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This was super fun (:

honestly I love tarot it has great wisdom on how just to live your life. I don't 100% believe in tarot but the last omen pulling still resonated with me

i once got locked in a bathroom in my godmother's house when i was 5.

i mean humans always change overtime so it makes sense that our goals do as well

catfight was the best part of the video

I feel as though learning to not hate yourself is a long journey. I am still trying to fully be my only ally and it is difficult. However, I am sure it is possible I have been making progress I am sure it is possible despite how hard it can be

istg i thought you were LDshadowlady!! i mean that in a good way!! i love her<33

to be honest the only caffeine I drink is Latte everything else is just oj

So relatable

I think why I've come across this you come across as being real, and that's exactly how I like it, you've got a great mindset for these things, I get that you don't want to post just for the sake of it. Keep doing whatever you're doing.😊

seeing u talk with such confidence on camera is making us happy, so many emotion that u bring to this video aswell xd. anw i like ur hair... it's beautiful

this feels like a facetime in the best way possible, keep yapping queen i love it ✨

I relate to this very much. I personally love comforting my friends and such, but I used to sometimes worry about potentially bothering them. Just know that I personally don't mind a lack of comfort, so I am very forgiving to people, even if they discomforted me in some way. I just don't want you to suffer from what I used to suffer from, which is excessive guilt disorder. The backstory behind this excessive guilt I had back in April this year I had is that throughout my time at the University I went to, I was trying my best to make new friends in the cafeterias, but due to my severe social anxiety at the time, I would hesitate to approach people to become friends with them out of fear that I might end up bothering them, so I would instead sit near them without getting too close. On April 12th in the late afternoon, a few of the people I was often sitting near arrived at the table I was sitting at, and these people expressed their concerns they had. They said that what I was doing was making them feel uneasy and that I should refrain from doing it again. I agreed to their concerns, and ever since then, I have been avoiding their presence out of fear that I might end up making them uncomfortable again. I did not end up getting in trouble for doing this and it was only a genuine concern these people had, yet I still felt like what I did was beyond unforgivable. Moreover, I felt so incredibly guilty that I decided to punish myself for it by locking myself in my dorm room for the following weekend (April 13th - 14th), as well as partially starving myself, just as an extra self-punishment. I still went out to the cafeterias to eat breakfast on that weekend, but I did not eat lunch or dinner, even though I had food to eat in my dorm room. I discussed the issue with one of the University professors. I told the professor to let one of the people know that I am very sorry for making them all feel uncomfortable. The professor then said that I should just move on and that such a concern does not deserve so much thought. I just hope they are all doing alright and that my shyness did not traumatize them too much.

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Bro is so real for this

It's better to not know how and want to than know how and feel like it's a chore. I don't actually know what makes like this but if my friend is upset, doesn't matter if its like balling there eyes out I feel as if I have to fix it, not emotionally but like if I don't they will no longer be pals with me. I feel inherently disingenuous about it because I just feel uncomfortable the whole time. I would say I rarely do this for people, there have been times I just bluntly asked my brother 'why are you crying' and then ignored him for the rest of it. Being able to at least feel like you should is a good thing and in my eyes that is probably enough to be normal.

u remind me too much of myself. have u been tested for autism?

Apparently I’ll click on anything. Never thought I’d reach this level of boredom.

i used to be incredibly terrible at comforting as well. But i realized it might just be because of the fact that I never liked surrounding myself with people even before the pandemic began which consequently made me anti-social and anxious. I had friends who cried to me for comfort and i never know what to say or how to say what i wanted to say. It was so awkward that she had to turn to our other friend for comfort instead which is OUCH but also understandable and perfectly acceptable. I figured that questioning is really the only answer. When people are in a vulnerable state they'll just take any questions. People like talking, they like it even more when it's about themselves. I let my friends talk and i'd ask questions. Comforting doesn't have to be all words of comfort but rather just allowing them to talk about themselves. You got this, meissa!! i love your name by the way :3

I also ask what they need or what helps in the moment, If not they get an akward arm on the back not being sure if I should give a big hugg or nah...

this made me realize that I should take a break myself, it's making my mental health worse mostly beacuse there's a lot of negativity, like for example I've been having a lot of vidoes of people in need of help or animal abuse happening around the world and I understand that these kind of things need to be talked about but I've noticed that it always ruins my mood somehow even tho I don't really care. Also people talking about bad things in their life which I can relate to a lot of times, like till someone doesn't say something I don't even realize and when I do it just makes me more depressed..and I'm in love with your hair, you seems like such a cool person

Just came across you on my timeline and I relate so much to this. Always been way too self aware and scared of what others think of me, especially being Autistic I can't really read people's minds on their opinion of me. I post a lot but can get sucked into checking who saw everything and how many likes I get when my real goal on the app is just to talk about my life. Same with Tik Tok, but even worse because of my videos reaching the wrong audiences and getting hate comments.

