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Sydney Zarlengo
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Приєднався 5 жов 2020
Hello my dears!
My name is Sydney (they/them) and I'm an openly queer, trans non-binary, disabled, and autistic multi-hyphenate actor - dramaturg - composer - video essayist - disability educator - theatrical access reviewer.
Here you can find resources on disability, media representation, accessible education, debunking popular science, disability related social commentary, dramaturgical deep dives into popular plays/musicals, the [very] occasional lifestyle video or song in between, and the whole process of making the world's first all neurodivergent production of The Curious Incident of the Dog In The Night-Time (and how it "failed").
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My name is Sydney (they/them) and I'm an openly queer, trans non-binary, disabled, and autistic multi-hyphenate actor - dramaturg - composer - video essayist - disability educator - theatrical access reviewer.
Here you can find resources on disability, media representation, accessible education, debunking popular science, disability related social commentary, dramaturgical deep dives into popular plays/musicals, the [very] occasional lifestyle video or song in between, and the whole process of making the world's first all neurodivergent production of The Curious Incident of the Dog In The Night-Time (and how it "failed").
For more things - www.disabledautisticlesbian.com/
If you want to support me financially - www.paypal.com/paypalme/sydneyzarlengo
Or get exclusive perks on Patreon! - patreon.com/SydneyZarlengo
An Autie Reviews Autistic Media Rep! Part 162 - Lars and the Real Girl
An Autie Reviews Autistic Media Rep!
Part 162 -
Lars and the Real Girl
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If it's more accessible to you to read the reviews rather than watch the video, you can find all of them here - www.disabledautisticlesbian.com/media-analysis
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Part 162 -
Lars and the Real Girl
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Disability in Ride the Cyclone [CC]
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(The original version of this video was released on March 18, 2023. Only about a third to half of this video is from then, a lot of it is new!) Go watch the Wait in the Wings documentary!! - ua-cam.com/video/ASOo0G8RQMs/v-deo.html Disability theatre deep dives - ua-cam.com/play/PLvsi-cBrFY4CJz5CV_BGHWKiRWiWkDf7r.html&si=-DYkuV4_aSLDB3J2 How to create disabled characters - ua-cam.com/play/PLvsi-...
Tier Ranking Disability Media Representation (Reviews 50-100) [CC]
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The tier ranking chaos continues :) Watch the first disability one here - ua-cam.com/video/bNebYvXlV4I/v-deo.html Watch the most recent autism one here - ua-cam.com/video/fKhOqW-atlg/v-deo.html Media recs by category - www.disabledautisticlesbian.com/disability-media-recs Request a media review - forms.gle/rji1Hnw34ypSzA6cA Read my disability reviews - docs.google.com/document/d/1VEcnf-XzUqg9Sw...
A Disabled Person Reviews Disabled Media Rep! Part 100 - The King’s Speech
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A Disabled Person Reviews Disabled Media Rep! Part 100 - The King’s Speech Request a review - forms.gle/rji1Hnw34ypSzA6cA If it's more accessible to you to read the reviews rather than watch the video, you can find all of them here - www.disabledautisticlesbian.com/media-analysis #actuallyautistic #disabled #shorts
An Autie Reviews Autistic Media Rep! Part 161 - Carl the Collector
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An Autie Reviews Autistic Media Rep! Part 161 - Carl the Collector Request a review - forms.gle/rji1Hnw34ypSzA6cA If it's more accessible to you to read the reviews rather than watch the video, you can find all of them here - www.disabledautisticlesbian.com/media-analysis #actuallyautistic #disabled #shorts
Disability in Newsies [CC]
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Sources & Resources: Disability theatre deep dives - ua-cam.com/play/PLvsi-cBrFY4CJz5CV_BGHWKiRWiWkDf7r.html&si=-DYkuV4_aSLDB3J2 Disability in Hunchback - ua-cam.com/video/C0jKgpZAYzI/v-deo.html History of Freak Shows - ua-cam.com/video/UhJNEgYlvOA/v-deo.html Crafting Curious documentary - ua-cam.com/video/4WhAuVmztCk/v-deo.html Narrative Prosthesis: Disability and the Dependencies of Discourse...
