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How Can I Lean To Love Without A Fear Of Getting Hurt - The Love Clarity Method 💖
Have you ever wondered if it’s truly possible to love deeply without getting hurt?
What if I told you that the very thing that hurt you in love could also be the key to healing it?
Hi, I’m Sanya Bari, master therapist and relationship coach,
creator of the Love Clarity Method.
I help people who’ve been hurt in love achieve freedom and fulfillment through healing powerfully at the core.
I’ve loved love for as long as I can remember.
Even as a child, I saw its magic but also its potential to hurt deeply.
At 9, I told my parents, 'I’m going to figure out how to love without getting hurt.' And That became my mission.
I watched the adults around me, confused by love’s power, and believed I could explore this frontier and save the world from heartbreak.
But I didn’t realize what that truly meant.
Despite my best efforts, I kept getting hurt.
Betrayal and abandonment-
ultimate violations when love was the center of my world-
became constant companions.
I used myself as a test subject, thinking, 'If I learn this or do that, I’ll get it right.'
But the 'if-then' chase was endless, and the betrayals didn’t stop.
My fear grew -
like quicksand-the harder I fought, the deeper I sank.
The thing about resilience is that you don’t always know when you’ve taken too much.
Eventually, the pain overwhelmed me. I lost hope that anything would ever change.
In a dark moment of despair, I made an attempt to end my life that had become an unbearable mess
-but as you can see, that didn’t work.
The benefit of darkness is that you can spot the light right away.
When I let go of control, I stepped back and listened.
In that silence, insights came-one after another-like magical cue cards.
For a long time, I didn’t know how to go within, but pain became my teacher, showing me exactly where I needed to heal.
I found the clarity I had been searching for all my life on how to love without getting hurt
At first, I thought this guidance was meant for me to save myself
But as I shared it with others, I realized its potential to give clear and actionable guidance to for anyone who wants to love deeply ….without the fear of getting hurt.
The Love Clarity Method, born from this insight, takes love-
which can feel abstract and elusive -and makes it clear and actionable.
It shows you where you’ve missed your turn on the path to love and guides you back to the love you’ve always wanted.
Become part of a supportive community that encourages personal growth and loving connections. Click here bit.ly/wiselovingtribe to join and start your journey with us.
#SanyaBari #therapist #lifecoach #relationship
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КОМЕНТАРІ

  • @David-lx4yb
    @David-lx4yb День тому

    He is married! If you are knowingly and freely dating a married man, and see nothing wrong with it, you are as pathetic as he is.

  • @danaschield5090
    @danaschield5090 6 днів тому

    Love and respect for an ex or a friend is not cheating... Unless limerence for (Wanting them) is the case.

  • @dee-m6c
    @dee-m6c 9 днів тому

    The worst thing any woman can do, married or single, is to have an affair with a married man. Chances are he either is or has had other affairs. They lie, get their friends involved and there's always that one friend of his who tells you the truth, too late. And yes, it's based on secrecy (a lie) multiple lies. And no one survives without scars, except him. Unless he gets caught. That's the only time he's sorry. Woman from both sides.

  • @Jess-wk5jo
    @Jess-wk5jo 17 днів тому

    I have question. What type of affair would my be Texting stephen Meeting up with Stephen for coffee or tea at costa coffee or starbucks Calling stephen on phone Thinking about him Laughing with him Watching films disney high school musical who Got Vanessa hudgens And Zac Efron. Buying high school musical balloons. Holding hands Hugging Without ever and never having no sex . What type for affair would it be?

  • @Jess-wk5jo
    @Jess-wk5jo 18 днів тому

    I have question. What type of affair would my be Texting stephen Meeting up with Stephen for coffee or tea at costa coffee or starbucks Calling stephen on phone Thinking about him Laughing with him Watching films disney high school musical who Got Vanessa hudgens And Zac Efron. Buying high school musical balloons. Holding hands Hugging Without ever and never having no sex . What type for affair would it be?