I didn't watch the video, but I just really wanted to admire the way you look, cool style👍

This is so real, lol. I especially have a hard time comforting people online because I never know what to say or how to respond. I love physically touching so in person a can at least offer a hug or something, can't do that online tho 😓

this resonated a lot. i still check instagram and my friends text me on there, but i havent posted since this spring (and in 4 years of being on there, i've posted maybe 9 times only). and it always feels very weird to attend an event, or travel somewhere and not post. the part where you said that lots of people just ask for social media upon meeting resonated a LOT!! like i don't have snapchat pls leave me alone. long story short: i'm glad this video ended up on my recommended :))

I have instagram but I never post. Havent for about 3-4 years. I'm tired and I don't like the feeling of posting something and then constantly checking who saw it who liked it etc. it used to stress me out so much. Im rll surprised that ppl care that u dont post bc I never post and ppl just see me as a private person/ non attention seeking person and dont think much of it. I never felt bad for not posting. Only sometimes I wish I updated ppl more on what Im doing.Like after I moved to a different country to study no one even knew cause I said nothing. I felt rll free. I rll wish there would be instagram with only chatting. I only keep insta to see how others are doing, what they up to and to chat. I wish I could delete it tho bc I hate reels but somehow I always end up there and I hate hate hate it. I uninstalled tiktok 2 years ago. It felt amazing. Its total brainrot. It was very entertaining, way better than reels and I love the dancing challenges and the humor but its just so much misinformation, scrolling and uncritical thinking. People literally believ anything said on that app. Not to mention the amount of time people collectively decide to hate on someone and the next day feel bad for them💀.

Nice talk, btw I think there's something playing in the background 🧍🏻‍♀️I thought I'm hearing noises and kept removing my headphones to check😭😭😭

Thanks for talking about this! I've deleted most of my social media many times in my life, but every time I've come back it all feels really pointless. It's all fake and it's not good for my mental health for many reasons. The sad thing is that without social media I always feel lonely, like I'm an outcast of society. It's a hard choice to make, but right now I'm just using UA-cam and pretty happy. I started writing a diary and it's the best decision I've made in a long time. ❤

you were randomly recommended on my timeline, you're so pretty & sympathetic <3 great video btw, it lowk gives 2017 vibes love that

Thank you so much for this video! this is exactly what I struggle with<3

just stumbled accross this, i thought you had at least 50k !! you are so well spoken!

i live in russia and it's very popular here to have a telegram channel where you basically share everything from selfies to memes etc. so when you befriend someone you are expected to subscribe to their channel?? kind of. and my problem with that is if this person that i want to be friends with has like so much followers and mutuals who comment on their posts all the time i just feel like im not good enough to even talk to this person anymore :/ and because i don't have a channel myself i feel like i'm not sharing enough = not being thruthful enough with my friends?? idk also i tried deleting most of my socials this summer and after like a week when i downloaded them again none of my "friends" who i met through social media didn't bother to text me once even though we were texting for months almost every day before that// which made me realise how fake most of what we project onto social media is btw your talking videos <3

i feel comfortable here❤

It's really awesome to hear other people talk about this same issue! also, you're so cool <3

Think positive it works. dont focus on what u dont have. Try what u can do, dont force urself unless u like it meaning doing something that u do like that way u dont repent on what career or path u take also, the future is here meditate on what u would do if u were rich or famous already & be happy by the time that what u longed for u might of forget or by the time u passed it u wouldnt had notice cause u Already did note if u are fake it will backfire, keep going forward

the universes suggestion box is called magic or prayer. Might give it a try.

As a 28yo woman with anxiety, I understand wanting things to happen NOW, wanting to GET things and DO things and have that satisfaction. Unfortunately, life no care and brain no likey. I'm assuming you are young, so this is the perfect time for you to start practicing a thing that I really hate about the brain: satisfaction in long efforts. The brain loves the quick dopamine hits we give it everyday with screens, media, food and other fast things, but the brain also NEEDS the SLOW dopamine, the thing you get when you are working towards something for some time before actually getting the satisfaction of having it finished. I don't have that, and it is being both a pain to learn and a hindrance to my career. It's what you get by writing, learning an instrument, drawing, doing crafts, exercising, dancing, singing, and getting better at any of those things through consistent dedication. My professor used to say that 1 hour a day still makes something if you keep at it every day, and I hate that it works. Find something you like - it can be silly, it just has to be something that you can take your time improving - and try to do it for an hour a day. I am writing fanfic with that time. You might not see the results right away, but you might be calmer about it.

"Ya like Jazz?"

Recognising your emotional responses is great, there are people who don't accept they're having problems and there's no way those people can ever change. I remember going through these feelings a lot, and there's no shame in feeling 'immature' at your age, because in a way you are! Not to be patronising, I'm only a few years older than you and I still am finding new emotions and situations I have to learn to deal with. It takes a whole lifetime to learn to be a person :)

I have a friend who kind of goes through what ur saying. I mean, I can't say I know how to help, but I know I'm never really mad or upset at them. I understand where they are coming from, and I think ur true friend will understand where you are coming from as well. Idk if that gives you any reassurance lol(prolly not) Also, have you played stardew Valley? I love it 10/10 game!!

So, what did you say?

I can relate to this feeling. I'd been stuck these past few years. I thought I was gonna get my life started right when covid hit and it's been a long process just getting things going after that. I think you're right that we have to be the change we want to see in our lives. I'd also just warn you about instagram and social media, that it's sort of a dangerous trap a lot of our generous falls into where we feel the need to compare ourselves to others and feel like were missing out. Find the things that you want for your life and work for them and I'm sure it will work out. Best of luck! Also your cat is super adorable <3

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This is REAL, CLASSIC youtube. Just a person, their camera and something they wanna say. Thank you, algorithm, for showing me this.

I fear yt is trying to call me out bc same😓

Watching the older things really gets my soul calm. The new things are fine but the older has something. At least in my eyes.😅

Charlie and Lola, Max & Ruby, Bluey, Curious George- i watch these 24/7 and I am 23. 0 shame

god i love content where it’s just normal people being themselves. thanks

i love your hair