A Disabled Person Reviews Disabled Media Rep! Part 99 - X-Men
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A Disabled Person Reviews Disabled Media Rep! Part 99 - X-Men Request a review - forms.gle/rji1Hnw34ypSzA6cA If it's more accessible to you to read the reviews rather than watch the video, you can find all of them here - www.disabledautisticlesbian.com/media-analysis #actuallyautistic #disabled #shorts
An Autie Reviews Autistic Media Rep! Part 160 - Degrassi: The Next Generation
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An Autie Reviews Autistic Media Rep! Part 160 - Degrassi: The Next Generation Request a review - forms.gle/rji1Hnw34ypSzA6cA If it's more accessible to you to read the reviews rather than watch the video, you can find all of them here - www.disabledautisticlesbian.com/media-analysis #actuallyautistic #disabled #shorts
A Q&A! - On Disability, Dramaturgy, "Favorites", & Life Advice [CC]
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Questions I answered! - Favorite show that you've ever seen live and why - Favorite animals? - Favorite theater characters? - If you had to pick a favorite review that you've done, what is it? (My answer here is the wrong book by that author somehow? I meant the third book in that series. Interchangeably I love them both, but I read the third book first lol) - Do you listen to music while you w...
An Autie Reviews Autistic Media Rep! Part 159 - Bob’s Burgers
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An Autie Reviews Autistic Media Rep! Part 159 - Bob’s Burgers Request a review - forms.gle/rji1Hnw34ypSzA6cA If it's more accessible to you to read the reviews rather than watch the video, you can find all of them here - www.disabledautisticlesbian.com/media-analysis #actuallyautistic #disabled #shorts
Revisiting the "Solitary Forager Hypothesis" [CC]
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Oh no I made a video 3 years ago that aged real bad! Let's tear it apart Sources: I Debunked Evolutionary Psychology - münecat - ua-cam.com/video/31e0RcImReY/v-deo.html&ab_channel=münecat This paper - journals.sagepub.com/doi/full/10.1177/147470491100900209 The prehistory of compassion - www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2672542/ Compassion Sets Humans Apart - www.sapiens.org/culture/human-c...
A Disabled Person Reviews Disabled Media Rep! Part 97 - White Bird
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A Disabled Person Reviews Disabled Media Rep! Part 97 - White Bird Request a review - forms.gle/rji1Hnw34ypSzA6cA If it's more accessible to you to read the reviews rather than watch the video, you can find all of them here - www.disabledautisticlesbian.com/media-analysis #actuallyautistic #disabled #shorts
An Autie Reviews Autistic Media Rep! Part 158 - The Princess Diaries
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An Autie Reviews Autistic Media Rep! Part 158 - The Princess Diaries Request a review - forms.gle/rji1Hnw34ypSzA6cA If it's more accessible to you to read the reviews rather than watch the video, you can find all of them here - www.disabledautisticlesbian.com/media-analysis #actuallyautistic #disabled #shorts
A Disabled Person Reviews Disabled Media Rep! Part 96 - Warriors of Virtue
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A Disabled Person Reviews Disabled Media Rep! Part 96 - Warriors of Virtue Request a review - forms.gle/rji1Hnw34ypSzA6cA If it's more accessible to you to read the reviews rather than watch the video, you can find all of them here - www.disabledautisticlesbian.com/media-analysis #actuallyautistic #disabled #shorts
An Autie Reviews Autistic Media Rep! Part 157 - Over the Garden Wall
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An Autie Reviews Autistic Media Rep! Part 157 - Over the Garden Wall
Who Actually Was Helen Keller? [CC]
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Who Actually Was Helen Keller? [CC]
A Disabled Person Reviews Disabled Media Rep! Part 95 - Freaks
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A Disabled Person Reviews Disabled Media Rep! Part 95 - Freaks
An Autie Reviews Autistic Media Rep! Part 156 - Mary and Max
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An Autie Reviews Autistic Media Rep! Part 156 - Mary and Max
Disability in The Phantom of the Opera [CC]
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Disability in The Phantom of the Opera [CC]
A Disabled Person Reviews Disabled Media Rep! Part 94 - Daredevil
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A Disabled Person Reviews Disabled Media Rep! Part 94 - Daredevil
An Autie Reviews Autistic Media Rep! Part 155 - Ghostbusters
