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Thank you for talking about your relationship, it gives me hope to see two people who have found a way to make each other feel loved and comfortable. I am asexual and have had a very difficult time in relationships, y'all give me hope :)

I could be wrong but I would bet the farm that he got the hell out of there. He is too young to knowingly enter into a personal relationship with an asexual like her.

Love and sensuality are not dependent on physical acts. I came out as ace and trans and my wife (who is allo) still loves me and is staying.

Never let anyone's disinterest for a relationship define you as unattractive or dictate your self esteem please. To have a healthy relationship you've got to put in the time and dedication looking for ways to accept your attractiveness and to recognise it in yourself as part of what you'd want to offer in loving someone romantically. Even if it's not what you'd find attractive, I can assure you there'll be many that do and when they say it, it's still true and meaningful as their experience, separate to your own. Not first putting that work in while wanting a romantic relationship inevitably damages that person in calling them a liar each time they tell you you're beautiful while you refuse to let yourself embody that as something they deserve to have in a romantic partner.

Coming to terms with my asexuality was just “I’m probably just a late bloomer, I’ll start feeling attraction eventually” until I turned 18 and figured it wasn’t going to happen. My aromanticism, on the other hand, is a different story…

Is that the same rose from Beauty and The Beast? Still bringing in the Disney props. 😊

I love your mug ❤

A cold sore. She totally has herpes 😂 Why are these fools making new words for concepts that already exist. They’re making our LGBTQ community look so stupid. They’re doing more harm than good. These ridiculous pronouns and imaginary genders are never going to catch. Peep will look back on this fad and laugh one day.

Why are these kids making new words for concepts that already exist. They’re making our LGBTQ community look so stupid. They’re doing more harm than good. These ridiculous pronouns and imaginary genders are never going to catch. Peep will look back on this fad and laugh one day.

I would have sex with you if weren't asexual!

So what is Asexual?

😀✋❤️ hi there friend

You forgot Stoob, like Scoob, but Stu.

Not a licensed psych person, but as where my heterosexual older (62) self now realizes (after a period of abstinence for 3 yrs, before my current/2nd marriage) I may have been 'gray-asexual heteroromantic' all along in life...? (And I may still be using the wrong term...?!) Then compounded with sad decades of fornicating alcohol initiated trists...that some turned into shackin' love relationships...and my first marriage, based on love and too much alcohol (talk about a mental mess I'm trying to undo)---I think I've got something to offer here.....? BRAVE OPEN LOVING COMMUNICATION, has always been and always will be, the umbrella problem of the world for world peace...and peace in the bedroom. EVERYONE NEEDS TO TALK ABOUT SEX/LIBIDO, AND A LOT. Do NOT fornicate....TALK FIRST, before sex...PERIOD. No drunk/drug lust-driven sex. If there is not a even match for sex/libido and all the way to the opposite that is no sex/no libido....don't proceed deeper/longer into the relationship, if there's a mismatch. Most people are UNABLE to overcome sexual mismatches; that's like the biggest reason why there are so many break-ups and divorces. My new husband (55) and I are trying to navigate (we are both Christian; chose abstinence willingly, but yet still did NOT talk about any prior/sex issues, enough!) mismatched libidos/sexual-asexual issues in the honeymoon phase (!) ...let alone menopause and a newly diagnosed thyroid issue (both, cause low libido) that also have come into play (I thank God we based our relationship on friendship/love, first!) Lots of prayer...hard conversations...clear/concise talk...'Rome wasn't conquered in a day', the saying goes!? LOVE, WINS and by the grace of God praying we will 'win' in this area too! May you two, stay committed to each other's vows and win! God's continued blessings on you!

I am sad i know that it can only works the short time cause i am hopeless romantic and like cuddles and kisses all the romance teasing but not the sex and people doing these romance to get sex and there's no way long term would works and i understand but it's still pretty fucking lonely esp i don't enjoy casual romance, i even needed time to built romance not just instant but i know i am romantic maybe like demiromantic, develop over time i wish i just aromantic i think that would be easier and not left me crazy with all past fantasies of my broken lost romance.

who cares

I used to indulge with relationships but the last 5 years i feel its not needed anymore and more focused on my spare time and hobbies, i feel very settled with not relying on someone or having to be supportive. Everyday feels like a holiday or a weight of my mind.

yep, that's me. But I think, I'm also aromantic, I donno... (in this video it feels like you too)

It's the western world with all their jobs that's revolved around their female sex...that has sexualize this world...in the USA, the government free sex in college soon to prepare all their female citizens to end as sexual protect....till kindergagen.....

I am also a heteroromantic asexual woman and I just started a relationship with an allosexual. I'm glad to see another couple who is tackling the same things we are and it also is helping me find the right words to have a better conversation with my partner. Thank you :)

I really love your synergy with each other!