    • @sanyabari
      @sanyabari 17 днів тому

      What separates an affair from not having an affair is excluding the person you have chosen as your primary or hiding information from them. It’s sneakiness, hiding, excluding, the neglect that makes it an affair or It’s giving someone else a priority over the person who is reserving themselves to be loyal to you and for you to be a priority to them. Is that helpful? Let me know.

  • @sanyabarimedlpcncc6985
    @sanyabarimedlpcncc6985 19 днів тому

    Sounds good

  • @31Alden
    @31Alden 20 днів тому

    Ladies: He’s already made his choice, and it’s NOT YOU! Times two if he has children.

  • @ashleygregory9199
    @ashleygregory9199 21 день тому

    My wife I caught her cheating on me after we had been in a romantic relationship we were so in love. But I was coming home from work and I walked in the house to hug her but I found her having sex with another person. And she later that day told me she was ending her relationship with me and she divorced me after we had just been married for five years. My heart is broken I can't believe she ended our marriage.

    • @jimmoravec1326
      @jimmoravec1326 21 день тому

      The pain this has caused you will diminish as time goes on. It’s easy for me to say right ? Well I’ve been there before and for me it was the worst feeling the worst heart crushing pain that could happen to someone who put their love and trust in someone. Don’t blame yourself for her actions, she’s a covert narcissist and can never be trusted. My best advice and this has taken me time to realize is forgive her and someday you will find someone who deserves you. But you must forgive her

    • @sanyabari
      @sanyabari 19 днів тому

      @ashleygregory9199 I'm so sorry. When you get hurt by someone who loves you, you hut in the same sacred place you loved from. This can be one of the most gut wrenching pain. If you would like solutions on how to heal the parts of you that hurt you are welcome to email me at Sanya@SanyaBari.com. Either way, I wish you peace of heart and mind

    • @sanyabari
      @sanyabari 19 днів тому

      Yes pain will fix things with time but if you don't learn to turn towards the pain and heal it at it's site of wound the default healing (which will eventually happen) will be like a broken arm that was never fixed in place. The body will heal it eventually but it will likely heal crooked and it will still hurt every times it rains. When we get hurt so deeply it's an invitation or an oppertunity to heal. it took me years to figure out how to heal at the core of pain. To heal the seed of pain, and it was hard to do but it has been the most rewarding thing I have done in my whole life and it has changed my life. If you are curious, email me and and mention that i gave you this offer, I can show you what healing at the core can look like. Sanya@SanyaBari.com

    • @sanyabari
      @sanyabari 19 днів тому

      My pleasure. I'm so happy to hear that. If you'd like to learn more about the work I have created to heal myself you can reach out to me at Sanya@Sanyabari.com

  • @melanielucero7976
    @melanielucero7976 25 днів тому

    This is what my husband did for months with a co worker, luckily he ended before it became physical, and we got therapy. And we are now on the road to a good place

    • @sanyabari
      @sanyabari 19 днів тому

      That's wonderful to hear. Infidelity can be the beginning of a new relationship - if you learn how to heal where it hurts

    • @sanyabari
      @sanyabari 19 днів тому

      This is wonderful. The bright side of the darkness infidelity brings is that it's an oppertunity to heal and balance us and our relationship. I wish you continued peace of heart and mind

  • @greenlantern7122
    @greenlantern7122 26 днів тому

    Do you have a video on a wife who refuses be a wife to her husband wondering at what point a husband can put his wife away in divorce for that particular reason

    • @sanyabari
      @sanyabari 19 днів тому

      No, but it's a good one to make. Thank you for the suggestion. Look out for one. I'll make it specially on your request

  • @OddlyAmusedByAll007
    @OddlyAmusedByAll007 Місяць тому

    He will NEVER be YOURS FULLY if he is married....stay satisfied with those crumbs or go find a fully available unmarried man of your own!!😂😂😂...

