Carol Banens
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Grief Is Personal
Grief is such a personal experience... but because we don't talk about it we can tend to judge others on their grief journey and even the way we grieve. Remember no two griefs are alike... you grieve in your own way, because grief is personal. Let's give each person compassion and grace for them to grieve in their own way.
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Відео

Complicated Grief
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All grief is complicated..but some is just more complicated than others. What makes grief complicated? Multiple factors: your relationship to the deceased, the way they died, your mental and physical health beforehand, your support network... and the list goes on.
CIRCLE BACK TO YOU PODCAST with CAROL BANENS 3
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I had a great conversation with Jason Wilson about grief. What makes you feel like you're going crazy in grief and why. we touched on why it is so hard to tell people how we are really feeling, on children and grief and funerals. If you feel like you're going crazy, listen in... you're not, you're grieving!
Integration in grief
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Grief does not have to define the rest of your life. It might feel like it will, but if you can integrate it, you learn how to carry it with you without it defining you. You find space for both the sorrow of loss, for gratitude what was and for hope at what might be.
Crossing The Threshold
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Sometimes we don't realize how far we have come in our grief. Today I share a poem 'Crossing The Threshold' from my book 'Kintsugi your Heart: The Art Of Living With Grief'. If you need a little inspiration that you are moving through your grief, listen in!
Intention To Heal And Allow Joy
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At some point in your grief journey you may be thinking...'I don't want to feel like this anymore'. I know I did! And I think that what we need to do is create an intention to heal and be open to allowing joy back into our lives. Easy? No, not always. But it can be done.
You Can't Fix Grief
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People are uncomfortable with grief and they don't like seeing you in pain. So they think their job is to try and 'fix' your grief. They want you to feel better, to be like you were, but what they don't understand is that if you've loved, you'll grieve. It is natural and normal to grieve for someone, and you need to feel it, experience it, and not be made to feel bad because others are uncomfor...
Coming to Peace In grief
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Can you come to a place of peace in your grief? It may not feel like it at first, but if you are to live your life without grief defining every moment, you'll need to find peace in your grief.
Can you grieve AND live life?
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Sometimes grievers feel like they either have to grieve or move forward toward life. I don't think it is an either or... It is more of an 'and'. We must learn how to grieve AND live life.
Grace in Grief
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Mostly people don't know how to support a person in grief. They say the wrong thing or nothing at all and the temptation is to think they should know better. Hurt as the griever may feel, is this a time for grace in grief? And... can we offer grace not only to others, but also to ourselves?
Choosing Life:The Woman I've Become
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Grief is hard and painful and yet somehow we manage to survive it. Here is a video offering you hope for the future after loss.
Setting Aside Grief Time
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Grief is always with you, but life goes on and the temptation is to push your grief down. Setting side aside to grieve is one way of giving yourself permission to spend the time you need in those tough emotions.
Avoidance In Grief
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Grief is so painful that the temptation is to try and avoid feeling it at all costs. How might you be avoiding your grief, and will it help in the long run?
Coping With Special Occasion Days
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Grief can really be activated with all those special occasion days: Valentine's, Birthdays, Anniversary of the death, etc. So what can you do to cope with them?
Am I Doing My Grief Wrong?!
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No one talks about grief. It is still a taboo subject, and so when we are in it we don't know what to expect, we listen to others tell us all sorts of things that might be incorrect, and we start thinking that perhaps we are doing our grief wrong. You are not doing your grief wrong!
Will I Forget My Loved One?
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Will I Forget My Loved One?
Weird Ways You Might Sense Your Loved One After They’ve Gone
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Weird Ways You Might Sense Your Loved One After They’ve Gone
The Lethargy Of Grief
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The Lethargy Of Grief
Asking For Support in Grief
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Asking For Support in Grief
Choice in Grief
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Choice in Grief
Kintsugi Your HeartTalk: The Art Of Living With Grief
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Kintsugi Your HeartTalk: The Art Of Living With Grief
How Do You Honour Your Late Loved One
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How Do You Honour Your Late Loved One
3Cs Of Coping With Holiday Grief
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3Cs Of Coping With Holiday Grief
Are You Going Over And Over Grief In Your Head?...Ruminating?
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Are You Going Over And Over Grief In Your Head?...Ruminating?
Are You Making Progress On Your Grief Journey?
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Are You Making Progress On Your Grief Journey?
Grief: You Are So Strong!
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Grief: You Are So Strong!
Anticipatory grief
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Anticipatory grief
Your Loss Is The Worst Loss
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Your Loss Is The Worst Loss
What Are The 5 Stages Of Grief?
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What Are The 5 Stages Of Grief?
Day Of The Dead
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Day Of The Dead