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An Autie Reviews Autistic Media Rep! Part 155 - Ghostbusters
A Disabled Person Reviews Disabled Media Rep! Part 93 - Winter (The Lunar Chronicles)
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A Disabled Person Reviews Disabled Media Rep! Part 93 - Winter (The Lunar Chronicles)
An Autie Reviews Autistic Media Rep! Part 154 - Simple Simon
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An Autie Reviews Autistic Media Rep! Part 154 - Simple Simon
A Disabled Person Reviews Disabled Media Rep! Part 92 - Happy Feet
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A Disabled Person Reviews Disabled Media Rep! Part 92 - Happy Feet
An Autie Reviews Autistic Media Rep! Part 153 - Criminal Minds: Through The Looking Glass (S8E3)
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An Autie Reviews Autistic Media Rep! Part 153 - Criminal Minds: Through The Looking Glass (S8E3)
Tier Ranking Autistic Media Representation (Reviews 100-150) [CC]
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Tier Ranking Autistic Media Representation (Reviews 100-150) [CC]
A Disabled Person Reviews Disabled Media Rep! Part 91 - Agent Carter
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A Disabled Person Reviews Disabled Media Rep! Part 91 - Agent Carter
Disability in The Glass Menagerie [CC]
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Disability in The Glass Menagerie [CC]
A Disabled Person Reviews Disabled Media Rep! Part 90 - Garrett from Superstore
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A Disabled Person Reviews Disabled Media Rep! Part 90 - Garrett from Superstore
i love your channel
i love uuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu
Timely for me, I just watched the new documentary series on Disney+. It did a really interesting job of presenting the original story, the revised story, and then the rebuttal to the revisions. Lots of opinions and perspectives presented.
😮sppeaking soo fasttt
We shouldn’t be surprised the world isn’t fair. It’s oppressive because the world was conquered by oppressors in the past. Power has only passed through the hands of oppressors. The system is inherently meant to abuse people for profit. There is no bettering it. The harsh truth is you either adapt to win or you suffer in loss.
That was so cute at the beginning. Love the stimming
"Cheesy, formerly on Wattpad romances" 😂 Hilarious!
One of the only things I remember strongly from Next to Normal was how horrified I was at Dan in act two. I didn't feel like the show did enough to confirm that he was WRONG to try and keep Diana's past from her. That he was putting his comfort over her identity. He didn't come off as panicked or otherwise irrational, just selfish. So I appreciate you touching on that.
An 1899 strike you say..?
Lars and the Real Girl is my favorite movie. I’ve actually witnessed a similar situation play out in real life. A friend’s autistic son had zero engagement with other children until he got a bird plushy he considered real and his son. People would address the bird as if it were a real child and my friend’s son would speak for the bird. “Birdie says hi back.” Birdie was his entrance to lower stakes engagement with others. Twenty five years later, he still believes Birdie is a real person, people still engage with the father/son days, AND he also engages with and has direct relationships with others; he’s not merely a mouthpiece for Birdie. It’s a beautiful way our community accepted a child for who he was, engaged with him on terms that made him feel safe, and gave him the social space to grow at his own pace. I live that a film captures Stine of the magic that can happen when a community embraces and values people as they are.
Thank you for your work! I really appreciate the nuance you brought to this subject.
I read and enjoyed the lunar chronicles, but it never occured to me to think about it through the lens of disability...I guess I wasn't thinking about such things when I was in middle school. You make me want to reread it sometime.
I love the streaming ticket idea! In addition to the access needs you mentioned, it could also help with certain sensory needs. I find that many shows/events are way too loud for me, so being able to stream through my own device and have complete volume control would help a lot!
I think you should watch ‘An Angel at My Table’ - I saw it years ago before I even really knew what autism was and it just popped into my head that the protagonist is autistic. And it’s really jam packed with the themes you’re interested In.
Good review, but I think the part about the service dog is the bit. I'd be willing to embrace the movie magic about.