    • @Hithere19088
      @Hithere19088 4 дні тому

      I only want him part time

    • @OddlyAmusedByAll007
      @OddlyAmusedByAll007 4 дні тому

      @@Hithere19088 well ur just nasty gross then....how little you think of yourself that you desire crumbs....seek therapy and find your worth

  • @SheethalSwarna
    @SheethalSwarna Місяць тому

    Is it right chatting about sex with besite?

    • @jimmoravec1326
      @jimmoravec1326 21 день тому

      No

    • @sanyabari
      @sanyabari 19 днів тому

      If you are hiding it from your partner then yes. If not then it's okay. Cheating means you don't have an agreement, that in your heart you know it's wrong and it'll hurt the one you have committed to.

  • @ryanbain618
    @ryanbain618 2 місяці тому

    I dont trust no woman!!!!

    • @sanyabari
      @sanyabari 19 днів тому

      It looks like your trust has been hurt. Not all women are the same. The problem with not healing the trust that another person's decisions and actions broke is that when you close yourself up for protection, you also close yourself up to love which you deserve. When you heal the place where your trust was broken you change your energy and start inviting the people who have the same energy as you - this time the energy of being trust worth. What I'm saying is that in the end YOU are the one that gets hurt by not healing what's hurting within you. If you want to learn how the heal at the core of what is hurting then email me and mention that I told you to write to me here. Sanya@SanyaBari.com

  • @adoubletapp
    @adoubletapp 2 місяці тому

    My wife is doing this with her ex husband as well and it’s so frustrating idk if we are going to make it through tbh. Idk what to do she just flips it on me like I’m the one tripping for calling her out

    • @sanyabari
      @sanyabari 19 днів тому

      I'm so sorry to hear that. It's a lot to go through the pain of being able to feel that someone is cheating on you and that they get upset at you when you bring it up. If you really are looking for answers you are welcome to email me Sanya@SanyaBari.com and mention what you had written here and that I offered for you to write to me with understanding what you can do

  • @carolinemurphy997
    @carolinemurphy997 3 місяці тому

    Love to hear a therapist tell the truth

    • @sanyabari
      @sanyabari 19 днів тому

      Thank you. I am so happy to hear this was helpful

  • @fatmia03
    @fatmia03 3 місяці тому

    Very informative

  • @l.aposdif4855
    @l.aposdif4855 4 місяці тому

    There are so many men that lie about being married out there, they start off with you as sheer friendship and once you have fallen emotionally for them (sometimes it's a real issue of emotional dependency) - even if you haven't had sex yet - they'll tell you they're married but that "it doesn't matter". I'm not saying women who date married men aren't to blame, but men aren't saints. And they'll fool you and play with your feelings and hook you, and once you have developed that emotional bond with them it's extremely hard to end it, it just leaves you feeling lonely, desperate and empty

  • @banuati
    @banuati 4 місяці тому

    Thank you ma'am...I cannot thank you enough...words cannot explain how thankful I am...your videos have actually made an impact in my life ..and if need b I will help others

    • @sanyabari
      @sanyabari 18 днів тому

      That's wonderful to hear. That was precisely my intention. If you are in need of more guidance you are welcome to email me at sanya@sanyabari.com

  • @jools726
    @jools726 4 місяці тому

    Met him on a dating app, he said married but lonely and looking for a friend to chat to. So we met after 8 weeks, i fell in love that day, then in October he said we needed to be more restrained and needed boundaries! He said he and his wife sleep alone and haven't had intimacy since 2007, yet he's still there living in this sham.... 2:27

    • @BAMshazam
      @BAMshazam 2 місяці тому

      That’s because he lies to you, to his wife and to himself. The infidel is NOT a nice man. He is a demon. He is a destroyer of his wife’s soul, and yours too. Why not tell his wife if you want that kind of evil?

