Dr. Melissa Kalt, MD
Dr. Melissa Kalt, MD
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5 Reasons You're the Target of a Wicked Smear Campaign
*5 Reasons You're the Target of a Wicked Smear Campaign*
Today we're talking about why you specifically were targeted for the most obscene, wicked smear campaign.
Timeline:
00:00 Intro
02:23 What is a Smear Campaign?
04:35 Why Does The Narcissist Make Up Such Heinous Accusations?
05:34 5 reasons you’re targeted for an extreme smear campaign
08:27 Takeaways
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Dr Melissa Kalt, MD is narcissistic abuse survivor turned recovery specialist, and CEO of Sustainably You where she and her team help Soul-driven leaders transcend their past experience of narcissistic abuse to create greater impact and fulfillment while they change the world. melissakaltmd.com
You can read more of Dr Melissa's writing on Medium medium.com/@MelissaKalt and she regularly answers questions on Quora www.quora.com/profile/Dr-Melissa-Kalt-MD
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КОМЕНТАРІ

  • @irisoldelgado8327
    @irisoldelgado8327 3 дні тому

    I’m more than a resource

  • @KolibriFlyer
    @KolibriFlyer 7 днів тому

    I chose to walk away & blocked their phones... no more chances

  • @ChocolateMilk1978
    @ChocolateMilk1978 9 днів тому

    I sometimes think of the “good times” and memories I have of her, but I mostly think of the awful things she said and did and her ghosting of me after 3 years together. She’s a terrible human being.

  • @ChocolateMilk1978
    @ChocolateMilk1978 9 днів тому

    I choose to treat myself well

  • @ChocolateMilk1978
    @ChocolateMilk1978 9 днів тому

    I treated my ex narc like gold. For the first year I thought I’d found the love of my life. 2 years of hellish emotional abuse later and that early sentiment couldn’t be any further from the truth.

  • @ChocolateMilk1978
    @ChocolateMilk1978 9 днів тому

    I choose to walk away.

  • @tracy6656
    @tracy6656 10 днів тому

    I CHOOSE TO WALK AWAY, I HAVE CHOSEN TO WALK AWAY

  • @patricksicard_psy
    @patricksicard_psy 14 днів тому

    Almost constantly

  • @hippotizer
    @hippotizer 24 дні тому

    This video is worth Gold! 💛💛

  • @WalkadoodlesWhiskersPetConcier
    @WalkadoodlesWhiskersPetConcier 28 днів тому

    I see it clearly now but I’m confused on what normal conversation is. My life has been overloaded with narcissists

  • @Notyourbabydaddy1
    @Notyourbabydaddy1 Місяць тому

    I connect to who I am. I value our relationship, but I also value myself. The way things are now doesn’t align with the respect I have for myself. I am enough. I am complete, and I will only accept what enhances, honors, and values me into my life.

  • @crencottrell7849
    @crencottrell7849 Місяць тому

    *5 Reasons Narcs will smear others* 5:45 intelligent and educated 6:08 financially successful 6:33 have potential and gifts that the narc resents 7:09 narc has to have power and control 7:42 narc is determined to win

  • @ebrown4762
    @ebrown4762 Місяць тому

    I know!

  • @JoTac-zm1hb
    @JoTac-zm1hb Місяць тому

    It's only maters if you have kids with them otherwise it's doesn't matter move on

  • @KatoMichelleWins
    @KatoMichelleWins Місяць тому

    Can I be in danger? How can I get other people to see

  • @baldersn4474
    @baldersn4474 Місяць тому

    They won't hoover if u got somebody else and they know this

  • @baldersn4474
    @baldersn4474 Місяць тому

    Every time we woukd have a fight or disagreement she would slways block me on everything then choose to unblock me on one device then maybe more etc.She would also rvoce photos of us etc during push/ pull etc

  • @baldersn4474
    @baldersn4474 Місяць тому

    Not all Narcs cheat some narcs esp female Coverts dont even like sex..my ex never really wanted sex tbh...However she was always accusing me of being in dating sites and chatting up women online etc..

  • @baldersn4474
    @baldersn4474 Місяць тому

    After row and disgard after 3 on/off years i said some nasty stuff out of frustration. .As usual she blocked me, i went round hets trying too sort it out chssed her for 2 weeks , she unblocked me 5 days later in a friday when i normally go out with friends...I reached out to heron messanger , saying hope your ok etc...She read it but ghosted me ?? So i had a go at her later at 2 in morning onmessanger she said ', u asked me too unblock u so i did doesnt mean i want to talk to u , no go away and leave me alone we were over when u called me names when we rowed. .' 3 days later she blocked me again ince i liked one of her posts she remived post then blocked me. !? I went back round there and asked her why etc etc. She just said i was free tio date whoever etc etc..I asked her ehy she unblocked me amd sge said she fone it to get rid of me coning round ??

  • @baldersn4474
    @baldersn4474 Місяць тому

    Why do they future fake and get engaged ? Then we split up literally a week later ?

  • @claymartina4509
    @claymartina4509 Місяць тому

    Ino ..

  • @haddadmohan7406
    @haddadmohan7406 Місяць тому

    I know

  • @jeffreyexposito3803
    @jeffreyexposito3803 Місяць тому

    My covert narc ex girlfriend discarded me as her secondary supply ( i had suspected that her ex husband is her primary ) after she sensed I caught on to her games. After a long history of hoovers I believe I will never hear from her again.