Tommy is probably the only movie that traumatized me. We watched like twenty minutes of it in primary school when I was 12 and seeing a severely disabled person being abused like that whilst they sung I literally could not sleep that night by myself. Who is saying this is good representation?
in Ride the Cyclone though I will say I loved Ricky as a character although his disability sort of undermines that in some ways. I legit forgot he was meant to be mute and took the whole Space Aged Bachelor Man and the others reaction as he was a quiet kid and they just always took him for boring but never made the effort to get to know him to find out how interesting and exciting he is. I think there is a bit of a lesson there, whereas if he can't speak or communicate which I think is what they mean it loses that (I sound like Ocean now saying every story needs a lesson). Really it feels like he was made a mute as a cheap gag about him being in the choir.
Pandora started playing "What the World Needs" for some reason a while ago; it took a while for the words to register0
So hype to watch this let’s GO
is "no good deed is my favorite song of the show" really such a hot take?? never realized since i feel the same lolol eleka nahmen nahmen ah tum ah tum eleka nahmen motherfucker!!!!!!!!!!!!!
watching this as i do my 30 page math essay #wishmeluck
Honestly, I always interpreted Christine as having saw beyond the Phantom’s disability and being put off by the phantom’s behavior specifically, especially with the line during Down Once More where she states “It’s in your soul the true distortion lies”. I agree with the angle that the Phantom should’ve been a character that wanted connection and to be seen rather than another romantic interest for Christine. It makes much more sense and is also much less uncomfortable than him having romantic feelings for Christine. The love triangle is off putting, especially in productions that don’t have Raoul as morally grey. As for the Phantom being musically gifted, I always interpreted this as being both just something he would’ve done anyway out of interest, rather than out of his own trauma. I wasn’t even aware that people interpreted it like that. I started typing this before the conversation about freak shows and honestly, delving into the history and the ethics of if Erik having ‘prodigious’ talent in music is really because he was interested is interesting considering the time period. It’s also interesting to see the argument on Erik most likely having congenital syphillis or a mix of that and malnutrition, it definitely sounds incredibly plausible. This entire video is incredibly interesting, I have a hardcore fixation on POTO and tbh I like to interpret the story in a slightly modern lens where it isn’t the version that most phandom members on tumblr would salivate over. At least I’d hope to see a version of this story where Erik being disabled isn’t the reason why Christine separates herself from him, without the age gap, and giving more room for Erik to not just be the two extremes.
Just to add onto this because the fixation is hitting me: I need to see a modernized version of the phantom that tackles the story in a more nuanced and in depth way than just the extremes displayed, especially with Erik. I heavily related to many of the sentiments that Erik has, so he has always been a character that I wanted more from, especially more nuanced takes on his character than just “sexy dude in mask who’s toxic” or “malevolent monster who is disfigured”. I always look at the ending of POTO as Erik being able to escape and potentially shed that persona of the Phantom and rebuild himself, especially after the compassion shown to him by Christine (which I will say should not have been given through a kiss) . I mean I guess it happens in LND but I want to forget that it exists. I want to see a story where Erik manages to overcome his internalized ableism and makes it a point to be seen and heard just like anyone else and simply being able to live a better life with people who don’t see him for his disability. Maybe it’s dumb fanfic, but condemning this character simply because he is disabled has never sat right with me. And ofc, we can’t forget he’s a serial killer and unpredictable, but I still like to think that he manages to not necessarily get redemption but a chance to just live without suffering.
I watched the slime tutorial today after seeing the WiTW documentary and my thought was damn, what a missed opportunity to have a canon character use ASL on stage during group musical numbers not as accompaniment but as part of the in-universe choir.