  • @battlevain
    @battlevain 5 місяців тому

    Excellent video. Emotional affairs are a sign of selfishness and a lack of self- control and commitment to others. The are nurtured in secret and reveal the true character of a person. Trust is destroyed and the victims are left forever haunted by the possibility of it happening again. The sword of Damocles

    • @sanyabari
      @sanyabari 19 днів тому

      Thank you for you beautiful compliment. When someone cheats on you it's like they hurt you in the most tender and sacred place. Even though the betrayed person didn't do anything to deserve this, it falls on them to heal. If they don't learn to at the core of what hurts (which took me more than 15 years to do myself) it can haunt you. Being haunted is no way to pass the rest of your day. If you'd like to learn a systematic, clear, and actionable way on how to heal when you've been hurt deeply then reach out to me because I have used (yes my education and clinical experience but also) my personal journey to create a way to heal that i wish I had when I was hurt and confused. You are welcome to email me here but do mention your post and that I offered for you to write to me. Sanya@SanyaBari.com

  • @ReRe-hh5my
    @ReRe-hh5my 5 місяців тому

    No one wants to date a married man. It happens when you don’t enforce boundaries and before you know it you’re in so deeply, it’s hard to get out.

    • @noreenramsammy8385
      @noreenramsammy8385 4 місяці тому

      Men always always lie so just stay away from married men because all you have to do is hide it from ppl.

    • @sanyabari
      @sanyabari 18 днів тому

      Yes. Agreed. Some people are also tricked into thinking the marriage is over. It's the manipulators that will hurt you and they don't mind lying to get what they want.

  • @tugnormoustuglicous1303
    @tugnormoustuglicous1303 5 місяців тому

    Heros journey is never possible for villians like cheaters. Once a cheater ALWAYS ALWAYS a cheater

  • @Imelda123
    @Imelda123 5 місяців тому

    What odious clickbait.

  • @gulnarcabbarl4141
    @gulnarcabbarl4141 5 місяців тому

    The best explanation of the issue i have ever heard of anyone.Thanks for your time and integrity😊

    • @sanyabari
      @sanyabari 18 днів тому

      Thank you. I really appreciate your compliment

  • @mariatada3228
    @mariatada3228 6 місяців тому

    Married mans or womans once they hide things and deleted they knew that they doing wrong intentionally thier excuses is they hide it and denied because they dont want to hurts thier spause boyfriend or girlfriend Cheating is when intentionally hidden or denied the closed connection to others opposite sex. What can I say is Do not believe the cheaters nor trusting because they are the kinds of persons they dont feel sorry nor have guilt in thier cheating habit. What can I say for those who been betrayed learn to love yourself and distance yourself coz the only reasons why been hurt's so much because the love and respect,adoration and trust that been given to the partner who cheated and betrayed you. The thing is when the love that you given getting less and less you dont even felt so much pain.Often infedility is the caused of many devorce. Either mans and womans hates to be cheated by thier spause. And causes of seperation for lover girlfriend and boyfriend. Wishing all who encountered this kinds of have courage to see that loving someones more than yourself is the causes of unbearable pain.Learn to evaluate yourself and the others significant that involved to your spause if what you do is more than what you do that means you dont need your spause but spause needed you. Seperation or devorce only hard when you dont see your worth nothing different from your spause evaluation. Instead to think you are a victim think that everything happens for a reasons. 1) to see youself values, to learned how to be strong, and to find a way to see your future without your spause or boyfriend's or girlfriend. It is about finding out or planning what you can be afterwards.

  • @susanita123villa5
    @susanita123villa5 6 місяців тому

    exactly what he was doing, flirting but it was just a joke. didnt add her name on he's cellphone and deleted their texts.

    • @sanyabari
      @sanyabari 19 днів тому

      I'm sorry to hear that you had to experience this in any version. A joke made at the expense of the safety of someone you love is no joke. He didn't add her name because we all know when we are doing something that's not according to what we promised our partners

  • @Odani_Fam
    @Odani_Fam 6 місяців тому

    Thank you!

  • @margaretsmithsmith9092
    @margaretsmithsmith9092 6 місяців тому

    Very true all the way but very hard to give up if you love them with all your heart.

  • @marciabrandon2423
    @marciabrandon2423 6 місяців тому

    Married men can date???

