a character that does not always live up to peoples' expectations and makes mistakes, has ups and downs in her life, quite a normal human being.

Some people do not have the option used word burnout in the life

Why does Rory look like Roxy from megamind 😂😂😂

If you watch the show like it’s a sitcom without a laugh track the show makes so much more sense.

I cannot understand those writers. They could give her some tiny realistic defects however they ruined the character Rory totally like a trash.

Sounds like you're talking about yourself more than you are about Rory. But anyways....

Nice job with the down fall

She should've made up her mistakes made her life better and learned from it

Yeah she a brat selfish spoiled

This is also one of my favorite films!!! Love it!

tmi but i am already in that burn out stage she faced which made her lose complete motivation.... anybody has any advice how to 'actually bounce back'' maybe y'all faced something similar. would really help me :)

When everyone expects you to be perfect all the time, act like an adult even when you are a teenager, always the one more "adult" among your peers, listen to your mother's problems and start to be a mother to your own mother, when you get older you start to question whether that person is you or not. Like it is really you or its all other peoples expectations. You start to question your motives. Because lets face it, NO kid wants to be that stressed when they are growing up, sometimes you want to mess it up a little bit. If you are not open to make mistakes when you are growing up, it breaks you when you actually make a mistake when you get older. When you were little, you had this idea about life; you were naive but then feel stupid for being naive. That kinda breaks you as a person. I think alsa being a good girl image makes people be more harsh on you when you make mistakes. Everyone gets corrupted a little bit while growing up, but when people look at you with expectations for your whole life, they want you to see a great journalist, or in my case, a great lawyer, but in your inside, you just do not know who you are because of all that studying and suppressing emotions.

I still wonder if Lorelai has undiagnosed ADHD with no supports

I think the writers were saying something deliberate about millennials and about raising kids in a way that coddles. Rory was a spoiled only child. At the same time, she also had massive daddy and abandonment issues, which further contributed to her emotional instability. She was told she had so much promise for so long, too, which is a recipe for a lot of pressure.

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I love love love the show but the first 3 seasons are the best and then Rory starts ruining the show😭

I read a comment on a different video, Rory couldn't take criticism because everyone around her never saw her wrong and acted like if she was god.

I would suggest to any young person (I am still young!) not to identify too much with fictional characters, if at all. Your identity is unique and while the experiences of a character on the small screen may resonate with your own experiences and while you may find yourself or aspects of yourself represented by a character, you are still a person and the character is still a character. You don't obey the same laws of physics, so to say, as the behaviour of the character will always be dictated by the whims of the writers, the conscious or subconscious actin decisions of the actress, the executive meddling, the TV ratings etc. My point is, Rory's character may embody some of your experiences, but crucially she cannot embody all of them and she is not representative of you. Just because Rory crashed doesn't mean you will. Just because she burned out doesn't mean you will. With time you learn to imaginatively adopt the pov of a character rather than identifying with them, but when I was a teen i, like so many others, fell into the trap of drawing conclusions about myself based on fictional depictions. Had I seen Gilmore girls ten years ago when I was Rory's age I would have identified with her no doubt and I would have taken her character arc much more personally. Watching her grow up from a distance makes it clear she was set up to fail by her surroundings by being given all these high expectations. You can see how no character in the age groups of Chris, Lorelei and Jason and Rory and Logan was able to live up to the harsh aristocratic demands of their families. Rory also never was challenged to reflect on her actions as a person because Lorelei, Luke, her grandparents and others never confronted her about her behaviour and always viewed her as this angel child.

If her grandparents didnt get so involved in her life, she would have been so succesful

Rory got all of Lorelai's worst characteristics (her inability to bend, ever, and her extremely high standards) but none of Lorelai's best traits (her independence and stubborn determination to chase her goals). Which means Rory is unable to compromise or settle, but lacks the ability to fix things or deal with setbacks. The second something doesn't fit what Rory wants or envisioned, she runs back to the comfort of her grandparents, who are happy to arrange things for her just-right. However, even the most-beloved grandkid hits an age where that stops being cute and acceptable, and Rory never learned other coping skills, so by the end, she is floundering around in the deep end on her own.

Omg can you do one about Logan!

The problem with Rory is that they always treated her like she was the good girl, the perfect child. So when she became to make mistakes and act like a human she such failed. No matter how good a person can be we are humans and we are going to make mistakes, they didn't should romatizate everything she did. Btw, sorry for my mistakes in english 😅. I'm a English student.

Gilmore girls: a homewreker on the make.

remember when Paris predicted that the valedictorians later fail in their life

I totally disagree with this. Rory had so much pressure on her to do great, Stars hollow expected so much from her because she went to Yale and Chilton. She didn’t know what to do with her life, something I know very well. The show was trying to be realistic, showing how much pressure is on young adults shoulders. She was still very young and was just so confused! I sort of think that she got a little spoiled, but that’s the writers fault.