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People telling you what you wanna hear not what's good for you. Don't F up your body wait until you are older to make life altering decisions. What if you decide your not M later and you already chemically ruined the F part. The folks pushing you towards transition are NOT your friends.- someone who lived alot longer and been thro the sht.

kewl drawings

14:45 bro my friend said the same thing to me but it was js random 💀 he said my fit and casualness made me look like a lesbian, wild

If you ever see this Life is long Be true to yourself so you have no regrets I'm not even lgbtq Just an ally ✨

Dude, be careful sharing stuff on the internet. Lots of bad people on the internet!

so calming to listen to your videos while doing work :))

Is that deadpool and wolverine that’s totally the greatest marvel movie ever🔥

8:42 when I was watching this video to make sure there weren’t any mistakes this caught me off guard so badly because I forgot it happened 😭

i love ur drawing and u're so pretty 😭😭 i subscribed u

0:39 I DIDNT EVEN NOTICE THE SKETCHBOOK IS SO CUTE WHAT😠🙏

3:24 wait I love the pants

2:53 stop I love this sm😭😭

Yoooo i love finding more obscure channels like this !! Just pure vibes, not an overload of editing and scripting, its a more fresh way of watching content :3

THEY'RE SO PRETTY

14:14 is so nice omg + the last 3

if you're male brained go study structural engineering, if you combine it with your drawing skills you'd be able to erect incredible buildings out of anywhere (that's kinda my missed dream)

Yes! I do want more videos like this. :) :) :) I could make so many comments on the drawings you showed here and ask so many questions about them; maybe I will do some of that after I've taken care of some of today's chores for tomorrow's holiday. Happy Thanksgiving, Joey! I'm thankful that you're here.

Also I might sound nasally since it is cold here lol

That was very informative! First of all you be you ! No one else can comprehend exactly how you feel. Funilly I wasn't getting it either. Now I find that strange of me because I'm the loudest proudest Ally of anything lgbtq human rights type things I know to anyone that will listen and more that don't. Then I got it It's not for me to understand your feelings and situation, but to just be supportive. Somehow I feel I understand more by NOT knowing how you feel. Thanx for that. I wish you well on your journey ! ✨

I gained a whole inch around 18-19, you might still grow. A small growth spurt around that age isn't uncommon in AFAB people. Anyway, short kings are great too.

4:07 a lot of the idea that cis women and men are built differently in terms of shoulders and hips is not entirely accurate. Muscle definitely changes the width of your shoulders and that body shape generally and in our culture it is much more normalized for men to do weight training for all parts of the body than it is for women. Weight training is definitely something that has helped me to feel less dysphoria as a trans person. It's also very good for building a routine and physical as well as mental health resultingly, I find :)

watching men, you realize how they are taught to take up a lot of space and always present themselves as larger/bigger it's so interesting. guys hobbies like hiking, rock collecting etc. you're no different from other guys

In my opinion, your last video (the meme-reaction one) did not 'suck a lot'. Also, because comments aren't allowed on that one, I'll just say here that something about your look in that one was extra cool: I kind of wish I had your eyes, nose, and lips.

So cool of you to share this. And you're not alone in this. It's so important to surround yourself with a supportive community. There are plenty of people out there who will genuinely see you as a boy even pre everything just because you let them know that you are one. But I trust you'll get there ☺

20:00 that's called purging. Pretty common among trans folks and even some gender non-conforming cis folks. At your age it's most clothing and then trying to do some short-term superficial hyperperformance of your assigned gender. When folks get older they often start to burn bridges and cut off relationships and make major life decisions impulsively. A repressing trans woman might join the military. A repressing trans man might decide to get married to someone they barely know or deliberately try to get pregnant. Sometimes there's an outpatient cosmetic procedure. I knew a gal who, and this was a few decades ago, phoned in an anonymous tip to her only queer friend that he had some recreational drugs. She tried to burn that bridge and sever the connection permanently, though luckily she immediately regretted it, phoned the friend, and nothing came of it. Purging is an attempt to make a clean break from, among other things, the painful thoughts you're ruminating over. "I just do X, Y, and Z and I'll stop having these thoughts eventually and be happy." Tends to come from people focusing on things they can't change and regrets they have, making themselves miserable. I've never actually purged but I have dealt a lot with ruminating thoughts - and probably always will. Something that helps is instead of looking at what has happened and drowning in how it hurts is to try to focus on bettering yourself and making yourself the man you want to be focusing on what is within your control. When you begin to take charge you will find there's more things within your power to shape than you previously thought. You are stronger than you think.

It does get better. I know how hard it is right hard, especially with family like that. I know it hurts right now but there's a community of people waiting to welcome you when you're capable of leaving the nest and spreading your wings. The community is far from perfect but there's a lot of amazing people in it.

Your thing about doing your schoolwork and thereby feeling "like a smart man" really makes me think, about stuff in my own life. Thanks for being thought-provoking!

You _do_ look cool.

I had not heard of this movie, but I will watch it because of your recommendation. I have now watched three of your UA-cam videos in order, and I will watch all the rest. I listen to every word. There's so much I could say, but I'm not sure when. You have my sympathy and you have my support, and the impression I get is that you have the heart and the brains to figure out what's right for you and to figure out a workable balance of the many different competing parts of being a human being. Thanks for sharing the story of your journey through life, and thanks for making art.

thank you for posting this video it’s really relatable and validating and it shows you that your not the only one struggling with these issues tysm (:

I relate so much , I’m also a short trans man with childish feminine features. Thankyou for this video and for sharing your experience, I hope it gets better and please don’t lose hope!!

