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I’m a poet and a writing for well-being practitioner and I agree with this, there is a lot of evidence that poetry and song supports mental wellbeing. I have experienced healing through writing poetry.

The olfactory senses are the most powerful. They have the ability to transport into the past, and our sense of place.

The McMillan nurses are wonderful.

Love you both so much ! Thanks for sharing !

I can totally relate with getting angry at little things. This woman just might save me.

What a healing medicine! Exactly what I need right now. Bless you two!

I saw Outpatient at the Reading Rep Theatre last night. Harriet Madeley is highly talented. The play was very clever, funny and made you think deeply on life. Superb play.

A wonderful interview. Nice one Mel. Keep up the good work Danny (Rate My Takeaway) 😊😎

I walked in to find my mother ( my life partner who was everything to me and really kept me going ) dead and you've never heard anyone scream so hard for so long. I thought I was going to die my heart was racing so much. I couldn't sleep for a while yet was so so tired with grief. I was now an orphan, without a child or a partner. Six months later there are still regular tears but I am already feeling better. I hate the fact I will always feel the sadness, but I just want to say to anyone going through this in the early stages, just give it time. Persevere. Persevere. One minute at a time.

🎯 Key points for quick navigation: 00:00:10 *🎙️ Introduction and Background of Grief Research* - The speaker shares personal background and motivation for studying grief and bereavement. - Professor Stroebe reminisces about her early experiences in Bristol that sparked her interest in grief. - She introduces the dual process model of coping with bereavement that will be discussed in her talk. 00:04:50 *📊 Study of Mortality and Health Effects of Bereavement* - An examination of the impact of bereavement on physical and mental health is presented. - Presentation of research findings indicating some individuals may experience increased mortality rates after loss. - Discussion of prevalence and types of complicated grief and health issues following bereavement. 00:09:37 *📖 Coping with Grief Concepts* - The dual nature of coping with grief is discussed through literary examples. - Contrast between the need to share grief versus keeping it internal is explored. - Scientific assessment of coping mechanisms is initiated, prompting a need for alternative coping strategies. 00:14:08 *🧠 Models of Grief Work* - Overview of established models of grief by Bowlby and Warden focusing on grief tasks and phases. - Explanation of Bowlby’s attachment phases and Warden’s task model highlights the structured coping strategies. - Emphasis on the importance of these models in understanding grief processes, yet limitations are noted. 00:19:24 *🌍 Cultural Perspectives on Grief* - Exploration of diverse cultural practices surrounding grief and bereavement. - Examples from Japanese and Navajo traditions illustrate different approaches to mourning. - Discussion emphasizes the need to consider cultural contexts in understanding grief responses. 00:24:46 *🔄 Revision of Grief Work Models* - Critique of traditional grief work models and the necessity for their revision. - Distinction made between grief work and rumination, emphasizing the pitfalls of the latter. - The discussion identifies lack of empirical evidence for the efficacy of current grief models, urging a fresh perspective. 00:29:23 *🔑 The Dual Process Model’s Introduction* - Introduction of the Dual Process Model developed through collaboration with Hank. - Highlights key components such as coping with loss and restoration, chronic grief, and trauma. - Discussion of the theoretical framework emerged from years of shared research on grief and bereavement. 00:29:14 *🌱 Dual Process Model Overview* - The Dual Process Model distinguishes between loss-oriented and restoration-oriented coping in grief. - Emphasizes the oscillation between dealing with loss and engaging in life changes. - Discusses the emotional regulation needed to balance grief and everyday life responsibilities. - Stresses the importance of developing new roles and identities after a loss. 00:34:49 *👩‍🤝‍👨 Gender Differences in Grief* - Highlights the different coping styles between genders, with women generally more loss-oriented and men more restoration-oriented. - Presents findings on how one's grief can influence their partner's grief response. - Acknowledges that these trends may vary across cultures and generations. 00:37:19 *Complicated Grief Within the DPM* - Explores how various forms of complicated grief can fit within the Dual Process Model framework. - Connects rumination with complicated grief and emphasizes the mental health repercussions of grieving. - Discusses new developments in understanding stress overload during grief. 00:39:44 *Cross-Cultural Applications of the DPM* - Describes a study in Hong Kong using the DPM for therapeutic intervention among bereaved individuals. - Highlights the effectiveness of group therapy in collectivist cultures. - Shares insights on creatively integrating cultural practices into grief interventions. 00:45:04 *Conclusion and Takeaway Messages* - Encourages understanding that normal grief responses vary greatly among individuals. - Emphasizes the importance of oscillation between loss and restoration for healthy grieving. - Suggests the need for further research to validate the Dual Process Model in diverse contexts. Made with HARPA AI

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My hubby and three of our six adult children were diagnosed with a multisystemic neurological wasting disease. The first diagnosis came when the youngest was 23 yrs old, just over a decade ago. All of them have steadily declining health. Mostly, I am OK taking it a day at a time, but every now and then, there is a crisis, I cope, but when things settle down, it hits me very hard. It is a rare illness so many Drs have never seen it and want to give treatment that is contraindicated, so I've had to learn as much as I can about to be able to respectfully point the Drs to the right information and research. Being their advocate as well as a loved one is a big responsibility. There is also a level of cognitive decline and the well people don't get it.