My partner identifies as Ace and I am very Allo. We’ve been together now for over 4 years. I feel like I, myself, don’t want and can’t feel comfortable enough to have a sexual relationship with someone unless I have an emotional connection to them. In the past, we’ve had conversations about our sexual relationship and if we can even have one. My partner has been very kind to me and helped me fulfill my sexual needs in the past. I’m definitely not as “sex-seeking” as I used to be, but I still like it and crave it with my partner. Lately though, it’s been very difficult to get my partner interested in any sexual activities with me. My partner and I have created a very strong emotional bond during sex and I crave that a lot sometimes. So, whenever we have a significantly long period of time where that emotional bond isn’t being expressed through sexual activity because my partner isn’t feeling up to it, it takes a huge toll on me emotionally! I don’t know what to do because on the one hand, it makes me feel terrible and unattractive because my partner doesn’t want to do anything with me. On the other hand, I’m trying my best to be kind and understanding about their feelings and needs at this time. I know the best thing to do is to talk to my partner about it, but I’m worried that they still won’t feel up to doing anything and my need for that emotional connection will remain unfulfilled. Idk what to do. 😞

Just watched this vid. It is 2022 and we have managed to survive. Anyway, super helpful video. I am new to this topic. I never thought about the possibility that I was ace but now I know I am. It is refreshing because for the first time it makes sense. There are so many different ideas about what it means to be ace and especially if you are like me and identify with Gray-Ace. It is so strange because 99% of the time ace but on rare occasions I feel things. It is fantastic to hear others share the same experience.

you are cute. Finde a guy how is asexual as well

Women usually do not like sex. You had sex so I do not think ur an asexual. My professor raised a good question about asexuals that can still be virgins and not attracted to others do they masterbate?

4:52 To be honest, I'm the happiest person alive since finding out about my asexuality and greyromanticism I don't need to care about anyone in the world regarding sexual or romantic desire.

I’m lost smh

Cool, I'm Apothisexual.

Hey, thank you for this vid. I think I'm gray and I resonate with it. Also, the ending was great XD

Instagram ?????????????❓❓

this is so painfully relatable

I clicked on this video because it mentioned allosexuality. Past halfway in the vid and NOTHING has been said about allo while you spoke at length about being ace. Sounds like she is a demisexual. P.S. This peppy music is distracting for such a serious issue.

🙏🏻 this helps thanks

I ❤ this video. I ❤ this conversation. I'm struggling with my asexualality, I'm in a hetero relationship rn & it's difficult 😫 I can no longer compromise😬

FML

Could it be that asexual people have a higher development of consciousness whereby they are starting to be less and less attached to earthly things and pleasures??

Thank you ♡ seriously just like my story1/4 it brings me peace to hear that I'm not alone 😊

Proof that the phrase "You'll grow out of it once you meet the right person" is true. Get rid of all the labels and all you see is a couple who have different sex drives. Just like most couples.

Totally relatable! I have come out as an asexual for a while now. It was scary at first because too many people have been brought up to think that "everyone should have sex". Now I feel proud of it and just want to be myself ( which I mean to be not normal 😏😂 )

love your video.can i e mail you?

Curious how asexuals still want to have relationships with sexual people and expect them to adapt. It is similar to a heterosexual man wanting a relationship with a lesbian.

the moment I declared myself as ace without knowing I was ace (until I found the term years later: chatting with one of my friends about crushes, relationships, etc. and saying 'Honestly I can't really say for sure that I am straight. I mean, normally if I imagine myself in a relationship, my partner is a guy...... but I've never actually felt sexually attracted to any guy, or girl. Maybe I'm actually attracted to both and just haven't met the people I would feel that way to. Until then, I think I'm straight, but maybe I'm not'

This resonates with me so hard I think I can feel my molecules bursting the amount of stress I have trying to figure myself out and dealing with the guilt from the same relationship situation you were in.

Just outsiders views...so asexual people don't experience being horny? Im genuinely curious if there is a correlation between low libido and asexuality. How are relationships? I would be afraid 1) they won't wanna be with me because I don't care for sex 2) they say they are with me and are fine with no sex because they are getting laid behind my back. Idk just some thoughts on it. Either way, do you!

Are we really just 1%? That sucks (not me though hahaha)

What a waist of a smoking♨️hot woman. Our loss! 🤗😘

I cannot relate to anything sexual because of chronic abuse including sex and near killing me from my late dad. The chronic isolation made the Covid enforced isoaltion seem normal to me. I felt what are people stressed about?!! So do I need to feel alien to humankind because of this? Do I need to label myself one particular sexuality? I don't want or need to. I understand if people do. I just want to relate to imdividuals who respect anyone because of what we do have in common. Much love for all other survivors who seek solice in caring friendships, especially when family and society neglect and reject us for calling them out about child abuse.

I think that I'm Asexual/Gray Asexual. I'm still learning about this.

Thank you so much for making this video! I recently figured out that i am graysexual and this is the first time i can see how to make it work with the love of my life (my allo boyfreind) <3

I'm asexuel too ;)