  • @CODTALES-KILLSTREAKS
    @CODTALES-KILLSTREAKS 6 місяців тому

    If you need a therapist for dating a married man, you need God not a therapist

  • @dianabialaskahansen2972
    @dianabialaskahansen2972 6 місяців тому

    Rule 1: Don't date married men. Wait until after divorce has been finalized. Do not be a homewrecker.

  • @navipillay4363
    @navipillay4363 6 місяців тому

    If takes a heartless man to leave his wife and especially his 3 children

  • @romans52345-cy3tq
    @romans52345-cy3tq 7 місяців тому

    A woman would never date a man who lives with his mother but she would date a man who lives with his wife

  • @ericaarseth7678
    @ericaarseth7678 7 місяців тому

    It's simple really, if you wouldn't do it with your partner standing right there watching you, it's cheating!

  • @vanessaverner8480
    @vanessaverner8480 7 місяців тому

    Oh my lord get a freaking grip. Some partners are nuts. I had a partner who freaked out over a long Time girlfriend who wanted advice. I refused to tell him the problem. He broke into my phone and the. Tracked down her husband, the two had never met. Then told her husband what she had done. I automatically erased all my messages and calls after that incident. Then I was accused of having emotional affairs.

    • @sanyabari
      @sanyabari 19 днів тому

      I'm sorry this is happening. This isn't something that loving communication can't heal. You both can make eachother feel safe. I will tell you that one of the most common ways affairs begin is by asking advice, sometimes for relationships, sometimes it's for something else that happened in life. My question is if you knew it's nothing why didn't you talk to your long time girlfriend whom you were help and ask for her help in soothing your partner's concern? Why not introduce them? Why spoil your current relationship to protect one that obviously didn't work out?

  • @gayhendrie84
    @gayhendrie84 8 місяців тому

    I would never never date a married man

  • @rosswardrop465
    @rosswardrop465 8 місяців тому

    Men use your brains stay single.I got brains that's why iam single.Cant trust.

  • @TXNanna3
    @TXNanna3 8 місяців тому

    Date? Married people can't date.

  • @mereonimaestdegei7442
    @mereonimaestdegei7442 8 місяців тому

    Reall enjoy your videos.

    • @sanyabari
      @sanyabari 7 місяців тому

      Thank you. If you ever have any questions you are welcome to email me at Sanya@SanyaBari.com - I answer my own emails

  • @cynthiaholland13
    @cynthiaholland13 8 місяців тому

    Four words: Girl, don't do it!

  • @danifem
    @danifem 8 місяців тому

    Don’t like the subtitles that cannot be turned off

    • @sanyabari
      @sanyabari 19 днів тому

      Good feedback. I'll remember that

  • @catherinebrims8986
    @catherinebrims8986 8 місяців тому

    I met a married man that "I fell in love with" during Covid 19. He told he he was in an open marriage. Sneaking around, secrecy is not being in an open marriage. I ended it felt so much shame as I hurt his family and was living a lie. I was divorced was lonely. We are only human. I agree marriage is sacred and I broke my core values and morals. But for the grace of God I gained my dignity and self respect by ending the "Affair".

    • @BAMshazam
      @BAMshazam 2 місяці тому

      @@catherinebrims8986 Affair is too nice a term. It’s an adulterous fling. Kuddos to you for finding self respect and respect for others. People need to take a stand against these infidel demons who have no moral compass and are so evil that the destroys lives and even themselves on a whim to satisfy King Dick. Truly disgusting.

    • @sanyabari
      @sanyabari 18 днів тому

      Thank you for sharing Cathrine. He lied to you. This is not your fault. No need to take on the shame and blame. In fact be so proud of yourself for being able to pull yourself away from his web

  • @vicp99
    @vicp99 9 місяців тому

    Never mind the "moral" question. For many, that's not an issue, or at least not enough of an issue. IT'S a LOSING proposition! I've seen it several times! DO NOT waste your lives on these married men! WTAF!