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    Hi shalom thank you for sharing watching from Africa

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    Magnifique ❤

  • @carolbanens7544
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    Have you set aside time to grieve or are you avoiding it? If you'd like my support to navigate your journey, schedule a call with me to see how I can help you.

  • @carolbanens7544
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    If you enjoyed this poem, then you can find more in my book 'Kintsugi Your Heart: The Art Of Living With Grief. It is available on Amazon.

  • @carolbanens7544
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    Have you been able to find grace in grief for yourself and for others? It isn't always easy, and grief shouldn't be done alone. So if you'd like help, reach out and schedule a call with me.

  • @carolbanens7544
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    Are you having a hard time deciding whether to you can move forwards in your grief? If so, perhaps read my book 'Kintsugi Your Heart: The Art Of Living With Grief'. The poems will take you on a journey from shattered to making broken beautiful. It is available on Amazon.

  • @carolbanens7544
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    Are you still trying to figure out how to find peace with your grief? Is it still defining more of your time than you'd wish? If so, reach out, book a call and let's chat about how I can help you.

  • @carolbanens7544
    @carolbanens7544 Місяць тому

    Are you struggling with your grief? Not knowing how to take the next step? Reach out and schedule a call with me to see how I can help you.

  • @carolbanens7544
    @carolbanens7544 Місяць тому

    If you are struggling to look towards the future, and would like help navigating your grief journey, reach out and book a call with me.

  • @carolbanens7544
    @carolbanens7544 Місяць тому

    If my words touched your heart and you'd like to read the rest of the book 'Kintsugi your Heart: The Art Of Living With Grief', you can head over to Amazon to purchase.It is available in paperback, Kindle and audiobook.

  • @lindavettrus-nichols9141
    @lindavettrus-nichols9141 6 місяців тому

    You always have great information around the topic of Grief, Carol Banens. You also have a lovely, soothing, and calming voice with a hint of adventure. If you did the audio for a children's book, I'd buy it. I loved reading your book: "Kintsugi Your Heart: The Art of Living with Grief". I'm so happy you have it available as an audio book as well.

    • @carolbanens7544
      @carolbanens7544 6 місяців тому

      Thank you Linda. I appreciate your kind words and that you enjoyed my book.

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    @KhalidMehmood-ev6kn 7 місяців тому

    Very nice and lovely 🌹 personality love you live you long time with the better health and wealth good luck

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    @thierrymunseugandachildren802 8 місяців тому

    God bless you from Africa Uganda

  • @thierrymunseugandachildren802
    @thierrymunseugandachildren802 8 місяців тому

    Amen and Amen great video thank you so much for watching here with all the ministry from Africa Uganda so powerful message

    • @carolbanens7544
      @carolbanens7544 8 місяців тому

      I hope you found this helpful.

    • @thierrymunseugandachildren802
      @thierrymunseugandachildren802 8 місяців тому

      @@carolbanens7544 yes it help us alot , I would like to connect and share more ,I would like to tell you more about the ministry if you don't mind, do you have an email address?

  • @susanpeters2977
    @susanpeters2977 8 місяців тому

    These are great ways to honor our loved ones! I especially liked how you said to not concentrate on how they died but to cherish all the special things about them when they were living!! 💝

    • @carolbanens7544
      @carolbanens7544 8 місяців тому

      Thanks so much Susan. I think we can get caught up in the end stages of life rather than looking back at the life lived... and that is where we can access those special memories. ❤

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    Beautiful video

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      I'm glad you found this informative. 🙏

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