  • @peaceindarkness.darknessis3494
    @peaceindarkness.darknessis3494 Місяць тому

    I just found your channel❤️ I told mine not long ago that I revoked her right to deny my reality any longer. The discard from her soon followed… fresh in the throes of it now. Subbed

  • @doranvee5944
    @doranvee5944 Місяць тому

    When she was caught after she moved her lover into our marital home, the mask was off, and I saw the most vicious cold-hearted person that I have ever known.

  • @doranvee5944
    @doranvee5944 Місяць тому

    She had been smearing me to monkeys for years, getting loads of sympathy off of it. She spread a smear that I was a wife beater.

  • @Caro-ys4kk
    @Caro-ys4kk Місяць тому

    Thank you

  • @1stBorn538
    @1stBorn538 Місяць тому

    I don't know about the covert narcs but I know the golden child narcs are surprised when you don't chase.

  • @amandaserle3343
    @amandaserle3343 Місяць тому

    I discarded him just as he was starting to devalue me. Never ever chased him once he was always chasing me. Hes now blocked everywhere.

  • @GurC3-qh9xu
    @GurC3-qh9xu 2 місяці тому

    Way to go John. With Cog Dis, simply ask God, who am I. It’s so important to get to know and ask yourself this question. Slowly it will be revealed, and lots of healing will occur. Jesus loves you John, keep on going through the healing and awakening. Having others around that reflect your anger outbursts is a great way to approach them and humbly apologize letting them know where you went wrong, sharing your story and educating them and admitting (take responsibility) on how they now are that way because of your own behaviours. You taught them unintentionally. It can be a win-win overall with a ton of growth if humbly approached seeking out forgiveness.

  • @lexibaby4679
    @lexibaby4679 2 місяці тому

    Eyes wide open girl!

  • @samcarrs
    @samcarrs 2 місяці тому

    You explain it very plainly Dr.

  • @Sandra-fc8pc
    @Sandra-fc8pc 2 місяці тому

    I am not a target! But I am, my mother is one, and I can’t really just leave her!

  • @cyngag
    @cyngag 2 місяці тому

    I choose break my Trauma Bond!

  • @sawi8689
    @sawi8689 2 місяці тому

    It's all the time. I wake up and I'm already thinking about him, I'm already mid-discussion with him. It feels like an CNN Breaking news banner constantly at the back of my mind. Even if I feel I'm not thinking of him, it feels like he is still there

  • @chitramarathe7619
    @chitramarathe7619 2 місяці тому

    U said it

  • @deborahyarborough1080
    @deborahyarborough1080 2 місяці тому

    I know, and I’m sure he knew it

  • @deborahyarborough1080
    @deborahyarborough1080 2 місяці тому

    I left, and I didn’t chase him. Peaceful life.

  • @Styner09
    @Styner09 2 місяці тому

    My narc ex not only lied to a judge, claiming that I had warrants out on me, after putting a restraining order on me, they kept telling that lie after it was refuted in court. Narcs are petty, vindictive people with no regard for truth or reality.

  • @nikitadavesharma
    @nikitadavesharma 2 місяці тому

    I'm ready 😊

    • @DrMelissaKaltMD
      @DrMelissaKaltMD Місяць тому

      Hello Nikita, It appears you are not getting my emails. Please add melissakaltmd.com to your whitelist.

  • @lesabrydson2526
    @lesabrydson2526 2 місяці тому

    I got married in 1993, my body was talking, being in the presence of toxic, evil, but my ignorance, was to persevere the marital vows, well, he dumped/ discarded me. God's grace for 8 years I did hear about him, but the laws in Jamaica did not need my signature I found out I was divorced, and he is in the newspaper married again,. I investigated the past, oh my goodness the pathological lies, and people believe the smear campaign, they pass it on, Lord have mercy, the pain was disgusting. August 2023 my knowledge of narcissistic relationship, only to find out he and the adulteress/new supply falling apart. (I feel as if my name is still on their tongues.). So I start telling my story, maybe not on UA-cam, but on the phone. I fight back my character. Persevering in Prayers Psalms 1-150🙏😇🇯🇲👑🤚🤲

  • @jerry011035
    @jerry011035 2 місяці тому

    yikes - "They are the main contact because you are in rehab" seen that one.

  • @ellensc-hawley3720
    @ellensc-hawley3720 2 місяці тому

    I've been royally smeared by a. narcissist in hoping family would abandon me

    • @DrMelissaKaltMD
      @DrMelissaKaltMD 2 місяці тому

      Sorry to hear that. Check out the full video at ua-cam.com/video/dEYO_LvhcwY/v-deo.html

  • @TheWrightGroupSEO
    @TheWrightGroupSEO 2 місяці тому

    🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @CinnamonToast5207
    @CinnamonToast5207 2 місяці тому

    Spot on

  • @MadDog89
    @MadDog89 2 місяці тому

    Wow I see now!..A crush actually tried this on me. I didn't even think it could be triangulation or trying to make me jealous. I just thought she genuinely was interested in someone more than me and I moved on. I guess it's true what they say attempting to make someone jealous doesn't work if the person is extremely logical and takes things at face value.

  • @philippahall2510
    @philippahall2510 2 місяці тому

    I choose to awaken

  • @nicholecornes1915
    @nicholecornes1915 2 місяці тому

    All the stupid phones

  • @nicholecornes1915
    @nicholecornes1915 2 місяці тому

    Enough

  • @nicholecornes1915
    @nicholecornes1915 2 місяці тому

    You will know trust and believe that