  • @nikkinokuphila7607
    @nikkinokuphila7607 9 місяців тому

    😢

  • @BossLady-fh8cj
    @BossLady-fh8cj 9 місяців тому

    Delusional people do this. Become mature n if he or she really loves you they will handle what they need to first THEN marry you however you wonder why your not married your deceitful nin your heart your heart myst be right n clean in Gods eyes not man. Then hell givrbyou your OWN MAN NOT SOMEONE ELSE'S. #futureDoctor

  • @christinacottrell6505
    @christinacottrell6505 9 місяців тому

    Coming from the wife who has been betrayed! Do not date a married man!!!!!!!!

  • @br529
    @br529 9 місяців тому

    I don't have a partner so I'm good

    • @sanyabari
      @sanyabari 19 днів тому

      Yes you are good - as long as the reason your don't have a parter is because of a fear of getting hurt. If that's the case I have a method I have created from my own need to know this which allows you to learn to love without getting hurt. Email me if you are interested but be sure to mention that I offered for you to reach out. Sanya@SanyaBari.com

    • @br529
      @br529 19 днів тому

      @@sanyabari I'm good at being single. Married twice. Never again women are not worth it

  • @originalmix2546
    @originalmix2546 9 місяців тому

    It has been my reality for about 2 years now, the entirety of my relationship with someone I still love too much, with him having chosen to push me aside for the sake of protecting his relationship with his married female bestie. She and her hubby were cold and quite rude from the 1st time of meeting me. They claim to love my bf dearly so I couldn't and still cannot understand the cold treatment I received, being the girlfriend of their beloved friend. Her hubby insulted me on the first time of meeting me ever ( my bf doesn't know about it, I have only told him my pains about the woman and he has ridiculed me about it so I never got Courage to tell him about her hubby) for no reason and every other time after that both he and his wife remained totally disinterested to mingle with me and get to know. When I tried to tell this to my boyfriend, he brushed it off and told me I'm being insecure and jealous and need therapy (!!!) . While he was enjoying himself in those get-togethers they organized (I stopped attending after several times experiencing sake coldness and them pretending to be too busy to talk and not being able to, when they could all along perfectly understand and speak English (we live in Europe, my bf native language is different than mine coz we come from 2 different countries, we use English as our contact language, nearly everyone in his country is super fluent at English, tho I understand some stuff in his lingo, I am not yet able to have conversations with people in it, so i can only use English, he knows that and his friends knew it too even before meeting me )but chose not to, to ostracize me in front of my bf to which he never reacted ), he did not care to address even once how those people avoided to talk to me and I can count on 1 hand those very few people who were friendly and open to talk to me, while hosts of the party his great friends were being cold. Now we are practically broken up.I still love him very much and being a crying ugly mess for the last several months grieving even the crumbs of love i could get from him before he punished for speaking up with anger against his friendship with her. Married bestie has removed a bit herself from him since our relationship really started to crash down, she was always lingering around so knew//knows what mood he was in and how it was going between us coz he trust her with everything...before she was all over him , calling him any time of day/night. Now, when me and him are over, she knows that, she also has not much interest in him anymore like she used to. After all - mission accomplished.🔥She wanted to show me how she can take him if she wants to and yes, she can, because he chose to ignore how his own friends treated me from day 1, to avoid rocking the boat with them over me .. He chose to back in his female friends attention while I was crying for him to stop drawing close to her and prioritize us and our relationship instead. I know if she was a true friend to him, she would embrace me so differently and be happy for us as a new couple but instead she made him her sole focus and he was always more than fine with it. It still hurts like mfkr, he has had no remorse, from what I know -ij his stories now I'm the "crazy girlfriend" who was unreasonably jealous to his "just like a sister to me" woman friend. 💔

  • @philyeary8809
    @philyeary8809 9 місяців тому

    Infidelity specialist😂🤣

  • @mellanytravers6544
    @mellanytravers6544 9 місяців тому

    Beautiful….and true.