I feel like his reasoning for dropping out of the competition is really easy to solve. Like if he’s spent his whole life knowing he’s going to die young,possibly in a very isolating and/or painful way he might feel content with how he died. An additive of well if I was already going to die young this is a hell of a lot cooler way to go than slowly dying in a hospital bed. Like idk give him some excitement over being able to give the disabling illness people defined him by the finger by getting a badass tragic death instead of the mundane one he was constantly aware was just around the corner. Pull some of that punk rock energy into his attitude about the accident. Or even make him someone who loved rollercoasters and it’s a “I literally died doing the thing I love why would I want to give life another shot I got it in one” He’s happy because the cyclone accident ensures his memory isn’t of just another kid who died from a degenerative disease but instead as the teenage victim of a freak accident who had a life and interests outside of his cause of death. And sure his disability will always be apart of him but it doesn’t get to define him. It’s a death that gives him an identity outside of his illness something that was denied to him by the way society treated him. Also he didn’t die alone like he feared he went out with people he can by the end of the play call his friends. He can point out the positive sides of the accident to other characters serving to help convince them to be selfless and accept their deaths. For example “hey I’m sure our parents will get a fuckton of money from the park because of the accident” which then can open up to a bit about how wrongful death suits are hard to win and that they probably won’t win much but hey it’s a possibility. If the show writers really feel like they have to explain away his ability to speak with the “being cured in death” trope they could just as easily add Constance being able to see without her glasses. Like you have the opurtunity for prop comedy with Constance loosing her glasses realizing she doesnt need them and Ricky speaking this thoughts aloud and them both screaming at each other because “holy fuck what is this place and what happened to us”. Constance decides to keep wearing her glasses because she feels weird without them and have Ricky keep his mobility aid(s) for the same reason. Like they agree that seeing Constance without her glasses is just a little too weird and seeing Ricky without his cane/crutches/chair evokes a similar feeling in him and the group as a whole. Obviously that wouldn’t be the ideal way to go l but I feel like it’s better than what they did. I agree the internal monologue solution is the better way to go but I just wanted to point out how easy it is to change the story’s original method to be funnier and more inclusive. I don’t know if I worded this 100% right but I did my best and tried to pull from my personal experience with chronic illness and facing death constantly at a young age (mine was more a either myself or society will get me killed before I’m 16. I revived help and am in my 20’s and happily living life)
YES!!! I believe this with my whole heart ❤️
Great video, you're so cool!! :) I hope yannick-robin is okay with being in the thumbnail!! bro must be having a wild weekend...#saverickypotts
I guess he wasn't because I just clicked on and I didn't see him on it! Why do people keep messing with him, smh
Oh that's totally on me! He was featured heavily in the old thumbnail so I assumed it was still okay but definitely should've asked anyway. We sorted it :)
After seeing the WITW documentary, I really want to see the musical, but hope those with disabilities get proper representation. As someone with autism, it upsets me when media and even those behind productions, whether film or theatre, treat people with disabilities with blatant disrespect and refuse to do much of anything to make things easier (The Good Doctor,, The Accountsnt and Sia's Music are grand examples to me in terms of autistic representation done wrong). I hope that the world realizes we're more than our disabilities.
love this vid, also idk if itd be a too strange or not doable idea, but ive always loved the idea of stylaphone usage for Ricky, ive seen ones that can 'sing' based around vocaloids and with the right vowles/words for the songs being pre-programmed a disabled actor who had time to work with one could give a really cool performance using maybe that mixed with an AAC device, and would definately add to the space age feeling. idk how practical it would be but i feel like including disabled people in theatre should mean getting creative and working With someone's disability to make the show something unique rather than trying to find ways to justify just not casting us.
I just finished blasting through this series after remembering this video and I am so glad I did!! I just looked the main actor up, their name is Emily Carey and they are also autistic themselves! This was so healing for me to watch as a femme-adjacent actor who started self-identifying as autistic a few years ago, I also hope they create more seasons. Now I’m trying to decide whether to wait on another season or just read the whole series haha thank you again for the rec
the way all my rejection emails from even ameteure dramatics since i became disabled all seem to include a 'we want to be a super inclusive space for everyone and strive to represent people :D' tagline somewhere lol, in the part of the world im in with my language skills I can only really audition in non disabled spaces anyway (english speaking theatre is its own speciality here and finding something that is both things at once is pretty much impossible) and the way their faces drop if they see my cane or walker is actually painful, they decide For you what youre capable of even if youve already shown you can do the things they require. And its so hard to talk about being blocked out of this space as a disabled person not only because you get pointed to disability exclusive spaces but also because you will always be met with 'well maybe you just suck' when I know how differently I am treated before and after people discover Im disabled and know how my experience with theatre was before I became disabled
love this video! also adding on to christmas carol, I hate how his two futures are 'dead as a small child' or 'complete recovery' because god forbid disability just be a lifelong thing and Tim grow into a disabled adult with his own ambitions and life without being seen as some burdon, I know they don't go very deep into the epilogue because its not the structure of the story but that part of the ending has always peeved me
ARE YOU TELLING ME THAT I WAS ACCUSED OF MBP BECAUSE I’M AUTISTIC, AND THUS NATURALLY SPEAK ABOUT MEDICAL SYMPTOMS AND DIAGNOSES LIKE I’M READING FROM A TEXTBOOK?! ARE YOU KIDDING ME. This explains a LOT. I thought if I do my research, if we build a case, then maybe my partner’s chronic illness will be taken seriously. Little did I know I was making it more difficult for a biased, neurotypical doctor to understand our very real plight for medical care.