Thank you so much! Where can I find methods to induce sensory experiences of my loved one?

Iv just lost my husband & I’m finding it hard to cope without him . I also have anxiety which is getting worse. I’m 💔 . Please pray for me . Thank you. 🙏

This is so good! What an amazingly generous and knowledgeable person David is; I just love the compassion and wisdom he brings to his practice. I’m so sad he knows how I’m feeling, but I see the meaning in his life - that he brings his personal experience of grief and as a result is more able to reach his fellow grievers. Thank you for sharing this 🥰

I just found out a former close friend died unexpectedly, and I am angry with myself for not reaching out to try to resolve the long ago issue we had. No closure, no chance for resolution, all gone completely. And I am angry, at myself. And of course greatly shocked and saddened by the loss. I hate never knowing what good or bad, would have emerged from a hey after all these years. At least I would have known the final outcome, and this sudden death was not it.

My partner died suddenly and traumatically before my eyes and the quote Dr. Selman read of Dr. Koster's resonates deeply with me. Is the talk from October 2023 available anywhere? Thank you for sharing <3

It is so very much true!

This was extremely helpful for me. This resonated more than my grief share group because it solely focuses on losing a spouse. I lost my husband 3 months ago. I feel so much despair, sadness, loneliness, and anger. I miss him terribly. I am overwhelmed with all that I need to do in handling the finances, maintaining the house, and medical bills. A lot of this my husband did, unfortunately.

This was extremely helpful for me. This resonated more than my grief share group because it solely focuses on losing a spouse. I lost my husband 3 months ago. I feel so much despair, sadness, loneliness, and anger. I miss him terribly. I am overwhelmed with all that I need to do in handling the finances, maintaining the house, and medical bills. A lot of this my husband did, unfortunately.

There's a lot to learn from this journey but it mAkes you stronger more resilient

Very helpful, thx.

Julia Samuel is incredible. Sooo insightful. Her words are sooo healing for me.

I'm so impressed that Raynor & Moth had the gumption to undertake further challenging walks in Iceland and Scotland.

RUBY (❤)2006

I have just lost my husband suddenly. It's just been 5days and my emotions are on a roller coaster. I feel like I'm falling down a hole.

This was very helpful, thank you for sharing :)

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Julia's description of what grief is and what it isn't rings so true.

This is very wise advise. Thank you.

In the fall of 2022, My lil lady felt ill, We did the hospital trips, Followed up, Followed doctors advice, Followed up. On the morning of December 13th, 2022, While I was getting dressed for work, I discovered My lil lady, Unalive in my bed. I’ve faced hard times before, However nothing like this.

Rubbish

Bless this man

I was living in Vermont and still am where my partner and I built our own house together. One day law officers came to my door and told me Joe was dead. I collapsed. They picked me up and brought me in to my house , our house. The shock was so severe I didn’t even feel alive more like floating. Joe had also been the main source of income so there was the extra blow of eventually how was I to survive on my own.

Thank you. I feel the same way.

Do you have a video about alienated parents and grandparents? It’s heartbreaking and we have that loss of control, connection, shame. There’s so little information. Thank you

My common law husband was murdered in front of me. His mother blames me and this funeral. Has definitely divided many.

"Trippled as a result of the VACCINE" not a fake flu...!!!

Did he just say “we-ness” ?

Best book I read in YEARS! Thank you @Raynor Winn

Life is a flawed design. I’m not a fan. It’s just to painful. Pain, pain, pain.

Pleas help I have morning sickness every morning I have to vomit. I can't accept that my husband is gone

Wow Amazing. Thank you Julia Samuel. Today is 87th day of my mom's passing unexpectedly at the hospital. I am now more understanding of grief and memory. Words can not express my pain and guilt. Only thru your video I can move one step forward toward healing.

Julia is great. The host not so much and she would have had a better video if she hadn’t included herself into the presentation but let Julia be the focus.

What a lovely lady x

20:05. Whenever you're in your body your cortisol levels go down. As😂 opposed to jumping out of your skin or being beside yourself et cetera.

Thank you for this video. Your channel could use more content regarding grief as the result of losing a pet. Pets occupy unique places in our lives and they're often more highly integrated into our day to day lives than most of the people we know. Losing my best friend of the last 17 years has been one of the most devastating experiences I've had in my life. It's time for our culture as a whole to take this loss more seriously.

It would of been really helpful to hear this 32 years ago when my Dad died suddenly through elective death.

Thank you for sharing this.

This woman has lied about everything. A fraud, working for very dark forces.