It’s the first time I see someone that looks the same age as me and being trans boy too and also being in the closet. I also had almost these OBVIOUS signs and parents are still blind. I hope you’re not in the US cause Trump is elected now😭

you are quite unlucky and im sorry. ive fallen in love with a trans ftm person who has similar features to you and loves crabs. it's a 50/50 he passes but also gets misgendered sometimes and it makes me upset. this video helps me understand what he goes through. i dont feel dysphoria but im tall for a girl and have a masculine shape and I dislike it, I also dont like being taller than him. im bi and on the aroace spectrum but his gender fluidity negatively affects my attraction. like I dont know.

If it makes you feel a little better, my brother's friend is around 5'3 and he's around 20.

It breaks my heart hearing you struggle with so much dysphoria and not getting any support from your family. I relate so much to your experience of dysphoria and body issues (although inverted somewhat, as I'm transfem). Especially the voice! But luckily testosterone will help a lot for voice if you do eventually go that route. You could look very masculine later in life! I know it might not seem like there's much hope now, but you have a whole life ahead of you! There will be time. Look for trans support groups and find community. And channel it into your art, it looks so good! There are so many short cis guys that share a lot f your same struggles, btw, so you're not alone there lol. It will get easier! keep on keeping on! You are so awesome!

I also realized I was trans when I was around your age. I was lucky enough to find a queer youth group that was a good support system for me. I hope you're able to find your people, and I wish you all the best. 🏳️‍⚧️💖

The pipeline from the “not like other girls” or “pick me” to trans guy or non-binary is so real. I’m also ace (not sure about aromantic).

Ayyyyy, he uploaded!

You okay, Joey? You haven’t uploaded in a minute.

Girl, you are perfect the way you are. You can act and dress however you want, but remember surgeries are permanent and can cause a loss of sensation s*xually and the hormones will be permanent as well. There’s always time ahead of you but you can’t change the past. I’m not a stuck up stooge, or a homophobe or anything like that. Sometimes the truth is just the truth. Sometimes there are multiple truths. Best of luck ❤

I'm so sorry you're stuck in this situation, crawling in your skin, with no support from your family. Consider moving out as soon as you can afford to. For me it was a big step to start expressing myself with no extra pressure. Stay strong!

I can't help thinking your mum n dad should see and listen to this video and trully understand and accept your position. That said, I have no idea how they would react. The fact that religion has a presence concerns me as that can often be a problem. I do wish you strength and patience. There will come a time you will have place of your own where you feel comfortable expressing yourself in your own space. Listening to this video reminds me of my past feelings.. Being trapped and occasionally 'trying' to be a man. It's remarkable how similar MtF and FtM trans worries are. All the concerns you have about voice and body shape are what I experience in reverse. Hating my manly shape without having breasts or hips, my low voice. Things will get better for you in time. Just hang on in there and grow your confidence as a young adult.

you remind so much of my friends little brothers, crazy how people can’t tell you’re a guy immediately honestly, very teen boy mannerisms n all that

do you have autism?

man I felt the exact same way when I was 16, and now I'm 19 and it all feels like a bad dream looking back... If I could tell 16 year old me anything, I would say to just heckin go to the gym and eat a shit ton of protein lol. If you lift enough it will seriously transform your body, I know it's easier to gain muscle when you're on T but it's totally possible to do it without it, and it really helped me with my dysphoria, even chest because they start to read as pecs after awhile. If your brothers or dad go to the gym then you could try asking them to show you around it, my dad taught me and he wasn't very accepting of my transition at first but now all we talk about is lifting haha... Though it sounds like your parents are pretty difficult, my dad's side is also Catholic and they don't hate me, they're just kinda weird about it yk? But there are things you can try right now, the worst thing you can do is wait for your life to start, because it's already happening right now and it sucked knowing I spent so much time thinking there was nothing i could do. Also side note I personally love your hair it gives me metalhead vibes, I've been growing my hair out trying to get it like that xP (edit) also another thing is, if you like to sew at all or are open to picking that up, I like to tailor my clothes to fit my form better, so I'd recommend taking some old clothes and experimenting

Im also a closeted trans guy who is pre anything and i never knew anyone else felt that way. In terms of when i look at myself in feminine things I see the man i am trapped and awkward but when i present masculinity all i see is everything wrong with my body

That curve is ideal for getting that G-spot stimulation while the clitoral action adds an extra layer.

Dont know if you know the song "the village" from wrabel i think you will relate to it

For me, trying to learn how to fry-scream gives me gender euphoria. I want to start a death-doom metal band eventually (probably in a year or two), and practicing my screaming makes me feel badass. Cringey as that might sound. Lmao.

As another short trans masc, I feel you. I’m 5’2, and my height makes me super dysphoric. Also, this is some advice. You’re a man, regardless of what you look like. Regardless of what people tell you. You mentioned how you repress your identity, and try to force yourself to be a girl. I recommend two things. The first is joining a discord server with other trans masculine people in it. The second is to research queer repression. A really good movie that explores queer repression is I Saw The TV Glow. I really recommend watching it. That movie really changed my life, and forced me to accept myself, regardless of what society says. We only get one life, and it’s better to live authentically than pretending to be someone you’re not. Good luck on your journey, dude.