As someone who is a sole caregiver of a medically complex person, I feel so uncomfortable when a medical professional hears this person’s symptoms and experience and then turns to me and praises me for all the work that must require. Um wtf I’m a fly on the wall, this is their appointment. If I need validation, I can get a therapist. Ick
Can't watch all of this right now but I am SO GLAD that WITW reminded me of your channel! Notifs are now on and hopefully you get a well desevrwd boost!!!
Ah thank you!!
Also yes same disability romance novels can be really therapeutic!
BIG AGREE on 'my favorite thing is the most recent thing I've seen' , glad it's not just me!
Love the idea of updating or commenting on older videos/ideas, it's nice to have updates! Bc understanding is always evolving. Thanks for sharing
It´s so nice how you say "Gestalt". I realy like it. Greetings from Germany.
52:35 probably because one of the Delancey brothers is already named Morris 💀 Edit: although ykw that could have some great comedic potential
NEWSIES LET'S GO
Thank you for this. This explains a lot about me.
Say 1 of asking for Colourblocks
Day one of asking for colourblocks
There's a request form, Sydney doesn't take requests from comments, they would miss too much and that's too chaotic. They have separate Google forms for both series and that gives them a spreadsheet that's easy to sort through.
And os there a link to that spreadsheet?
There's a Google form in the description of every video, the spreadsheet is generated only for Sydney, as the owner of the Google form. You can pick which series you're giving suggestions for, what type of media it is, which character you want reviewed, which books/episodes are most important and if there are any trigger warnings or other info you'd want them to know before watching/reading.
Blue Eye Samuri had pretty good disability resprisentation. There's a character with a stutter, though he only shows up for a couple episodes. They do make the major disabled character the comic relief, but the series still respects him enough to give him an arc.
I've already sent them Blue Sure Samurai in the review questionnaire, but idk if more people requesting a specific media makes it more likely for Sidney to review it, so maybe also send it in the request form? Maybe your explanation and reasoning will be better than what I've written.
@deirenne i didn't really mean it as a request. The video just reminded me of it because of the overlap
Generally it kind of depends? I have over a thousand requests in the spreadsheet and work about two months in advance, so if something becomes popular in the form I may not notice for quite some time! Just moved Samurai to the short list since it's come up a few places after this review though :)
Ayda Aguefort literally made me realize I might be autistic. I'm getting evaluated now
(barring the TECHNICAL pedantic "not until you're licensed with PhD..." challenge to it) No wonder I relate to so much of how you're wording things and framing it: (0:52) "because I'm a psychologist* and a linguist* and this is precisely the cross-section of those two things..." Ahhh, okay, yup, so, "me" basically. (also combined with multi-instrument advanced-level musician) I spent so much of the previous video I listened (watched) through trying to piece together why SO much of what you said sounded basically exactly like me, both in prosody/speed but also in phrasing, terminology, and concepts/angles of illustrating points. It sounds like our brains are likely somewhere around the same 'location' on the proverbial 'spectrum'
Solid points arount 17:30 about how many of us are offing ourselves because the system is so godawful It's so awesome seeing other people put words to exactly how I think and feel; finding those words "for me" SOLID points
Great points around 14:30 about how our thoughts are NOT irrational or unjustified, but really, truly genuinely rooted in lots of past experience and even e.g. statistics (like of our unemployment rate or unhoused rate) And how we're like 100% all of us traumatized. Ugh. It sucks so much
Normalize stimming! We should all feel welcome to move our bodies!
Thank you for the extra description cuz im visually impaired
I thought it said this was posted three years ago and I was like how does such an amazing video that has been accessible for so long have so few views? Then I realized I read it wrong 😭😭